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 ie and we play as a couple from our couple profile. Keeps it simple.
If anyone, regardless of gender, has a single profile and state that they only meet with someone else present (even if they just watch), they should have a couple profile from my point of view. | |||
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"I have both. I meet on my own, as per my preferences with this p ie and we play as a couple from our couple profile. Keeps it simple.
If anyone, regardless of gender, has a single profile and state that they only meet with someone else present (even if they just watch), they should have a couple profile from my point of view.
That's exactly how we feel, it's just gets frustrating when we are thinking yes we both like the look of this one let's read what they are looking for then......! lol" | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own." we are getting the feeling that most won't meet anyway. Quickly losing interest in the site because of this. | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own. we are getting the feeling that most won't meet anyway. Quickly losing interest in the site because of this. " possibly. i think most single women are wary of who they meet and everyone else not so much. so the time needed to convince women to meet, well nobody puts that effort in. clubs might be the way forward? | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own." Interesting take on it. Though I'm not sure a man who happened to be on fab as 'single' that was part of a couple in any form would get the benefit of the doubt!! Most likely it's a female profile is used in the hope of attracting unicorns. Deceptive and wrong. | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own. we are getting the feeling that most won't meet anyway. Quickly losing interest in the site because of this. possibly. i think most single women are wary of who they meet and everyone else not so much. so the time needed to convince women to meet, well nobody puts that effort in. clubs might be the way forward?" True the effort is required to build up the confidence for a meet, we fully understand how hard it must be for someone to meet up with a couple, it must take some doing tbf. Clubs... we have been to one twice it was couples & single ladies & both times there was only couples there! lol | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own. we are getting the feeling that most won't meet anyway. Quickly losing interest in the site because of this. possibly. i think most single women are wary of who they meet and everyone else not so much. so the time needed to convince women to meet, well nobody puts that effort in. clubs might be the way forward?True the effort is required to build up the confidence for a meet, we fully understand how hard it must be for someone to meet up with a couple, it must take some doing tbf. Clubs... we have been to one twice it was couples & single ladies & both times there was only couples there! lol " That's because a lot of single ladies like going to clubs that allow single men as well. We like plenty of choice. On mixed evenings there is always a good number of couples, single men and some other single ladies. Imagine going into a sweet shop. Would you choose the one that has a small but good selection of one type of sweet in pre-packaged bags or the one that has every kind imaginable in whatever quantities you like. | |||
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"I have this profile and a couples profile with my partner. We met through fab and I've kept my profile to keep I touch with friends I've made etc. And as we like single men to play with it's quite good for that too. We've met a couple of good guys that have sent me a message and been redirected to the couples one. It's all very clear if people make the effort to actually read the profile " Quite a lot are clear in the profile..but I think the OP’s point was about how many of these so called single profiles you have to sift through, before you find a true single lady up for meets on her own. | |||
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"I have this profile and a couples profile with my partner. We met through fab and I've kept my profile to keep I touch with friends I've made etc. And as we like single men to play with it's quite good for that too. We've met a couple of good guys that have sent me a message and been redirected to the couples one. You have paid your money you can do what you like tbf yours is quite clear just that others aren't. We won't be reporting anyone like it's been suggested, we are on here for fun not to police the site. It's all very clear if people make the effort to actually read the profile " | |||
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"I have this profile and a couples profile with my partner. We met through fab and I've kept my profile to keep I touch with friends I've made etc. And as we like single men to play with it's quite good for that too. We've met a couple of good guys that have sent me a message and been redirected to the couples one. True that! It's all very clear if people make the effort to actually read the profile Quite a lot are clear in the profile..but I think the OP’s point was about how many of these so called single profiles you have to sift through, before you find a true single lady up for meets on her own." | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own. we are getting the feeling that most won't meet anyway. Quickly losing interest in the site because of this. possibly. i think most single women are wary of who they meet and everyone else not so much. so the time needed to convince women to meet, well nobody puts that effort in. clubs might be the way forward?True the effort is required to build up the confidence for a meet, we fully understand how hard it must be for someone to meet up with a couple, it must take some doing tbf. Clubs... we have been to one twice it was couples & single ladies & both times there was only couples there! lol That's because a lot of single ladies like going to clubs that allow single men as well. We like plenty of choice. On mixed evenings there is always a good number of couples, single men and some other single ladies. Imagine going into a sweet shop. Would you choose the one that has a small but good selection of one type of sweet in pre-packaged bags or the one that has every kind imaginable in whatever quantities you like." Bringing clubs into this thread is a bit of topic and certainly using that as a justification for a fake profile!! Sweet shop- surely if you're actually a single woman that's (if you do the choosing) exactly what fab is. If you're actually not a single woman, be prepared to reap the same rewards from your efforts as everyone else | |||
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"I have this profile and a couples profile with my partner. We met through fab and I've kept my profile to keep I touch with friends I've made etc. And as we like single men to play with it's quite good for that too. We've met a couple of good guys that have sent me a message and been redirected to the couples one. True that! It's all very clear if people make the effort to actually read the profile Quite a lot are clear in the profile..but I think the OP’s point was about how many of these so called single profiles you have to sift through, before you find a true single lady up for meets on her own." Make sure when you reply to a qoute...that you scroll down to the bottom of the qoute...or your reply just gets lost in the original qoute  | |||
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"I have this profile and a couples profile with my partner. We met through fab and I've kept my profile to keep I touch with friends I've made etc. And as we like single men to play with it's quite good for that too. We've met a couple of good guys that have sent me a message and been redirected to the couples one. True that! It's all very clear if people make the effort to actually read the profile Quite a lot are clear in the profile..but I think the OP’s point was about how many of these so called single profiles you have to sift through, before you find a true single lady up for meets on her own. Make sure when you reply to a qoute...that you scroll down to the bottom of the qoute...or your reply just gets lost in the original qoute "lol thanks, don't normally do the forums, you can probably tell! lol | |||
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"I have this profile and a couples profile with my partner. We met through fab and I've kept my profile to keep I touch with friends I've made etc. And as we like single men to play with it's quite good for that too. We've met a couple of good guys that have sent me a message and been redirected to the couples one. True that! It's all very clear if people make the effort to actually read the profile Quite a lot are clear in the profile..but I think the OP’s point was about how many of these so called single profiles you have to sift through, before you find a true single lady up for meets on her own. Make sure when you reply to a qoute...that you scroll down to the bottom of the qoute...or your reply just gets lost in the original qoute lol thanks, don't normally do the forums, you can probably tell! lol"I still make the same mistake when I'm in a rush to reply  | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own. Interesting take on it. Though I'm not sure a man who happened to be on fab as 'single' that was part of a couple in any form would get the benefit of the doubt!! Most likely it's a female profile is used in the hope of attracting unicorns. Deceptive and wrong. " that's possible also. just the amount of women who don't understand why they've been turned into a couple makes me less skeptical. | |||
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"It's a buyers market..." yes we know that, still frustrating. | |||
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"It is a little irksome, as a lady looking for FF fun to be presented half way through a message exchange with 'I only meet with my man' - which is why I wouldn't do that and even reference that in my profile text. However, I don't do too badly with the lovely ladies of Fab. " I can't say I'm surprised by that. You are rather lovely  | |||
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"they're supposed to have a couples profile. if you report them the site will change it to couple. i do think the main problem is that people take the relationship to mean their status. so probably they aren't an actual couple most of these women but never meet on their own. we are getting the feeling that most won't meet anyway. Quickly losing interest in the site because of this. possibly. i think most single women are wary of who they meet and everyone else not so much. so the time needed to convince women to meet, well nobody puts that effort in. clubs might be the way forward?" i would agree with this | |||
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"This!!! It mildly irritates me, especially when you start talking then they drop the "I will only meet with my partner." "When used like that it is deceit and it should be reported. I well aware as some have stated...that they keep it to stay in touch with old friends and that's fine just so long as this is pointed out at the bloody top of their profile and not a little footnote hidden or at the bottom. But anyone using it for ulterior motives should be reported in my opinion. | |||
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"This!!! It mildly irritates me, especially when you start talking then they drop the "I will only meet with my partner." "That's worst than just having it in the profile, if you have started messaging then they throw it in. Can't see you struggling though for meets. | |||
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"I find the single women profiles that are not women more irritating spoken to several what we thought were women only for them to stop talking and famished as soon as we ask for a cam chat *-" That's a whole new thread that one
PS I hope they go something to eat...poor starving things  | |||
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"I find the single women profiles that are not women more irritating spoken to several what we thought were women only for them to stop talking and famished as soon as we ask for a cam chat *- That's a whole new thread that one
PS I hope they go something to eat...poor starving things "lol didn't notice that think we all know what was meant though I hope lol | |||
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"I find the single women profiles that are not women more irritating spoken to several what we thought were women only for them to stop talking and famished as soon as we ask for a cam chat *-" unfortunately the site seems to have idiots like that, what do they expect to gain from doing this!? Oh right so your a man?? .....No its no problem that we was looking only for a women... of course we will meet after all you seem so genuine! lol | |||
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"I find the single women profiles that are not women more irritating spoken to several what we thought were women only for them to stop talking and famished as soon as we ask for a cam chat *-unfortunately the site seems to have idiots like that, what do they expect to gain from doing this!? Oh right so your a man?? .....No its no problem that we was looking only for a women... of course we will meet after all you seem so genuine! lol " That's what I don't get what is the end game? If your not honest on your profile then what's the point in having one we know there are aspects to our profile people won't like and therefore limit our options but would rather arrange a meet with the right person where we all get what we want out of it rather than as you say turning up donpeople honestly think it will be ah well we are horny so will go with it lol ruins it for all the genuine people | |||
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"It is a little irksome, as a lady looking for FF fun to be presented half way through a message exchange with 'I only meet with my man' - which is why I wouldn't do that and even reference that in my profile text. However, I don't do too badly with the lovely ladies of Fab. " that doesn't surprise us. | |||
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"I find the single women profiles that are not women more irritating spoken to several what we thought were women only for them to stop talking and famished as soon as we ask for a cam chat *-unfortunately the site seems to have idiots like that, what do they expect to gain from doing this!? Oh right so your a man?? .....No its no problem that we was looking only for a women... of course we will meet after all you seem so genuine! lol That's what I don't get what is the end game? If your not honest on your profile then what's the point in having one we know there are aspects to our profile people won't like and therefore limit our options but would rather arrange a meet with the right person where we all get what we want out of it rather than as you say turning up donpeople honestly think it will be ah well we are horny so will go with it lol ruins it for all the genuine people " Unreal isn't it, true it does spoil it for genuine people. Like I said it's hard enough has it is getting a meet without all the time wasters & fakes. | |||
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"I meet as a single (as per my profile) and we meet as a couple. Do you also object to the fact that some women with singles profiles only meet women? Get over it already." Yes because that's what I've put in my opening comment isn't it!? Get over yourself, just stating our frustration if you don't like it fine,don't just make things up & then tell us to get over it. | |||
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"I meet as a single (as per my profile) and we meet as a couple. Do you also object to the fact that some women with singles profiles only meet women? Get over it already." I am only stating that people that put one thing in profile but once get someone interested suddenly the profile isn't as accurate i.e. Writing a profile that they think people want to see rather than what they want ..... is irritating and those men posing as women | |||
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