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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Hi im looking for my first meet. Always done it the old fashion way haha any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still do it the old fashioned way. Arrange a social with someone, see if there is any chemistry and go from there. Relax and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Still do it the old fashioned way. Arrange a social with someone, see if there is any chemistry and go from there. Relax and have fun "

Is it not easy to find out if your compatible socially and sexually on here first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure but that is true of all hook up, dating, swinger sites hence why a social is a good idea. if nothing else you may make a friend or just enjoy some banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too "

This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too "

To be honest I have pics and will happily share but publicly lol

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?! "

Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

To be honest I have pics and will happily share but publicly lol"

Your on that net, it's rare words with catch an eye. A pic that stands out will grab attention. The rest is how well you connect

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Still do it the old fashioned way. Arrange a social with someone, see if there is any chemistry and go from there. Relax and have fun

Is it not easy to find out if your compatible socially and sexually on here first.

"

Yes it is.

That's what, messages & cams are for.

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

To be honest I have pics and will happily share but publicly lol

Your on that net, it's rare words with catch an eye. A pic that stands out will grab attention. The rest is how well you connect "

You have a valid point

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.

Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!

Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha

"

Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate

But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.

Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest "

Could try it that way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.

Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest "

Oh bloody hell...

Rinse and repeat!!

Pffffft

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.

Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest

Oh bloody hell...

Rinse and repeat!!

Pffffft "

Can you tell I work in IT :O *chuckles*

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.

Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest

Oh bloody hell...

Rinse and repeat!!

Pffffft "

Haha

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. You are sending out mixed messages. You want to meet people but then say you're not bothered about meeting people off FAB.

Come on, you can't have it both ways!

You can't accommodate but don't say why so that puts people off.

You have no Public pics on your profile but don't say why!

Overall, you aren't "selling yourself" at all well and that is the crux of the site. You have to put in the effort to make yourself stand out against all the other 100'side of guys all seeking the same thing.

Get out to clubs and socials of which there are a few in Hull on a regular basis.

You put in an effort and it will pay off.

Good luck.

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!

Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha

Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate

But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face"

I will take your advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!

Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha

Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate

But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face"

Ok this is where most men are going wrong. We have a woman advising you, the sex you want a meet from right!

You still won't listen.

So I will say it. It's true. Why say you don't care about meeting. It's like you know you won't get a meet so you've thrown in the towel.

Keep your profile positive, load some eye grabbing pics, see what happens.

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.

A main picture may help too

This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!

Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha

Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate

But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face

Ok this is where most men are going wrong. We have a woman advising you, the sex you want a meet from right!

You still won't listen.

So I will say it. It's true. Why say you don't care about meeting. It's like you know you won't get a meet so you've thrown in the towel.

Keep your profile positive, load some eye grabbing pics, see what happens. "

I have taken the ladies advice and changed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse my private message minxymoo, couldn't help myself

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"OP. You are sending out mixed messages. You want to meet people but then say you're not bothered about meeting people off FAB.

Come on, you can't have it both ways!

You can't accommodate but don't say why so that puts people off.

You have no Public pics on your profile but don't say why!

Overall, you aren't "selling yourself" at all well and that is the crux of the site. You have to put in the effort to make yourself stand out against all the other 100'side of guys all seeking the same thing.

Get out to clubs and socials of which there are a few in Hull on a regular basis.

You put in an effort and it will pay off.

Good luck."

thanks

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By *rCurious1 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I have take peoples advice and amended my profile. Thanks

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By *ild PhoenixMan
over a year ago

London

Plenty of times, ladies dont give you a chance to get to know you, any advice for that?

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