FabSwingers.com forum: New to this

By *hird wheel OP Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Hi, I'm pretty new to this and as a single woman it's a bit overwhelming and I don't know if I'm over reacting or if it's just the wrong place for me

Is it wrong to expect a bit of effort for example social meet first maybe spring for a hotel

Am I wrong for refusing to meet someone who met someone else for sex in the same day?

Help please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome

This is a mad house hun but you're doing the right thing by being hesitant. Just because you're here doesn't mean you should be expected to lose your Morales.

Play by your rules, go with your gut feeling and don't be coerced into anything you instabtly think isn't right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would offer you advice but you never replied to my original and quite frankly, hilarious message I sent you

But no, you're quite free to say no to anyone you want for any reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm pretty new to this and as a single woman it's a bit overwhelming and I don't know if I'm over reacting or if it's just the wrong place for me

Is it wrong to expect a bit of effort for example social meet first maybe spring for a hotel

Am I wrong for refusing to meet someone who met someone else for sex in the same day?

Help please! "

Use your block button for repeat offenders! Filters are your friend, use them!

I like a social but at the minute I can't be bothered with the effort of meeting new people so just meeting those I've met before.

Go to organised socials. They are a great way to meet others.

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By *ellowbabesCouple
over a year ago

newport/cwmbran

Hi, I(Mrs) started on here as a single fem, and still have that profile. Don't be overwhelmed, don't feel you need to reply to 200 plus inane messages a day, the block button is your friend!! Stick with it, dont lower your standards and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm pretty new to this and as a single woman it's a bit overwhelming and I don't know if I'm over reacting or if it's just the wrong place for me

Is it wrong to expect a bit of effort for example social meet first maybe spring for a hotel

Am I wrong for refusing to meet someone who met someone else for sex in the same day?

Help please! "

No one can really help you decide what you're happy and comfortable with, you have to do that for yourself and make Fab fit you.

It's not about being right or wrong it's about how you feel and what you expect and want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your own rules and stick with them. Never feel pressured to meet.

End of x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Hi, I'm pretty new to this and as a single woman it's a bit overwhelming and I don't know if I'm over reacting or if it's just the wrong place for me

Is it wrong to expect a bit of effort for example social meet first maybe spring for a hotel

Am I wrong for refusing to meet someone who met someone else for sex in the same day?

Help please! "
no its overwhelming for sure, but you get used to it by finding what you want and only doing those things, makes you stronger in a lot of ways..its your choice to be here, your body, make sure you can look at yourself in the mirror happy with your choices, because otherwise it can do you damage. some of us suit the scene and some of us dont, and some have it as a phase and some carry on..so this is about you, do what YOU want to do and nothing else, take your time, take breaks and use the tools on here to keep your experience a good one..wishing you the very best of fab and what it can give you xx

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