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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you are a married couple and have your chance over, would you marry a swinger again?

To the singles here, would being a swinger influence your choice in making marriage decisions? If so, where will the swing go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We, the swingers above mentioned will indeed marry !

Puuuuuurfect scenario. Honesty above all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a choice as a couple. If you met someone that was dead against swinging I wouldn't let it bother me.

I'm lucky Paul has indulged my lifestyle choice, but if at anytime he changed his mind I would happily go along with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you see it, Lifestyle or just a bit of fun?

For us its a bit of fun and if it had to stop then it stops, It deff wouldnt come into my thoughts whilst meeting new people, Much prefer to be with the right person than to be with someone only as they are willing to do something you enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging would not come into it .... if i was in love and happy .. thats all i would care about .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We, the swingers above mentioned will indeed marry !

Puuuuuurfect scenario. Honesty above all."

Hmm, that good to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swinging is a choice as a couple. If you met someone that was dead against swinging I wouldn't let it bother me.

I'm lucky Paul has indulged my lifestyle choice, but if at anytime he changed his mind I would happily go along with him. "

Bless you and Paul

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on how you see it, Lifestyle or just a bit of fun?

For us its a bit of fun and if it had to stop then it stops, It deff wouldnt come into my thoughts whilst meeting new people, Much prefer to be with the right person than to be with someone only as they are willing to do something you enjoy."

good to know it's for fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"swinging would not come into it .... if i was in love and happy .. thats all i would care about ."

**applauds** I think it's love that matters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are only two guys in this world who i would attatch myself to ...and they aint available and i would never get a chance ..ever.

But dreams and imagination are wonderful things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single if I meet someone, be he swinger or not, he would be aware of my life style and we would have to decide what was best for our relationship

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I met my other half on here and getting married next year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt marry a swinger

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"As a single if I meet someone, be he swinger or not, he would be aware of my life style and we would have to decide what was best for our relationship "

That's about the size of it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt marry anyone who wasnt a swinger. Whether i chose to actually swing again or not is irrelivant, i have the mindset of a swinger and i might not fancy swinging for a few years then might want to go on a mad week long sex fest. I could only marry someone with the same ideas as me.

However i have no intention of getting married so its pretty irrelivant but jay and i think alike and thats perfect for me

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

i did put my swinging mindset away for a few months when FSM and i first became a couple. and if he chose not to indulge in this lifestyle , i would hope he would understand my need to continue.. but i was always honest about my needs and he choice to join me... and we are getting married in 1 year and 7 days.... and i still dont have my dress sorted out..... FSM , on the other hand has ever single component of his outfit brought and paid for... lol .

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Does the original poster work for a research facility?

He asks strange questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sun ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my other half on here and getting married next year"

Well I've heard he's a nice guy

Bit slow but nice xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Does the original poster work for a research facility?

He asks strange questions

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And that question is tooooooo ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look on swinging as a chapter in my life, not a lifestyle choice that I couldnt live without.

Maybe im not a real swinger. This is something that me and him are enjoying at the moment as it makes me feel that im breaking away from the mold of respectable wife, mother and working woman and doing something so completely bizarre and almost 'unlike' me.

I am not a very sexual person and the sex is not the pull for me. Its what ive described above.

If I became single and I met someone who wasnt a swinger and I wanted to be with him, then thats it, Chams would be a distant memory for me, but always a good one. Swinging has given me a lot of positives, I am more confident about my body, I am not afraid to go and ask for what I want without feeling ashamed or without feeling that im a slut, Im not frightened of rejection. Im more accepting of me. But when it ends it ends, its not an essential part of me.

Though I have to say that at this moment in time I dont want it to end for a very long time as I am enjoying being in this lifestyle so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look on swinging as a chapter in my life, not a lifestyle choice that I couldnt live without.

Maybe im not a real swinger. This is something that me and him are enjoying at the moment as it makes me feel that im breaking away from the mold of respectable wife, mother and working woman and doing something so completely bizarre and almost 'unlike' me.

I am not a very sexual person and the sex is not the pull for me. Its what ive described above.

If I became single and I met someone who wasnt a swinger and I wanted to be with him, then thats it, Chams would be a distant memory for me, but always a good one. Swinging has given me a lot of positives, I am more confident about my body, I am not afraid to go and ask for what I want without feeling ashamed or without feeling that im a slut, Im not frightened of rejection. Im more accepting of me. But when it ends it ends, its not an essential part of me.

Though I have to say that at this moment in time I dont want it to end for a very long time as I am enjoying being in this lifestyle so much "

I like that!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does the original poster work for a research facility?

He asks strange questions

"

WTF?!!!

How dare I ask a question you didn't approve?!!!

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