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I'm just so lowly

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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

ever since my wife had a still barn and left me I'm so lowly is it bad for me to need to find a fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I read it right ?

Your wife had a still born and left you. Now your lonely and after a fuck buddy ?

I don't think a fuck buddy will help. You need something more. What happens when the Fb isn't around ?

Speak to your wife. Try counselling

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"Did I read it right ?

Your wife had a still born and left you. Now your lonely and after a fuck buddy ?

I don't think a fuck buddy will help. You need something more. What happens when the Fb isn't around ?

Speak to your wife. Try counselling "

All of this bud.. . All of this..

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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sympathy shag ain't gonna help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did I read it right ?

Your wife had a still born and left you. Now your lonely and after a fuck buddy ?

I don't think a fuck buddy will help. You need something more. What happens when the Fb isn't around ?

Speak to your wife. Try counselling

All of this bud.. . All of this..

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Sound advice mate. To get over this you need to be looking for something more than fb. Will only leave you in a worse position.

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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

been there dun that she is whith someone else new now well 3 of them to she just say that she thinks of me as my son and that it whont even chat to me eney mare

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i don't think you have to change your mind on what you want.

don't really have any advice to you. many people need closeness to others, and sex, but finding the right person is never easy. just be careful at this vulnerable time in your life.

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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"i don't think you have to change your mind on what you want.

don't really have any advice to you. many people need closeness to others, and sex, but finding the right person is never easy. just be careful at this vulnerable time in your life. "
thaks for that I just want a fb to chat to and a have fun with as well as go out with as well. is that to much to ask for someone that has there own life but is there when you just need them if you no what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i don't think you have to change your mind on what you want.

don't really have any advice to you. many people need closeness to others, and sex, but finding the right person is never easy. just be careful at this vulnerable time in your life. thaks for that I just want a fb to chat to and a have fun with as well as go out with as well. is that to much to ask for someone that has there own life but is there when you just need them if you no what I mean?"

Hope you find that op. I've been looking for over 2years with no luck

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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"i don't think you have to change your mind on what you want.

don't really have any advice to you. many people need closeness to others, and sex, but finding the right person is never easy. just be careful at this vulnerable time in your life. thaks for that I just want a fb to chat to and a have fun with as well as go out with as well. is that to much to ask for someone that has there own life but is there when you just need them if you no what I mean?

Hope you find that op. I've been looking for over 2years with no luck "

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Use the advice others have given you. You need to have thick skin on here sometimes. An fb, by definition is going to be playing with other people. That is going to be hard for you.

Get some everyday friends and look for a new soul mate, not an fb.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"i don't think you have to change your mind on what you want.

don't really have any advice to you. many people need closeness to others, and sex, but finding the right person is never easy. just be careful at this vulnerable time in your life. thaks for that I just want a fb to chat to and a have fun with as well as go out with as well. is that to much to ask for someone that has there own life but is there when you just need them if you no what I mean?"

i know what you mean. someone who isn't just using you and cares about you. like i said, can be hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like you need a friend and family support at the moment - not an easy time

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

There are plenty support groups, if what you're looking for is in relation to talking about your still born. You could try SANDs, 4louis, tommys, Abigail's footsteps and more. Many will offer online support and some may have local groups you can attend.

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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"sounds like you need a friend and family support at the moment - not an easy time "

I have family and friends but we'll how do I poot it I don't what to fuck my friends as that mite get messy then I loose them as well it's hard I no but a man has needs to and at the moment well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds like you need a friend and family support at the moment - not an easy time

I have family and friends but we'll how do I poot it I don't what to fuck my friends as that mite get messy then I loose them as well it's hard I no but a man has needs to and at the moment well "

well for over a year now you have been posting sad threads - maybe this kind of fun isnt for you - maybe a dating site where you may meet someone to offer more companionship than swinging generally offers

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"There are plenty support groups, if what you're looking for is in relation to talking about your still born. You could try SANDs, 4louis, tommys, Abigail's footsteps and more. Many will offer online support and some may have local groups you can attend. "

OP, you have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your baby. I can't imagine how hard this is for you.

I understand your need for closeness and human contact, but I do think that there are better ways to get that, rather than Fab.

The groups mentioned here are all excellent...run by people who have also lost their babies. I would also add that your GP should be able to help, and there's also the Samaritans.

Please, please take care of yourself. Lx

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"sounds like you need a friend and family support at the moment - not an easy time

I have family and friends but we'll how do I poot it I don't what to fuck my friends as that mite get messy then I loose them as well it's hard I no but a man has needs to and at the moment well "

Sounds to me the worst thing you can do is stay in on your own on the computer/phone chasing something proving to not really be there...

Forget about thinking 20 mins of nookie is gonna make the next 5 years better

Go to docs, get happy pills,decorate your house, go outside more for the daylight,brisk walks, be sociable,get a dog, be nice, say hello to everyone you see, help others.... You'll feel much better

Staying in on your own is a downward spiral...

Anti depressants do work, they don't make you happy, but stop you being sad giving the headspace to sort the rest out.

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