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By *bhs72 OP   Man
over a year ago

witham

My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's your wife. How would a bunch of strangers know if you don't know?

Try a few beers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just don't want this lifestyle. That has to be accepted and respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're grown adults. Have a grown adult conversation about it.

If she says no, leave it and don't push the subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's your wife. How would a bunch of strangers know if you don't know?

Try a few beers. "
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This question always baffles me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring it up whilst your having sex, accept her answer. Don't push it.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"This question always baffles me "
Well it would wouldint it as you are on here as a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might not want loosening up. All you can do is talk to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance."

Maybe let her know that you share pics of her with other men. That should get her going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance.

Maybe let her know that you share pics of her with other men. That should get her going"

Still laughing...

And not a bit waspish

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance.

Maybe let her know that you share pics of her with other men. That should get her going"

Out the door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This question always baffles me Well it would wouldint it as you are on here as a single guy "

No i just don't know any OP husand/wife so how would we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance.

Maybe let her know that you share pics of her with other men. That should get her going

Still laughing...

And not a bit waspish "

Waspish is only for Thursdays

Fridays are a whole different ballgame

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance."
start off with roleplay and play it by ear.don't know why people are criticizing you as we all have to start somewhere lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Before having her swinging, explore her interest in sex, which has disappeared.

Sex - this is part of your relationship, so it's about its importance and meaning to her and between you both.

Sex and swinging interest can't be turned on at the tap, like water.

It all starts with meaningful communication between the two of you, where she's under no pressure. Focus on her, not on getting her to swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her 'in the mood' and whilst having sex ask her about fantasies. Once you've spoke about hers you could then say you'd like to introduce others for maybe a threesome or more.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Wondering why she has gone off sex with you OP. If she can't have sex with you then how can she do it with others?

We're having lots of these threads lately 'how do I get the wife to swing?'

How can a bunch of strangers answer this? We don't know her.

Jeez....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't want this lifestyle. That has to be accepted and respected. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting the impression theres a problem in your sex life, you don't have sex anymore now you come on here to try find some sort of gratifacation.

I really think you should talk to your wife first. Find out what is wrong.

If she finds out your on a site like this with out her knowing, you're f**ked well and truly.

My wife and I got into this by talking about fantasies and decided to put them into action, then we enjoyed it and carried on from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting the impression theres a problem in your sex life, you don't have sex anymore now you come on here to try find some sort of gratifacation.

I really think you should talk to your wife first. Find out what is wrong.

If she finds out your on a site like this with out her knowing, you're f**ked well and truly.

My wife and I got into this by talking about fantasies and decided to put them into action, then we enjoyed it and carried on from there."

You have been on here for over year, so that is already a long time not to have been communicating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance."

new wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting the impression theres a problem in your sex life, you don't have sex anymore now you come on here to try find some sort of gratifacation.

I really think you should talk to your wife first. Find out what is wrong.

If she finds out your on a site like this with out her knowing, you're f**ked well and truly.

My wife and I got into this by talking about fantasies and decided to put them into action, then we enjoyed it and carried on from there.

You have been on here for over year, so that is already a long time not to have been communicating

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I agree with that, didn't realise he'd been on for a year. I wouldn't be happy if I was his wife and found his profile with that opening line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow yes OP you've been around on here a good while AND had a veri off a man who enjoyed looking at the sexy photos you showed him of your wife! Be fair to your wife who isn't interested and don't show anyone photos of her! You're obviously not happy with the relationship so do the right thing and come clean with your wife. Even MrJ doesn't show pics of me unless I agree and at least we both are on here.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Wow yes OP you've been around on here a good while AND had a veri off a man who enjoyed looking at the sexy photos you showed him of your wife! Be fair to your wife who isn't interested and don't show anyone photos of her! You're obviously not happy with the relationship so do the right thing and come clean with your wife. Even MrJ doesn't show pics of me unless I agree and at least we both are on here. "
ah did not notice that.completely agree .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The first step towards opening up your relationship is honesty. Start there and take things o e step at a time.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My first question would be, does your wife know you're on here?

If not, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance."

Show her my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance."

Does it turn her on when you share pics of her? She might like a club where people watch you fuck each other. Other people don't have to join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has a very sexy body and looks great in nylon, but she is not sexually minded at all. I would love her to explore the lifestyle but to no avail. Any advice on how I can get her to loosen up would be gratefully received. Thank you in advance.

Show her my profile "

Epic reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that the best way to convince a wife is yo promise not to tell her husband

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

OP, the best way to get her dripping with excitement is to tell her how much youve been enjoying fucking other people, show her your profile on here and go from there.

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