FabSwingers.com forum: Wink or message?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do people prefer as a way of first contact. A cheeky wink to test the water or a flirty message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either, it sparks an interest and opens conversation. If I had to choose I'd go for a message every time but a wink is a nice cheeky flirt IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Definitely a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood im currently in lol as i do both.

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By *idscouple999Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We welcome both ...... but it can get really frustrating when we send a message to someone that has winked only to get 1 word replies or even ignored

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think it is rude if you don't reply in full, even if it's a polite no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even check my winks, so a message would be preferred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard of people getting these message thingy's, I don't believe a word of it

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I only ever respond to a wink with a wink back, so a message is better, and before anyone says anything, i always try to answer all messages...even to say no thanks...unless they are stupid/crude of course! We get a hard time on here for "never replying", i always do, its only manners!

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

Either is fine. Some people like a wink back then message us. It's frustrating getting a wink, returning it then nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink can be read as being lazy by some.

We tend to have a glance but don't view unless a message follows on.

Even then, we wish people would read our profile before doing either as getting fed up of denting egos.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"[Removed by poster at 22/08/17 17:10:12]"

I've never winked at anyone on here. Lazy!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"[Removed by poster at 22/08/17 17:10:12]"

I've never winked at anyone on here. Lazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to reply to all messages even if it's just a 'no thanks'.

We do not however reply to all winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message

I don't even look at winks x

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By *oobies92Woman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I prefer a wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my profile, I ask interested person to wink and then I message back.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Send a Raven .....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I never look at my winks, so they are wasted on me

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Send a Raven ....."

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Message dnt accept winks or friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither tends to get answered if "cold" sent and unsolicited, so doesn't matter much really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message for moi although I'll return the wink depending on sender

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Pigeon

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I never look at my winks, so they are wasted on me

I look sporadically, sometimes there is a little gem in there and I think "oh eye candy" but then I think too lazy to message so off you trot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too lazy to message do I wink.

And yes, it is indicative of me beinga lazy shag.

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