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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm having no luck on here and only seem to get messages from men even though I'm straight, can someone help me please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need somebody HELP not just anybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block men for starters if you're straight. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try working on your profile too, fill it out so we know what you're looking for and can get to know what you're like too a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the cock pic, more pictures needed, text needs work, what can you offer and what are you looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need somebody HELP not just anybody "

Help! You know I need someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All honesty. Say a bit more about yourself. Leave out the just out of a relationship bit but keep the fact you are single.

Couple more pics ( not cock )

Get yourself to a social or club.

It's what i'd do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need somebody HELP not just anybody

Help! You know I need someone."

HEEEEELLLLLPPPP

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Block men from messaging you.

Make an effort on your profile. Your profile us your chance to sell yourself to the ladies on fab so make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

search outa ny local clubs or social and dont insist on webcamming/kik etc..

no need to lose the cock pic...some like it(not me lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi don't take this the wrong way..And I know this is difficult until you have had a meet. But you have no verifications from anyone you have met.. catch 22 I know.

You haven't done a photo verification.

You have two standard Photos.

Your profile is very basic and just states what you are interested in.

It would appear that you are just a young inexperienced bloke after a jump.

Tip get yourself photo verified.

Secondly read other profiles from guys.. couples. Re write yours in better detail.

Don't tell too many fibs or you will be found out. Nick

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By *otchillicoupleCouple
over a year ago

all over


"I need somebody HELP not just anybody

Help! You know I need someone.

HEEEEELLLLLPPPP"

When I was younger so much younger than today....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you need to block guys thats ok...but some guys seek other guys to help out in gangbangs etc.......its easy just to ignore messages ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lose the cock pic. Put it on private. A photo of an erect cock underneath a pair of chrisp white boxers is much more appealing.

Oh and when you message women ALWAYS read their profile first. Attach a face pic with your message. Don't just say "Hi hows U?".. tell her about yourself and make reference to some of the things she has written in her profile that sound appealing.

Hope this helps nick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to sell yourself a bit more, imagine you are a woman reading your profile, where does it say what's in it for her?

Ben with a big dick and abbs ate kinda ten a penny on here, you need to make yourself stand out from the crowd, take your time and write out what it is that make you different from all the other guys on here.

Also a face pic wouldn't hurt, put it on friends only if you like. But you need a face pic ready to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a sneaky peak at other guys' profiles to get a bit of inspiration (not to plagiarise). Maybe have a look for organised fab socials in your area as the can be useful to get yourself known or, if you have a sudden rush of bravery, visit a club. Chaps who make the effort to step out from behind the keyboard and talk to real life swinging types will automatically be several strides ahead of those who stay indoors with their phones.

And, echoing earlier comments, some more imaginative pics and a bit more meat on the bones of your profile.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. I've tried to do what i can hopefully it enough ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit better..

You should send face pic with your first message.

To a lot of people.. ourselves including, if the person is not our type facially then it is a no go. Also chatting and replying to someone who will not show their face is rather disturbing.

Also because you seem to have or show little experience, the least you can do is send a pic of your face.

Finally.. yes it is mostly about the sex..

People usually ain't here to meet up and go for a meal or to the cinema...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best read all our advice again.

Good luck.

Be prepared for a few knock backs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your help, I do have little experience in just not the best with girls, it's emarassing because I can be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just spend 30 minutes looking at guys profiles, you'll get plenty of ideas. Check mine out, not the best but I do ok.

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