FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Tv so hard finding guys.

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it vey hard to find guys that actualy want to meet. Yes they will chat and dream that they can have you. But when i start asking to meet they stop. Makes you wander if its my size or guys are just to scared lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many probably just like the fantasy of meeting a trans person, but when that becomes a possible reality they change their minds - the same happens with women, apparently, men like the fantasy of meeting a strange woman for shenanigans but some just aren't confident enough to actually make that a reality if the chance comes along.

Or they're just wankers. One or the other!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it vey hard to find guys that actualy want to meet. Yes they will chat and dream that they can have you. But when i start asking to meet they stop. Makes you wander if its my size or guys are just to scared lol"
tbh I think its not you at all, just a lot of bs timewasters, and selection of scared little boys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

May help if you change your filters. Guys can't message you at the moment

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you fixed lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

You're welcome

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

it's not you. a lot of people just want wank chat or to feel like someone will find them attractive enough to fuck them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Maybe some clearer face photos and body photos will attract those wanting to meet, the tit pics will probably just attaract those looking for a quick wank

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"Maybe some clearer face photos and body photos will attract those wanting to meet, the tit pics will probably just attaract those looking for a quick wank"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a sex worker, and it's my experience and the experience of other SWs I've spoken to that, regardless of gender, that men will phone you up and ask you loads of questions with no intentions of meeting just to fantasize about it.

Taking money out of the equation, I have spoke to guys on here who are all for meeting up and never show. I did wonder if it was them being uncomfortable with their attraction, or if they were just trollin me, but as others have said, maybe it happens again regardless of gender, they'll talk the talk but not walk the walk.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some clearer face photos and body photos will attract those wanting to meet, the tit pics will probably just attaract those looking for a quick wank"

Added 2 more face pics , will add a body one as well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West


"Maybe some clearer face photos and body photos will attract those wanting to meet, the tit pics will probably just attaract those looking for a quick wank

Added 2 more face pics , will add a body one as well "

Good luck Hun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West


"I've been a sex worker, and it's my experience and the experience of other SWs I've spoken to that, regardless of gender, that men will phone you up and ask you loads of questions with no intentions of meeting just to fantasize about it.

Taking money out of the equation, I have spoke to guys on here who are all for meeting up and never show. I did wonder if it was them being uncomfortable with their attraction, or if they were just trollin me, but as others have said, maybe it happens again regardless of gender, they'll talk the talk but not walk the walk."

TMI

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You do generally get better at working out who the people are that will actually meet you, rather than just enhance their egos and wanks. Verified users are typically better bets as are those who don't push for titillation online.

Try juggling with profile content too, to see if that influences things - though some users never apparently read them.

I'm so slow to meet that this often s out the losers who'd waste energy.

Speak with them, as immediately you'll hear and gauge the truthfulness of their interaction

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a sex worker, and it's my experience and the experience of other SWs I've spoken to that, regardless of gender, that men will phone you up and ask you loads of questions with no intentions of meeting just to fantasize about it.

Taking money out of the equation, I have spoke to guys on here who are all for meeting up and never show. I did wonder if it was them being uncomfortable with their attraction, or if they were just trollin me, but as others have said, maybe it happens again regardless of gender, they'll talk the talk but not walk the walk.

TMI "

Not sure why that's TMI...they didn't give any rudey details...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"I've been a sex worker, and it's my experience and the experience of other SWs I've spoken to that, regardless of gender, that men will phone you up and ask you loads of questions with no intentions of meeting just to fantasize about it.

Taking money out of the equation, I have spoke to guys on here who are all for meeting up and never show. I did wonder if it was them being uncomfortable with their attraction, or if they were just trollin me, but as others have said, maybe it happens again regardless of gender, they'll talk the talk but not walk the walk."

They're just fantasists, likely wanking while chatting.

Why not meet in clubs OP as youre in London. Much easier.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"I find it vey hard to find guys that actualy want to meet. Yes they will chat and dream that they can have you. But when i start asking to meet they stop. Makes you wander if its my size or guys are just to scared lol"

Really I have to beat them of with a stick ,oops that sounds rude lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue


"I find it vey hard to find guys that actualy want to meet. Yes they will chat and dream that they can have you. But when i start asking to meet they stop. Makes you wander if its my size or guys are just to scared lol"

it's probably only best to chat to guy's recently verified by other tvs..that way your pretty much gonna get the real deal not some fantasist..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it vey hard to find guys that actualy want to meet. Yes they will chat and dream that they can have you. But when i start asking to meet they stop. Makes you wander if its my size or guys are just to scared lol

Really I have to beat them of with a stick ,oops that sounds rude lol "

Lol

I see you can accom. That is a big big plus for you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"I find it vey hard to find guys that actualy want to meet. Yes they will chat and dream that they can have you. But when i start asking to meet they stop. Makes you wander if its my size or guys are just to scared lol

Really I have to beat them of with a stick ,oops that sounds rude lol

Lol

I see you can accom. That is a big big plus for you. "

Yes I suppose it is plus you can get ready in comfort of your own home which I think is always best xxx good luck on upcoming meets my fellow namesake

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top