FabSwingers.com forum: Exit strategy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No this isn't discussing the debacle that is brexit.

Quite often we see the I'm leaving threads. I realise were all on here for various reasons, and some frequently question why they're here.On occasions things aren't going as predicted and youre planning to leave!

So do you have an exit strategy?

10 more veris and I can put this down and leave?

When my membership leaves I'm deleting?

Once I've proved I'm FAB straight I can go?

Lighthearted is preferable.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Same as when I leave the pub. I don't turn down the juke box and stand on a chair and start tapping a glass before making a speech.

I just open the door and walk out.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

My circumstances changed the last time i left the place. That coupled with what i percieved as an unfair naughty step incident made my mind up.

I messaged my friends on here. Put a post up saying tara and wishing everyone all the best as you do. Went unlos within a minute.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

When it stops being fun, I will leave, no drama, no look I am leaving, just press the delete button and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as when I leave the pub. I don't turn down the juke box and stand on a chair and start tapping a glass before making a speech.

I just open the door and walk out."

How rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will just pop the head in, say we're off. And click those UNLOS buttons. Just to be dastardly, will make sure we don't announce who it is as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with people making leaving threads, even if they change their mind and decide to stay.

I mean, we're always being told on here we can change our mind at any time when it comes to meeting. This isn't any different.

What I don't like is when someone has just left and someone starts a thread about them because you always get one or two people being bitchy on those threads and the person isn't there to defend themselves and didn't ask for the thread in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it stops being fun, I will leave, no drama, no look I am leaving, just press the delete button and walk away. "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm going to get someone to write my leaving thread for me but hope it comes across as they just love me and will miss me so much. And then join again with a different username so I can see what people really think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If and when i leave, i will add my username to the thread, saying goodbye to all who knew me...and go UNLOS, so at least those who come by afterwards know who it is that left!

So many UNLOS, with no idea who they were.

Don't really suppose it matters though, in the grand scheme of things.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going to get someone to write my leaving thread for me but hope it comes across as they just love me and will miss me so much. And then join again with a different username so I can see what people really think.

Ahh but isn't it nicer to know what people think of you whilst here as opposed to when you go?

But I do admit I'd be terribly insecure and want to know what people wrote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just leave. Most of my boys don't use the forums anyway x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

If we decided to leave after 10 veris we would be leaving every fortnight !

We have left 3 times in six years and on each occasion we have simply deleted our account . No leaving thread , no messages to anyone , just left and had the break we wanted .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If we decided to leave after 10 veris we would be leaving every fortnight !

We have left 3 times in six years and on each occasion we have simply deleted our account . No leaving thread , no messages to anyone , just left and had the break we wanted ."

No outgrowing fab thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come and gone on here a few times. I just inbox the ones I chat to, to explain then hit delete. I prefer to leave without the fanfare, because I know I'll come back when I'm ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh but isn't it nicer to know what people think of you whilst here as opposed to when you go?

But I do admit I'd be terribly insecure and want to know what people wrote

You don't have to be a member to see the forums so even when you go unlos you can still read what people say about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im here then you will see me -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get bored of being on here

I will leave quietly ...never one to make a fuss ..but until that time I'm bouncing around like a jack-in-a-box enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my body makes it too difficult to travel and fuck for a few hours I'm off.

I'm going to do character assassinations of every frequent forum poster before I go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the first thing a leaver does...is become a lurker to view their leaving thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on to find a local friend with benefit, once I have that and I'm happy I'll leave (may end up staying for the forums)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always said i would do a leaving thread but i dont want a fucking dead thread about me. I might say bye and not sign it or just bugger off. Those im friends with dont need fab to get hold of me anyway

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I have no problem with people making leaving threads, even if they change their mind and decide to stay.

I mean, we're always being told on here we can change our mind at any time when it comes to meeting. This isn't any different.

Its a sympton of seeing the same thing over an over. But i do agree a nice bye bye to them or dont bother posting. Its a free world and of course a free forum. But i do think some of the replies are unneccessary. I cant say ive noticed anyone start a completely new thread like you mentioned. Completely pointless excercise if so!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Whilst it's fun I will stay. If that changes I will say goodbye privately to the people I want to and then leave. No fuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When my body makes it too difficult to travel and fuck for a few hours I'm off.

I'm going to do character assassinations of every frequent forum poster before I go

Don't wait until you go, do it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't got an exit strategy and as I'm not a popular Forumite, I definitely wouldn't announce I'm leaving. I'll just leave quietly, I'm not one for drama really.

I am closer to hitting the delete button than I've ever been at the moment.

Dana who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no problem with people making leaving threads, even if they change their mind and decide to stay.

I mean, we're always being told on here we can change our mind at any time when it comes to meeting. This isn't any different.

I've seen it a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no problem with people making leaving threads, even if they change their mind and decide to stay.

I mean, we're always being told on here we can change our mind at any time when it comes to meeting. This isn't any different.

I've seen it a few times."

One on yesterday...was leaving in a hour but still here today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When my body makes it too difficult to travel and fuck for a few hours I'm off.

I'm going to do character assassinations of every frequent forum poster before I go

Don't wait until you go, do it now

If I do it now I might miss some new users after my permanent ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no problem with people making leaving threads, even if they change their mind and decide to stay.

I mean, we're always being told on here we can change our mind at any time when it comes to meeting. This isn't any different.

I've seen it a few times.

One on yesterday...was leaving in a hour but still here today

I don't get why people are so hung up on someone leaving as soon as they write a thread about leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no problem with people making leaving threads, even if they change their mind and decide to stay.

I mean, we're always being told on here we can change our mind at any time when it comes to meeting. This isn't any different.

I've seen it a few times."

Some of the comments can be a bit childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once we've got too many veris involving bareback gang bangs or word of mouth has spread that we're a couple of arseholes we'll leave and join again. Nothing like a clean slate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When my body makes it too difficult to travel and fuck for a few hours I'm off.

I'm going to do character assassinations of every frequent forum poster before I go

Don't wait until you go, do it now

If I do it now I might miss some new users after my permanent ban

I don't know if that's cowardice or sadistic

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, one day my Prince Mk II will come on a white charger and sweep me off my feet, and we will ride off into the sunset of eternal bliss.......but don't hold your breath!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no problem with people making leaving threads, even if they change their mind and decide to stay.

I mean, we're always being told on here we can change our mind at any time when it comes to meeting. This isn't any different.

I've seen it a few times.

One on yesterday...was leaving in a hour but still here today

That's not what I meant. Those threads I don't see a problem with. It's when someone goes quietly without a fuss, someone notices they've gone and starts a thread about them. Those threads I don't think are appropriate or fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, one day my Prince Mk II will come on a white charger and sweep me off my feet, and we will ride off into the sunset of eternal bliss.......but don't hold your breath!

Yep the only white charger you'll get on here will be a bloody phone charger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't got an exit strategy and as I'm not a popular Forumite, I definitely wouldn't announce I'm leaving. I'll just leave quietly, I'm not one for drama really.

I am closer to hitting the delete button than I've ever been at the moment.

Dana who?

I think everyone feels like that at times. Why go when you can just turn off fab by hiding your account for a while and then come back when you want to be here

Signed

Just another forum outcast wandering back into the man cave..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Yes, one day my Prince Mk II will come on a white charger and sweep me off my feet, and we will ride off into the sunset of eternal bliss.......but don't hold your breath!

Yep the only white charger you'll get on here will be a bloody phone charger

Actually I've found the charger more than once - it's the Prince that's causing me trouble lol!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I get 13 people in a row saying 'nah, you're too old' then I'll stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I get 13 people in a row saying 'nah, you're too old' then I'll stop. "

if you get to 12 in a row message me - no bugger is ever to old so i will break the chain for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I get 13 people in a row saying 'nah, you're too old' then I'll stop. "

Does it count if it's on the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh but isn't it nicer to know what people think of you whilst here as opposed to when you go?

But I do admit I'd be terribly insecure and want to know what people wrote

You can read forums without being logged onto the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few people noticed I left. That was unexpected and nice. No strategy for next time.

I do fancy a massive fuck off flounce like that woman did the other month. She was taking people dowwwn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to simply delete our profile the day I buy my last plane ticket home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strategy I'll know when the time is right and just slip away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder what the stats are for those who leave and then return.....I would say fairly high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to simply delete our profile the day I buy my last plane ticket home.

Well I'll miss you. There I said it.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

The day I go I will probarley leeve a note in the forum then just quietly slip away in the nite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to simply delete our profile the day I buy my last plane ticket home.

Well I'll miss you. There I said it.

I missed you when you left. I'm glad to see you back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh but isn't it nicer to know what people think of you whilst here as opposed to when you go?

But I do admit I'd be terribly insecure and want to know what people wrote

You can read forums without being logged onto the site.

Crickey, I'm going to start being far more guarded about what I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to simply delete our profile the day I buy my last plane ticket home.

Well I'll miss you. There I said it.

I missed you when you left. I'm glad to see you back

I saw.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv e only ever left before because I was part of a couple, and sadly these relationships finished. On as a single guy now, doubt ill leave, wouldn't want to deprive people the joy of seeing my beautiful pictures hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I've made enough random forums. I shall leave them all as UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I've made enough random forums. I shall leave them all as UNLOS "

true to their word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ll leave if I get a forever boyfriend, not much chance of that though. So you are all stuck with me, sorry everyone......

P.S

Anyone want a girlfriend, several previous owners, snorers welcome xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I leave it will be the most melodramatic flounce the lounge has ever seen ,,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I leave it will be the most melodramatic flounce the lounge has ever seen ,,,,,,,

I trust there will be flicky hair and the stamp of stilettos.

(don't leave though, you make me chuckle).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I leave it will be the most melodramatic flounce the lounge has ever seen ,,,,,,,

I trust there will be flicky hair and the stamp of stilettos.

(don't leave though, you make me chuckle). "

I've had my Ostrich feather boa ready to flick for that many years its now just a boa....

But you should see my door slamming technique ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comes out of man cave...

Strategy...whats a strategy...

Wanders off quietly into the long dark goodnight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If/when we leave, we'll just simply hit the delete account option.

When you get off the bus, you don't announce to everyone you're leaving!! At the end of the day, we're all strangers but we do understand some will still want to say goodbye, probably depends on how narcissistic you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got mine worked out now...will take a couple of twats with me

...got to dash off now to take my sox off

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