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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks

Was curious how people decided what age range to search for. I personally can see lovely women from all ages, so I wonder how you work out a cut off point. And on the other side of the coin, I am in better shape now than I was in my twenties so if a lady missed out on a meet because of a year or two difference, wouldn't that be a shame..

So what are your thoughts on the age old dilima of age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet 23 year olds.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

nobody my age or older really, and not much younger than myself. idk why, i just went off all the other age ranges for some reason.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm available until I get a telegram off King William V or whoever it might be by then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten years either side of my own age seems reasonable... Although it isn't a hard and fast rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one younger than me, or usually above 40. I just can't bring myself to go over that age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one younger than me, or usually above 40. I just can't bring myself to go over that age range. "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talking about ages with my sister. My long term partner is 35; I've been seeing him for over 7 years. My other regular partner have been between 23 and 44, with me being between 43 and 51. I feel comfortable with men younger than myself. Why, I don't know, but men my age and older usually make me feel uncomfortable and can't be myself. With the occasional exception.

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By *exy sandra deeWoman
over a year ago

telford

The youngest I met was 21 and the oldest was 42 but my best experiences have been with guys 26-32 for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet 23 year olds."

That means me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet 23 year olds.

That means me?

Nah you're still 22 in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have dated women younger than me and felt uncomfortable but I think I try and see it on a case by case basis. I have been off the market for a while till recently so I figured by keeping my options open it would help to get a better feel for what I want...

Do you women think it's more about the physical side or the mentality of the man in question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older guys, I've only been with anyone my age or younger a couple of times. I think generally speaking, with age comes great experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut off points. 50 for a couple. 55 for a single female or 42 for a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have dated women younger than me and felt uncomfortable but I think I try and see it on a case by case basis. I have been off the market for a while till recently so I figured by keeping my options open it would help to get a better feel for what I want...

Do you women think it's more about the physical side or the mentality of the man in question? "

Without generalising too much, I prefer the mentality of older men... So long as they look after the physical side of things too

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"Do you women think it's more about the physical side or the mentality of the man in question? "

not sure. most men i don't get to find out their mentality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet 23 year olds.

That means me?

I don't think anyone in their right mind would say 'no' to you, regardless of your age because you are absolutely gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good thing I prefer older because I've had 0 luck with anyone my age or younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 15 years either side of my own age to the nearest 5. So I'm 48 and I've set 35-65. I reckon younger than 35 I'm old enough to be their Dad and over 65 they are old enough to be my Mum so that was what I based it on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without generalising too much, I prefer the mentality of older men... So long as they look after the physical side of things too"

Wish I could meet more women like you.. Since reaching 50 (don't feel 50) it's been more difficult than I thought it would be to meet folks..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have a 50 cut off point. 35 lower cut of point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet 23 year olds.

That means me?

Nah you're still 22 in my eyes

But you met me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really have one. Who I'm attracted to is not age dependent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet 23 year olds.

That means me?

I don't think anyone in their right mind would say 'no' to you, regardless of your age because you are absolutely gorgeous

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I second that thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't really have one. Who I'm attracted to is not age dependent. "

exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found I usually prefer younger looking guys, I am not interested in playing with guys that look old enough to be my dad! But have found the majority of guys around 40 have that look already so my age range is 18 to 35...but there are always exceptions to the rule

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have found I usually prefer younger looking guys, I am not interested in playing with guys that look old enough to be my dad! But have found the majority of guys around 40 have that look already so my age range is 18 to 35...but there are always exceptions to the rule

I've always been exceptional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you women think it's more about the physical side or the mentality of the man in question?

Without generalising too much, I prefer the mentality of older men... So long as they look after the physical side of things too"

I'm the opposite. I find most older men have the weight of the world on their shoulders and have lost their spark. I spent 30 years with a man who had no go in him,and suppressed mine. I want life in my men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol.. I think if you met an older man (like me) with the sex drive of a horny 17yr old (like me) you might reconsider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol.. I think if you met an older man (like me) with the sex drive of a horny 17yr old (like me) you might reconsider

It's not about the sex drive. I've met older men who want to bang away. It's the sexual chemistry and mental connection. Older men I've met have been more concerned about themselves than me. And they kiss awfully. When I joined here I decided to keep my age range lower than my age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough, I guess I am trying to be optimistic, and there are signs I may be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go for older guys but younger girls so my filters are set to reflect that. I do go outwit them though if someone catches my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go for older guys but younger girls so my filters are set to reflect that. I do go outwit them though if someone catches my eye. "

My partner, who is much younger than me, has a 25 yr woman he wants to join us. She's very ok with it but I'm a bit sceptical. I prefer younger men but I'm wary of young women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet those born on a Tuesday In 1977.

We're a fussy bunch aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go for older guys but younger girls so my filters are set to reflect that. I do go outwit them though if someone catches my eye.

My partner, who is much younger than me, has a 25 yr woman he wants to join us. She's very ok with it but I'm a bit sceptical. I prefer younger men but I'm wary of young women."

Why are you wary? When I was a younger girl I would've loved to have met an older couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go for older guys but younger girls so my filters are set to reflect that. I do go outwit them though if someone catches my eye.

My partner, who is much younger than me, has a 25 yr woman he wants to join us. She's very ok with it but I'm a bit sceptical. I prefer younger men but I'm wary of young women.

Why are you wary? When I was a younger girl I would've loved to have met an older couple! "

I've messaged her on a 3 way WhatsApp, I know she's ok with it, but I worry she's only doing it to please him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet those born on a Tuesday In 1977.

We're a fussy bunch aren't we?

Fuck 12 years out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Where are all you lovely ladies hiding???

Honestly wish I had these problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot remember what my filters are. I'll go and see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 5 years on either side. Not too young, not too old... I'm looking for one that's just right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot remember what my filters are. I'll go and see."

37- 52 but rarely meet guys older than myself.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't feel my age, been told I don't look it, and compared to friends the same age, I most certainly don't act it.

I see age as nothing more than a number on a piece of paper.

How you feel & act defines you, not the year were born.

But when it comes to sexual partners... Has to be over 30, simply because having sex with someone born the same decade as my son just feels wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet those born on a Tuesday In 1977.

We're a fussy bunch aren't we?

I was born in 77.... I'll have to check if it was a Tuesday though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 5 years on either side. Not too young, not too old... I'm looking for one that's just right

I'm looking for one that's more left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi folks

So what are your thoughts on the age old dilima of age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go for older guys but younger girls so my filters are set to reflect that. I do go outwit them though if someone catches my eye.

My partner, who is much younger than me, has a 25 yr woman he wants to join us. She's very ok with it but I'm a bit sceptical. I prefer younger men but I'm wary of young women.

Why are you wary? When I was a younger girl I would've loved to have met an older couple!

I've messaged her on a 3 way WhatsApp, I know she's ok with it, but I worry she's only doing it to please him."

Why would she do that? Can you send her a message and chat just the 2 of you?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I have 5 years on either side. Not too young, not too old... I'm looking for one that's just right

I'm looking for one that's more left."

I just feel left out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have 5 years on either side. Not too young, not too old... I'm looking for one that's just right

Does that include leap years? I believe if that's the case I am in with a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 5 years on either side. Not too young, not too old... I'm looking for one that's just right

I'm looking for one that's more left."

I'm left handed... Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 5 years on either side. Not too young, not too old... I'm looking for one that's just right

Does that include leap years? I believe if that's the case I am in with a chance

Ahhhh loophole

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what are your thoughts on the age old dilima of age...

42"

Yes that is the ultimate answer... Lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like from 25 to 55 but wouldn't rule out anyone just because of there she if I'm attracted to them . I find I'm usually 2 yrs out as that where most cut there age range off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go for older guys but younger girls so my filters are set to reflect that. I do go outwit them though if someone catches my eye.

My partner, who is much younger than me, has a 25 yr woman he wants to join us. She's very ok with it but I'm a bit sceptical. I prefer younger men but I'm wary of young women.

Why are you wary? When I was a younger girl I would've loved to have met an older couple!

I've messaged her on a 3 way WhatsApp, I know she's ok with it, but I worry she's only doing it to please him.

Why would she do that? Can you send her a message and chat just the 2 of you? "

If I wanted to, but I don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go for older guys but younger girls so my filters are set to reflect that. I do go outwit them though if someone catches my eye.

My partner, who is much younger than me, has a 25 yr woman he wants to join us. She's very ok with it but I'm a bit sceptical. I prefer younger men but I'm wary of young women.

Why are you wary? When I was a younger girl I would've loved to have met an older couple!

I've messaged her on a 3 way WhatsApp, I know she's ok with it, but I worry she's only doing it to please him.

Why would she do that? Can you send her a message and chat just the 2 of you?

If I wanted to, but I don't want to "

Love this answer. No more can be said on that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow...

Really... Wow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a young, hot body to seduce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet those born on a Tuesday In 1977.

We're a fussy bunch aren't we?

I was born in 77.... I'll have to check if it was a Tuesday though

I'm checking for you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet those born on a Tuesday In 1977.

We're a fussy bunch aren't we?

I was born in 77.... I'll have to check if it was a Tuesday though

I'm checking for you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any lady in my age range or older gets me going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't important to me. To a point. I wouldn't want to meet someone for whom I could be their mother, nor they could be my father, so that a fairly big age range

What is vitally important is a connection, an ability to be able to chat and talk, and a sexual chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slightly younger than me, most of my meets with men older than me have been problematic in some way. Over a certain age I have found to be more clingy and needy. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer slightly younger than me, most of my meets with men older than me have been problematic in some way. Over a certain age I have found to be more clingy and needy. XXX"

Well I am clingy in a good way... Nudge nudge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer my age or older ...always have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer my age or older ...always have "

Excellent!!!

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Age is just a number some look and act younger than their years and others look act older than their years so if they never told you their age you would make your own assumptions!

As for long term dating I think you need to be within the ten year plus or minus area as to big a age gap and you want different things from life!

Ok dating a 20 year old when your 40 and both going clubbing but 20 years later does the 60 year old still wanna go and jump up n down till 6am

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Ten years either side of my own age seems reasonable... Although it isn't a hard and fast rule."

I work on this principle too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only fuck people I'm attracted to.

If someone doesn't want to meet you they're not missing out on anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes things tricky for us as a couple. The Mr likes almost exclusively younger men and women (makes me wonder why he's with me as I'm only a year younger)

I like women my age or younger and men my age or older.

So we agree on women but when it comes to finding a guy to invite it usually leads to some funny conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48 to 62 at the moment, but they really do have to be a well looked after 62. If they look like the Old Steptoe then it's a polite no.

I think i was put off younger men when i was backed into a corner in a nightclub by a young lad (i was in my early 30's) as he tried to chat me up. I found it awkward and intimidating.

Older men seem to handle me better on an emotional level too. They are more laid back, patient, take no nonsense and just quite sexy.

And men younger than me just don't do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt bother me at all anymore - lifes too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think age is annoying. It creeps up on you when you are not looking. I first became aware of it in my 40's when I bought a field bike to have another go at green lane'ing came off on grass at about 40mph, and found that my whole body hurt! for days!! That never used to happen when I was 18.... next I was chatting to a bunch of lads on a night out, and found the ego driven bullshit they were spouting quite tiresome and incredibly dull. Which meant somehow I had become mature against my will.

So now I float about as a bewildered adult, not interested in the young, not ready to be old, but being more careful with my body, because pain hurts these days.

Age range, in reality only exceptional people under 43, and any that I fancy over my age.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Age of the person is the last thing I consider. I've decided yes or no before that even comes into it. However the age range they are looking for does concern me. If i am outside it that would sound an alarm. It's happened to me once. I ignored the alarm. It was bloody brilliant. So wtf do i know!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Years ago I had a Golden Rule. It was a 'World Cup' based rule. She couldn't be younger or older than one world cup away/4 years.

Ive been single for the last two world cups now so I don't think that rule is any longer applicable.

Just someone my age would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an age limit in truth. If I like someone I like someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a young, hot body to seduce

I wrote this while I was very d*unk. I also like younger, not so hot bodies to seduce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone for 25-60. At 25 that's just out of range for me to be a dad to someone that age, any younger just feels wrong to me. Upper age range is not a hard limit. If there is a connection and we fancy each other then I don't see an issue.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Ten years either side of my own age seems reasonable... Although it isn't a hard and fast rule."

Yeah I do that - but I pretend I'm 35!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a 18yr old who wants to go with my mrs but she wont entertain him as she has a daughter older than him,she says it would seem freaky

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

For me it's purely because most of the people I find sexually attractive on here are from 25-45 (or say they are!

) and if I went any higher/lower I'd get even more messages that I haven't the time to read!

If I see an exception on the forums or at a club/party that I find very attractive then I'm not too shy to make the first move!

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

It's just a number. If someone comes across as genuine and interesting then that's all that matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a year older each year. I've notice some still keep their age limits. I've wondered what their secret is

45 is cut off for 80%...i had my had a on here lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I've always preferred my age or older, I did try younger men when I first came on the scene but it's not for me, the few times I tried the experience was aweful

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

I am 46 and my girlfriend is 22 so the age things is allniver the place for us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is but a number...if his cock is good and he's decent looking im happy. We have age ranges on our profile as it strips down the volume of messages.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I always draw the line at 99 even if she is a millionaire.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I always draw the line at 99 even if she is a millionaire.

Even if she is s millionaire with a heart condition

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I really love older guys for their life experience, maturity(well, some anyway

and confidence

but find that (mostly, there are exceptions) they cannot match my energy levels. SO I am probably most drawn to between 35 and 50 these days.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always draw the line at 99 even if she is a millionaire.

That's just ageist

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42."

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

My upper age limit is set because anything above that is getting close to my dads age ..and that is just way too weird for me :-/ just my preference really. I am sure, as I get older and if I am still here, I will raise it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Some men are just totally deluded, that is a ridiculous amount to shave off!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Do actually know him ? He just might look older then his age,

I would put money on it that you thought I was younger when we met at the social a few years ago

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Some men are just totally deluded, that is a ridiculous amount to shave off!

It's not the first time I've seen it! I've met 3 guys who've shaved 15 - 20 years off and thought they could get away with it! X

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Do actually know him ? He just might look older then his age,

I would put money on it that you thought I was younger when we met at the social a few years ago"

Yeah I know him! He has a son in his 20's!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Some men are just totally deluded, that is a ridiculous amount to shave off!

It's not the first time I've seen it! I've met 3 guys who've shaved 15 - 20 years off and thought they could get away with it! X"

I must look good for 60 lmao

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Do actually know him ? He just might look older then his age,

I would put money on it that you thought I was younger when we met at the social a few years ago

Yeah I know him! He has a son in his 20's!

Started young then

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Do actually know him ? He just might look older then his age,

I would put money on it that you thought I was younger when we met at the social a few years ago

Yeah I know him! He has a son in his 20's!

Started young then

Yep! At about 6 I think! ??

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Some men are just totally deluded, that is a ridiculous amount to shave off!

It's not the first time I've seen it! I've met 3 guys who've shaved 15 - 20 years off and thought they could get away with it! X

I must look good for 60 lmao "

You look ok gramps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis but a number. If you really click with the other person (not in like a busted hip kinda way) then its all good I guess

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I find (from experience) that a lot of men have already knocked at least 5 years off their age, hence, why my cut off is 42.

Yep!

There's a guy from Manchester who's at least my age stating on his profile that he's 31! Nearly wet myself laughing when I saw his profile a couple of days ago!

Some men are just totally deluded, that is a ridiculous amount to shave off!

To be fair I also know a lady well into her sixties who claims to be 53!

And this is why most of us like pre-meet socials!

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

For all of you getting older by the day & the wrong side of 50...

You know the old adage that you become more 'conservative' (small 'c') and less liberal (small 'l') as you get older.

Well heck that's rubbish. Been in lifestyle less than a year & loving it.

If anything it has made us realise that age is what you want it to be. If I don't look in the mirror I feel no older than I did at 21. But I know way more now than then.

Been to several clubs & seen folks way older than us (yes really!). At 21 I hate to imagine what I would have thought. Now I celebrate it & pray we'll still be up for it then!

It's natural to stick with your own age group, but we seem to be finding that those participating in our own age group are more not less liberated than 'youngsters'!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

For us it's older than our children and younger than our parents. It just feels wrong.

If we met someone at a club and we really got on well and felt comfortable, then age wouldn't be an issue.

Nita

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I tend to fancy younger men

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"For us it's older than our children and younger than our parents. It just feels wrong.

If we met someone at a club and we really got on well and felt comfortable, then age wouldn't be an issue.

Nita"

Our ages are correct... Why lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is but a number that is so subjective that it is utterly pointless.

The connection you find with the right person is not with respect to their age.

I am not an age-ist women of all types, ethnicities and ages are attractive in their own way

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I suppose I wanted to meet someone close to my age as I thought I'd have more in common. I've met younger and older than my age preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is only a number but what is it only i do not know anymore to be honest maybe i am to old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct Me Exotic age is only a number. I will happily chat to ladies and couples of any age. If that chatting leads to fun then happy days. If not I will hopefully have made new friends

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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It's alright saying it's just a number. Until you find that the age gap means you are in totally different places in your life

Or they are in a nursing home. Or they are just plain fucking boring

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By *pforit78Man
over a year ago

nor

"I only meet 23 year olds.

That means me?

Very sexy x

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

if someone looks too young I feel like I am taking advantage of them...

just doesn't feel right. but I certainly don't act my age. and I like experiences men. so fuck knows. just depends on the person really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's purely because most of the people I find sexually attractive on here are from 25-45 (or say they are!

) and if I went any higher/lower I'd get even more messages that I haven't the time to read!

If I see an exception on the forums or at a club/party that I find very attractive then I'm not too shy to make the first move!

46 here...missed the boat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone 25 and under too young

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By *ugarspice7Couple
over a year ago

ilkeston

30 to 55 but it's only a guide. Iam the male half and never been with another woman all our swinging is with single guys as I have a voyeuristic tendency but if we ever did meet a woman it's younger than me but not younger than the wife k&y

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Anyone 25 and under too young"

But according to your profile you'll meet 18-60 year olds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is but a number...

Class is timeless...

And personally it's more about can the person capture my imagination and me theirs rather than a number next to a name...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have always looked at personality first, age second. I have also amended this to include no one younger than my children (I have grown children). But that could be reviewed on a case by case basis...,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always looked at personality first, age second. I have also amended this to include no one younger than my children (I have grown children). But that could be reviewed on a case by case basis...,

So you are basically you are saying you would go younger than your children

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, what I am saying is that if someone was the same age as my child I would be very critical of her, not in a bad way. I guess I think it would be awkward, and the chances of that happening are as likely as pigs flying. I would never go younger than my kids...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, what I am saying is that if someone was the same age as my child I would be very critical of her, not in a bad way. I guess I think it would be awkward, and the chances of that happening are as likely as pigs flying. I would never go younger than my kids...

Oh okay. It's just when you said it would be reviewed on a case by case basis...

..... Only teasing btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt matter, just be between 18 and 95

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesnt matter, just be between 18 and 95

96 too old shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh okay. It's just when you said it would be reviewed on a case by case basis...

..... Only teasing btw

Lol, no worries

I guess it's all about having an open mind to the possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesnt matter, just be between 18 and 95

96 too old shag?

"
No. I am into grannys you know lol

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By *ittle earsMan
over a year ago

south oxfordshire

I go for a fit body without the upper age limit. I'm not generally attractive to younger girls for their reasons, although they don't mind at a good party because they don't ask your age first, then they seem more interested in personality and looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone 25 and under too young

But according to your profile you'll meet 18-60 year olds?

Ive changed it

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I prefer like 23 to 33 but I do go outside there parameter ms if it's the right person

generally préfèr younger than myself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you don't look like our kids or our parents......we are more interested in whether someone is in shape tbh. #shallowrocks x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

There is no dilemma with age as far as I'm concerned. I've chosen an age range I feel I'm happy with. It's not a hard and fast rule because it's all about the person I interact with.

If there's an attraction, we get along well and have fun, then I don't see an issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is no dilemma with age as far as I'm concerned. I've chosen an age range I feel I'm happy with. It's not a hard and fast rule because it's all about the person I interact with.

If there's an attraction, we get along well and have fun, then I don't see an issue. "

Okay then, answer me this... Your profile outs your upper limit at 49, check out my profile and would you do me?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"There is no dilemma with age as far as I'm concerned. I've chosen an age range I feel I'm happy with. It's not a hard and fast rule because it's all about the person I interact with.

If there's an attraction, we get along well and have fun, then I don't see an issue.

Okay then, answer me this... Your profile outs your upper limit at 49, check out my profile and would you do me?

You're using the term 'do me'. Are you sure you're 51?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay then, answer me this... Your profile outs your upper limit at 49, check out my profile and would you do me?

You're using the term 'do me'. Are you sure you're 51?

I admit I think and act younger than what you may expect... And yes, I am 51, just a number though..

And you didn't answer, would you be attracted to me if we met in a social situation where my age was unknown...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay then, answer me this... Your profile outs your upper limit at 49, check out my profile and would you do me?

You're using the term 'do me'. Are you sure you're 51?

I admit I think and act younger than what you may expect... And yes, I am 51, just a number though..

And you didn't answer, would you be attracted to me if we met in a social situation where my age was unknown... "

A lot of people use age or distance or spelling or whatever as a polite excuse because it's kinder and more tactful than saying they don't fancy the person.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Okay then, answer me this... Your profile outs your upper limit at 49, check out my profile and would you do me?

You're using the term 'do me'. Are you sure you're 51?

I admit I think and act younger than what you may expect... And yes, I am 51, just a number though..

And you didn't answer, would you be attracted to me if we met in a social situation where my age was unknown... "

Ok.... you've asked so I'll answer. No I don't feel that I would.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lot of people use age or distance or spelling or whatever as a polite excuse because it's kinder and more tactful than saying they don't fancy the person. "

That's fair enough

But as adults in an open forum like this, we should be able just to say that rather than use the subterfuge of age or distance..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never meet anyone younger than me at present (May just be cause I'm very young still)

Don't mind people around my age. But prefer older.

~Mia

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I'm too old for everyone

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I think age is annoying. It creeps up on you when you are not looking. I first became aware of it in my 40's when I bought a field bike to have another go at green lane'ing came off on grass at about 40mph, and found that my whole body hurt! for days!! That never used to happen when I was 18.... next I was chatting to a bunch of lads on a night out, and found the ego driven bullshit they were spouting quite tiresome and incredibly dull. Which meant somehow I had become mature against my will.

So now I float about as a bewildered adult, not interested in the young, not ready to be old, but being more careful with my body, because pain hurts these days.

Lol yes that's how I feel, a bit of a misfit. But I want a relationship, so young men have less appeal - I want to meet fit over 50's!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Anyone who moans about being too old is generally too old in mind for me already, and I have never yet seen someone who moans about being rejected for their age who displayed an attractive set of pictures. Just sayin'.....

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