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What is an acceptable reason to NOT fuck someone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit, I don't need barriers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't fancy them springs to mind.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

Yes this, you don't need a reason

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Any reason is acceptable.

*amended due to not reading OP properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By being to far away lol.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

How about because they are fugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're perfectly at will to turn down someone for any reason you like at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your body, your life, your reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reason needed surely. Personal preference...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

If they don't appeal to you would probably be the biggest reason

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Married cheating.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I just don't like them for some trivial reason.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You're perfectly at will to turn down someone for any reason you like at the end of the day."
exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dumb question

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

When you know they are cheating.....Oops sorry wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't need an excuse, just shag who you want and don't shag who you don't want to!

I once had a meet at her place, went to use the toilet prior to getting started, it was filthy. Put me right off, if you can't keep a bathroom clean when visitors are coming, not much hope for your hygiene!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All these reasons in my OP have been slated on different threads recently. People have said they aren't valid reasons for not meeting someone.

It's confusing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You mean to say that because we are on a 'sex site' we don't have to fuck everyone that messages?

Thanks for the memo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No connection. Simple.

I see little reason for most of the filters to be used. They are mainly generalisations. Example age, some young one are far more mature than some older ones, some older one are far fitter than younger ones, some younger one look older than they are and some older look far younger than they are too.

That's just for one filter.

I look far younger and am young at heart. Most of my friends are in the thirties...some even younger.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You mean to say that because we are on a 'sex site' we don't have to fuck everyone that messages?

Thanks for the memo "

Really? I didn't know that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your body, your life, your reasons. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these reasons in my OP have been slated on different threads recently. People have said they aren't valid reasons for not meeting someone.

It's confusing. "

I'm only on here but from chatting to a few and reading forums this past week, it seems they are mainly used to reduce the messages. I could be wrong but that seems the most obvious other than sexual preferences.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There is no need for a reason ...simply your choice who you have fun with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want to tends to work just fine and dandy for me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The stench of the unwashed

Animals upon their body

Neither a show-er or a grower

Next of kin etc

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Having taste!

Simples.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The stench of the unwashed

Animals upon their body

Neither a show-er or a grower

Next of kin etc

"

What the heck does next of kin mean?! As in if you don't like their mum?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

Exactly this

When your

gut instinct says stay away then stay away .

Now I don't know about others on here but my gut instinct whether it says go for it or pass has never let me down .

I make all my judgments off of it ive even referred to it as my guardian angle on here I protective force that watches over me which makes its presents known through a feeling of unease that I always listen to .

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By *heffieldbikerMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I'm a bloke so I'm not fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about spelling and grammar. That's one of those things that make it or break it for me.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They is oogly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the stars are out of alignment.

Also, if you're a little unnerved at the current economic downturn in Western Samoa.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Umm no attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"

What about having a beard, is that allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood.

Today I might not want to fuck you. Tomorrow I might.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Ugly never, not even when I'm d*unk.

If I don't fancy them no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't want to after meeting them in the flesh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i dont want to then i wont -and the reason can be anything as im a fussy bugger and if im not in the mood then i wont fuck for the sake of it - take me as i am or sod off and leave me alone- yes im in that kind of a mood tonight

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?

What about having a beard, is that allowed "

Noooooo beards are awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you're related to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?

What about having a beard, is that allowed

Noooooo beards are awesome "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene practices are not up to scratch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"

If they discriminate against root vegetables....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I haven't had sex in 5 months maybe I'll loose some of my rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i dont want to then i wont -and the reason can be anything as im a fussy bugger and if im not in the mood then i wont fuck for the sake of it - take me as i am or sod off and leave me alone- yes im in that kind of a mood tonight "

I'm in that mood most nights. Agree with you fully

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By *espectful 1Man
over a year ago

DY8

And I thought women had all the answers

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

You've not left the cemetery yet after your partners funeral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who needs a reason not to apart from a total lack of interest no matter why...

Maybe it just gets harder to find reasons why I actually want to...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Because you're related to them "

. Nice photo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have a penis

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

Exactly This....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"

Bugger, I'm guilty of the above .

And will continue

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

Haha. And that's that. I don't need a reason. They might like one but one doesn't have to be forthcoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you're related to them

. Nice photo!"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be, my mum didn't like you so I can't meet you

Now, being a grown up, if my eyes don't like what they see, that's my reason.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Sobering up

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Because I don't want to, only reason ever

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

I withhold cock

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They keep pulling me up on my spelling and grammar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know about spelling and grammar. That's one of those things that make it or break it for me.

"

No Pops there was a thread just yesterday where people said that bad spelling and grammar isn't a good reason for turning people down. You have to shag them. x

There have been other similar threads like the Killing Kittens one where people are going demented at the suggestion that people only want to fuck those they are attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the stars are out of alignment.

Also, if you're a little unnerved at the current economic downturn in Western Samoa. "

At last a good reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

Some people are so picky!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you say no when I've been so good as to do you the favour of letting you see my cock in a picture, and send a lewd message about spooging on your norks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"

Any reason you think is appropriate! x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Fucked silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"

You look like my Dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

If im at a club alone wivout my fella then I only play wiv fems..perfectly valid reason to not fuck males x

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By *andsomeDevil 45Man
over a year ago

staffordshire/midlands

Bag of spanners?

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By *r ed300Man
over a year ago

bradford


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"
just say you don't want to you don't have to explain

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

my best excuse is that the guy turned me off so much that my fanny imploded and is unable to accept his penis.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"

There are simply butt ugly?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Because of their job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor personal hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all based on personal choice but hygiene is def a deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no unacceptable reason.

It's also unacceptable not to accept that reason.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"It's not ok to turn someone down because:

/ they're shit at spelling or they describe themselves as professional

/ they have too much or not enough genital hair

/ too short or too tall

/ too fat or too thin

/ too old or too young

/ if they are hot or not hot

So what reasons *can* we use for not wanting to fuck someone?"

Being a belieber!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"my best excuse is that the guy turned me off so much that my fanny imploded and is unable to accept his penis."

Quite reasonable!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

You do not need to justify anything on here. Each individual has their own boundaries, morals, rules, reasons, likes and dislikes. It all boils down to personal choice and what feels right for you.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

For me poor hygiene on a woman = soft cock = no sex = no STDs

Also if there is no attraction or spark then its just a glorified wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

according to my mrs,if she does not fancy them or meet her requirements,or looks they dont get a look in,simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i dont find someone attractive im not obliged to fuck them

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Because we dont want to lol pure and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely any reason you do not want to sleep with anyone is good enough. It's your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't have to give them a reason. Just say no and if they don't like it block them. You are not obligated to give a reason and even if you do and they don't agree then that's their problem.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy on here so apparently I don't have standards and will fuck anything through sheer desperation

Only kidding they must have a pulse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no unacceptable reason.

It's also unacceptable not to accept that reason."

You win the goldfish.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I need a poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I don't want to... That's what it all boils down to in the end "

What she said. End of x

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

I try to avoid the batshit crazy ones

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

A good reason for me not sleeping with every woman on fab is that i might not be sleepy or feel tired.

Must be awfaul for people with insomnia.

They never get to sleep with anyone.

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