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What's the point of code words?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen a number of profiles where a special word has been requested to be put in the subject title otherwise it'll get ignored or deleted.

So I followed one persons request and so far my message has remained unread even though the person has been online since.

What's the point in that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a number of profiles where a special word has been requested to be put in the subject title otherwise it'll get ignored or deleted.

So I followed one persons request and so far my message has remained unread even though the person has been online since.

What's the point in that? "

There are 2000 other messages with the codeword as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whisky

Hotel

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Kilo

November

Oscar

Whisky

Sierra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should put disclaimers in the profile saying that using the code word does not guarantee a response and that people still need to physically match their preferences!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

People think it proves you've read the whole profile. Or you could just skip to the end where the code word usually is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a number of profiles where a special word has been requested to be put in the subject title otherwise it'll get ignored or deleted.

So I followed one persons request and so far my message has remained unread even though the person has been online since.

What's the point in that?

There are 2000 other messages with the codeword as well.

"

And they've probably stealth viewed you and thought "Hell Naw"

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By *aria_aldershotTV/TS
over a year ago

Aldershot

Its generally a word near the bottom

Of the profile so that the poster knows ypu have read their profile fully, this stops the people just chancing their arm and posting to 50 profiles with a cut and paste message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it either but I suppose it works for them.

I always know when someone's read my profile not like mine says much right now.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

It's just a method to prove that the messager has read their profile. Doesn't magically make the messager compatible.

They probably read your profile or saw your profile picture and decided not for them. Message or no message.

No one is owed a reply

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I used to inform people that I don't have a "word" for them to find in order to contact me. This led to people messaging me saying they actually read my profile as they thought there was one hidden. I think it's pointless, it's easy to skim a profile to find that word.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get why they want people to put code words to prove people have read their profile fully. And I appreciate that people get lots of messages.

I agree that a disclaimer could be provided.

How do you stealthily view a profile? Ha ha

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

It's one of the hoops some folks like you to jump thru. It's usually on profiles that are longer than war and peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whisky

Hotel

Oscar

Kilo

November

Oscar

Whisky

Sierra

"

India

Delta

Oscar

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I get why they want people to put code words to prove people have read their profile fully. And I appreciate that people get lots of messages.

I agree that a disclaimer could be provided.

How do you stealthily view a profile? Ha ha"

Go to privacy and hide yourself from the "who viewed me" page.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I've seen a number of profiles where a special word has been requested to be put in the subject title otherwise it'll get ignored or deleted.

So I followed one persons request and so far my message has remained unread even though the person has been online since.

What's the point in that?

There are 2000 other messages with the codeword as well.

"

Yup exactly

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I get why they want people to put code words to prove people have read their profile fully. And I appreciate that people get lots of messages.

I agree that a disclaimer could be provided.

How do you stealthily view a profile? Ha ha"

please no not another disclaimer!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I get why they want people to put code words to prove people have read their profile fully. And I appreciate that people get lots of messages.

I agree that a disclaimer could be provided.

How do you stealthily view a profile? Ha ha"

Easy.

My Account/Privacy

First setting enables you to browse profiles in stealth mode.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've seen a number of profiles where a special word has been requested to be put in the subject title otherwise it'll get ignored or deleted.

So I followed one persons request and so far my message has remained unread even though the person has been online since.

What's the point in that?

There are 2000 other messages with the codeword as well.

"

A myth... Messages get deleted after so many days of not being read. People that complain about all the messages they're getting will also be the ones who refuse to put filters on. Once you've been on here more than a week the messages soon die down, so for someone who's been on here a while and claims they are getting hundreds of messages I'd like to see. Myself and every female I know (from here) would cut down to less than 20messages a day, with an increase if we were to upload a pic. But that's the amazing thing about filters, it decreases the amount of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a phrase that people can choose to put or not.

It just makes me laugh but doesn't mean anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a performing seal ....

If people have demands on their profile that exceed the terms of reciprocal hospitality and respect they can go take a flying Duck

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"People think it proves you've read the whole profile. Or you could just skip to the end where the code word usually is "

Some people don't put it at the end though. We've had a few messages over the last few days that have used our code word and contain questions which shows they must have read the whole profile. The strange thing is that they've totally ignored the first eleven words

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I've seen a number of profiles where a special word has been requested to be put in the subject title otherwise it'll get ignored or deleted.

So I followed one persons request and so far my message has remained unread even though the person has been online since.

What's the point in that? "

Haha. To make people jump through hoops. I never do it and have always got a reply. My suggestion is to just tailor your message to something or things in their profile and f@#k the special words mate

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Better to have several words and numbers, so that the op can keep busy and do the game properly.

No reply means not interested - codes used or not

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"I've seen a number of profiles where a special word has been requested to be put in the subject title otherwise it'll get ignored or deleted.

So I followed one persons request and so far my message has remained unread even though the person has been online since.

What's the point in that? "

Your wife uses the code word 'Banana'

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