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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is wrong with people on here?! Tonight I have been told my pics are disgusting, why would they be enjoyed, that I'm a fatty who needs to chill, that I'm a fat c*** and ugly....I said No thank you politely to one person and got all this....Makes me wonder why people are on here if that's the abuse they like to give...also makes me wonder why on earth I want to be on here to receive such messages..

I know everyone will say report block and delete but it still doesn't stop it all from hitting the right spots and upsetting the balance

Stick man stones n all but geeeeez give it a break

Plus I removed my pics n profile write up after the abuse Why be subjected to more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called fat as well. I know how you feel believe me. It's easy to say ignore, but for me if I don't feel confident enough it is tough and unpleasant. If I had magic solution I'd give you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh thank you....I just don't get it lol one says something and then about 3/4 more come out the woodwork lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Keyboard warriors are everywhere....they are the ones with the problems, not you OP.xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just stick two fingers up to them,unfortunately there's a few sad git's on here and should be treated with the contempt they deserve.

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

I've had quite of abuse too luv.... they're saddos who have no chance of a meet so vent frustration at anything and anyone.

I didn't get to see your pictures but we are all beautiful...... Never let anyone tell you otherwise x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

That's a real shame OP

Just ignore the insensitive comments from idiots who have got nothing positive to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a positive status hun or you'll probably get more saddos sending abuse. Just laugh at them and enjoy yourself, it upsets them more!

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

nobody needs to be beautiful or slim to be attractive, that is a fallacy.

he probably hates all women and the sex would've likely been highly selfish on his part too.

i'd just have dots for a profile rather than slag yourself off. seriously. there will be absolutely nothing wrong with you, he is a piece of shit.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I get called fat often on here, brush your shoulders off, if you're that awful why did he message you at all. Just butt hurt because you rejected him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

There's been afew threads on this today, like you I reply to all messages but have been advised this isn't the best approach to take and we need to learn and delete.

I totally understand how the abuse can knock your confidence but, rise above it because you are so much better than these sad pathetic pieces of shite

Lots of hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to some i appear average to others im a chubster - have to just not be bothered as im only meeting those that like me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone xx

Yes it knocks your confidence alright and deffo makes me question what the hell is wring with people...

My mother always said if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all....seems some mothers didn't teach that to their kids

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

it doesn't make sense he'd approach you for sex in this way unless he hated all women. so never take stuff like that personally.

i personally enjoyed calling him a shit.

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By *pforit78Man
over a year ago

nor

Guys don't take rejection very well so in order to make them feel better they feel they have to degrade you. It's a sad world but I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you. I love curves on a woman x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it seems guys don't take rejection well...I said No thank you to one to be called fatty

I put up new pics and received a message, never heard from this guy before, saying they were disgusting and not enjoyable and am a fat c*** ...So unsure why or where is came from

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it seems guys don't take rejection well...I said No thank you to one to be called fatty

I put up new pics and received a message, never heard from this guy before, saying they were disgusting and not enjoyable and am a fat c*** ...So unsure why or where is came from

Sorry "

He's a sad fuck who has no self confidence or self esteem and has to belittle others to boost his fragile ego. No one who is happy in their life feels the need to be abusive to others, it's quite pathetic and they have serious issues.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

they hate all women. wish you could name and shame these guys, (you can't it's against site rules) but i'd certainly not want to meet anyone with that disgusting attitude.

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

Unfortunately there are a lot of idiots on here who spoil it for us genuinely nice guys.

Just have to rise above the hurtful stuff that's said, press the block button. Personally I like ladies of all shapes and sizes, personality is hugely important too. Your be OK, there are plenty of nice guys to meet on here.

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