FabSwingers.com forum: Do women ever look at or request dick pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering how many women like to see cock pics if so do u ask for them ?

And if u do do u have any preference ?

Or are u totally not bothered and rather keep it a surprise for the meet ?

Appreciate all comments thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's an interesting question. I've got some to share in my private folder just in case but i haven't been asked for any yet. I guess it's the surprise element that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally not bothered about cock pics.

If they have a pic of their cock on their profile, fine and if they don't then also fine.

But I also don't think seeing their cock in the flesh is like opening a Christmas or birthday present either, it's just one small (not literally

) part of them.

It's the whole person I'm interested in.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I dedicated a whole thread asking for them the other week, and one offering pussy pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a whole thread devoted to them yesterday x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I know some people do enjoy them, but personally they work the opposite way to me and for some reason just seem to put me off completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet without seeing a cock pic. I'm not into unpleasant surprises it kinda ruins the fun. I select my partners very carefully. I won't ask for a pic though as i feel awkward doing so, so if a gent isn't displaying we won't be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't meet without seeing a cock pic. I'm not into unpleasant surprises it kinda ruins the fun. I select my partners very carefully. I won't ask for a pic though as i feel awkward doing so, so if a gent isn't displaying we won't be meeting. "

I would have thought that if a guy was particularly small he'd be honest about it in order to avoid ruining the surprise. Or am i just being naive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask for dick pics. Im not bothered by them, either (unless they are the ONLY picture a guy has).

Realistically, there are a few dicks I've seen in pics and thought "damn, that's a good looking dick" - but only a few. So generally I wouldn't bother requesting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a dick pic and will quite happily waste my time fabbing the ones I like on new pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that if a guy was particularly small he'd be honest about it in order to avoid ruining the surprise. Or am i just being naive? "

I think you are being naive. People aren't always upfront and for me it isn't necessarily about size. Some just aren't pleasant to look at. I know I'll probably get lynched for being shallow but if a guy wants to put his cock in my mouth it's best if it doesn't make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could just have private pictures that you send before a meet when you get to that stage of the conversation

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I doubt any bloke would mind you asking for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt any bloke would mind you asking for one."

I'm sure they wouldn't. But I find it awkward asking so I don't.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I doubt any bloke would mind you asking for one.

I'm sure they wouldn't. But I find it awkward asking so I don't. "

Fair enough.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm not interested in what it looks like (for those that are pedantic, unless it's infected etc), I'm more interested in how it's used (on me).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that if a guy was particularly small he'd be honest about it in order to avoid ruining the surprise. Or am i just being naive?

I don't think that makes you shallow. It's just a preference like any other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for alll the feedback so far .

Looks to me like majority don't really wanna have it thrown in there face and only really request a pic if a meet is on the table .

So far I have had no meets or requests for naughty pics so not sure where I'm going wrong but I am completely new to the swinging scence so thinks it's mainly cos I'm new and not experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind them being on the profile or not. But I wouldn't meet a guy without seeing his face and his tool first

I really enjoy looking at some of them

~Mia

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

There's an element of damned if you do and damned if you don't here! I have one cock pic in my friends gallery or to send by message if wanted but none on my public gallery. I find this is the best approach

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

At the moment I seem to get a lot of conflicting advice so find it hard to decide how to go about improving my chances of people wanting to get in touch with me . I've tried both showing and hiding cock pics but doesn't seem to make a difference .i still get no winks msgs or friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't ask for a cock pic as it would do nothing for me, but the ones I have received I normally ask the sender, what's wrong with it, why does it look like that and have they sought medical attention, they don't seem to send anymore after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for alll the feedback so far .

Looks to me like majority don't really wanna have it thrown in there face and only really request a pic if a meet is on the table .

So far I have had no meets or requests for naughty pics so not sure where I'm going wrong but I am completely new to the swinging scence so thinks it's mainly cos I'm new and not experienced."

Profiles that stand out tend to have a good selection of decent pictures. Dick or not tends not to make much difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't askfor them and I don't appreciate being sent them-it makes me think of a cat bringing home a dead bird and presenting it to me proudly.

I don't mind a well taken pic on a profile since I've made the decision to look there, I find it weird if there's more than one or two cock pics or no other types of pics.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

How many guys are lurking on this thread I wonder

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Thanks for alll the feedback so far .

Looks to me like majority don't really wanna have it thrown in there face and only really request a pic if a meet is on the table .

So far I have had no meets or requests for naughty pics so not sure where I'm going wrong but I am completely new to the swinging scence so thinks it's mainly cos I'm new and not experienced."

I dont think we are allowed to pick your profile apart without you asking first. I suggest you create a new thread asking for profile advice. You will get grief and be told to look at the million other threads. Take that on the chin. You will also get some good advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can you guys spare a few mins to look through my profile and let me know your thoughts maybe I come across in the wrong way ?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I couldn't ask for a cock pic as it would do nothing for me, but the ones I have received I normally ask the sender, what's wrong with it, why does it look like that and have they sought medical attention, they don't seem to send anymore after that

*Sighs and puts little worm back in trousers*

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"There was a whole thread devoted to them yesterday x "

.....which wasn't a raging success

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did haves tread on my profile but don't get much attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's an element of damned if you do and damned if you don't here! I have one cock pic in my friends gallery or to send by message if wanted but none on my public gallery. I find this is the best approach "

Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Spot on.

Totally agree

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've found leaving cock pics on public view has a strong negative reaction from couples and women. I get most appreciation from guys on my cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when you ask for them upfront and then ask again cos you couldn't see the base and the bell and then ask them to confirm exactly what they're measuring at because they aren't showing pictures of it in its full glory, people still get butt hurt if when seeing it in the flesh you tell them you don't want to touch it or do anything with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lkke to see a cock pic before meeting and i also like perving at cock pics.

Erect ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No one ever asked me so I don't know how that feels lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lkke to see a cock pic before meeting and i also like perving at cock pics.

Erect ones. "

You've never asked for mine

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"I lkke to see a cock pic before meeting and i also like perving at cock pics.

Erect ones.

You've never asked for mine

Or mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lkke to see a cock pic before meeting and i also like perving at cock pics.

Erect ones.

You've never asked for mine

Or mine

I don't ask! You have to mind read!

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"I lkke to see a cock pic before meeting and i also like perving at cock pics.

Erect ones.

You've never asked for mine

Or mine

I don't ask! You have to mind read!

Typical lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never asked for one not even when I had my single profile. If someone openly has one on the profile I will have a perve but that's it.

Doll x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I would have thought that if a guy was particularly small he'd be honest about it in order to avoid ruining the surprise. Or am i just being naive? "

Very, sadly. I know what my hard limits are, 'scuse the pun, and several people have tried to con me. Often it's just a bit of exaggeration (which is foolish, because it sets a tone of disappointment) but I have actually walked out of a meet at the crucial moment solely 'cos it pissed me off so much to find out I had been lied to for so long!! Be warned boys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that if a guy was particularly small he'd be honest about it in order to avoid ruining the surprise. Or am i just being naive?

As i thought, honesty is key.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I wouldn't askfor them and I don't appreciate being sent them-it makes me think of a cat bringing home a dead bird and presenting it to me proudly.

I don't mind a well taken pic on a profile since I've made the decision to look there, I find it weird if there's more than one or two cock pics or no other types of pics. "

Haha, love the dead bird analogy - that's just how the flaccid pics make me feel!!

I like to go find one or two tasteful pics on a profile, I need to see before I will agree to meet having been conned once too often, but NEVER want them as an avatar or in my inbox attached to a message.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Never used to, but over the last few months I have, some strange looking ones which have put me off meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for the cock.

The whole point of this site for me is no surprises . I like to see upfront what's what first an I ask. An have preference .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even when you ask for them upfront and then ask again cos you couldn't see the base and the bell and then ask them to confirm exactly what they're measuring at because they aren't showing pictures of it in its full glory, people still get butt hurt if when seeing it in the flesh you tell them you don't want to touch it or do anything with it. "

You fabbed my cock pic. I'm still unsure if it was out of pity or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here for the cock.

The whole point of this site for me is no surprises . I like to see upfront what's what first an I ask. An have preference .

Says the silhouette with a hidden profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persish the thought....ladies going round asking you men to 'show us ya cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Request no (this could be a white lie)

Look - yes

I was told I was a visual learner so this explains that bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using the forum search tool OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

Cock pic is definitely required along with face pic for us. I want to find them attractive but they also need to have what I want downstairs too.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I don't think I have been asked unless it was due to a forum thread, Most of the time the ones I have are private or for friends only

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds to me like the women are not always sure what they want !

I think the guys should stop hounding them with messages and play it cool .

Bout time the women did some chasing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send one eventually... usually because I want the lady to know what she is getting when meeting me... plus I think it's abit of a looker

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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If I want to see penis I will go to hot pics

If there is a fella I want to hook up with I'll see it in person

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've had one or two enthusiastic fans of a jolly good tallywhacker display over the years, but crucially they've all been ladies I've already got to know and built up a rapport with. I suspect even the most eager of them would have recoiled in horror if I'd opened the conversation by lobbing the old fella into their inbox like a cold bag of beef mince.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I dedicated a whole thread asking for them the other week, and one offering pussy pics

Yes you did you little harlot and if a recall you sent me a picture that left me traumatised for a few days afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I want to see penis I will go to hot pics

If there is a fella I want to hook up with I'll see it in person "

You might find that the best ones aren't always on public display.

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By *woodiMan
over a year ago

notts

Well here's mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a prerequisite for me. See my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I'm crazy horny, a dick pic is a complete turn off. I won't even read messages from guys with only dick pics.

If you're not already hottttt, it's like a cat bringing you a mauled rat...

I can see you're proud of it, but ewww, go bury it or something.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. I like to see cock before meeting - they're all different. Some I love more than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a dick pic and will quite happily waste my time fabbing the ones I like on new pics!

Feel free

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I know some people do enjoy them, but personally they work the opposite way to me and for some reason just seem to put me off completely.

This for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if men are involved in a home/hotel meet then prefer to see what im getting so as no awkwardness in saying no thanks - at a club not so much a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that if a guy was particularly small he'd be honest about it in order to avoid ruining the surprise. Or am i just being naive? "

It's not totally about the size though is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I like to see cock before meeting - they're all different. Some I love more than others."

Have to agree with this comment too to be honest

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By *4gnumprMan
over a year ago

telford

im chatting with a woman who wants me to send her a money shot

no easy i assure you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at them to see if I'm going to get injured when we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I like to see cock before meeting - they're all different. Some I love more than others.

Have to agree with this comment too to be honest

Public now

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Ones who have good taste don't.

If I wanted to see it, I would ask.

Don't find it a good way to start a conversation to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen on pictures of cocks. Very few of them are as nice as my husband's cock, so can be an unnecessary turn-off. And a picture of a cock certainly doesn't tell me if the man knows how how to excite me.

Mrs

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