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Quinsy....would it put you off..xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just cancelled a meet with a man not on Fab, as he messaged me last night and said he has Quinsy, so can't do oral. That didn't bother me but I looked up Quinsy, turns out its puss in tonsil area, it put me right off. Plus I was worried I might catch an infection as it says bacteria is passed through kissing. Would it put you off...it was a man I have chatted to for a while and I feel a bit bad backing out but I don't want to catch anything xxx

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Am sure he will be well pleased reading this !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your health comes 1st. Dont feel guilty. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure he will be well pleased reading this !"

She states hes not on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont meet. It can be very painful. Wait until he is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I'm surprised he didn't suggest postponing until it was all cleared up. I would have certainly done the same as you in this situation.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Am sure he will be well pleased reading this !

She states hes not on Fab."

Fair enough.

It's early and I haven't got my thinking head on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I'm surprised he didn't suggest postponing until it was all cleared up. I would have certainly done the same as you in this situation."

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is so painful. Trust me he won't be able to do anything! Once it has been treated it goes V quickly. It's not contagious.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

You were definitely in the right to cancel if you felt uneasy about it. A little surprised he didn't mention until it was time to arrange a meet.

I have a colostomy and I take the approach of being open and honest about it from the get go. Then we don't have to go through those awkward moments :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the fuck would you even consider meeting someone if you had this!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am sure he will be well pleased reading this !"

If you read properly, he's not on Fab but another site. So he won't be reading it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You were definitely in the right to cancel if you felt uneasy about it. A little surprised he didn't mention until it was time to arrange a meet.

I have a colostomy and I take the approach of being open and honest about it from the get go. Then we don't have to go through those awkward moments :D"

I would meet a man with a colostomy no problem , but as you say it's best to be upfront. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i'd not meet if he were poorly. Re-arranging for when he's feeling tip top when you'll both enjoy it more is not unreasonable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He thanks everyone, I have been chatting to him on and off for quite a while but he didn't mention it. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt either. Tell him to cone back once hes better, im sure he would appreciate that more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quinsey makes you really ill, I'm surprised he's offering to still meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure he will be well pleased reading this !

She states hes not on Fab.

Fair enough.

It's early and I haven't got my thinking head on."

Iv been up 4 hours, 2 at work so iv not got that excuse lol

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

It may not have been present when he started chatting and arranging the meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had something like that I would just ask to postpone and not put the lady on the spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought quincy was the ME

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I just cancelled a meet with a man not on Fab, as he messaged me last night and said he has Quinsy, so can't do oral. That didn't bother me but I looked up Quinsy, turns out its puss in tonsil area, it put me right off. Plus I was worried I might catch an infection as it says bacteria is passed through kissing. Would it put you off...it was a man I have chatted to for a while and I feel a bit bad backing out but I don't want to catch anything xxx"

Poor guy I've had it and it's nasty. Biggest needle I've ever seen. I thought it was a cold until I drank and it came out my nose. Proper blocked throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every right to take a rain check if someone's poorly. I've had to do that a few times in the past.

Maybe you could have a social if either of you don't want to let each other down??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't meet either. I'd wait till it was all gone and then wait a bit longer as well.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm sure we all get little niggles time to time, a rotten cold or whatever. Surely nobody wants to meet when poorly, I know I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone who had a 1970 medical examiner in the back of their throat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's similar to tonsillitis, but a hell of a lot worse. Usually you are admitted to hospital to treat it, don't know why anyone would want to meet while suffering with it. I had a bad case of tonsillitis that they suspected was quinsy and I seriously couldn't even move of the sofa. My temp was 40 and I have never felt so unwell. So yep I would postpone until he's well again

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay well away. I had it as a teenager. Two weeks off school, mostly semi conscious in bed. Could not lift my head off the pillow, eat or drink very much. It was agony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i had quinsey there is no way in hell i could have met anyone! Definitely right to pull out!

I pulled out of one when i asked how he was the morning of he told me he had a hangover! I like my playmates to be at their best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just cancelled a meet with a man not on Fab, as he messaged me last night and said he has Quinsy, so can't do oral. That didn't bother me but I looked up Quinsy, turns out its puss in tonsil area, it put me right off. Plus I was worried I might catch an infection as it says bacteria is passed through kissing. Would it put you off...it was a man I have chatted to for a while and I feel a bit bad backing out but I don't want to catch anything xxx"
i get this . It's not nice. Usually I have to go into hospital on a drip for a few days . Your throat closes up . Its not a pleasant experience at all. Not had it for 3 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought quincy was the ME"

That's chronic fatigue syndrome.

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