FabSwingers.com forum: How do people prioritise meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

It’d be a start to get 7 or 8 replies at the same time!

It’s definitely got to be easier for you ladies to drum up that much attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would first go for the one who is closest, then each by how far away and the furthest away last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had such issues as 7-8 women wanting to meet me I would do it on whoever could meet first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would start with getting one.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go with your gut instinct as to who you want to meet first.

If it's just a quick social meet you want at first and you have the time, then meet a few on the same day.

When I first joined POF a few years ago, I had three dates on the same day.

One at lunch time, one in the afternoon and one in the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for the ones I like the look of first or the ones that make me smile as its a good start . Not sure why but the last two days had some lovely men mail me .

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

There are 7 days in a week and many hours to a day, meeting someone if you want to meet them isn't hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google maps, have a look at the best circuit route in order to call on each lady in turn, leaving chez moi on my bike to return My abode after sampling the delights of each lady. Kind of like a shagging Tour de France. A Tour de Fab if you will.

I would then enter the data into my fab excel spreadsheet to assess which stages should continue to be included in the Tour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeeny meeny miney mo is a pretty foolproof system...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But if you're equally attracted to all of them then it makes it harder. I've had this the whole time I've been on fab, it's why I hardly ever meet cos I can never decide and then I end up doing no one or the one I do invest in will be a wanker and then I'm stuck cos I've put that person above the rest. Like how do you share the love equally do you know what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if you're equally attracted to all of them then it makes it harder. I've had this the whole time I've been on fab, it's why I hardly ever meet cos I can never decide and then I end up doing no one or the one I do invest in will be a wanker and then I'm stuck cos I've put that person above the rest. Like how do you share the love equally do you know what I mean? "

Most blokes are wankers.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

First world problem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet them all.

Give yourself a week.

1 a day.

Winner gets to meet you again.

But no, you amswered it... 1 stands out, even if there are some drawbacks, theres that 1 person that sticks out, so there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never like all equally. There's always one i talk to more freely and get more excited when I see they've messaged. The one who gives that feeling will always take priority for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

I'd say you would know who you like the most. Don't try and rationalise it too much and just let yourself be drawn to that one.

Or, to put it another way, the one that makes your fanny flutter the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, I cannot relate to this situation in which 7 or 8 people live nearby and tick all my boxes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive tried to write the answer 3,4,5 times and I keep Changing my mind so sorry I can't prioritise either

Maybe it's a woman thing ha x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I would say don't put all your eggs in one basket

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be.

I'd say you would know who you like the most. Don't try and rationalise it too much and just let yourself be drawn to that one.

Or, to put it another way, the one that makes your fanny flutter the most

Those are my words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

The one that sticks out is far away in MK and he seems the most sexually unwell and up my street but then I'm thinking is that me subconsciously picking the most difficult one just because I'm bloody awkward and like to throw obstacles in my path?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always prioritise my meets by

Penis size

Looks

Cute bum

Hot body

Oh and personality lol x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always prioritise my meets by

Penis size

Looks

Cute bum

Hot body

Oh and personality lol x "

Well that’s me fucked then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always prioritise my meets by

Penis size

Looks

Cute bum

Hot body

Oh and personality lol x "

In that order?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though. "

You haven't accepted my challenge of pancakes yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always prioritise my meets by

Penis size

Looks

Cute bum

Hot body

Oh and personality lol x

In that order?"

Yes.

I do it like that as I'm not shallow lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though. "

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

It's difficult one. I'm only looking for one. My free time is linoted though. So i don't feel its fair to expect them to meet only me. Im sure there is someone who will agree with your terms.... It's just finding one who's also your type and willing to aaccept them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

Limited*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?"

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush.

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over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush. "

So it’s even more important that it’s a bloody good fuck then! Get two weeks worth in one session.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

I don't think so, I managed it for 6 months.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush. "

I've gone almost 3 months now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

If they could 1 million percent guarantee that they would use protection with other people and not get contaminated by other women and only fuck me unprotected that would be fine but I don't trust people to do that and even if I knew they'd shagged someone with a condom I'd still worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush.

I've gone almost 3 months now "

That’s just too long! How is it all you 10/10s are going months without?!?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush.

I've gone almost 3 months now

That’s just too long! How is it all you 10/10s are going months without?!? "

10/10

Honestly? It was that good I don't think anyone will satisfy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush.

I've gone almost 3 months now

That’s just too long! How is it all you 10/10s are going months without?!?

10/10

Honestly? It was that good I don't think anyone will satisfy me "

Challenge accepted. Ha ha.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush.

I've gone almost 3 months now

That’s just too long! How is it all you 10/10s are going months without?!?

10/10

Honestly? It was that good I don't think anyone will satisfy me

Challenge accepted. Ha ha. "

Rookie

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Hands OP her trumpet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they make me laugh they go to the top of me list. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The last really good shag I had was back in 2014, the guy from my old fitness forums, think he's doing time now but Jesus he was up my street. l

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

I haven't had a shag for months, in the past I've gone almost 2 years without and regularly will go a year between fucks. Every other weekend to blast off the cobwebs would be lush.

I've gone almost 3 months now

That’s just too long! How is it all you 10/10s are going months without?!?

10/10

Honestly? It was that good I don't think anyone will satisfy me

Challenge accepted. Ha ha.

Rookie"

Worth a shot......

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

I wonder how many of those 7 or 8 are going to stick around when they realise none of them really stand out it seems .

I know I wouldn't but hay I'm a odd ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be.

I'd say you would know who you like the most. Don't try and rationalise it too much and just let yourself be drawn to that one.

Or, to put it another way, the one that makes your fanny flutter the most

This. Every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this. I rely on gut instinct.

If they all cancelled who would you be most disappointed at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with this. I rely on gut instinct.

If they all cancelled who would you be most disappointed at? "

Nicely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always one that stands out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

Nice to have this problem

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Yes, I always seem to pick the wrong one to prioritise, but if I talk to more than one or two new people at once I just get overwhelmed and cannot decide at all lol!!

It all works out best when one person grabs my attention, engages me and holds it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Yes, I always seem to pick the wrong one to prioritise, but if I talk to more than one or two new people at once I just get overwhelmed and cannot decide at all lol!!

It all works out best when one person grabs my attention, engages me and holds it!

That's the problem. They say not to concentrate on one person cos if that goes Pete Tong you're knackered but then speaking to more than one makes me get in a tizz, I'm like oh I like this one but that one says he wants a regular person to be exclusive, oh but now that one is saying it too, oh but that one seems more deliciously disgusting and then you feel like you're pulled in all different directions.

It is hard and part of the reason why I just think fuck it and that's how my fanny sits around getting hairy and gathering dust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are all equal on paper, draw names out of a hat.

If you select one to meet first yourself, deep down he may be your ideal match. You may think he is the best one and if he turns out to be rubbish, you may mistrust your judgement in future.

If the choosing hat decides, it is the hats fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had as many potential meets I struggled to chose lol

I just go with who I feel most comfortable with hence why always a phone chat 1st to see how we click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?"

Not really. My last shag was 7 months ago.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

Yep, it's definitely a problem only for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

Not really. My last shag was 7 months ago. "

No wonder us chaps are fighting a loosing battle on here when you lovely ladies are quite happy to go for months and even years without!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gangbang! Gangbang! Gangbang!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

Not really. My last shag was 7 months ago.

No wonder us chaps are fighting a loosing battle on here when you lovely ladies are quite happy to go for months and even years without!"

The difference is most of the ladies in question are also looking for something a bit special, not just another fun shag. If it's just another shag you can meet anyone, but if you badly want to find the best out of a bunch because you only want to sleep with one.....well then paradoxically you can easily get paralysed into not meeting any of them!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

My last shag was Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

Completely understandable if you wouldn't be using a condom. I would only do exclusivity if that were the case too.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I pick keys out of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

The one that sticks out is far away in MK and he seems the mot sexually unwell and up my street but then I'm thinking is that me subconsciously picking the most difficult one just because I'm bloody awkward and like to throw obstacles in my path?

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

Not really. My last shag was 7 months ago.

No wonder us chaps are fighting a loosing battle on here when you lovely ladies are quite happy to go for months and even years without!"

I think it depends om what women on here are looking for. I would say there's a few of us who are only looking for one regular, which makes the search a lot harder. They have to be more than the random guy for it to work, plus they have to want regular too

. We have no choice but to be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

I've never had to worry about this

But.. I am starting to think it may be a problem later on - unless I ostricise myself from everyone on here for having an opinion.

Well at the moment I'm more Swinger than Singley at the mo.. in my head

I make that clear.. So it shouldn't be an issue.. I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

Not really. My last shag was 7 months ago.

No wonder us chaps are fighting a loosing battle on here when you lovely ladies are quite happy to go for months and even years without!"

How do they do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky bitch

But seriously my advice would be to get to know them over a few weeks, filter out the nob'eds and have fun with those that make you swoooon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Google maps, have a look at the best circuit route in order to call on each lady in turn, leaving chez moi on my bike to return My abode after sampling the delights of each lady. Kind of like a shagging Tour de France. A Tour de Fab if you will.

I would then enter the data into my fab excel spreadsheet to assess which stages should continue to be included in the Tour. "

Tour de fab..... Love it..... Where do I sign up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always one who you know, deep down, that you'd prefer to meet.

One always stands out.

But if you're really not convinced then go on a first chat first meet kind of thing.

But too many meets in too short a time and you'll go personality blind. They'll all come across a bit samey. Space it out a bit. Absorb them. Get a feel for them.

That sounds weird i know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is always one who you know, deep down, that you'd prefer to meet.

One always stands out.

But if you're really not convinced then go on a first chat first meet kind of thing.

But too many meets in too short a time and you'll go personality blind. They'll all come across a bit samey. Space it out a bit. Absorb them. Get a feel for them.

That sounds weird i know."

If I were a single guy looking solely for a relationship on here.. Being in a queue would make me jump out of that line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is always one who you know, deep down, that you'd prefer to meet.

One always stands out.

But if you're really not convinced then go on a first chat first meet kind of thing.

But too many meets in too short a time and you'll go personality blind. They'll all come across a bit samey. Space it out a bit. Absorb them. Get a feel for them.

That sounds weird i know.

If I were a single guy looking solely for a relationship on here.. Being in a queue would make me jump out of that line.

But they wouldn't know. Just as the OP probably doesn't know how many other ladies they have as potentials. It's a two way street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is always one who you know, deep down, that you'd prefer to meet.

One always stands out.

But if you're really not convinced then go on a first chat first meet kind of thing.

But too many meets in too short a time and you'll go personality blind. They'll all come across a bit samey. Space it out a bit. Absorb them. Get a feel for them.

That sounds weird i know.

If I were a single guy looking solely for a relationship on here.. Being in a queue would make me jump out of that line.

Not many from mine and Miss Wilkes area use the forums, so I doubt they'd see this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You like 7 or 8 guys all the same????

Jeez who the hell has time for that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah the guys I'm interested in are no doubt meeting other people either from here or other sites and that's another thing that holds me back from meeting.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

No man on fab had ever had this problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is always one who you know, deep down, that you'd prefer to meet.

One always stands out.

But if you're really not convinced then go on a first chat first meet kind of thing.

But too many meets in too short a time and you'll go personality blind. They'll all come across a bit samey. Space it out a bit. Absorb them. Get a feel for them.

That sounds weird i know.

If I were a single guy looking solely for a relationship on here.. Being in a queue would make me jump out of that line.

Not many from mine and Miss Wilkes area use the forums, so I doubt they'd see this

Oh hell no, definitely not forum guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had 7 or 8 options, I would be like a pig in shit

I would prioritise the one that has the best connection over texts and calls

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I actually prefer the forum people to the non forum people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I actually prefer the forum people to the non forum people

For meets? I'd rather people didn't know who I was interested in or was shagging

gets too milkshakey otherwise.

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over a year ago

"I actually prefer the forum people to the non forum people

For meets? I'd rather people didn't know who I was interested in or was shagging

gets too milkshakey otherwise. "

You would know lovely... Someone made yours very public

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

We should be so lucky to have that problem. You are not showing off are you OP?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

See who's got staying power, as I typically don't meet quickly.

It's unlikely that they'll all be of equal attraction values, so I further evaluate them, which helps to get my head clearer upon what I really do need. It is a genuine issue op, as it can appear overloading and an onerous responsibility.

Otherwise relax and just do things a little randomly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy

I just wait for 18 months between them

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd probably treat it like The X factor.

First audition. 2nd round, boot camp and so on.

The winner would walk away with a contract but 2 of them would be back next year.

They would also be my Christmas number 1.

NO live shows sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is always one who you know, deep down, that you'd prefer to meet.

One always stands out.

But if you're really not convinced then go on a first chat first meet kind of thing.

But too many meets in too short a time and you'll go personality blind. They'll all come across a bit samey. Space it out a bit. Absorb them. Get a feel for them.

That sounds weird i know.

If I were a single guy looking solely for a relationship on here.. Being in a queue would make me jump out of that line.

But they wouldn't know. Just as the OP probably doesn't know how many other ladies they have as potentials. It's a two way street."

But if a veri popped up in the meantime I'd know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is always one who you know, deep down, that you'd prefer to meet.

One always stands out.

But if you're really not convinced then go on a first chat first meet kind of thing.

But too many meets in too short a time and you'll go personality blind. They'll all come across a bit samey. Space it out a bit. Absorb them. Get a feel for them.

That sounds weird i know.

If I were a single guy looking solely for a relationship on here.. Being in a queue would make me jump out of that line.

Not many from mine and Miss Wilkes area use the forums, so I doubt they'd see this

I read a lot before I joined in fully. Some active lurker online at all times.. Too scared to say how they feel.. sucking up all our good vibes because they're too shy to join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably go for the the furthest away first!...'cause by the time I got to the last one I'd be knackered!...and wouldn't be able to crawl too far!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"I actually prefer the forum people to the non forum people

For meets? I'd rather people didn't know who I was interested in or was shagging

gets too milkshakey otherwise. "

Actually I have met forum people and it's fine, but then I meet people from clubs that sometimes post in forums

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"But do people hold back and hold back cos they think one may offer a better time and then all the indecisiveness kills everything completely.

Holding out can be good, if the sex is amazing then I will stick to meeting that one person.

I like a challenge though.

That's what I mean, I only want one guy.

Is it genuinely too much to ask a guy to keep himself to himself (like I would) and be happy to just shag me every other weekend.

You’d need to shag more than every other weekend surely?

Not really. My last shag was 7 months ago.

No wonder us chaps are fighting a loosing battle on here when you lovely ladies are quite happy to go for months and even years without!"

I can join this group!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

We just meet them all , sometimes 2 or three together , sometimes one at a time .

Problem solved

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

There's always one that stands out more! Personally I'm looking for one or two regulars as I'm

Hoping it stops me getting the feels and people have such busy lives now that it's not always easy to co-ordinate meeting. I have a few guys I am talking to ATM but couple are def more special xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I actually prefer the forum people to the non forum people

I've not met anyone from the forums, although they tend to be the most chatty, they're usually too far away.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be.

We just meet them all , sometimes 2 or three together , sometimes one at a time .

Problem solved

You're way more free-spirited than the majority in here though, and that's great

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Think you should write out a list of all the guys and give scores accordingley.

Height, penis size, body type, charm, sexual deviance, location, empathy, bedroom skill level, asshole cleanliness, etc. Mark each out of 10.

Take that list and carefully place in a metal bin. Set it on fire.

Put your nurses outfit on, drive to Leeds and come meet me for drinks, doctors and nurses.

Problem solved.

Ps. I'm fucking 100% serious. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" No man on fab had ever had this problem. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think you should write out a list of all the guys and give scores accordingley.

Height, penis size, body type, charm, sexual deviance, location, empathy, bedroom skill level, asshole cleanliness, etc. Mark each out of 10.

Take that list and carefully place in a metal bin. Set it on fire.

Put your nurses outfit on, drive to Leeds and come meet me for drinks, doctors and nurses.

Problem solved.

Ps. I'm fucking 100% serious. X"

You just want to shag me so all your advice points to me going to Leeds to have it off with you

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Think you should write out a list of all the guys and give scores accordingley.

Height, penis size, body type, charm, sexual deviance, location, empathy, bedroom skill level, asshole cleanliness, etc. Mark each out of 10.

Take that list and carefully place in a metal bin. Set it on fire.

Put your nurses outfit on, drive to Leeds and come meet me for drinks, doctors and nurses.

Problem solved.

Ps. I'm fucking 100% serious. X"

Lmfao at the thought of all these guys trying to prove their asshole cleanliness.......

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't have that problem! I can't even find 1 person I'm interested in, never mind 7 or 8 lol

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over a year ago

"Think you should write out a list of all the guys and give scores accordingley.

Height, penis size, body type, charm, sexual deviance, location, empathy, bedroom skill level, asshole cleanliness, etc. Mark each out of 10.

Take that list and carefully place in a metal bin. Set it on fire.

Put your nurses outfit on, drive to Leeds and come meet me for drinks, doctors and nurses.

Problem solved.

Ps. I'm fucking 100% serious. X

Lmfao at the thought of all these guys trying to prove their asshole cleanliness.......

They don't have to be clean, part of the fun is giving guys a bath and washing their willy and bum hole.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"There's always one that stands out more! Personally I'm looking for one or two regulars as I'm

Hoping it stops me getting the feels and people have such busy lives now that it's not always easy to co-ordinate meeting. I have a few guys I am talking to ATM but couple are def more special xx "

How refreshing to find a woman into arse to mouth .... love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See who's got staying power, as I typically don't meet quickly.

Otherwise relax and just do things a little randomly

That's what I used to do on PoF. Where women were looking for men.. based on stability and compatibility. Women actually talk on there.

But I had to explain the whole fab thing OR go through the whole nsa conversation. As I wasn't gonna trick them into bed for a one night stand. That conversation has been repetitive and getting boring.. there are also a lot of closed minded, prudish women. Some aren't and just don't realise that FAB and POF are just different levels of the same thing. Only Fab has a HARDCORE side that can comfortably and calmly play mind games with each other and fuck with people's heads.. safely.. Or are prepared to take that risk. Some very hardcore fantasies and adrenaline chasing people. make it clear which camp you're in and how far you stray boundaries.

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"They don't have to be clean, part of the fun is giving guys a bath and washing their willy and bum hole. "

Id expect nothing less! Where the hell are you girl? I've been waiting for you.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do it on pure chance - myself and one of the lovely gentlemen want to meet up, I'll put it in my diary. If one of the others then floats my boat a bit more I may kick myself, but I made the promise. Simples.

We can all find time over a four week or so period to fit in a few socials though, to winnow the numbers

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By *aster of OralMan
over a year ago

suffolk

Just looked at your profile and I misread tongue up my arse for toe up my arse! Thought ok I'll give it a go! ??

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Just get them all together and let them fight for your affections. The guy who wants it most will win. Simples.

You can then nurse the winner and wash his battle wounds in the bath.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

It's the fit fab lady equivalent of 1st world problems. I can only dream

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be.

It's the fit fab lady equivalent of 1st world problems. I can only dream

Haha, true, I haven't come across 7 or 8 geographically close full stop , never mind that I'm attracted to , so I'm coping well with your problem at the moment ??

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Wots a meet ?

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

"Wots a meet ?

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is it something for the BBQ?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Wots a meet ?

is it something for the BBQ?"

It cood be

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

Of course if you where in the list of 7 or 8 it would be an easy decision

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over a year ago

"Think you should write out a list of all the guys and give scores accordingley.

Height, penis size, body type, charm, sexual deviance, location, empathy, bedroom skill level, asshole cleanliness, etc. Mark each out of 10.

Take that list and carefully place in a metal bin. Set it on fire.

Put your nurses outfit on, drive to Leeds and come meet me for drinks, doctors and nurses.

Problem solved.

Ps. I'm fucking 100% serious. X

Lmfao at the thought of all these guys trying to prove their asshole cleanliness.......

They don't have to be clean, part of the fun is giving guys a bath and washing their willy and bum hole. "

Marry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst one first, the best one around 2/3 of the way up and finish up on number 2

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Think you should write out a list of all the guys and give scores accordingley.

Height, penis size, body type, charm, sexual deviance, location, empathy, bedroom skill level, asshole cleanliness, etc. Mark each out of 10.

Take that list and carefully place in a metal bin. Set it on fire.

Put your nurses outfit on, drive to Leeds and come meet me for drinks, doctors and nurses.

Problem solved.

Ps. I'm fucking 100% serious. X

Lmfao at the thought of all these guys trying to prove their asshole cleanliness.......

They don't have to be clean, part of the fun is giving guys a bath and washing their willy and bum hole. "

Wales, you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst one first, the best one around 2/3 of the way up and finish up on number 2

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over a year ago

"Think you should write out a list of all the guys and give scores accordingley.

Height, penis size, body type, charm, sexual deviance, location, empathy, bedroom skill level, asshole cleanliness, etc. Mark each out of 10.

Take that list and carefully place in a metal bin. Set it on fire.

Put your nurses outfit on, drive to Leeds and come meet me for drinks, doctors and nurses.

Problem solved.

Ps. I'm fucking 100% serious. X

Lmfao at the thought of all these guys trying to prove their asshole cleanliness.......

They don't have to be clean, part of the fun is giving guys a bath and washing their willy and bum hole.

Wales, you say?

Oi! I want me bum and Willy washed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i arrange a meet they have my absolute undivided attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always a couple who stand out as phwaor material. The ones who make my tummy flip so I concentrate on them first. First who can sort us out somewhere is the first to see me. The rest go on the back burner.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Toss a coin.

I made some of the most important decisions of my life based on it, because in the moment while you're watching it spin, you'll know exactly which way you want it to land

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "
have all at once. Or the one with the largest cock. Sorted. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Toss a coin.

I made some of the most important decisions of my life based on it, because in the moment while you're watching it spin, you'll know exactly which way you want it to land

That's a good idea that is.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Toss a coin.

I made some of the most important decisions of my life based on it, because in the moment while you're watching it spin, you'll know exactly which way you want it to land

That's a good idea that is. "

Apart from that time I got married!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

If I had 7 or 8 meets I would die of a heart attack through shock. I don't do badly on here but I have never had 7 or 8 meets lined up. Also I often take a few months break from Fab. I just don't delete my profile.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Say you had 7 or 8 people that physically ticked all your boxes and geographically close by, how do you decide which one to meet first?

I struggle with this and don't know if it's a woman thing or not? Like there always seems to be one that stands out but then that can make you be so undecided that you end up meeting nobody.

Like genuinely how do people arrange it when you're speaking to multiple people? The alternative is to speak to one but then that might not work and then you're fucked (or not) as the case can be. "

Spend time getting to know themn online first. Maybe for a few weeks.

Then you wil find out more about them and if you still want to meet them.

Also if you spend a long time getting to know them you will weeed out

Timewaters

Idiots

Fantasists

The looking for a quick fuck guys

The I want another notch on my bedpost guys

Weirdos

Guys who think Fab is called ishaganybodwhoasksme.com or instantshags.com

Etc.

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By *lusive.UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Dungeonville

"Eeeny meeny miney mo is a pretty foolproof system...

Haha.. it kinda gets like that..

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"There's always one that stands out more! Personally I'm looking for one or two regulars as I'm

Hoping it stops me getting the feels and people have such busy lives now that it's not always easy to co-ordinate meeting. I have a few guys I am talking to ATM but couple are def more special xx

How refreshing to find a woman into arse to mouth .... love it

Arse to mouth is extremely dangerous. You could get very ill and even die.

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over a year ago

"Toss a coin.

I made some of the most important decisions of my life based on it, because in the moment while you're watching it spin, you'll know exactly which way you want it to land

That's a good idea that is.

Apart from that time I got married! "

Not sure I'm the type who flips a coin.. I take calculated risk. Love the married comment, so had to say something

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over a year ago

"There's always one that stands out more! Personally I'm looking for one or two regulars as I'm

Hoping it stops me getting the feels and people have such busy lives now that it's not always easy to co-ordinate meeting. I have a few guys I am talking to ATM but couple are def more special xx

How refreshing to find a woman into arse to mouth .... love it

Arse to mouth is extremely dangerous. You could get very ill and even die. "

With the utmost respect... kiss my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's always one that stands out more! Personally I'm looking for one or two regulars as I'm

Hoping it stops me getting the feels and people have such busy lives now that it's not always easy to co-ordinate meeting. I have a few guys I am talking to ATM but couple are def more special xx

How refreshing to find a woman into arse to mouth .... love it

Arse to mouth is extremely dangerous. You could get very ill and even die. "

With the utmost respect... kiss my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Toss a coin.

I made some of the most important decisions of my life based on it, because in the moment while you're watching it spin, you'll know exactly which way you want it to land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet them all over a few days. Then decide.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"There's always one that stands out more! Personally I'm looking for one or two regulars as I'm

Hoping it stops me getting the feels and people have such busy lives now that it's not always easy to co-ordinate meeting. I have a few guys I am talking to ATM but couple are def more special xx

How refreshing to find a woman into arse to mouth .... love it

Arse to mouth is extremely dangerous. You could get very ill and even die. "

But you know what they say...whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger! #notdeadyet

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