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Are guys who watch their wife’s fuck about henpecked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get the swap thing but a man who isn’t allowed to play while she does bust have no balls or not be interested in fucking his partner!

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

It's not about 'no balls' or 'not interested. It's about sexual psychology and instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckhold

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

That's the word that went out of my head lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"That's the word that went out of my head lol"

judgemental fecking poster are the words that went out of my head....

OP reminds me of the people in chat who cos i am on cam naked assume kev must be out of the house.If i say he is right here they ask why isnt he fucking me on cam

The fact we have great sex, and he loves to see me show off never occurs to the ppl who think every woman on here is a desperate frustrated slag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't about having no balls and not even cuckold in some cases. It can be a poweer thing too, a man would allow his wife to have sex with another man but ultimately he's in control. One click of his fingers and the word enough and that's it, he reclaims his wife at any time, she's looking at her own partner whilst having sex with another and she's thinking of her own partner.

It takes a very giving man to overlook his own sexual urges so his wife can have pleasure and he solely get off on that. And the sharing of his wife with another man too.

No you totally misunderstand if you think the hubby is downtrodden in these scenarios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels again? My understanding of henpecked is a man that is totally controlled and demeaned by his woman in all aspects of their lives together and is afraid to speak out against her iron fist ruling. It extends way beyond the bedroom.

My understanding of a woman having sex with other men with her husbands approval is him controlling that situation and not the other way around because he gets a thrill from it. Her willingness to be in that situation and very happy with it shows she is with him 100% and certainly not henpecking him.

A man who puts up with anything she wants sexually outside of their swinging boundries which make him upset, is a doormat, in my very humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP

Looking at your profile you are on the wrong site anyway, think you wanted a "dating" site, or perhaps an 18's-30's Holiday....

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I get the swap thing but a man who isn’t allowed to play while she does bust have no balls or not be interested in fucking his partner! "

Hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its MUST NOT BUST ...speeling in fab is going down hill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In other words it's stupid, OP. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its MUST NOT BUST ...speeling in fab is going down hill "
speeling ...he he is that a new type o fetish here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been at this lark too long, i have a better idea of what cuckold is than this "henpecked" thing, watsthatthen?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"To the OP

Looking at your profile you are on the wrong site anyway, think you wanted a "dating" site, or perhaps an 18's-30's Holiday....

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how do you gdet that he wants a dating site rather than a swnging site from his profile?? dont get that bit

OP - the sexual desires of people are often hard to fathom but general rule of thumb - if it works for them it works for them

live and let live or should that be fuck and let fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to watch my partner get pleasure and enjoy herself

And when we are not actually together I like it when I know she's on a meet as well (although all I want to do is get in the car drive up and watch pmsl)

After a hell of a long time on the scene I have recently stopped the physical side and moved completly to the social side

She's gonna carry on with my blessing

Henpecked? Na just a happy guy doin what makes him and her happy and living life the way I want too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother."

words fail me

What part of swinging dont u understand ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

words fail me

What part of swinging dont u understand ? "

who said anything about me not understanding what swinging means?

is it not just a title of a couple lacking something in their relationship?

my comments were not directed towards what swinging is about etc but towards the FACT that something must be missing from a relationship for a couple to swing.

now you can get down off your high horse before it bucks and throws you off.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

There is certainly nothing lacking in our relationship.If we never have another meet our marriage isnt going to fall apart. You will find that most people who go into swinging wether it be couples or singles think long and hard about it and dont just jump in.

We started to fulfill some of our fantasy's, but it isnt the be all and end all of our lives, its an added extra.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I get the swap thing but a man who isn’t allowed to play while she does bust have no balls or not be interested in fucking his partner! "

Generally speaking , men who are comfortable seeing their wife enjoy sex with other man have bigger balls than those who just couldn't ever imagine allowing it to happen.

Again generally speaking, a man who is confident in himself and confident in his relationship will not feel threatened by the situation.

Often it is those who worry they are not the best, not the fittest, not the hardest, not the longest and not the most skilled who worry their wife will be getting a better seeing to from someone else and upon getting a better seeing to will be off like a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Cuckhold"
just because you dont agree theres no need to call him cuckoo

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother."

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

Happy swinging mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

Happy swinging mate."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

words fail me

What part of swinging dont u understand ?

who said anything about me not understanding what swinging means?

is it not just a title of a couple lacking something in their relationship?

my comments were not directed towards what swinging is about etc but towards the FACT that something must be missing from a relationship for a couple to swing.

now you can get down off your high horse before it bucks and throws you off."

oopsies. try again.

Can I take it your not in or have never experienced making a successful marriage? I'm not on my high horse but I would like to make a point.

A good marriage is a one where you decide together how you are going to live together and perhaps raise a family until you die. Things morph and change in that chosen life. Sex is a minor but very important part of it. Get that right and it creates a bond which makes other aspects of the marriage an excellent state to be in. To some sexual infidelity means nothing.

I am not the dizzy bride who stood at the alter over 30 years ago and my husband is certainly not the nervous young man who stood beside me. But we still stand together having made a very successful, loving marriage and now have grandchildren and children who are in their own very happy marriages. Whether they swing or not, well I'm not privvy to so can't state everyone should swing in order to have a happy marriage. But I am illustrating a point to demonstrate that there is nothing lacking nor have I been deprived of anything by my husband nor he deprived of anything from me, physically emotionally or mentally.

How do you measure success? We're still married and happy and not a divorce statistic.

Get married and lay the law down to what you will and will not allow your wife to do or vice versa you can bet your bottom dollar she will sharp get fed up of that. Talk, talk then talk again. Stay the same as what you were the day you married and you wont even have to 'let' another man fuck her. She may just leave your marriage out of boredom. If people live in monogamy thats fine too, but again don't let that turn into monotony. Boredom can kill a marriage in my opinion.

I can look back and tell anyone my marriage experience and they just have to accept what I tell them as they have no contradictory evidence before them. You can't predict yours with absolute certainty. Your cock might drop off and although she loves you she might also like cock. Thats just one example of how you might have to let another man fuck her....

I can never see you becoming a swinger in marriage, though. But funnier things have happened. Enjoy whatever way of life you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is one of the reasons single males have such a hard time on here. He demostrates an incredible degree of arrogance and ignorance in equal measures. Genuine swinging is not necessarily about "giving the wife" away to be "used" by others, it is about exploring each others boundaries and fantasies.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

Happy swinging mate.

Thanks "

You're welcome.

I think opinions like yours are much better out there for all to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

words fail me

What part of swinging dont u understand ?

who said anything about me not understanding what swinging means?

is it not just a title of a couple lacking something in their relationship?

my comments were not directed towards what swinging is about etc but towards the FACT that something must be missing from a relationship for a couple to swing.

now you can get down off your high horse before it bucks and throws you off.

oopsies. try again.

Can I take it your not in or have never experienced making a successful marriage? I'm not on my high horse but I would like to make a point.

A good marriage is a one where you decide together how you are going to live together and perhaps raise a family until you die. Things morph and change in that chosen life. Sex is a minor but very important part of it. Get that right and it creates a bond which makes other aspects of the marriage an excellent state to be in. To some sexual infidelity means nothing.

I am not the dizzy bride who stood at the alter over 30 years ago and my husband is certainly not the nervous young man who stood beside me. But we still stand together having made a very successful, loving marriage and now have grandchildren and children who are in their own very happy marriages. Whether they swing or not, well I'm not privvy to so can't state everyone should swing in order to have a happy marriage. But I am illustrating a point to demonstrate that there is nothing lacking nor have I been deprived of anything by my husband nor he deprived of anything from me, physically emotionally or mentally.

How do you measure success? We're still married and happy and not a divorce statistic.

Get married and lay the law down to what you will and will not allow your wife to do or vice versa you can bet your bottom dollar she will sharp get fed up of that. Talk, talk then talk again. Stay the same as what you were the day you married and you wont even have to 'let' another man fuck her. She may just leave your marriage out of boredom. If people live in monogamy thats fine too, but again don't let that turn into monotony. Boredom can kill a marriage in my opinion.

I can look back and tell anyone my marriage experience and they just have to accept what I tell them as they have no contradictory evidence before them. You can't predict yours with absolute certainty. Your cock might drop off and although she loves you she might also like cock. Thats just one example of how you might have to let another man fuck her....

I can never see you becoming a swinger in marriage, though. But funnier things have happened. Enjoy whatever way of life you choose."

congratulations to for your long and happy marriage, though would it have survived if you both had not been fucking other people?

also you mention children, how would you feel if you were spread eagled in a club with a number of guys doing you all sorts of ways, and one of your children arrived at the club or vice versa??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

Happy swinging mate.

Thanks

You're welcome.

I think opinions like yours are much better out there for all to see.

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me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*shakes head and walks away*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although i can't deny i will be reading the rest with interest

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Can I just ask Ste, what do you think of the couples you are willing to play with? If you think the couple don't have any respect for each other why do you want to meet them?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with cherches here, ste you really havent understood what swinging means to most couples, we feel that we love each more deeply, not less because we swing. Theres nothing wrong or missing in our relationship quite the contrary, we feel we are more emotionally developed than most at having been able to overcome the nasty negativity of jealousy and the boring social conventions of mongomy to enhance each others pleasure, thats how much we love each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started to write a comprehensive piece in reply to the op's remarks, but decided against wasting my time. Priceless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"congratulations to for your long and happy marriage, though would it have survived if you both had not been fucking other people?

also you mention children, how would you feel if you were spread eagled in a club with a number of guys doing you all sorts of ways, and one of your children arrived at the club or vice versa??"

Its surviving well with swinging involved, so thats all I can say. I can't play the what if game. So those are hypothetical questions. Can't answer something in the past that hasn't happened.

I think my children would be just as horrified by seeing their father doing me in all sorts of different positions as they willhave stumbled into our private lives with an impromptu visit. Not horrified by the fact their mum and dad have sex. Or is that another of your eebie jeebies? I can assure you your parents do have sex.

We don't go to clubs so not really a possibility of them walking in on us on that other hypothetical scenario you describe. As they're at the club for the same thing I would be more appalled at their double standards if they were horrified at my behaviour. I havent asked them their feelings on swinging though so will find out today and let you know on that one.

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over a year ago


"Can I just ask Ste, what do you think of the couples you are willing to play with? If you think the couple don't have any respect for each other why do you want to meet them?"

i'm not getting at a lack of respect, more to do with something missing from their relationship that they feel the need to fill it with more cock/pussy. Ive got no problem filling whats missing from their relationship, after all i can go home and put my head on my pillow and not worry about whats missing from the couples relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Labels again? My understanding of henpecked is a man that is totally controlled and demeaned by his woman in all aspects of their lives together and is afraid to speak out against her iron fist ruling. It extends way beyond the bedroom.

My understanding of a woman having sex with other men with her husbands approval is him controlling that situation and not the other way around because he gets a thrill from it. Her willingness to be in that situation and very happy with it shows she is with him 100% and certainly not henpecking him.

A man who puts up with anything she wants sexually outside of their swinging boundries which make him upset, is a doormat, in my very humble opinion."

Phew! Saved me typing it. Ta!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Phew! Saved me typing it. Ta! "

I'll just nip down the road and run stuff past you if you want to add bits next time hah! Or shall we invest in a pigeon? He shall be called Swingy.

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over a year ago


"congratulations to for your long and happy marriage, though would it have survived if you both had not been fucking other people?

also you mention children, how would you feel if you were spread eagled in a club with a number of guys doing you all sorts of ways, and one of your children arrived at the club or vice versa??

Its surviving well with swinging involved, so thats all I can say. I can't play the what if game. So those are hypothetical questions. Can't answer something in the past that hasn't happened.

I think my children would be just as horrified by seeing their father doing me in all sorts of different positions as they willhave stumbled into our private lives with an impromptu visit. Not horrified by the fact their mum and dad have sex. Or is that another of your eebie jeebies? I can assure you your parents do have sex.

We don't go to clubs so not really a possibility of them walking in on us on that other hypothetical scenario you describe. As they're at the club for the same thing I would be more appalled at their double standards if they were horrified at my behaviour. I havent asked them their feelings on swinging though so will find out today and let you know on that one."

so it seems my questions have been avoided, just replied with a justification to what you do, hypothetical or not, your relationship only seems to have survived because of swinging.

something tells me i would be less horrified by seeing my parents having sex (yes i know it obv happens!) than seeing either of them engaged in acts with various partners who i didnt know.

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over a year ago


"Can I just ask Ste, what do you think of the couples you are willing to play with? If you think the couple don't have any respect for each other why do you want to meet them?

i'm not getting at a lack of respect, more to do with something missing from their relationship that they feel the need to fill it with more cock/pussy. Ive got no problem filling whats missing from their relationship, after all i can go home and put my head on my pillow and not worry about whats missing from the couples relationship."

I've made chilli for tonight but Im a terrible rice cook. Can you nip over and do us a decent non sticky panful as thats something thats deffos missing from our lives. It won't make our marriage any better but I like the sound of the service you're offering

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over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Can I just ask Ste, what do you think of the couples you are willing to play with? If you think the couple don't have any respect for each other why do you want to meet them?

i'm not getting at a lack of respect, more to do with something missing from their relationship that they feel the need to fill it with more cock/pussy. Ive got no problem filling whats missing from their relationship, after all i can go home and put my head on my pillow and not worry about whats missing from the couples relationship."

Obviously I don't know if the people you have played with have said to you that something is missing in their lives so they need a stranger to fulfil it...but I am betting that best part of swingers are the total opposite in their thinking.

Normally it isn't about something lacking, but to add to something already there....it isn't a replacement.

I bet most couples would stop in an instant if either party didn't want to do it anymore and still have a great relationship.

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over a year ago


"Can I just ask Ste, what do you think of the couples you are willing to play with? If you think the couple don't have any respect for each other why do you want to meet them?

i'm not getting at a lack of respect, more to do with something missing from their relationship that they feel the need to fill it with more cock/pussy. Ive got no problem filling whats missing from their relationship, after all i can go home and put my head on my pillow and not worry about whats missing from the couples relationship.

I've made chilli for tonight but Im a terrible rice cook. Can you nip over and do us a decent non sticky panful as thats something thats deffos missing from our lives. It won't make our marriage any better but I like the sound of the service you're offering "

i'm a terrible cook, but if you mentioned fuck i might be able to help

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Sometimes im truly godsmacked by how people percieve other peoples relationships on here

Ive always thought that to be truly liberated sexually it is something that is already in you and can't be learnt,whether you're actively playing or not,whether you're in a relationship or not

Some of the comments in this thread have confirmed that

Im not about to go into the dynamics of my relationship because if people don't get it then they never will,in which case I would be wasting breath

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over a year ago


"so it seems my questions have been avoided, just replied with a justification to what you do, hypothetical or not, your relationship only seems to have survived because of swinging.

something tells me i would be less horrified by seeing my parents having sex (yes i know it obv happens!) than seeing either of them engaged in acts with various partners who i didnt know."

I don't have to justify myself to you - and all you need is replies isnt it?

Thats your tolerance of your parents and sex. I don't know my childrens except they dont like us talking about our sex lives to them so I don't do it. Thats for your life. It isn't mine.

Youre just making up scenarios that dont exist in my life. My marriage has been successful with swinging. Many who don't indulge in swinging have not avoided the divorce courts if you're playing at opposite scenarios.

So if youre saying swinging has given me a long marriage then thats a fact but it is only a tiny aspect of the marriage as a whole.

You are contradicting your point about saying you wouldnt allow your wife to swing inside yours, so if swinging is the key to a long, happy marriage you would welcome it into yours if a long happy marriage is what youre aiming for on the strength that mine is successful ONLY because of it. Do you think all we have done for these thirty odd years is bang around? Marriage is full of all sorts of human needs. You can't have it both ways. Well, DP but thats for another thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes a very giving man to overlook his own sexual urges so his wife can have pleasure and he solely get off on that. And the sharing of his wife with another man too."

Agrees full heartedly as a male half of a couple that enjoys watching his wife play whilst he watches it does take a certain person to have the ability to watch and enjoy.

Its not about not being able to satisfy her or that hes not aloud to touch her its about the sexual and mental joy it can bring to both parties

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over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

words fail me

What part of swinging dont u understand ?

who said anything about me not understanding what swinging means?

is it not just a title of a couple lacking something in their relationship?

my comments were not directed towards what swinging is about etc but towards the FACT that something must be missing from a relationship for a couple to swing.

now you can get down off your high horse before it bucks and throws you off."

He is right yes there is something missing ..... unfortunately men are born with one penis.... so please do explain how you do DP with one penis ? oh you cant.... how do you do spit roast with one penis? ..... you cant. How do you do a double blow job with one penis..... bet ya cant guess whats next can you?? ... YOU CANT !!!!!!

just because ppl swing couple have 1,2,3,4 or god forbid even more men round at a time does not mean they are not happy in the life, relationship or sexual gratifcation.

Thankfully we have a good freind base and a way of eling the time wasters and idiots (narrowminded ppl included) out now im off to please Sam be fore she has a visitor round to do the job i cant...... and yes you got it the cleaning !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm loving the couple who are getting right on the defensive here, shows I must have a point to what Ive said otherwise there would be no need for depth of reply!

I thank you all for justifying my point, and in many ways proving it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm loving the couple who are getting right on the defensive here, shows I must have a point to what Ive said otherwise there would be no need for depth of reply!

I thank you all for justifying my point, and in many ways proving it too "

Do you want a stick to beat them all over the head with too? ..... just in case they failed to get the subtlety of your "point making"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm loving the couple who are getting right on the defensive here, shows I must have a point to what Ive said otherwise there would be no need for depth of reply!

I thank you all for justifying my point, and in many ways proving it too

Do you want a stick to beat them all over the head with too? ..... just in case they failed to get the subtlety of your "point making" "

Na, that would mean violence and i dont condone that in anyway shape or form whatsoever.

ps the first line should have read couples not couple, dont want to be seen to be victimising anybody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

"

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

"

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half is far from henpecked. He wont even let me near the cooker ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*"

"moves on to "Cliques" thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*

"moves on to "Cliques" thread. "

ha ha! its a crackin read that 1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Phew! Saved me typing it. Ta!

I'll just nip down the road and run stuff past you if you want to add bits next time hah! Or shall we invest in a pigeon? He shall be called Swingy."

If you send a pigeon round here the feckin chavs in the next street will eat the thing.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*"

So just to clarify, you don't really have these _iews you were just saying them to wind people up?

If so, what are your _iews of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

words fail me

What part of swinging dont u understand ? "

all of it by the sound!

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By *hagginhaggisCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen


"It really isn't about having no balls and not even cuckold in some cases. It can be a poweer thing too, a man would allow his wife to have sex with another man but ultimately he's in control. One click of his fingers and the word enough and that's it, he reclaims his wife at any time, she's looking at her own partner whilst having sex with another and she's thinking of her own partner.

It takes a very giving man to overlook his own sexual urges so his wife can have pleasure and he solely get off on that. And the sharing of his wife with another man too.

No you totally misunderstand if you think the hubby is downtrodden in these scenarios "

I totally agree! well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is one of the reasons single males have such a hard time on here. He demostrates an incredible degree of arrogance and ignorance in equal measures. Genuine swinging is not necessarily about "giving the wife" away to be "used" by others, it is about exploring each others boundaries and fantasies.

"

well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*"

So you didn't really post a question and weren't really making any points.... you were just trolling?

Either way, no one is going to take you seriously on any subject you post about ever again. Well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add the couples that I have met through swinging are so in love its unreal you can actually see the electric between them it is totally amazing. And swinging is not taking anything away from the relationship but adding a little more too it. Yes couples have there own rules but its what works for them. just to add when I do get the chance to stay over at chams I usually leave early 9ish and the amount of headboards that are still banging "Hallelujah" to them. Yes I am a single girl and these are my observations this is one of the reasons I love swinging and when I do have a partner nothing turns me on more than to see him with another person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*

So just to clarify, you don't really have these _iews you were just saying them to wind people up?

If so, what are your _iews of swinging."

Yes, they are my _iews, but i'll agree that i couldnt resist the urge of the wind up too, try and breath a bit of life into a thread or two. The points i made i stand by though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*

So you didn't really post a question and weren't really making any points.... you were just trolling?

Either way, no one is going to take you seriously on any subject you post about ever again. Well done."

yes i was making points with what i believe, though i did carry on to wind up aswell, but even while i was winding up the points i made still stood and i still stand by them.

i'm really not arsed if people take me seriously or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm loving the couple who are getting right on the defensive here, shows I must have a point to what Ive said otherwise there would be no need for depth of reply!

I thank you all for justifying my point, and in many ways proving it too "

The depth of my replies depend on the depth of understanding of the person you're explaining your experiences to. If they can't graps simple terms and examples you have to expand further to try and help their lack of understanding.

It may well have been a wind up but as you've had free floor space to make up hypothetical situations for us all I'll give you one back.

Hypothetically...in your long experience of the forums, when posters make stupid statements that are given decent and thought out response that make them look a bit of a dick, in order to save face they suddenly declare 'it was a joke! I was winding you up!'

I do.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah....

I am gonna start agreeing with all the threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah....

I am gonna start agreeing with all the threads.

"

Toddles off to post 'is View a yes man' thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting easier and easier on these threads lately to use them as a basis for who to block from seeing our profile.

Now,back to searching for whatever it is we're 'missing'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is one of the reasons single males have such a hard time on here. He demostrates an incredible degree of arrogance and ignorance in equal measures. Genuine swinging is not necessarily about "giving the wife" away to be "used" by others, it is about exploring each others boundaries and fantasies.

well said."

Thank you

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Ste, you get my vote for the "Wind up of the Year" award. Well done mate.

WOOP WOOP!!! thanks

some people take things far toooooo ssriously on a supposedly fun site! *takes a bow*

So you didn't really post a question and weren't really making any points.... you were just trolling?

Either way, no one is going to take you seriously on any subject you post about ever again. Well done.

yes i was making points with what i believe, though i did carry on to wind up aswell, but even while i was winding up the points i made still stood and i still stand by them.

i'm really not arsed if people take me seriously or not."

Just remember far more people read the forums than comment and you have just alienated every swinging female and couple who see's your trolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother."

And that tells me two things

One you just don't understand the thing you have joined

And two you are playing the wrong game

Good luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I notice that you state quite clearly that there must be somthing missing in a relationship to have to swing

Ok answer this I know at least 10 couples who have met (and some married) through swinging

Myself and partner included

What pray tell is missing from their relationships then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to laugh at these I would never let my wife be shagged by any other men types. Most of these trophy wives have shagged around with every one of their mates before she 'settled' down with him.

Disclaimer: this does not mean I believe every non swinging woman was a birrova bike. I was only joking.

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

can i add to the mix. a twenty year non swinging marrige that was so bad i nearly killed myself, there was no respect/ no understanding of my sexual needs and no comunication.

to a 3 year relation ship involving swinging that has respect. understanding and communication on every single level of life.. and we have never been happier.. and we both get off on watching the other fuck,,, so am i a henpecked wife 2b.....???

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"can i add to the mix. a twenty year non swinging marrige that was so bad i nearly killed myself, there was no respect/ no understanding of my sexual needs and no comunication.

to a 3 year relation ship involving swinging that has respect. understanding and communication on every single level of life.. and we have never been happier.. and we both get off on watching the other fuck,,, so am i a henpecked wife 2b.....???

"

A very good point,when you see the _iews expressed by two of the posters here it is clear why the divorce rate is so high.They do not see marriage as a partnership, nor understand what makes a marriage work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i add to the mix. a twenty year non swinging marrige that was so bad i nearly killed myself, there was no respect/ no understanding of my sexual needs and no comunication.

to a 3 year relation ship involving swinging that has respect. understanding and communication on every single level of life.. and we have never been happier.. and we both get off on watching the other fuck,,, so am i a henpecked wife 2b.....???

A very good point,when you see the _iews expressed by two of the posters here it is clear why the divorce rate is so high.They do not see marriage as a partnership, nor understand what makes a marriage work. "

That's a bit personal isn't it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion no need knock them personally for it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What pray tell is missing from their relationships then? "

Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the swap thing but a man who isn’t allowed to play while she does bust have no balls or not be interested in fucking his partner! "

Some are, some aren't some are really nice blokes you cave a drink with others are not happy but go along with it. There is no one type but many different ones.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"can i add to the mix. a twenty year non swinging marrige that was so bad i nearly killed myself, there was no respect/ no understanding of my sexual needs and no comunication.

to a 3 year relation ship involving swinging that has respect. understanding and communication on every single level of life.. and we have never been happier.. and we both get off on watching the other fuck,,, so am i a henpecked wife 2b.....???

A very good point,when you see the _iews expressed by two of the posters here it is clear why the divorce rate is so high.They do not see marriage as a partnership, nor understand what makes a marriage work.

That's a bit personal isn't it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion no need knock them personally for it."

They have an opinion of my relationship, i have an opinion of theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What pray tell is missing from their relationships then?

Shame. "

Trust you lol xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What pray tell is missing from their relationships then?

Shame.

Trust you lol xx "

ROFL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i add to the mix. a twenty year non swinging marrige that was so bad i nearly killed myself, there was no respect/ no understanding of my sexual needs and no comunication.

to a 3 year relation ship involving swinging that has respect. understanding and communication on every single level of life.. and we have never been happier.. and we both get off on watching the other fuck,,, so am i a henpecked wife 2b.....???

A very good point,when you see the _iews expressed by two of the posters here it is clear why the divorce rate is so high.They do not see marriage as a partnership, nor understand what makes a marriage work.

That's a bit personal isn't it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion no need knock them personally for it.

They have an opinion of my relationship, i have an opinion of theirs "

One to avoid then!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"

something tells me i would be less horrified by seeing my parents having sex (yes i know it obv happens!) than seeing either of them engaged in acts with various partners who i didnt know."

oh shit,ffs stay off cam then.

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother.

words fail me

What part of swinging dont u understand ?

who said anything about me not understanding what swinging means?

is it not just a title of a couple lacking something in their relationship?

my comments were not directed towards what swinging is about etc but towards the FACT that something must be missing from a relationship for a couple to swing.

now you can get down off your high horse before it bucks and throws you off."

That's not a FACT, it's your OPINION of which you're entitled to, but don't try telling the many, many happy married couples on this site that your OPINION is FACT because it most certainly is not.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i could speed-read, lost the will to,,, ehh read with this bad boy thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got no problem fucking another mans wife whether he is there or not.

if i was married would i l let another man fuck my wife? not a fucking chance!! something has got to be missing from a relationship for either person to want/allow the other to get fucked by another person.

double standards . . . i think so, but i'm not the guy letting his wife feed the hungry. to me its total bollocks when couples say 'swinging brings us closer together' or ' we are so much in love that we can swing and still be soooo happy' etc etc . . . . if you were that deeply happy with eachother you wouldnt need anybody else to fill what you cant provide eachother."

Well what can you say to that

your statement would be the same as me saying because you are a single there must be something wrong with you,maybe you are ugly or perhaps your tiny cock cant deliver the goods

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

well this has been an interesting read lol

i really dont get why people get so worked up about what other people do, as long as they are not hurting others, or doing anything illegal with animals etc and they are happy with what they are doing then why worry about it??

i have no doubt that for the majority of swinging couples the swinging is an addition to their relationship, indeed many i know go for months and months without a meet, clearly enjoying each other until they feel the need to swing

Ste - i do feel sorry for any couple that you meet from this point on that havet read this thread as you clearly show contempt towards them and their chosen lifestyle and that is just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couldnt agree more jemima

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao there are some really touchy people on here.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Lmao there are some really touchy people on here. "

i don't think it is always "touchy" people... I think there are those who go out to deliberatly "flame throw" to cause a reaction....

I stayed out of the thread because reading the persons profile plus other threads I knew exactly what he was trying to do....

Do I think they went too far... absolutely! Do I think he got a rise out of upseting a lot of people...absolutely

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"can i add to the mix. a twenty year non swinging marrige that was so bad i nearly killed myself, there was no respect/ no understanding of my sexual needs and no comunication.

to a 3 year relation ship involving swinging that has respect. understanding and communication on every single level of life.. and we have never been happier.. and we both get off on watching the other fuck,,, so am i a henpecked wife 2b.....???

A very good point,when you see the _iews expressed by two of the posters here it is clear why the divorce rate is so high.They do not see marriage as a partnership, nor understand what makes a marriage work.

That's a bit personal isn't it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion no need knock them personally for it.

They have an opinion of my relationship, i have an opinion of theirs

One to avoid then! "

You dont need to hun...you never had a chance

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I get the swap thing but a man who isn’t allowed to play while she does bust have no balls or not be interested in fucking his partner!

Generally speaking , men who are comfortable seeing their wife enjoy sex with other man have bigger balls than those who just couldn't ever imagine allowing it to happen.

Again generally speaking, a man who is confident in himself and confident in his relationship will not feel threatened by the situation.

Often it is those who worry they are not the best, not the fittest, not the hardest, not the longest and not the most skilled who worry their wife will be getting a better seeing to from someone else and upon getting a better seeing to will be off like a shot."

Agrees with the above....

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Damn. Really couldnt take this seriously but as op has now confirmed these are infact his _iews.... I have lost a bet with hubby. He bet that there are single guys around who would think that he couldnt do it for me and thats why we swing and I bet that it was extremely unlikely that a guy would be that niave or stupid. Goes wandering off grumbling... hate bloody losing bets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any guy starting a post like this is probably sporting a hen-pecked shoulder somewhere along the line.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Lmao there are some really touchy people on here. "

when you question peoples love for each other some nerves are bound to be touched dont you think??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a married cpl. this being the male half and i enjoy seeing the wife getting sexually aroused with single guys but with an oppinionated guy such as you thinking you may be able to do something extra for her that i cant.you,d have no damn chance here...........we dont do it because i dont want to have sex with her its all in the mind adds an extra little excitement.perhaps you dont have a miid of your own to understand

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I am surprised that this thread got so heated! The OP asked a question and stayed out of it but along came ste!

If anyone had read his profile before posting, they would have seen that heis stated aim is to take the piss! IMHO that is not the way anyone should act on the forum and I would revoke the privilage of posting at least for a period of time.

Slightly different take on it at the end though, he did say that it was his true opinion, so as always, he is entitled to his own opinion. However, he is (again IMHO) treading a fine line here as it could be argued that as he admits to wanting to wind people up, it may not be his true opinion! (well, I know what I meant!)

So, where do we stand on people coming on here with the stated aim to purposely wind people up?

(Oh and I wouldn't dignify the OP or ste by answering the OP!)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I completely missed this thread... wow.

but will move on a single and always will be so don't have the context to post why couples swing.

just glad they do x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I am surprised that this thread got so heated! The OP asked a question and stayed out of it but along came ste!

If anyone had read his profile before posting, they would have seen that heis stated aim is to take the piss! IMHO that is not the way anyone should act on the forum and I would revoke the privilage of posting at least for a period of time.

Slightly different take on it at the end though, he did say that it was his true opinion, so as always, he is entitled to his own opinion. However, he is (again IMHO) treading a fine line here as it could be argued that as he admits to wanting to wind people up, it may not be his true opinion! (well, I know what I meant!)

So, where do we stand on people coming on here with the stated aim to purposely wind people up?

(Oh and I wouldn't dignify the OP or ste by answering the OP!)"

I don't like his stance.....and personally I don't like to see it on the forums.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As this seems to have ended up talking about another member now, I am shutting it.

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