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By *he fab two OP   Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

I think it may be time for me to leave!

Wife really not into this scene as much as I tried, she's normal I'm a dirty pervert who loves sex!

I love being in here amongst you lot makes me feel at home with like minded people but also pissed off seeing all the fun I'm missing out on!

Beginning to obess with my lack of sex life instead of embracing my 40s and realising it's on the rapid decline!!

So in the words of the clash, should I stay or should I go now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll miss yours wife's tits if you go

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Be grateful she agreed to try it out. You're very lucky.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

you are right.

Go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not ready to meet anyone at the moment and I did leave but came back for the same reason. I enjoy the chat with like minded people. Definitely a personal choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your wife isn't into it, then it doesn't seem like a hard choice to make....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you may have more to worry about relationship wise than should you stay or go......

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

this site can put you off sex. good luck whatever you decide.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Unlucky mate .

You tried and failed , and are firmly in the pool of married guys who bemoan the fact that their wife doesn't put out very often etc.......

You may as well go , and then set up a single profile and start enjoying the fun for real , as it sounds like she is just holding you back .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What is more important to you?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Mardel have fun

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Be grateful she agreed to try it out. You're very lucky. "

I would suggest completely the opposite .

The carrot was dangled , the potential opportunities were opened up , and then taken away .

That's bloody unlucky !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Unlucky mate .

You tried and failed , and are firmly in the pool of married guys who bemoan the fact that their wife doesn't put out very often etc.......

You may as well go , and then set up a single profile and start enjoying the fun for real , as it sounds like she is just holding you back ."

I read that and had an imagine of you with a top hat on and a cape, cracking a long whip whilst driving a hansom cab with horses - sort of steampunk Victorian style. I have no idea why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unlucky mate .

You tried and failed , and are firmly in the pool of married guys who bemoan the fact that their wife doesn't put out very often etc.......

You may as well go , and then set up a single profile and start enjoying the fun for real , as it sounds like she is just holding you back ."

With or without her consent?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Be grateful she agreed to try it out. You're very lucky.

I would suggest completely the opposite .

The carrot was dangled , the potential opportunities were opened up , and then taken away .

That's bloody unlucky !"
it could have been my dangly carrot.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I'm curious. How did she react to the club visits ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I think your profile text about sums it up.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Unlucky mate .

You tried and failed , and are firmly in the pool of married guys who bemoan the fact that their wife doesn't put out very often etc.......

You may as well go , and then set up a single profile and start enjoying the fun for real , as it sounds like she is just holding you back .

With or without her consent?"

Preferably with , but either way the guy is missing out on a journey of hedonistic delight and only gets laid every ten days !

That sucks , been there done that and wouldn't wanna be there again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it be best to talk openly about how you feel?

If she's not wanting to continue then you must respect that, however she needs to understand that you have a high sex drive.

We're not made to have sex with one person for the rest of our lives, so it's important to be really honest.

Despite being married we're still people in our own right and have desires and needs.

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