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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Sorry? A man can block a woman?

Surely, only in an alternative universe does this happen?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Wouldn't block for that reason personally - just accept and move on. In fact have only ever blocked two women both for homophobic comments on bi threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't have that option.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

What is this "reply" of which you speak!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

We seem to have entered an alternative universe here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

Have you considered that they've blocked you so that they don't accidentally message you again in the future and annoy you? It also removes you from any searches.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Well the OP does claim to live in a fantasy realm. I guess shes put out that finding someone who meets your fancy is especially hard living with all the odd talking and presumably now typing humanistic creatures.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Never blocked anyone ever no need so I don't fancy someone big deal that's not a reason to block someone after all I don't fancy them sexually doesn't mean I don't like them as I human being .

On them grounds no need to block them is there .

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?"

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

Have you considered that they've blocked you so that they don't accidentally message you again in the future and annoy you? It also removes you from any searches. "

That's too technical for a man to think that way lol but I understand your logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anyone on my block list

I am well mannered and reasonable

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Interesting... The OP's status update is still visible from Sunday

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

Have you considered that they've blocked you so that they don't accidentally message you again in the future and annoy you? It also removes you from any searches.

That's too technical for a man to think that way lol but I understand your logic. "

No...this is the reason I block profiles. Couples tho

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

I reckon it's an ego thing on their behalf in that case.

I only block guys who continually message or women who chat shit through a status and even then it's a '3 strikes' process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

I've been blocked just because I took 10 minutes to reply. Pressed send and boom! I'd already been blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

Have you considered that they've blocked you so that they don't accidentally message you again in the future and annoy you? It also removes you from any searches.

That's too technical for a man to think that way lol but I understand your logic. "

Evidently not when you consider that this is Mr N putting the suggestion forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd thank them for their time and politeness in responding.

I wouldn't block as that would preclude her from realising she'd made a horrible mistake and getting back in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have a block list myself

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Interesting... The OP's status update is still visible from Sunday "

My status update is not to be questioned honey....it means you're critiquing my profile without being asked to.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

I've been blocked just because I took 10 minutes to reply. Pressed send and boom! I'd already been blocked

That's harsh but it's the men 'trying' to be dominant. Not impressive at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I have ever blocked anybody, certainly not for turning me down but some people use it as a filter, why waste time on people who arn't interested in you. Makes sense really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block every local woman I'm not interested in meeting just so they stop coming up in my searches, if a woman blocks me for the same reason, so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen up men!! It's ok for women to block you or ignore you or whatever else. But under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you have any control over what you do. The women are in charge. They don't like you having free will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

I just unblocked everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen up men!! It's ok for women to block you or ignore you or whatever else. But under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you have any control over what you do. The women are in charge. They don't like you having free will. "

I'm surprised admin even gave tools like the block button to men on here in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised admin even gave tools like the block button to men on here in the first place

Must be a glitch in the matrix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting... The OP's status update is still visible from Sunday

My status update is not to be questioned honey....it means you're critiquing my profile without being asked to."

But it's ok for you to start a thread about someone blocking you? Bit hypocritical

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Interesting... The OP's status update is still visible from Sunday

My status update is not to be questioned honey....it means you're critiquing my profile without being asked to.

But it's ok for you to start a thread about someone blocking you? Bit hypocritical

I'm not 'venting' just very amused that I sent a very polite reply and was blocked in 1 second. People complain on here at receiving no replies, I reply to all messages. I'm not being hypocritical in no shape or form. Sorry if anyone is offended as that was not my intention today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

Have you considered that they've blocked you so that they don't accidentally message you again in the future and annoy you? It also removes you from any searches. "

I used to block for both those reasons.. but also arrogance.. suspected enmity.. and not respecting my space.

Mass unblock.

Give the world a 2nd chance.. live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin can have the block button back

I have never blocked anyone can't ever see a reason why I ever would.

The only thing a block button achieves is a total inability to communicate and a wall that its virtually impossible to ever unbuild.

Those who block me are at liberty to do so I have no control over the actions of others.

I accept that sometimes the block button has its value ...

But even this thread suggests some block in haste...and after they have done so even if they may regret their actions it's hard to unblock simply on the grounds that once a position becomes entrenched the psychology of changing ones mind is over-ridden by a perception that to unblock may be seen by some as an admission to both parties that their original decision was open to question.

It's always easy to dig a hole...but once your in it then climbing out can be difficult...or even impossible...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to this woman, she knows her stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it if they block me. They won't inadvertently message me again. I block them, so they have every right to block me.

As for blocking me before I have replied, that's nothing to do with trying to be dominant. I'm guessing they have had lots of no replies so block those too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to this woman, she knows her stuff "

Hah!

A real man does what he wants, not what he's told

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Listen to this woman, she knows her stuff

Hah!

A real man does what he wants, not what he's told

Ha ha you guys lurve being told what to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite being in very low demand on here I block lots of people who are local to me, but I'm outside their preferences. This is so their posts don't clutter up my home feed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to this woman, she knows her stuff

Hah!

A real man does what he wants, not what he's told

Ha ha you guys lurve being told what to do!

we do.. bit only if you ask nicely and I'd say the same thongvabout real women.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Listen to this woman, she knows her stuff

Hah!

A real man does what he wants, not what he's told

Ha ha you guys lurve being told what to do!

we do.. bit only if you ask nicely and I'd say the same thongvabout real women."

What is 'thongvabout' ? Ha ha.....you guys lurve us being in charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

They are likely blocking you so they can no longer make the mistake of messaging you again...and causing annoyance. It makes perfect sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to this woman, she knows her stuff

Hah!

A real man does what he wants, not what he's told

Ha ha you guys lurve being told what to do!

we do.. bit only if you ask nicely and I'd say the same thongvabout real women.

What is 'thongvabout' ? Ha ha.....you guys lurve us being in charge

Thongvabout? That's my Special move

We do.. but only if you're as good as us at it.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

What is it with this repeated assumption about women telling blokes what to do or being in charge and how much we love it?

It's just an uneducated guess and a bit of a fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How I see it is, when some women block men they feel a little bit powerful and enjoy it. Ergo, they think that men blocking them feel the same and they don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

Have you considered that they've blocked you so that they don't accidentally message you again in the future and annoy you? It also removes you from any searches.

That's too technical for a man to think that way lol but I understand your logic. "

this. I block people that either have something on their profile I dont like, or I don't like something they posted on forums, so I will not try to message them even if I forget about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How I see it is, when some women block men they feel a little bit powerful and enjoy it. Ergo, they think that men blocking them feel the same and they don't like it. "

But it's not always the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry? A man can block a woman?

Surely, only in an alternative universe does this happen? "

my block list is way longer then my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"How I see it is, when some women block men they feel a little bit powerful and enjoy it. Ergo, they think that men blocking them feel the same and they don't like it. "

It wasn't that I didn't like it, it just amused me that's all and it took 1 second fir him to do. I had replied very politely that he wasn't my type, wished him luck on here. I'm wondering if it pays to have manners on here as it's not appreciated. I wasn't going to block him and I didn't block him.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I have my search set to 'female' so don't see male updates.

I see lots of updates like 'Wow guys my block list is getting bigger'.

Do men update with the same kind of thing?

I see this every other day.

When I do I block them.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"How I see it is, when some women block men they feel a little bit powerful and enjoy it. Ergo, they think that men blocking them feel the same and they don't like it.

He did the correct thing in many people's book. It's an extra filter.

As mentioned above by others. (Not my wisdom)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time."

That's probably what the OP's guy did.

The block button is easy to press by accident on mobile. Or maybe that's just me being a numpty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have my search set to 'female' so don't see male updates.

I see lots of updates like 'Wow guys my block list is getting bigger'.

Do men update with the same kind of thing?

I see this every other day.

When I do I block them."

Men's status updates are usually

suck my cock

my balls are full

too many bitches on here

fuck me now

who wants my cum

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time.

That's probably what the OP's guy did.

The block button is easy to press by accident on mobile. Or maybe that's just me being a numpty.

I have to open a menu first then scroll down I often miss and hit 'report' by accident and then press 'back' and start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How I see it is, when some women block men they feel a little bit powerful and enjoy it. Ergo, they think that men blocking them feel the same and they don't like it.

You said you weren't interested. You gave a polite response. He wasn't rude to you. He just used a tool the site gave him to use. I don't see the problem personally.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I have my search set to 'female' so don't see male updates.

I see lots of updates like 'Wow guys my block list is getting bigger'.

Do men update with the same kind of thing?

I see this every other day.

When I do I block them.

Men's status updates are usually

suck my cock

my balls are full

too many bitches on here

fuck me now

who wants my cum"

Ok.

But do 'you' see updates about 'block lists growing'?

I'm interested to see if it's the same as what I see

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time."

This does make sense I suppose.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

Even if somebody blocks you first you can still block them.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

I've been blocked just because I took 10 minutes to reply. Pressed send and boom! I'd already been blocked

Learn to type faster lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time.

That's probably what the OP's guy did.

The block button is easy to press by accident on mobile. Or maybe that's just me being a numpty.

I have to open a menu first then scroll down I often miss and hit 'report' by accident and then press 'back' and start again"

I meant in messages. I'm not a total dufus.

But umm yeah I'm always hitting report instead of reply in the forum. Ok I'm a dufus.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time.

That's probably what the OP's guy did.

The block button is easy to press by accident on mobile. Or maybe that's just me being a numpty.

I have to open a menu first then scroll down I often miss and hit 'report' by accident and then press 'back' and start again

I meant in messages. I'm not a total dufus.

But umm yeah I'm always hitting report instead of reply in the forum. Ok I'm a dufus.

'Dufus' oh I lurve that word.....where does it originate from? Yes I'm a Wordsworth! The dictionary is my favourite book!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have my search set to 'female' so don't see male updates.

I see lots of updates like 'Wow guys my block list is getting bigger'.

Do men update with the same kind of thing?

I see this every other day.

When I do I block them.

Men's status updates are usually

suck my cock

my balls are full

too many bitches on here

fuck me now

who wants my cum

Ok.

But do 'you' see updates about 'block lists growing'?

I'm interested to see if it's the same as what I see"

I've just had a look at my local updates and there was one status from a guy about his block list growing. Yep, it definitely said block and not cock

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I have my search set to 'female' so don't see male updates.

I see lots of updates like 'Wow guys my block list is getting bigger'.

Do men update with the same kind of thing?

I see this every other day.

When I do I block them.

Men's status updates are usually

suck my cock

my balls are full

too many bitches on here

fuck me now

who wants my cum

Ok.

But do 'you' see updates about 'block lists growing'?

I'm interested to see if it's the same as what I see

I've just had a look at my local updates and there was one status from a guy about his block list growing. Yep, it definitely said block and not cock

Ok that's 1 and thanks for checking and reporting back.

I'm genuinely interested to see if it's similar between the sexes as I do see it as a 'power' thing and if so I'd be suprised if it was only females that updated about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time.

That's probably what the OP's guy did.

The block button is easy to press by accident on mobile. Or maybe that's just me being a numpty.

I have to open a menu first then scroll down I often miss and hit 'report' by accident and then press 'back' and start again

I meant in messages. I'm not a total dufus.

But umm yeah I'm always hitting report instead of reply in the forum. Ok I'm a dufus.

'Dufus' oh I lurve that word.....where does it originate from? Yes I'm a Wordsworth! The dictionary is my favourite book!!

The midwife came up with it as soon as she saw me.

I'm crap with words.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I prefer it if they block me. They won't inadvertently message me again. I block them, so they have every right to block me.

As for blocking me before I have replied, that's nothing to do with trying to be dominant. I'm guessing they have had lots of no replies so block those too. "

all the dominants I've ever known wouldn't block anyone as they don't need to block to feel powerful ,

just saying most people block in the hope it will make the other person feel insignificant and themselves powerful.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time.

That's probably what the OP's guy did.

The block button is easy to press by accident on mobile. Or maybe that's just me being a numpty.

I have to open a menu first then scroll down I often miss and hit 'report' by accident and then press 'back' and start again

I meant in messages. I'm not a total dufus.

But umm yeah I'm always hitting report instead of reply in the forum. Ok I'm a dufus.

'Dufus' oh I lurve that word.....where does it originate from? Yes I'm a Wordsworth! The dictionary is my favourite book!!

The midwife came up with it as soon as she saw me.

I'm crap with words. "

Is it pronounced 'doooofus' or 'dufus'?

I'm word crazy! Yes I need to get out more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish men I've said I'm not interested in would block me.

It would save them messaging me again a few weeks later with exactly the same message as the first time.

That's probably what the OP's guy did.

The block button is easy to press by accident on mobile. Or maybe that's just me being a numpty.

I have to open a menu first then scroll down I often miss and hit 'report' by accident and then press 'back' and start again

I meant in messages. I'm not a total dufus.

But umm yeah I'm always hitting report instead of reply in the forum. Ok I'm a dufus.

'Dufus' oh I lurve that word.....where does it originate from? Yes I'm a Wordsworth! The dictionary is my favourite book!!

The midwife came up with it as soon as she saw me.

I'm crap with words.

Is it pronounced 'doooofus' or 'dufus'?

I'm word crazy! Yes I need to get out more! "

I say it doo fuss.

Bear in mind I don't know how to say ciabatta or latte.

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over a year ago

"I prefer it if they block me. They won't inadvertently message me again. I block them, so they have every right to block me.

As for blocking me before I have replied, that's nothing to do with trying to be dominant. I'm guessing they have had lots of no replies so block those too.

all the dominants I've ever known wouldn't block anyone as they don't need to block to feel powerful ,

just saying most people block in the hope it will make the other person feel insignificant and themselves powerful.

That's a load of rubbish. I wish you'd stop thinking you know why other people use the tools on here. You don't. You can only know why you use the site how you use it.

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over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

This just happened to you?

It's happened a couple of times. I think it's 'his' way of blocking me before I block him but ''tis so amusing. They complain of no replies but I reply to all messages.

I've been blocked just because I took 10 minutes to reply. Pressed send and boom! I'd already been blocked

Learn to type faster lol"

You should see me on the comment on the poster above threads. I'm still writing out my comment, press send and five other posters have already posted

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over a year ago

I got blocked for forgetting to attach my face pic to a message-by the time I typed a "sorry I forgot to attach the pic" message Id been blocked

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I got blocked for forgetting to attach my face pic to a message-by the time I typed a "sorry I forgot to attach the pic" message Id been blocked

Gheee that's harsh!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

People tend to block so they dont come up in searches and a variery of weird and wonderful reasons. Nothing to do with a power trip. Well for me its not

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over a year ago

"How I see it is, when some women block men they feel a little bit powerful and enjoy it. Ergo, they think that men blocking them feel the same and they don't like it.

But it's not always the case."

Nope. That's why I said some. Some people can only see things from their own point of view.

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over a year ago

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

They're the worst kind of women. They're monsters.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Which guy is the quickest at blocking a woman when she makes the effort to be well mannered and reply that he isn't her type after having carefully looked at his profile and pics.

C'mon guys how many seconds to get to that block button and why would you? You're not her type lol.

Not venting just amused by it this morning.

They're the worst kind of women. They're monsters. "

Hope you're not calling me a female monster Mr Alleycat otherwise there's gonna be trouble with a capital T....!

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh, and with those claws. How will I cope

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