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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do i ask a girl im seeing if she wants to attend our place 4 fun... she doesnt know about fab or this part of my life and we kinda have just meet , so is there a polite sweet way to drop the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

Is it all you want her for, for fun? If so, then there's little risk in straight out asking her. Either she's not going to be interested, or she is.

If you're interested in a relationship, then it's probably best to focus just on her until you're both comfortable with where you want your relationship to go.

From the phrasing of your question, I suspect the former is the case here, so ask her and don't string her on just in the hope of persuading her if she says no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also worth asking yourself - is there a polite sweet way to ask a woman if she wants fun...do you not know the answer to that already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's our place? Do you mean here Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is it all you want her for, for fun? If so, then there's little risk in straight out asking her. Either she's not going to be interested, or she is.

If you're interested in a relationship, then it's probably best to focus just on her until you're both comfortable with where you want your relationship to go.

From the phrasing of your question, I suspect the former is the case here, so ask her and don't string her on just in the hope of persuading her if she says no. "

Wise words,can be expected off a tod lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.

Is it all you want her for, for fun? If so, then there's little risk in straight out asking her. Either she's not going to be interested, or she is.

If you're interested in a relationship, then it's probably best to focus just on her until you're both comfortable with where you want your relationship to go.

From the phrasing of your question, I suspect the former is the case here, so ask her and don't string her on just in the hope of persuading her if she says no.

Wise words,can be expected off a tod lad "

I wouldn't go that far, I was just talking about fanny farts in another thread

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I think he means the Ally Pally (Alexandra Palace for non Londoners) club called Our Place 4 Fun.

Honestly OP if she knows nothing about your profile here and the lifestyle in general then I think suggesting you take her to a (mostly) open play club with glory holes and a small 'dungeon' etc might just be a bit ambitious. Not the sort of thing you can probably enquire about in a 'sweet' manner really because there's no 'polite' way of putting it other than being frank about what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think simply posing the question indicates sufficient doubt which in itself surely points to an ill-conceived idea that would best be forgotten .....

What was the question again?

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