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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx" But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? | |||
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"Yes this is exactly what I do. Cuts down the news feed ![]() That's what I was thinking too Many a time I've clicked on an account & due to a name change or something I discover I've seen it before and could do without so. Good tactic then yeah ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?" nothing I guess xx | |||
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"There is no downside to having a long block list. I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! " Wheat from the chaff scenario ![]() | |||
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"Jeez why agonise over it. Just block already! " Blocked ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Jeez why agonise over it. Just block already! " Ok ok I'm blocking I'm blocking!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There is no downside to having a long block list. I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! " i think a block list is good to a point because most of the time people block you without a reason ![]() | |||
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"There is no downside to having a long block list. I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! " You say that but I sent a cheekier message to one I had already messaged and me and the cheeky bitch are having a good banter and you never know... | |||
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"Jeez why agonise over it. Just block already! Blocked ![]() ![]() Liar! (Had to check though! ![]() | |||
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"There is no downside to having a long block list. I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! i think a block list is good to a point because most of the time people block you without a reason ![]() But they have their reasons for blocking you. If they're not interested then they may as well block you so you dont keep appearing on their new feed or searches or what not. | |||
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"There is no downside to having a long block list. I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! i think a block list is good to a point because most of the time people block you without a reason ![]() i see oh well mean no play no joy then haha ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?" you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries. | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries." The voice of sanity ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries." But on a site where you are actively looking for sexual encounters, why should you have contact with someone you have no interest in and never will. ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries." your 100% right because i respect all ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries." What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries. What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab ![]() Here here ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries. What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab ![]() As is entirely your right...your fab ...your way. But times change people change our connections and desires can change And by blocking as an immediate reaction to ...well anything...we preclude the possibility that what we may want or not want today we will never want for as long as we remain on fab. Everyone should use the site the way it works for them... For me closing the door permanently..ie blocking someone is taking a decision about a future a cannot know.. | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries. What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab ![]() I'm more than happy with that ![]() | |||
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"Jeez why agonise over it. Just block already! Blocked ![]() ![]() I'll see your block and raise you a stonewall ![]() | |||
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention. people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries. But on a site where you are actively looking for sexual encounters, why should you have contact with someone you have no interest in and never will. ![]() kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . | |||
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"I see many of you using blocking as a filtering tool, sensible...... but, outside of meeting, one thing I enjoy about Fab is keeping track of the promiscuous exploits of people I wouldn't touch with a bargepole, a veritable cornucopia of badly packed kebabs, micro penises and cows udders. The block list policy would deny me that viewing 'delight'. " How funny, watching from a distance all the sordid aspects of the badly packed kebabs....interesting view point ![]() | |||
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same.. Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?" This is what we do, if we have exchanged any mails and one parties isn't for the other we block them | |||
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same.. Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?" We block for loads of reasons, simply to avoid their profiles reappearing in searches. The main one we block over is they get chatty, then silence. Some weeks later, they get chatty and then silence. Normally with, "Can you meet tonight". We sense he/she/they're on a bottle of wine again so we block. We've blocked based on photos. We hit 'Who's near' and a guy's profile pick is of his areshole with his legs in the air. No thank you, block. Failed to show at a meet, block. Bad attitude/personality, block. Bodies we never dream of touching, block. We often block TV's to reduce the search results, not our scene. And loads of other reasons so yes, make a lot of use of the block option, it avoids you wasting time with profiles you've already ruled out. | |||
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same.. Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?" I block all women in a 20 mile radius that I'm not interested in meeting just so they don't keep coming up on my searches. Anyone who doesn't want to meet me I put a note on their profile to remind me, that way if they change their mind they can always get back in touch with me | |||
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" kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . " If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. ![]() | |||
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"Yes this is exactly what I do. Cuts down the news feed ![]() I do the same. It doesn't matter if you have a long block list. All my others are empty! | |||
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"My block list is growing. Never used to use it but it's becoming a useful tool! Last to be blocked was a couple (not looking for couples) who have repeatedly viewed my profile but with no contact, I find that a little creepy. " I tend to do that, just window shopping. Sorry! | |||
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same.. Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?" I already do this.. saves on making the mistake twice!! | |||
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" kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. ![]() The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion . | |||
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" kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. ![]() Woo now hang on John. The site gives us many facilities for our personal use.. the block button being one of them for everyone to use as they see fit! Now by someone using it differently to you it does not give you the right to call them psychopaths are narcissists in which way they use it....their button their right to use as they want ![]() | |||
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" The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion ." If I don't want to sleep with someone then your right, I have no use for them here and they also have no use for me. Blocking cuts down the messages and news feed making my time here more productive and enjoyable. If this in your mind makes me a psychopath then I'm cool with that. ![]() | |||
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" kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. ![]() ![]() true and my right to view how they use it anyway i want in this case if i knew anyone i was interested was using the block button it that way i would avoid meeting them not block as there is no need after I've said thanks but no thanks i wouldn't avoid contact with them after that again as theres no need as they have done nothing wrong apart from putting my off sleeping with them or if you want to crude fucking them . i would avoid them on grounds of selfish behaviour someone looking to use me who really doesn't give a toss about me past trying to use me . i have a over inflated ego and opinion of myself this fact would never allow me to allow someone to use me in such away , experience has taught me to avoid users as they have a tendency to be slightly narcissistic and slightly psychopathical when you turn them down and don't dance to their tune . your right it was a bit harsh straight talking no bullshit often is offense was not my intent though just giving a honest take on how i see such behaviour discussed . | |||
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" kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. ![]() ![]() Ok fair point ![]() | |||
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" The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion . If I don't want to sleep with someone then your right, I have no use for them here and they also have no use for me. Blocking cuts down the messages and news feed making my time here more productive and enjoyable. If this in your mind makes me a psychopath then I'm cool with that. ![]() Psychopath and narcissistic person here too ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Psychopath and narcissistic person here too ![]() ![]() Yaaaay, come and take a seat and join my crazy club ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Psychopath and narcissistic person here too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have a feeling the crazy club will be pretty busy ![]() | |||
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" kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. ![]() ![]() Blimey don't you go on, I've blocked people before so that I no longer appear on their feed, it has nothing to do with being psychotic, it's to help them as they cant keep repeating their offers to meet and ware their time, I also explain why I am blocking them coz i'm good like that ![]() | |||
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" Psychopath and narcissistic person here too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() County me in.....oh hang on...I'm too narcissistic to be in a group ![]() | |||
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" The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion . If I don't want to sleep with someone then your right, I have no use for them here and they also have no use for me. Blocking cuts down the messages and news feed making my time here more productive and enjoyable. If this in your mind makes me a psychopath then I'm cool with that. ![]() ![]() ![]() Really I would never have guess it ![]() | |||
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" kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion . don't have a need to you so your blocked don't have a need to you ether so your blocked you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked I'm in this for me your hear me ME. selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion . If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes i do in more than one way I'm a very hard task master ![]() | |||
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same.. Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?" Yes, that's what we do. | |||
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