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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alas the clairvoyant in me left home some time ago.

How could we possibly know what your doing wrong... or indeed what you consider doing wrong to be...

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Seen that reply coming

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong "

what do you mean op

response to messages

turning conversations into meets

or something else entirely

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I'd prefer a female influence?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'd prefer a female influence? "

ok fella but remember i offered to give advice from a perspective of what I've learnt other the years works on sites like this .

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I've just messaged you hand so John

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong "

Easy one this, you're expecting things will be easy!

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I'm not just want genuiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in, rewards out.

Pretty simple really. Ask yourself 'Have I shown the best me I can to the ladies of fab?'

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It could be the thread titles OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking of a reply but I overslept and I can't be bothered to write one.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female I will give my opinion

Profile text is boring. Needs more work

Pictures lack something .... although the picture wearing the waistcoat is ok.

Op. Have you thought about going to local social events ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong "

What are you expecting from the site? How is it bullshit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not just want genuiness"

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One-line profile, unclear pictures

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong

What are you expecting from the site? How is it bullshit?"
it will be for anyone that isn't getting what they think they are entitled to on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, this is shite, I still haven't managed to sort a 3 sum with Daniel Craig and Jessie Pavelka, total bullshit!

Don't blame the site, it's great, how you're using it however obviously isn't.

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

Take a look at previous threads who moan in a similar way and look at the advice given there.

You won't have to search hard as this sort of thing is posted on a daily basis....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong "

Yes good question ,,,,

What are you doing wrong?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong "

The green arrow of tells me what you are doing wrong...

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Lol

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong

The green arrow of tells me what you are doing wrong...

From when did the green arrow start gossiping I though he was off fighting

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

op Just chat in forums and cam rooms. Join in with the humour and offer advice where needed. That's what I like, anything else is a bonus. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF does holding your steam of a number 2 mean?

Your profile is lacklustre and a bit dreary... Pics are boring and if your relying on boyish charm to get you anywhere you need to up your game....

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Please don't get me wrong I've never ment to come over wrong in anyway.

But honestly in a nutt shell I'm very genuine xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP to paraphrase...ask not what Fab can do for you but what you can do for Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't get me wrong I've never ment to come over wrong in anyway.

But honestly in a nutt shell I'm very genuine xx "

It's not enough to claim to be 'genuine', whatever that means.

Your first impression has to be a good one, your profile IS your first impression. That's what women look at first.

It's not that hard to work out from your rant that you're not making the right first impression. So do something about it rather than bemoaning your lack of response. Concentrate your efforts to better ends.

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't get me wrong I've never ment to come over wrong in anyway.

But honestly in a nutt shell I'm very genuine xx "

Women get hundreds of mails a day and can't reply to them all. If you're not getting any replies have a think about why they would want to meet you/ reply to you.

There are social events- have a look in the Meets forum section. These are just like meeting people in a pub. You get to know people face to face which can be easier than online. Then maybe arrange to meet again.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Think you profile just needs to show a bit more of your personality,bit of humour works for me and get better clearer photo's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further. "

People probably think you're into poo play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further. "

That line made me laugh but I don't think it would appeal to many.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further.

People probably think you're into poo play. "

Yeah I've never heard the saying before so that's what popped into my head.

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

That's my humour miss Wilkes

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I've changed my profile is that any better?? Or is it still boring x

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong "

We if u think like that maybe u should leave!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen that reply coming "

At least you saw something coming OP

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Lol ??

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further.

People probably think you're into poo play.

Yeah I've never heard the saying before so that's what popped into my head."

Lol love the line never ever heard before now just waiting to fire it off in conversation as you do !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further.

People probably think you're into poo play.

Yeah I've never heard the saying before so that's what popped into my head.

Lol love the line never ever heard before now just waiting to fire it off in conversation as you do !!! "

I've said "i wouldn't give him the steam off my shit" as a contrast to the wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire saying.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further. "
ah right haha I thought it meant you where holding in a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lower your standards op. That's what loads of guys do on here, just to get their first veri!!

Once your first veri is out of the way it's plain sailing all the way. Women will drop at your feet

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Look in simple terms

If I've said somat to pervy I apologise I've not meant to come over in that at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look in simple terms

If I've said somat to pervy I apologise I've not meant to come over in that at all "

Probably your first post that said the site is bullshit. What did you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Holding the steam off a number 2 means you can tell me whatever you like it will go know further. "

It sounds like a quick poo to be honest...

OP. You have to think of your profile as a shop window. People will look at the display before entering. That is your first port of call. You have to make it engaging and friendly.... You have more chance of piquing someone's interest then

. If you are at a loss of what to say, check out some of the more successful guys profiles, to give you a few ideas of what to write.

Make your messages personal to the receiver. Respectful is always appreciated. Good luck OP

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I'm starting to think this site is a load of bull shit what am I doing so wrong

The green arrow of tells me what you are doing wrong...

From when did the green arrow start gossiping I though he was off fighting

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no he's at mine...

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

You've got it ????????????

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