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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we like them?! You're not accidentally talking to the breasts are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because we like them?! You're not accidentally talking to the breasts are you? "
Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to look at from a distance, up close you need to avoid the breasts haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on "

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong."
But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also don't assume that women dress for the benefit of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a disgusting look doing this but i do make sure i make eye contact and smile at the same time. I'm not a lech.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too "

Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.

Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if anyone looks. Starey eyes can be a bit uncomfortable though, and definitely don't lick your lips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too

Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.

Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise."

I thought he meant when casually passing.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It depends on how you look!

I'm proud of my body, I'm not going to hide it away, it's very flattering to know that people look at you, find you attractive, but there's a huge difference from someone giving me an admiring glance to soneone having a full on dirty ketch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think women wear revealing tops knowing men are going to look.

I find it funny when they take a sneaky look and hope you haven't noticed

Having the odd look is fine but continually looking at their boobs and not their face when chatting is rude.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 19/08/17 10:46:25]

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

This is not a problem I experience.

I'm curious: is it what the woman is wearing? Or is it the women that is wearing it too? I suspect the latter, else the OP would be gazing lustily at every woman in a skimpy top. Every. Woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not stupid enough to not know that showing my cleavage will attract attention to my breasts. This is why I always dressed conservatively at work. While I was at my last job we had a pep talk from the head, regarding dress code. Trousers and shirts for men, smart skirts/trousers/dresses for women-not too short- and no revealing tops.

My sister worked for a very big company and they sent a memo around, about not wearing revealing tops, because some younger woman were wearing them.

If you show it, people will look.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i don't mind you looking at my tits....i will look at your crotch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i don't mind you looking at my tits....i will look at your crotch"
A cheeky crotch glance is a huge turn on and that's why I wear nice trousers to get the best impact. There's no difference in this stance to a revealing top in my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an appreciative glance from anybody is fine - a leery glassy eyed ogle is summat else

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My boobs are hard to miss. If some men are unable to glance without being pervy, that's their problem...don't think many women would appreciate some bloke drooling whilst looking at her tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i don't mind you looking at my tits....i will look at your crotch"

I like to look at man's arse if I like I tell them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too

Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.

Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.

I thought he meant when casually passing. "

Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look by all means but if you want to engage in a conversation, talk to my face not to my tits....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too

Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.

Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.

I thought he meant when casually passing.

Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing "

Making eye contact can be no more than a glance, i thought you would have known that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Look by all means but if you want to engage in a conversation, talk to my face not to my tits...."

Agreed.

On holiday one year there was an older guy who used to stare at my chest whenever we chatted to him. We used to laugh about it, not in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a look is fine, but staring is just sleazy....or wear shades lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too

Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.

Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.

I thought he meant when casually passing.

Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing

Making eye contact can be no more than a glance, i thought you would have known that. "

I'm just going by what the op wrote. It's no big deal. You have your interpretation, I have mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that ladies prefer it if you don't stare and gawp and ogle...... just go straight for the motorboat.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I find that ladies prefer it if you don't stare and gawp and ogle...... just go straight for the motorboat. "

and it gives the other tube passengers something to tweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on

Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too

Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.

Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.

I thought he meant when casually passing.

Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing

Making eye contact can be no more than a glance, i thought you would have known that.

I'm just going by what the op wrote. It's no big deal. You have your interpretation, I have mine. "

That'll teach me for not reading a post properly, doh.

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By *ukeuk888Man
over a year ago

hastings

I make such an effort in conversation to maintain eye contact and not look down that I probably look like I need a neck brace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on "

If they're on show feel free to look. If I was bothered about you looking I would cover them

I've not always had boobs tho! x

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By *aughty danMan
over a year ago

Worcester

i always look cant help myself sometimes, but if eye contact is made i focus on the eyes and smile lol.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't mind people taking a look, what annoys me is when people don't look me in the face when having a conversation.

All my adult life i have had the same problem, men and women seem to just talk to my boobs no matter what I'm wearing. I know they are big and hard to miss but how hard is it to direct your attention a little bit higher up?

Even at work (in a supermarket wearing the most unflattering, shapeless uniform known to man) the customers stare and talk to my chest

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