FabSwingers.com forum: Is a gym a place for meeting a guy/girl

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesterday at the gym, there was quite simply, one of the most beautiful women I've EVER seen. She was a gorgeous Indian girl with an amazing smile (yes, she smiled at me) and just everything that I find attractive in a girl.

We are all at the gym for the same reason, to get fit presumably. So would it have been wrong of me to have made pleased small talk and see if she'd like to go for a coffee with me?

Girls, what do you think? Are you fed up of guys approaching you in the gym? Bad or not so bad idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the answer to the question as always dependant on if she fancies you too.

the like between cute and creepy is attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spotted a man at the swimming pool the other day, it would be very nice if he asked me for coffee. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in saying hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday at the gym, there was quite simply, one of the most beautiful women I've EVER seen. She was a gorgeous Indian girl with an amazing smile (yes, she smiled at me) and just everything that I find attractive in a girl.

We are all at the gym for the same reason, to get fit presumably. So would it have been wrong of me to have made pleased small talk and see if she'd like to go for a coffee with me?

Girls, what do you think? Are you fed up of guys approaching you in the gym? Bad or not so bad idea?"

A friendly smile and some banter at the gym is usually fine - if she's really not interested I'm sure her body language or curt answers will let you know!

Nothing wrong with a smile and chat - good luck, OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you lovely people! The thing is, whenever I looked at her she was smiling at me, I think I may have been tripping over my tongue a little lol.

So simple answer is.. Go for it, and I will soon find out!

Cheers dooods!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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As long as you aren't creepy about it I can't see a problem.

Good luck

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

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I would wait until she has finished her workout tho .

Nobody likes being interrupted during a sesh.

I would do it sooner rather than later. As thee whole leaving it for ages ,smiles at each other thing can drag on too long and by then the moment may have passed.

Besides if she is that hot chances are someone else will make a b line for her soon.

I don't think there is anything wrong with chatting people up at the gym as long as you respect why they are there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would wait until she has finished her workout tho .

Nobody likes being interrupted during a sesh.

I would do it sooner rather than later. As thee whole leaving it for ages ,smiles at each other thing can drag on too long and by then the moment may have passed.

Besides if she is that hot chances are someone else will make a b line for her soon.

I don't think there is anything wrong with chatting people up at the gym as long as you respect why they are there.

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