FabSwingers.com forum: Think we just had our first

By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

Man pretending to be a female/couple.

If they're not verified and send face pics but refuse to use use the new "Add a photo" feature then would you be suspicious?

Gut instinct.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No. I don't jump through hoops for fucks. I don't see why guys should have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had first guy with obviously fake photos yesterday :D he told me that it's shame that I'm so far and I told him it's shame that he's using fake photos and reported him...he messaged me a few hours later saying that I can't even speak English and instead of fake photo he had his cock as a profile pic

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

I don't think you've understood the post. They are not presenting themselves as a man. This is a man pretending to be the female of a couple. They are not verified so weve asked to swap photos using the new camera feature on messages she has refused saying only when they are together. But is happy to send a photo of herself she took previously.

I don't think asking someone to verify themselves when they approach us is asking them to jump through hoops for a fuck.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

"I had first guy with obviously fake photos yesterday :D he told me that it's shame that I'm so far and I told him it's shame that he's using fake photos and reported him...he messaged me a few hours later saying that I can't even speak English and instead of fake photo he had his cock as a profile pic

Sounds like a real charmer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people so obssessed with fakes? Just delete and dont meet. Im a fake apparently cos I only have one veri. Alot of paranoid peeps out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id always be suspicious if someone isn't verified and refuses to do it. To me if theyre genuine and want to meet then why would they mind?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I don't think you've understood the post. They are not presenting themselves as a man. This is a man pretending to be the female of a couple. They are not verified so weve asked to swap photos using the new camera feature on messages she has refused saying only when they are together. But is happy to send a photo of herself she took previously.

I don't think asking someone to verify themselves when they approach us is asking them to jump through hoops for a fuck.

I get that she wants to wait until her and her hubby are together before sending a pic, but I also see that its maybe stalling until they can fake up an instant pic,.... guess they don't realise that you can ask them to thumb their nose or write todays date on a piece of paper to prove that's not faked too lol.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

"Why are people so obssessed with fakes? Just delete and dont meet. Im a fake apparently cos I only have one veri. Alot of paranoid peeps out there."

Its our first one so i wouldn't say we're obsessed. We're more than happy to speak to anyone without a verification. We all had 0 verifications when we joined. But if you approached someone and they politely asked for you to prove you were who you say you were then if you really wanted to meet that person would you not try to put them at ease by simply swapping live photos or some other form of verification? We do it all the time with people who ask us. Infact both us and the other person have gone out of our way to verify without being asked when the attraction is mutual.

We've certainly never been defensive and tried to avoid it.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

"Id always be suspicious if someone isn't verified and refuses to do it. To me if theyre genuine and want to meet then why would they mind?"

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people so obssessed with fakes? Just delete and dont meet. Im a fake apparently cos I only have one veri. Alot of paranoid peeps out there.

We've certainly never been defensive and tried to avoid it."

Totally refuse to jump thro hoops to prove Im genuine to anybody and if I thought someone was not genuine they are deleted.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If I'm chatting to someone and they start asking for direct pics of this that and the other it would put me off. I'd not want to get involved with someone so demanding,especially if they're not willing to wait for it. Then again before I was verified I was always happy to say a quick hello on the phone to ease any doubts people may have had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd arranged to meet a "couple" who weren't verified but had quite a few photos and seemed genuine when chatting. They went silent after the message confirming time and date, at around the same time that all the female photos disappeared from their profile, leaving just a few cock pics. Luckily we'd insisted on meeting at a club rather than a hotel as they'd suggested, so we still went and had a great time.

Her xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the new feature of taking and sending a photo, then you can ask them to write something specific on a sheet of paper, hold it up over the face of the female, take a full body shot with and send it within a minute or two.

If they can't do that, just ignore/block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier to add a fake photo as a direct one, as it doesn't go through a pic mod. You don't take a pic on your phone that attaches directly to a message, you upload it from your phone gallery. It can be a pic taken years ago or ripped off a website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the new feature of taking and sending a photo, then you can ask them to write something specific on a sheet of paper, hold it up over the face of the female, take a full body shot with and send it within a minute or two.

If they can't do that, just ignore/block and move on."

I wouldn't do that, you don't know who you're sending such photos to. Could be a Percy wank addict.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

"It's easier to add a fake photo as a direct one, as it doesn't go through a pic mod. You don't take a pic on your phone that attaches directly to a message, you upload it from your phone gallery. It can be a pic taken years ago or ripped off a website. "

Ah ok. I thought it would be like kik where it says it was taken from the camera.

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