FabSwingers.com forum: one year on..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And still no meets.!! What the hell am I doing wrong

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have you considered what you've said in your profile? And in messages? And at socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried some local clubs hun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you tried some local clubs hun x "

Yea quest but they said they wasn't accepting new members at the moment, sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the amount of messages I get I'm not surprised. I've only been here a week and I feel sorry for the single guys on here. The ones I chat to have been lovely but say no thanks to most of them. It must be disheartening to get rejected all the time or ignored x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages "

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages "

I put on my status no more new messages because it was crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days."

Aww sorry I thought he was asking me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days."

Now that is insane.. is that why I'm not getting any where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u are only 26 n u are looking for older women in specifi that would put the one who are under 40 n the older women won't dare n fuck u cose u are young so I would say make it open to any age edit n try it good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

I put on my status no more new messages because it was crazy "

You going to sit and go through all off them ?

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

This is the most polite discussion of this topic, that I have ever seen on here. Such a nice change.

Why do you refuse most of the men Loubieloo?

And it seems to me, that whatever you put on your profile, and whatever you say in your messages, whether detailed, or short, polite or rude, nothing makes any difference. Most messages are unread, or read and then deleted without a reply.

Most on here are not here to meet, but merely love the flattery of online attention.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days.

Aww sorry I thought he was asking me lol"

I think it was just a general comment, it's all cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting noticed in the sea of 100's is the key. Ways to do this ~ joining in the forums, looking out for party nights / socials, chat rooms.

Once you have a couple of veris under your belt it will give you a step up on the ladder, the rest is upto you.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sometimes being on here for over a year and still not verified would be enough to put some women off. Have you considered deleting your profile and starting again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

I put on my status no more new messages because it was crazy

You going to sit and go through all off them ? "

I put that on my status very quickly and I didn't actuslly get many after that. It gave me a chance to actually chat to people. I don't understand how people put up with 600 messages pmsl I did reply to them all. I think lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"This is the most polite discussion of this topic, that I have ever seen on here. Such a nice change.

Why do you refuse most of the men Loubieloo?

Most on here are not here to meet, but merely love the flattery of online attention."

Sorry to jump in. I jumped in because of the last comment about not being here to meet. Most people are on here to meet people they are attracted to, rather than loving the flattery and online attention. I'm a little offended by that.

Like most females, in my first week on the site I got over 700 messages in my first week, before I had pictures and I'm pretty sure things haven't changed that much. The maths speaks for itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days.

Aww sorry I thought he was asking me lol

I think it was just a general comment, it's all cool.

This is my first forum chat. I'll need to get to grips with the protocol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days.

Aww sorry I thought he was asking me lol

I think it was just a general comment, it's all cool.

This is my first forum chat. I'll need to get to grips with the protocol

Welcome

I'm a bit of a dick and sometimes make dumb ass comments but I never intend on causing offence to anyone, unless they're a prick

You'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is the most polite discussion of this topic, that I have ever seen on here. Such a nice change.

Why do you refuse most of the men Loubieloo?

Most on here are not here to meet, but merely love the flattery of online attention."

When I set my profile up I had and still do have every intention of meeting. I did however get a few hundred messages and to have a chat with every one of them is not practical so I picked the first few messages and chatted to them and when the chat tailed off I chatted to a few more. I am still chatting to a few from when I set the profile up so its not a total conveyer belt if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days.

Aww sorry I thought he was asking me lol

I think it was just a general comment, it's all cool.

This is my first forum chat. I'll need to get to grips with the protocol

Welcome

I'm a bit of a dick and sometimes make dumb ass comments but I never intend on causing offence to anyone, unless they're a prick

You'll be fine. "

I'm just new so I'll know my place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes being on here for over a year and still not verified would be enough to put some women off. Have you considered deleting your profile and starting again?

I'm not sure what do you guys think to starting over?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a combination of factors that enables guys to meet women to have sex and it starts by having a good profile, photos and text, being able to send good initial messages, being able to hold a conversation, by being available to meet for socials or at clubs or for sex.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet."

Probably not female at all! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet."

That's a fair observation. Online flattery is definitely enough for some, but is that a problem?

A lot of guys on here also have no intention of actually meeting, keyboard titillation is enough for them.

I think it goes with the territory, many of both sexes have the initial intention of meeting but either get overwhelmed or lack the confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet."

Why would anyone be on here if they have no intention of meeting

I suppose if the flattery is there some could get caught up on it I suppose. Some might just be sad and lonely

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By *ooneyloubylouWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

We certainly meet guys like yourself but alas we're just outside your areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet.

Why would anyone be on here if they have no intention of meeting

I suppose if the flattery is there some could get caught up on it I suppose. Some might just be sad and lonely

I know a women who had every intention of swinging, got caught up in the flattery but never met anyone because she was scared to disappoint.

People have their own reasons for not following through.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet.

Why would anyone be on here if they have no intention of meeting

I suppose if the flattery is there some could get caught up on it I suppose. Some might just be sad and lonely

True. Some are not women at all, just blokes getting their kicks. Others do have verifications but choose not to show them.

I don't display how many veri's I have, I also don't display my friends list. I do show some veri's but not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's one way of putting it.. I bet you women on here get an insane amount of messages

Average 100 a day, new pic goes up, anywhere between 100-200.

If you end up top of the hot pics, I got 600-1000 both days."

Jesus

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

When I first joined I got about 100 messages within the first hour despite me having no pictures and I hadn't written a profile.

I didn't come back to the site for about a week. I deleted everything and found my message filters before I started making a proper profile.

I don't add new pictures or update my status often because every time I do my inbox fills up rapidly.

There are some really lovely guys who do message but it wouldn't be humanly possible to chat with and meet them all.

Sometimes it just comes down to if you send your message at the right time. If I like your pics and profile and I'm not already chatting to several people then you might just get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for that guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet.

Why would anyone be on here if they have no intention of meeting

I suppose if the flattery is there some could get caught up on it I suppose. Some might just be sad and lonely

True. Some are not women at all, just blokes getting their kicks. Others do have verifications but choose not to show them.

I don't display how many veri's I have, I also don't display my friends list. I do show some veri's but not all. "

I was talking about the view from the woman. Who is actually a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well Princess Peach, have a look through some female profiles, and you will see that many have been here for months, yet have no friends listed and no verifications.

That's why I say they are not genuinely wanting to meet.

That's a fair observation. Online flattery is definitely enough for some, but is that a problem?

A lot of guys on here also have no intention of actually meeting, keyboard titillation is enough for them.

I think it goes with the territory, many of both sexes have the initial intention of meeting but either get overwhelmed or lack the confidence. "

Or the stars don't align or geography doesn't work or the connection doesn't exist.... etc etc etc...

Too many variables to ever pin it down to one reason why meets don't happen...

Including the huge disproportionate relationship in numbers of men and women here..

And that many may not wish to advertise their meets by collecting veries.... for whatever reasons.

But the number of guys who post complaining been here for hours days weeks months etc and not had any meets...is growing.

And often the first post they ever make is a complaint about lack of meets!

Wanders back into the man cave...

Anyone want coffee....

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