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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody else having difficulty find a local friend with benefit (hate that term)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm finding it very difficult

But then I'm just too much of a fussy bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did find one. Then feelings got caught and ended in fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes yes yes.

In fairness, I could easily solve it.....I could go and search.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes it to be fair to them it's not like I'm trying or at least even looking.

I reckon I hit 'search' once a month and thats usually when I'm on the throne.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it to be fair to them it's not like I'm trying or at least even looking.

I reckon I hit 'search' once a month and thats usually when I'm on the throne."

You only go to the throne once a month? Maybe you should see a doctor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it to be fair to them it's not like I'm trying or at least even looking.

I reckon I hit 'search' once a month and thats usually when I'm on the throne.

You only go to the throne once a month? Maybe you should see a doctor"

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yes it to be fair to them it's not like I'm trying or at least even looking.

I reckon I hit 'search' once a month and thats usually when I'm on the throne.

You only go to the throne once a month? Maybe you should see a doctor"

Correct but your only half right.

It's a treat, I was raised by a pack of foxes so I'm used to the neighbours award winning vegetable beds.

Everyone's a winner and I'm a modern day Mowgli

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up looking. Now I just come to piss around on the forums.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've given up looking. Now I just come to piss around on the forums. "

Best way, I'm much the same.

I will call upon people away from here now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel. "

Yes but distance bites when you just get the urge to be kissed to the ground

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel. "

Convenience for both parties. When looking for a regular fuck buddy, local is a lot better

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel.

Yes but distance bites when you just get the urge to be kissed to the ground "

Yeah it does, it also helps when you get the urge to boil their bunny.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Anybody else having difficulty find a local friend with benefit (hate that term)"

Yes, me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel. "

Things would be easier if that someone was local though, wouldn't it. There's the spontaneity that's thrilling. The regular becomes more regular than when diaries match up.

Local is much more desirable to have a chemistry with someone, surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel.

Yes but distance bites when you just get the urge to be kissed to the ground "

Not happened yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No."

Show off.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've got 3 guys who live near me I could hook up with. I just can't be arsed

They aren't on here. Not all sex comes from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else having difficulty find a local friend with benefit (hate that term)"

Yes me XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did find one. Then feelings got caught and ended in fire "

Horrible when that happens. Happened to me when I found out my playmate wasnt and I didn't know until his pregnant gf appeared on the scene

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel.

Yes but distance bites when you just get the urge to be kissed to the ground

Not happened yet? "

Of course it's happened but a variation of, kissing to the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else having difficulty find a local friend with benefit (hate that term)"

Yes very difficult. Harder than I thought it would be lol

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Nope, I have three

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel.

Yes but distance bites when you just get the urge to be kissed to the ground

Yeah it does, it also helps when you get the urge to boil their bunny. "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Nope, I have three "

Tart

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like local! But within an hour

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I dont like local! But within an hour "

Thing is, it takes me longer than an hour to get ready anyway so even if they were on my doorstep so to speak I still couldn't do the whole "come round in 10?" thing. Distance = leg shaving time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah distance is a bitch. I'm currently chatting to a lovely girl and she seems perfect, well for me at least. She's a 140 mile drive away tho but with a bit of planning I'd definitely make the trip, just not every day obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like local! But within an hour

Thing is, it takes me longer than an hour to get ready anyway so even if they were on my doorstep so to speak I still couldn't do the whole "come round in 10?" thing. Distance = leg shaving time "

I only shave my legs when sex is on the cards unless they have a fetish for Chewbacca last minute sex is a no go

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I dont like local! But within an hour

Thing is, it takes me longer than an hour to get ready anyway so even if they were on my doorstep so to speak I still couldn't do the whole "come round in 10?" thing. Distance = leg shaving time "

I need an hour to shave my arse

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I dont like local! But within an hour

Thing is, it takes me longer than an hour to get ready anyway so even if they were on my doorstep so to speak I still couldn't do the whole "come round in 10?" thing. Distance = leg shaving time

I only shave my legs when sex is on the cards unless they have a fetish for Chewbacca last minute sex is a no go "

Exactly, I ain't a baby wipe round the flange and squirt of lynx kinda chick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. So far the nearest offer i've had has been Swindon 61 miles away.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"Nope, I have three

Tart "

Yes. Yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I'm fortunate that I do have one locally. It was accidental really as I knew her before FAB and found her on here. We fancied each other and it worked out well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The town i live in is the kind where everyone knows everyone (it's awful) and my thinking is when it all goes to shit id rather not see them in tesco!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel.

Yes but distance bites when you just get the urge to be kissed to the ground

Yeah it does, it also helps when you get the urge to boil their bunny. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm going to have to redefine local.....

Maybe within an hour's flying time

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Yes [hmmmph]

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I dont like local! But within an hour

Thing is, it takes me longer than an hour to get ready anyway so even if they were on my doorstep so to speak I still couldn't do the whole "come round in 10?" thing. Distance = leg shaving time

I only shave my legs when sex is on the cards unless they have a fetish for Chewbacca last minute sex is a no go

Exactly, I ain't a baby wipe round the flange and squirt of lynx kinda chick."

Have some respect and use a kfc lemon scented wipe at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do they have to be local? If the sex and chemistry are good I'll travel.

Yes but distance bites when you just get the urge to be kissed to the ground

Yeah it does, it also helps when you get the urge to boil their bunny. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in your home town but within an hour's drive seems a good compromise.

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

Yes not able find that regular friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in your home town but within an hour's drive seems a good compromise."

Im looking for a 10-20 mile radius personally, but an hour isn't too bad

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been looking for over 7 years and nope not a soul has been found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in your home town but within an hour's drive seems a good compromise.

Im looking for a 10-20 mile radius personally, but an hour isn't too bad"

10 to 20 is great for me

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i found one, but he wasn't on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, all of the Women in my town just ignore me like they all know me. Kinda unnerving to say the least.

Guess they don't like playing close to home...

A bit further afield isn't bad but nothing through Fab yet. What are we doing wrong ey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, finding a local would be the dream lol.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Yarp. In London too

I've one and a few casuals but could do with a more in my harem

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The question is.... can I find enough locals who all fancy each other and have a local orgy? Hmmmmm I wonder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The question is.... can I find enough locals who all fancy each other and have a local orgy? Hmmmmm I wonder. "

I'll just stick to finding one for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like local! But within an hour

Thing is, it takes me longer than an hour to get ready anyway so even if they were on my doorstep so to speak I still couldn't do the whole "come round in 10?" thing. Distance = leg shaving time

I only shave my legs when sex is on the cards unless they have a fetish for Chewbacca last minute sex is a no go

Exactly, I ain't a baby wipe round the flange and squirt of lynx kinda chick.

Have some respect and use a kfc lemon scented wipe at least "

So if I take you out for a curry and you disappear to the loo at the end of the meal with the heated napkin they bring out along with a couple of After Eight mints & the bill I'll know I'm in for more than just sharing the chocolate

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have a localish fb but around here they are like gold dust!!

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Oh the posts on here have had me laughing!

For me I struggle to get 1 off meets, never mind a FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consistently work in numerous locations and cannot find a FWB in any of them lol

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By *arahandmatCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Thankfully not only are our closest friends local, but also people we swing with. Perfect combination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I just want someone local to have kinky fuckery with at weekends!

I've given up

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