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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so with you on this. Baby or honey (or even worse hunni!) are the ones that really put me off. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun. That's me done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun!!

Even after telling a guy not to call me hun he replied with ...sorry Hun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you? "

Well get out of the corner then

I don't mind local terms being used, but yep know the problem. It's a weird phenomenon of this sort of site I think, formality is not appropriate when the aim of the contact is to get naked and exchange bodily fluids, but it's an introduction so some formality is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you? "

do you often get described as hung?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you?

do you often get described as hung? "

Yeah I didn't notice that typo till it was too late to delete and rewrite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even as a man i get called sugar. I hate it. I wont call anybody by this type of name unless im told to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun just grinds with me

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you? "

Babe I know exactly what you mean.

Hun it pisses me off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you?

do you often get described as hung? "

I suspect an autocarrot issue think the OP objects to being called after the countrymen of Attila.

Personally I don't like the term hung being applied to me either, especially as it is usually preceded by 'you should be'

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Babe, babes, baby, hun, munchkin

Ggrrrrrr

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don't get called 'Hun' but have a female friend who writes it as 'Hon'.

Technically she is correct but I can't trip her up over this.

That annoys me somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun, babe even sexy and gorgeous bugs me fine if youve met me but if not argggh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find pet names really patronising I know the writer doesn't always intend it that way but

Babe, Hun, princess, sexy, cheeky!!! Irritates the tits off me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks, today's ear worm.

Madison Avenue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got "hello trouble" once.

My dad used to say that when I was a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really bother me there's worse things thay grind my gears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also i hate ... miss, missy, trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hate terms of endearment like that... just find it weird that strangers find it acceptable to call someone they don't know nicknames?

Mia will do...

~Mia

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Yes hello my night in shining armour really grinds my gears lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I'm not the only one!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

So I suppose 'Sugar Tits' is out of the question?

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Pet names make us cringe!!!

Whats worae is when an opening message is taken from a badly written porn film and they forget its a couples profile.

But then they tend to get a very blunt reply followed by blocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I suppose 'Sugar Tits' is out of the question?"

Id maybe make an exception

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So I suppose 'Sugar Tits' is out of the question?

Id maybe make an exception "

I'd maybe be making notes right this second for future reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok with most familiar names. Hun, is a but ugh to me, but I survive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I find Babe grating. I know I am big but I am not a pig in the city.

The other thing is when people make reference to daddy's girl etc. That gives me the creeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I find Babe grating. I know I am big but I am not a pig in the city.

The other thing is when people make reference to daddy's girl etc. That gives me the creeps."
babe was tiny though

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I don't mind most of them and I have found myself saying 'hello Lovely' lately so I think it's catching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

"

You mean people saying you're fit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I find Babe grating. I know I am big but I am not a pig in the city.

The other thing is when people make reference to daddy's girl etc. That gives me the creeps."

I've had people call me mom or mommy in a message. It's cringey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Names on the whole don't bother me but I do have an aversion to love or dear.

I just find them patronising and cringy unless it's my parents calling me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

You mean people saying you're fit? "

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you? "

I love it when people call me hung.

Unfortunately, more want me hung.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. ..there are more off-putting things to be called than babe or hun. I can't say it bothers me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I find Babe grating. I know I am big but I am not a pig in the city.

The other thing is when people make reference to daddy's girl etc. That gives me the creeps.

I've had people call me mom or mommy in a message. It's cringey. "

Yeah that's just creepy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

You mean people saying you're fit?

yes"

But you are fit looking and rather gorgeous.

Sorry if that offends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

You mean people saying you're fit?

yes

But you are fit looking and rather gorgeous.

Sorry if that offends x "

I'm not got and it feels lazy:p

I like a bit of class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fit not got*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hun!!

Even after telling a guy not to call me hun he replied with ...sorry Hun!! "

This for me

I start getting a nervous switch in my eye when called this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

You mean people saying you're fit?

yes"

But from your photos you do keep yourself fit and in shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

You mean people saying you're fit?

yes

But you are fit looking and rather gorgeous.

Sorry if that offends x

I'm not got and it feels lazy:p

I like a bit of class"

Ok... May I just say that you have a lovely looking physique.

How's that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I will add "fit" annoys me.

You mean people saying you're fit?

yes

But from your photos you do keep yourself fit and in shape."

I go to the gym about once a week and spend half that time on here or talking bikes to the old riders there lol.

my cardio fitness is appalling 2 years ago I could do an hour plus on a rowing machine these days 20 mins would kill me.

I'm a high functioning lazy bastard, aesthetics is the main advantage to working out so that's all I really bother with these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, today's ear worm.

Madison Avenue "

" Behind my smile, is my IQ"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby Girl. That one does irk.

I also had an old colleague who called everyone on the leadership team 'mate', including me. I still have a slight inner growl of annoyance thinking about it.

As a baby officer in the Navy, we had a Commodore who appeared to be stuck in the 1940s who would refer to me in briefings as 'Duty Skirt'. He was a joy.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Good morning members of the opposite sex.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I do find the way some messages are written off putting, someone I know calling me a soft name is OK, we're friends, have a rapport, but from a stranger on a first message, it's just urghh!

But this thread also made me think.

If I'm writing on social media, Bookfacer, twitter etc I call all my male friends Matey & females Lovey, done it all my life, and I've also probably done it on here out of habit

Apologies if anyone took it wrongly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't in a first message and until we have been speaking for a while.

Most I have been speaking to for a while I generally call gorgeous, habit and I've always done it for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweetheart.

It's something my grandma use to call me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mistress always confuses me when they're telling me what they want me to do to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't call me shemale and ladyboy.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I realised recently the one thing that puts me off replying most is if they've used a name like babe or hung or sexy.

Im ok with petnames from people who know me but not random strangers!

Do other people hate that too? What's the worst ones for you? "

I'm concerned that they think your hung

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'd rather someone use my name (if they know it) over hun, babe etc. However, it's not that much of a big deal, there are far worse things to be called.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pet names are all good with me. It adds something personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less, it's not meant as an insult, it's just people being friendly I guess. I'd probably call them sweet cheeks or sugar tits back anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm so with you on this. Baby or honey (or even worse hunni!) are the ones that really put me off. X"

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By *0shades 2000Man
over a year ago

coleraine

The worst as a man to be called is pet.... I hate that word... so degrading to a man

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