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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

This maybe/ hopefully a little premature as it's tonight the meets is supposed to be happening. Been messaging all week agreed to meet said we would book a hotel like we have and now no messages since even though she's been on line since & read our message telling her about the room! We are getting that sinking feeling lol. Hopefully it will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it goes ahead for you

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Fingers crossed it still happens for you. Let me know if you need a reserve XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?

Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I hate that feeling you get when you just 'know' they've ghosted you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hope it works out for you but if not move on to the next there's no point crying over spilt milk like some do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be worth putting the feelers out for someone else to join you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Send a message asking for contact before a certain time or you will assume it's not going ahead

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?

Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you. "

24hrs unfortunately, but we will be enjoying it ourselves if she doesn't show.

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"I hate that feeling you get when you just 'know' they've ghosted you. "
lol, that sinking feeling! lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Might be worth putting the feelers out for someone else to join you."

This is a good idea, although as the OP is looking for a single female they might struggle. Maybe see if there is a club or social nearby?

Orrrr, maybe she's just in the shower and will reply soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this not long back.

I just went the hotel. Put a meet up and had a great night

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Might be worth putting the feelers out for someone else to join you.

This is a good idea, although as the OP is looking for a single female they might struggle. Maybe see if there is a club or social nearby?

Orrrr, maybe she's just in the shower and will reply soon "

yes very unlikely that a female just waiting in the wings. lol it's been a long shower! Haha,

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Hope it goes ahead for you "
thanks but we can't see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's awful, that feeling.

I know when me and a FB arrange a meet, we have one or two guys in reserve, but single bi fems are hard to come by so I hope yours at least lets you know.

As one of the previous posters said, get her to confirm by a certain time..

Good luck!

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.

Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.

Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact. "

Good luck!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Hope it worked out well

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Update.. no show... not a shock just a real shame that someone feels it right to treat people like that. We had our own fun but it's making us feel that it taking all the fun out of what supposed to be fun times. Anyone has the right to change there mind but not to message and block is bang out of order. Only realised yesterday's that's she not photo verified! So this maybe there idea of fun!! Anyone who wants to know her name so not to fall into the same thing pm us. The search continues lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience of being on here (the forums) single bi females are the most rarest and smallest group on here. I'd have to speak to them on the phone, send live pictures on kik or even direct picture on here. Even then it's not a guaranty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.

Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact. "

I'm sorry they turned out to be a timewaster but why did you book a hotel in your home town when your profile says you can accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rip it up and start again

Rip it up and start again

I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out

I hope to god

I hope to god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman???

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Rip it up and start again

Rip it up and start again

I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out

I hope to god

I hope to god"

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Rip it up and start again

Rip it up and start again

I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out

I hope to god

I hope to god"

2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.

Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact.

I'm sorry they turned out to be a timewaster but why did you book a hotel in your home town when your profile says you can accommodate?"

some say can accommodate if they are happy to provide a hotel room - personally i take it as at home but not all do

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"My experience of being on here (the forums) single bi females are the most rarest and smallest group on here. I'd have to speak to them on the phone, send live pictures on kik or even direct picture on here. Even then it's not a guaranty. "

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman??? "
live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.

Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact.

I'm sorry they turned out to be a timewaster but why did you book a hotel in your home town when your profile says you can accommodate?

some say can accommodate if they are happy to provide a hotel room - personally i take it as at home but not all do "

That's understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can report her - i think if they repeat this kind of behaviour something will be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman??? live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this. "

Had she been meet verified?

I'm not photo verified but I am meet verified and I think those verifications count for more than a photo verification,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update.. no show... not a shock just a real shame that someone feels it right to treat people like that. We had our own fun but it's making us feel that it taking all the fun out of what supposed to be fun times. Anyone has the right to change there mind but not to message and block is bang out of order. Only realised yesterday's that's she not photo verified! So this maybe there idea of fun!! Anyone who wants to know her name so not to fall into the same thing pm us. The search continues lol"

I'm not photo verified and I'm real although not bi... so don't go by that alone & tbh just because someone has veris isn't a guarantee against 'no shows'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update.. no show... not a shock just a real shame that someone feels it right to treat people like that. We had our own fun but it's making us feel that it taking all the fun out of what supposed to be fun times. Anyone has the right to change there mind but not to message and block is bang out of order. Only realised yesterday's that's she not photo verified! So this maybe there idea of fun!! Anyone who wants to know her name so not to fall into the same thing pm us. The search continues lol"

Would like to know but age filters are on.

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman??? live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this.

Had she been meet verified?no idea now & can't check with us being blocked. lol

I'm not photo verified but I am meet verified and I think those verifications count for more than a photo verification,"

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Rip it up and start again

Rip it up and start again

I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out

I hope to god

I hope to god2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us? "

It's lyrics from a song..

https://youtu.be/ESy-Z8vqMrE

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?

Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you. 24hrs unfortunately, but we will be enjoying it ourselves if she doesn't show. "

If I wasn't too old - and unavailable tonight - I'd offer to fill in!

Some great pics op!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman??? live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this.

Had she been meet verified?

I'm not photo verified but I am meet verified and I think those verifications count for more than a photo verification,"

Agreed!

All photo verification does is prove they've got the bits they say they have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rip it up and start again

Rip it up and start again

I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out

I hope to god

I hope to god2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us? "

Orange juice ~ rip it up

Was the first thing that came to mind when reading your op, I like to relate things to music.

I interpreted it as ... never mind, try again and learn from your mistakes. Wasn't designed to offend.

If you've taken offence then that's your issue, booking and paying for a hotel in your home town to meet an unverified single fem seemed rather dumb to me but hey, you're the 'professionals' so it's probably me that's dumb.

Better luck next time, and happy swinging

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"This maybe/ hopefully a little premature as it's tonight the meets is supposed to be happening. Been messaging all week agreed to meet said we would book a hotel like we have and now no messages since even though she's been on line since & read our message telling her about the room! We are getting that sinking feeling lol. Hopefully it will happen. "

We have had this too, once with a couple and twice with a single guy.

They just get off on playing you.

One was very convincing, even sent confirmation of the hotel booking.

Strangely it was cancelled later the same day.

Fingers crossed for you, but would say most likely a wind up, sorry

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?

Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you. 24hrs unfortunately, but we will be enjoying it ourselves if she doesn't show.

If I wasn't too old - and unavailable tonight - I'd offer to fill in!

Some great pics op! "

Thank you. You have great pics too.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!! "

think they did that - it was last night

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!

think they did that - it was last night "

Oops!

Ok plan B!

You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!!

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Rip it up and start again

Rip it up and start again

I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out

I hope to god

I hope to god2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us?

Orange juice ~ rip it up

Was the first thing that came to mind when reading your op, I like to relate things to music.

I interpreted it as ... never mind, try again and learn from your mistakes. Wasn't designed to offend.

If you've taken offence then that's your issue, booking and paying for a hotel in your home town to meet an unverified single fem seemed rather dumb to me but hey, you're the 'professionals' so it's probably me that's dumb.

Better luck next time, and happy swinging

"

Thanks for clearing that up for me, I should have realised it was a song. Thanks for the second sly dig in the last part, (Well done on never making a mistake) no need to reply again to explain to me just saying that I noticed it. Enjoy your day and thank you for the input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!

think they did that - it was last night

Oops!

Ok plan B!

You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!! "

Or add me too and make it 150 lol

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!! "

lol, we did have a great night tbf.

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!

think they did that - it was last night

Oops!

Ok plan B!

You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!! "

lol

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

The age cap maybe about to get lifted lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!! lol, we did have a great night tbf. "

Aw delighted to hear it! You seem a really nice couple!

May be worth looking at your age limit? Not referring to myself personally - but there are a lot of very attractive over 40 ladies on here - and I imagine a more mature lady who has to juggle jobs/childcare etc would be more likely to value yours/their own free time and be less likely to play stupid games!

Just a thought! Xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"On a positive note op - you're a couple!

When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!

Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!

Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!

think they did that - it was last night

Oops!

Ok plan B!

You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!!

Or add me too and make it 150 lol"

Hell yeah!

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