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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love?

I have only been truly in love once and had my heart broken. The pain, as most know, is horrendous, so why do i yearn for love? It's been 8 years, maybe I'm ready.

I want to swing though and that has got to be like having your cake and eat it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now I wouldn't mind a cupcake.

The power of suggestion

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I fantasise about it, but don't yearn for it as such.

Wouldn't know it if it hit me in the face

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Yes, but I don't think I'm very loveable, swinging or otherwise

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool


"Love?

I have only been truly in love once and had my heart broken. The pain, as most know, is horrendous, so why do i yearn for love? It's been 8 years, maybe I'm ready.

I want to swing though and that has got to be like having your cake and eat it ."

I feel very much the same.

Never know who you may meet and fall in love with. X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps love will just find you...

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes I do, thought I'd found the one. Loved both sides of me too. Then a death in her extended family changed everything. Still don't understand what happened.

XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and no."

Although i yearn for it, to be that vulnerable again is damn scary... Would that explain your no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right now I wouldn't mind a cupcake.

The power of suggestion "

This forum and cake

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I don't yearn for it, but I do miss it, loving and being loved.

However the pain of my last experience is still too raw, so it's not somewhere I'm willing to go for now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, but I don't think I'm very loveable, swinging or otherwise "

That's highly unlikely lady, but i can empathise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I do, thought I'd found the one. Loved both sides of me too. Then a death in her extended family changed everything. Still don't understand what happened.

XX"

Timing is everything. I learned the hard way.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Yes and no.

Although i yearn for it, to be that vulnerable again is damn scary... Would that explain your no?"

Very much so,it's a pain in the arse when it goes tits up,which it will...eventually.

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

Sometimes it's more the company that people miss. I love being close to someone but would say I have only been in love once.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love?

I have only been truly in love once and had my heart broken. The pain, as most know, is horrendous, so why do i yearn for love? It's been 8 years, maybe I'm ready.

I want to swing though and that has got to be like having your cake and eat it .

I feel very much the same.

Never know who you may meet and fall in love with. X"

I've been here for years but that damn hot, tall, kinky, intelligent, humorous guy is bloody hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no."

This.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes I do, thought I'd found the one. Loved both sides of me too. Then a death in her extended family changed everything. Still don't understand what happened.

XX

Timing is everything. I learned the hard way."

Very true. It's ironic that it was a death that drew us together in the first place.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now I wouldn't mind a cupcake.

The power of suggestion "

In my day they were called fairy cakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Cuddles movies. Ice cream. Then followed by Dip Dip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very fortunate to say I have a lot of love in my life from family & friends but most importantly my husband. Luckily we both agree to playing with others together. So I guess we are having our cake and eating it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope i will find love again and it would be the person that id grow old with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no.

Although i yearn for it, to be that vulnerable again is damn scary... Would that explain your no?

Very much so,it's a pain in the arse when it goes tits up,which it will...eventually."

But it's good while it lasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years bring 3 beautiful children up and I now know the meaning of true love , I found him and not ever letting go of that feeling again

Worth waiting for xxxxxxx

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I'm a bit when it comes to love but I enjoy a bit of close companionship

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'd like to know what it feels like to be loved. I was married for many years and been it God knows how many relationships since then and know just how it feels to love somebody but in all honesty even though I've heard the words so many times I really don't think I've ever been loved. Oh well it's a little late now but still it would be nice to know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love?

I have only been truly in love once and had my heart broken. The pain, as most know, is horrendous, so why do i yearn for love? It's been 8 years, maybe I'm ready.

I want to swing though and that has got to be like having your cake and eat it ."

Who knows! You're a glutton for punishment? You have hope that you'll find 'the one'

It's been nine years since my last relationship ended. I've been very happy

Recently met a chap and I got the tingle. A quandary, what to do

Sx

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

I would say go with your gut feelings. Enjoy everyday of your life. It's too short.

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool


"Love?

I have only been truly in love once and had my heart broken. The pain, as most know, is horrendous, so why do i yearn for love? It's been 8 years, maybe I'm ready.

I want to swing though and that has got to be like having your cake and eat it .

Who knows! You're a glutton for punishment? You have hope that you'll find 'the one'

It's been nine years since my last relationship ended. I've been very happy

Recently met a chap and I got the tingle. A quandary, what to do

Sx "
looking at your pictures have me a tingle as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently met a chap and I got the tingle. A quandary, what to do

Sx "

There's a cream for that.

*runs away*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, even though I'm married I suspect my wife's love for me has ended, some time ago. I'm pretty sure of this. I yearn to feel loved like I once did.

It hurts because I still love her. I've decided to confront her tomorrow and ask the question. I've been putting it off for a while because I don't want to hear her say she doesn't, it will destroy me. But I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, even though I'm married I suspect my wife's love for me has ended, some time ago. I'm pretty sure of this. I yearn to feel loved like I once did.

It hurts because I still love her. I've decided to confront her tomorrow and ask the question. I've been putting it off for a while because I don't want to hear her say she doesn't, it will destroy me. But I need to know."

Oh

Hugs x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never craved a mans love. Ive also never gone looking for a relationship. Ive truelly loved once. Im in the most wonderful loving relationship and have been for 11 years. I didnt go looking it found me. Can we try to hard to find love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never craved a mans love. Ive also never gone looking for a relationship. Ive truelly loved once. Im in the most wonderful loving relationship and have been for 11 years. I didnt go looking it found me. Can we try to hard to find love? "

I think that's a definite yes... but unfortunately it does not always come knocking on your door.

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool


"Yes, even though I'm married I suspect my wife's love for me has ended, some time ago. I'm pretty sure of this. I yearn to feel loved like I once did.

It hurts because I still love her. I've decided to confront her tomorrow and ask the question. I've been putting it off for a while because I don't want to hear her say she doesn't, it will destroy me. But I need to know."

Sounds similar to how my wife ended out relationship and it was hard to hear someone that I loved so much didn't love me anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right now I wouldn't mind a cupcake.

The power of suggestion

In my day they were called fairy cakes."

People want bigger nowadays

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to know what it feels like to be loved. I was married for many years and been it God knows how many relationships since then and know just how it feels to love somebody but in all honesty even though I've heard the words so many times I really don't think I've ever been loved. Oh well it's a little late now but still it would be nice to know...."

It's never to late as long as you're breathing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, even though I'm married I suspect my wife's love for me has ended, some time ago. I'm pretty sure of this. I yearn to feel loved like I once did.

It hurts because I still love her. I've decided to confront her tomorrow and ask the question. I've been putting it off for a while because I don't want to hear her say she doesn't, it will destroy me. But I need to know."

It is better to know. Anyway, she may surprise you. Perhaps she needs courting again.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

I love you is so easy to say but to truly mean it that's what we look for ..someone who loves you as much as you do them,x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to know what it feels like to be loved. I was married for many years and been it God knows how many relationships since then and know just how it feels to love somebody but in all honesty even though I've heard the words so many times I really don't think I've ever been loved. Oh well it's a little late now but still it would be nice to know....

It's never too late as long as you're breathing."

Typo

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"I'd like to know what it feels like to be loved. I was married for many years and been it God knows how many relationships since then and know just how it feels to love somebody but in all honesty even though I've heard the words so many times I really don't think I've ever been loved. Oh well it's a little late now but still it would be nice to know...."

Never too late, x Storm x

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