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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ??

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "

Does she get excited at the thought of you being on here looking to have sex with others?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Without knowing the dynamic of your relationship it's hard to know. There are plenty of reasons she may not be in the mood.

Tired

Unappreciated

Hormones

Not really feeling herself

Stress

The list goes on and on

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

She seemed fine when she joined me for a 7 man GB the other night. Maybe its just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "

Women can go off sex for many reasons. Medical, hormonal, stress etc.

The best thing you can do is give her your time and patience. Talk to her about your problems. Find the reason and help resolve together.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She is totally fine when we do have sex gets very wet when we talk about a mmf.... but she just never really in the mood !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did the romance go....

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"She is totally fine when we do have sex gets very wet when we talk about a mmf.... but she just never really in the mood !!"

She is totally fine with you being on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her laugh. Works for me

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "

She can't be off sex that much she has tons of veris on her single female profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So she obviously enjoys sex then..have a look at yourself. .not a criticism btw...make her want you..take a bit of the strain of everyday life off her..make her feel good and spoil her..not just for sex ...but all the time...bet you get a different result then..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ??

Women can go off sex for many reasons. Medical, hormonal, stress etc.

The best thing you can do is give her your time and patience. Talk to her about your problems. Find the reason and help resolve together. "

I've been trying that for a number of years. We're going away for a holiday soon so plan on pepping it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been times I've not really felt that sexy or in the mood.

Have you tried massage? Say there's no agenda - you might want to but don't push it - and spend an hour or so, candle lit room, get massage oil and get down to your undies.

That direct skin to skin feeling is wonderful.

Nothing might happen then but you'll get intimately closer and it's more likely to happen at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's you. Trust me. I hated the build up of sex with my ex but when we did I'd think of someone else. Helped heaps to get wet. Sometimes imagined it was a complete random stranger.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Give her a very slow massage. Stay away from her lady bits. Tell us how you get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't push the issue, be spontaneously romantic, show her that you want her for her as well as when you're horny.

As others have said could be a number of things like stress, hormones etc, you just have to help her find her mojo again.

My ex did the same thing, she had hit a slump of low self esteem and gone of sex completely, I asked a couple of friends and they gave me the same advice I said at the top and worked wanders, not saying it's the same for everyone but a little love and support goes a long way good luck!

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham


"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "

I don my special hat, a few feathers and perform an erotic dance.

A little undulation, a little gyration, a twist, a twirl, a thrust.

Umph.

It's sexing time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Possibly i am very busy at work not much time too prehaps help around the house ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She seemed fine when she joined me for a 7 man GB the other night. Maybe its just you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I've been trying that for a number of years. We're going away for a holiday soon so plan on pepping it up. "

I've recently just changed my pill and that's completely put me off sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I've been trying that for a number of years. We're going away for a holiday soon so plan on pepping it up.

I've recently just changed my pill and that's completely put me off sex. "

She's not on the pill. She says she's gone off it as she doesn't feel sexy anymore. I encourage her to no avail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you talked to her ?? asked her how/why ??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You just simply may not do it for her anymore,especially if it's the same thing all the time and all rather predictable.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "

Make the effort!

Set an evening aside, run a hot bath, with bath soaks, candles and a glass of wine.

while she's in it start on tea, nice relaxing music, conversation.

Lead her upstairs and give her a sensual massage, don't rush anything and she'll likely reciprocate.

Make love to her don't fuck her.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Slip her one from behind whilst she asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slip her one from behind whilst she asleep "

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"There have been times I've not really felt that sexy or in the mood.

Have you tried massage? Say there's no agenda - you might want to but don't push it - and spend an hour or so, candle lit room, get massage oil and get down to your undies.

That direct skin to skin feeling is wonderful.

Nothing might happen then but you'll get intimately closer and it's more likely to happen at some point "

This is perfect! You need to do this - closeness with no agenda. It works wonders and makes girls feel loved up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is the key....

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"There have been times I've not really felt that sexy or in the mood.

Have you tried massage? Say there's no agenda - you might want to but don't push it - and spend an hour or so, candle lit room, get massage oil and get down to your undies.

That direct skin to skin feeling is wonderful.

Nothing might happen then but you'll get intimately closer and it's more likely to happen at some point

This is perfect! You need to do this - closeness with no agenda. It works wonders and makes girls feel loved up "

And we mean no agenda!!

The odd soft kiss but no pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slip her one from behind whilst she asleep "

I'm surprised nobody else has commented about this comment. You are joking right?!?!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Unspoken or shared sexual demands from a partner can be the worst mood killer.

Talk.

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