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Men: What does it for you that attracts you to eventually meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm listening...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See what there better offer is

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If she laughs online I'm sure she will laugh in person.

Sence of humour for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks and ability to spell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to actually answer a message would help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Personality

2. Wit

3. Fiestyness

4. Adventurousness

5. Attractivesness (curvy redheads to the front of the cue)

A lot of ness'es in there but hopefully you get the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to actually answer a message would help... "
you can say that again too much ignorance on this site.

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

I'd like to say intelligence

attracts me first of all.

An air of general bookishness

is sure to make me fall.

To make me laugh, to make me smile

to have a cutting wit.

But honestly? What I like most...

A pair of massive tits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ability to actually answer a message would help... "

Really??? That's helluva interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An interesting profile and some good photos...plus the ability to string a sentence together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm listening..."

A good Frasier impression.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to say intelligence

attracts me first of all.

An air of general bookishness

is sure to make me fall.

To make me laugh, to make me smile

to have a cutting wit.

But honestly? What I like most...

A pair of massive tits.

"

At the end of the day hey lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm listening...

A good Frasier impression. "

Hey baby, I hear the blues a-callin', 

Tossed salad and scrambled eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour is always the number one thing I look for in a woman, a vagina is a close second. A pulse is always good but optional

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's a meet ? "

Have you got time? Pull up a chair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say intelligence

attracts me first of all.

An air of general bookishness

is sure to make me fall.

To make me laugh, to make me smile

to have a cutting wit.

But honestly? What I like most...

A pair of massive tits.

"

Will just one of those suffice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sense of humour is always the number one thing I look for in a woman, a vagina is a close second. A pulse is always good but optional"

A pulse? Like as in not looking at the fireplace while stoking the fire kind of pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sense of humour is always the number one thing I look for in a woman, a vagina is a close second. A pulse is always good but optional"
A vagina that smell as sweet as a rose and that's had a nice clip . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks and ability to spell. "
that's ME OUT ...I cant spell.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

So many things, intelligence, humour, personality, on a similar wavelength, physical attraction of course comes into it...and much more.

I can't really describe it any other way but just when you 'click' with someone and messages flow freely and without awkwardness to the point you just KNOW you have to take things to another stage and are pretty certain where that next stage will lead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sense of humour is always the number one thing I look for in a woman, a vagina is a close second. A pulse is always good but optional A vagina that smell as sweet as a rose and that's had a nice clip . lol "

A clip haha don't worry I know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sense of humour is always the number one thing I look for in a woman, a vagina is a close second. A pulse is always good but optional

A pulse? Like as in not looking at the fireplace while stoking the fire kind of pulse "

erm.....yea sure, thats less weird than what I was going for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many things, intelligence, humour, personality, on a similar wavelength, physical attraction of course comes into it...and much more.

I can't really describe it any other way but just when you 'click' with someone and messages flow freely and without awkwardness to the point you just KNOW you have to take things to another stage and are pretty certain where that next stage will lead "

Yes. Yup. I hear you. Now my next question is, how often does that happen for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm listening...

A good Frasier impression.

Hey baby, I hear the blues a-callin', 

Tossed salad and scrambled eggs

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a meet ?

Have you got time? Pull up a chair. "

Ha ha ha ha

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm listening..."

The personal attention (i.e. not being made to feel like "Ok, so this is your 15 minutes to impress me, then I'm moving on to the next guy")

The ability to actually converse (so many women + couples only ever reply with one or two-word messages)

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"1. Personality

2. Wit

3. Fiestyness

4. Adventurousness

5. Attractivesness (curvy redheads to the front of the cue)

A lot of ness'es in there but hopefully you get the idea."

Hello!

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Witty and not full of themselves. After that their favourite brand of tea can be a decider

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"So many things, intelligence, humour, personality, on a similar wavelength, physical attraction of course comes into it...and much more.

I can't really describe it any other way but just when you 'click' with someone and messages flow freely and without awkwardness to the point you just KNOW you have to take things to another stage and are pretty certain where that next stage will lead

Yes. Yup. I hear you. Now my next question is, how often does that happen for you?"

Without liking to sound like I'm avoiding the question - it's happened often enough to meet my own particular circumstances and what I'm looking to get out of the site, so I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship, flirtatious, naughtiness,cheeky smile, politeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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In all honesty not a clue! I have a certain favoured type. Ive never met that type from here. The ones i have met were both gorgeous and lovely. Chatting for a little while shows if your going to click obviously. I cant really define it any further than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm listening...

The personal attention (i.e. not being made to feel like "Ok, so this is your 15 minutes to impress me, then I'm moving on to the next guy")

The ability to actually converse (so many women + couples only ever reply with one or two-word messages)

"

You like a bit of warmth. A bit of depth. A bit of soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's lemon always lemon. Not meeting one of them generic citrus types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well firstly their avatar, then if we get chatting and become friends who want to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.Personality

2.Honesty

3.Open mind

3.Sense of humour

4.Adventurousness

5.Politeness

6.Friendly

7.Attractiveness is a plus but not necessary because not everyone is a model in real life

8.Willing to give some thing a try because you never know what you could be missing in the end.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Witty and not full of themselves. After that their favourite brand of tea can be a decider"

Mmmm I see. Especially a deciding factor "where" the tea was farmed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many things, intelligence, humour, personality, on a similar wavelength, physical attraction of course comes into it...and much more.

I can't really describe it any other way but just when you 'click' with someone and messages flow freely and without awkwardness to the point you just KNOW you have to take things to another stage and are pretty certain where that next stage will lead

Yes. Yup. I hear you. Now my next question is, how often does that happen for you?

Without liking to sound like I'm avoiding the question - it's happened often enough to meet my own particular circumstances and what I'm looking to get out of the site, so I'm happy "

I love hearing that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sense of humour is always the number one thing I look for in a woman, a vagina is a close second. A pulse is always good but optional A vagina that smell as sweet as a rose and that's had a nice clip . lol

A clip haha don't worry I know what you mean"
to clip a rose from a bush . And you can clip hair from a bush .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Friendship, flirtatious, naughtiness,cheeky smile, politeness "

May I say that's because you possess those lovely attributes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well firstly their avatar, then if we get chatting and become friends who want to meet..."

Yes I can see why. It's like a lovely big non verbal message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sense of humour is always the number one thing I look for in a woman, a vagina is a close second. A pulse is always good but optional A vagina that smell as sweet as a rose and that's had a nice clip . lol

A clip haha don't worry I know what you meanto clip a rose from a bush . And you can clip hair from a bush . "

Haha keep those clippers far from my bush thank you lol

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

If we can chat with ease and it's not feeling like a struggle, and she likes a laugh then I'll happily meet for a drink and a face to face.

I do like a good chat over a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, sense of fun and confidence.

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

As has been said ..

Obviously the first point of interest is going to be looks ...

And then I'd suggest its if u click ...

Then attraction should be building ...

Then........

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Big boobs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves, sense of humour and if we have chemistry while chatting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As has been said ..

Obviously the first point of interest is going to be looks ...

And then I'd suggest its if u click ...

Then attraction should be building ...

Then........"

Dammit I can hardly see straight let alone concentrate to give a decent reply! Something bright illuminating something so fucking huge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good looks, eye contact, laughs at my terrible jokes, intelligence, opportunity - so many different things. Every person, every scenario is different.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield


"I'm listening..."

Boobs xx

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

For me adventurous kookiness maybe a touch scatty . had to has nice curves no stick insects please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women (and I imagine the same is true for men) are 100% sex appeal.

Sadly, some are 0% - but most of us have a few physical and/or mental attributes that make us sufficiently sexually attractive in the right place, at the right time with the right person (or people, of course!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks and ability to spell. "

There are a few witches on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How close they match the things I'm looking for.

How confident they are. it's nice when they are excited and funny as well (can take the piss out of themselves, me and the situation we're in).

Distance: I'm prepared to travel quite far and make plans in advance. Host or share a hotel room. But if they're in Aberdeen or something.. You do wish they weren't so far away. So the closer they are, the more likely I am to meet them. Although most locals may have blocked me by now.. going off the ladies message thread lol

NSA vs Relationship: There's enough pressure on a first meet already. I don't want to worry about hurting people's feelings on top of that. Or being concerned about my behaviour in order to not give off wrong vibe (as I'm pretty touchy feely). I am open to relationship.. But it takes me a while to fall. It helps if they understand and accept that quite readily. Without me accidentaly sounding like an arrogant tool, like I did to a friend.

Me: How much interest are they showing and for what reasons.. What do they want from me.

If all that matches up well.. I'm pretty ready to meet at the drop of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes. "

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

besides mutual attraction. I think good humour ,banter and being down to earth is the best thing. It's more the than just play it's about having a laugh as well.

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan


"1. Personality

2. Wit

3. Fiestyness

4. Adventurousness

5. Attractivesness (curvy redheads to the front of the cue)

A lot of ness'es in there but hopefully you get the idea."

Are you intending to poke her while you're playing snooker? ha ha

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

1. They say yes.

That's it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me."

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm listening..."

Location/convenience is also probably THE biggest factor deciding an actual meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me."

This applies to me but with guys. In fact I was talking about the exact thing last night. A guy could look like a supermodel but if he's a nob with an over inflated ego with no personality then it's a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?"

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes. "

Ooohhh...a cynic! But there's enough of us not so gorgeous peeps getting nookie on here to give the lie to that one *grins*

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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You guys will say anything to get your dicks wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes. "

I would disagree to an extent.

For a lady, if you are on here and willing to meet, you will get a meet. Supply and demand. Irrespective of attribute, looks or personality.

There are some men who state on here that it not about looks are hedging their bets as to not offend any potential meets.

There are some men who will try and punch above their weight and bag a hottie, but would shag the lovechild of Sid James and Grotbags if she was here.

Men can be selective as is their right, or can appear to be selective to attract those playing hard to get. It is a game of cat and mouse. Men will say whatever they think they need to say to get that meet. I'm no different.

For me, I have to click with someone, the rest can come later.

How do I select someone?

Quality of forum banter.

Level of mutual interest.

Word count on profile.

Humour/sarcasm level.

This could of course be all lies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes. "

"How close they match the things I'm looking for" Covers a big area.. including looks and physical attributes. Other men are the same, especially if they're looking for more than just fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally if they display confidence in themselves. The ability to hold a conversation would get me to a meet more then a FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great sence of hunour and a nice cheeky smile also someone whos fun to be with and always up for a laugh.as im a real fun guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me."

Same here.. it's usually the prettiest people with the ugliest souls in my experience. Sadly.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"You guys will say anything to get your dicks wet "

Please note this is a tongue in cheek comment.

I have noticed guys here are somewhat different in what makes them want to meet someone as opposed to meeting someone on a night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You guys will say anything to get your dicks wet "

Pfft, I might actually like impressions of Fraiser, you don't know...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"You guys will say anything to get your dicks wet

Pfft, I might actually like impressions of Fraiser, you don't know... "

You might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?"

Then you won't get anything either lol Its the mixed package for me.. How the bits come together as a whole. See two men saying the same thing. Neither of us fishing or fawning by the sound of it. Loads of other guys are the same. Have a look when you walk in the street. There are lots of couples that look odd, but they work well regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently."

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful "

People usually become more desperate the longer than have been online, it's hard for us ladies to decide which sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful "

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world is full of cynics.

But for me without a connection it's just friction.

We are all here to enjoy great sex with interesting people but the two go together. If there is no connection then the sex is probably never going to be great.

As one of the fuglys on here if someone gets inside my head then I am far more likely to want to explore all the sensual pleasures with them than if it's just a random fuck.

The cynics will always be with us it's their nature to sneer at others.

But unless you make me smile think laugh at the world unless you can talk and be open about your wants and needs and enjoy all the things beyond sex and make me tingle at the very thought of you the probability that I will want to just meet and fuck is massively reduced.

Probably not something a guy on fab should say but having done the random come fuck go thing it never had the same physical connection as when two minds meet at the same time as two bodies.

I probably get far less meets doing it this way but when I do meet they are memorable hopefully for both parties rather than just another shag.

Who knows maybe I'm doing it wrong but then that's for others to decide...

Wanders back into man cave to sit on my rock and eatch the waves...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess."

I like men who make me laugh, who like me making them laugh.

Looks aren't overly important but it would be a lie to say I dont have a physical type.

Sometimes you just click with someone and that chemistry doesn't come around often.

Someone can also think the absolute world of you but it appears to be somewhat pointless if they don't believe it themself.

However I'm not interested in meeting so my opinion means zilch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs and a vagina.

Seriously, that's what will drive just about any man to a meet. The rest is mere frippery.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess.

I like men who make me laugh, who like me making them laugh.

Looks aren't overly important but it would be a lie to say I dont have a physical type.

Sometimes you just click with someone and that chemistry doesn't come around often.

Someone can also think the absolute world of you but it appears to be somewhat pointless if they don't believe it themself.

However I'm not interested in meeting so my opinion means zilch."

The fact your not interested in meeting is way less relevant than your opinion.

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over a year ago


"You guys will say anything to get your dicks wet "

You're all such teases though!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"You guys will say anything to get your dicks wet

You're all such teases though!"

Yeah I'm all talk me

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over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

People usually become more desperate the longer than have been online, it's hard for us ladies to decide which sometimes "

Ok Maybe that too Not for me now.. maybe when I first started away from the boundaries I set myself unintentionally. Actually yes I probably was. But I learnt some good lessons on the way.

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over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess."

I think you and I are quite similar in how we see ourselves and women. Glad to know im not abnormal

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over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess.

I like men who make me laugh, who like me making them laugh.

Looks aren't overly important but it would be a lie to say I dont have a physical type.

Sometimes you just click with someone and that chemistry doesn't come around often.

Someone can also think the absolute world of you but it appears to be somewhat pointless if they don't believe it themself.

However I'm not interested in meeting so my opinion means zilch.

The fact your not interested in meeting is way less relevant than your opinion."

ooooh smoooooooooth as fuuuuuck

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess.

I like men who make me laugh, who like me making them laugh.

Looks aren't overly important but it would be a lie to say I dont have a physical type.

Sometimes you just click with someone and that chemistry doesn't come around often.

Someone can also think the absolute world of you but it appears to be somewhat pointless if they don't believe it themself.

However I'm not interested in meeting so my opinion means zilch.

The fact your not interested in meeting is way less relevant than your opinion.

ooooh smoooooooooth as fuuuuuck "

I try haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opportunity to give my arm a rest

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

Being local lol

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over a year ago


"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess.

I think you and I are quite similar in how we see ourselves and women. Glad to know im not abnormal "

Oh, don't for second go thinking we are normal!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction and a quirky sense of humour

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"I'm listening...

The personal attention (i.e. not being made to feel like "Ok, so this is your 15 minutes to impress me, then I'm moving on to the next guy")

The ability to actually converse (so many women + couples only ever reply with one or two-word messages)

"

Maybe the original message only deserves a one word answer .......

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess.

I think you and I are quite similar in how we see ourselves and women. Glad to know im not abnormal "

Go to know

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I call bull shit. Most of the replies on here say personality based traits are what attracts them but the honest answer is looks and physical attributes.

Looks and physical attributes don't mean diddly if I don't like the personality within them. A beautiful person with an ugly soul ain't getting anything from me.

What about a beautiful soul but look like a pig in lipstick?

There have been a few ladies that I have considered to be beautiful that really truly didn't think it of themselves. Both inside and outwardly. I guess that my own opinion is just that. I had got to know them through chat first before seeing them too. Perhaps that leads me to see them differently.

Nail on the head. Never thought of it that way before. The longer I've been online.. the less superficial I've become. Because I used to be awful

It's been raised that I don't think much of myself. This is true. After saying I wouldn't consider someone with an ugly soul and then I myself not believing that my own is any better, it is indeed hypocritical of me.

But as you have said above, you think you used to be awful. Acknowledging that is something huge in itself, let alone then doing something about it and making yourself better from. That is to be applauded.

Baby steps I guess.

I think you and I are quite similar in how we see ourselves and women. Glad to know im not abnormal

Oh, don't for second go thinking we are normal!! "

Normal is subjective

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm listening...

The personal attention (i.e. not being made to feel like "Ok, so this is your 15 minutes to impress me, then I'm moving on to the next guy")

The ability to actually converse (so many women + couples only ever reply with one or two-word messages)

Maybe the original message only deserves a one word answer ......."

And yet we are slated for only sending one word, or single line messages.......

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"I'm listening...

The personal attention (i.e. not being made to feel like "Ok, so this is your 15 minutes to impress me, then I'm moving on to the next guy")

The ability to actually converse (so many women + couples only ever reply with one or two-word messages)

Maybe the original message only deserves a one word answer .......

And yet we are slated for only sending one word, or single line messages......."

I wouldn't skate anyone for the messages they send but I reply to fit the message. Why should I bother if they don't

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Good chat and sense of humour. You share a connection before meeting.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm listening...

The personal attention (i.e. not being made to feel like "Ok, so this is your 15 minutes to impress me, then I'm moving on to the next guy")

The ability to actually converse (so many women + couples only ever reply with one or two-word messages)

Maybe the original message only deserves a one word answer .......

And yet we are slated for only sending one word, or single line messages.......

I wouldn't skate anyone for the messages they send but I reply to fit the message. Why should I bother if they don't "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great sence of hunour and a nice cheeky smile also someone whos fun to be with and always up for a laugh.as im a real fun guy."

Humor is vital. What a tonic!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I don't know actuall sometimes it's humour sometimes it's a photo or two or how they have been in forum

Depends but also depends what I am looking for at a certain time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The world is full of cynics.

But for me without a connection it's just friction.

We are all here to enjoy great sex with interesting people but the two go together. If there is no connection then the sex is probably never going to be great.

As one of the fuglys on here if someone gets inside my head then I am far more likely to want to explore all the sensual pleasures with them than if it's just a random fuck.

The cynics will always be with us it's their nature to sneer at others.

But unless you make me smile think laugh at the world unless you can talk and be open about your wants and needs and enjoy all the things beyond sex and make me tingle at the very thought of you the probability that I will want to just meet and fuck is massively reduced.

Probably not something a guy on fab should say but having done the random come fuck go thing it never had the same physical connection as when two minds meet at the same time as two bodies.

I probably get far less meets doing it this way but when I do meet they are memorable hopefully for both parties rather than just another shag.

Who knows maybe I'm doing it wrong but then that's for others to decide...

Wanders back into man cave to sit on my rock and eatch the waves..."

You're a beautiful soul man and I've enjoyed reading your take on what's important to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know actuall sometimes it's humour sometimes it's a photo or two or how they have been in forum

Depends but also depends what I am looking for at a certain time "

"At a certain time..." does that imply your mood? What's ones hormones are doing.... interesting as men have hormones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all down to connection for me if I feel i have connected with someone i would eventually like to meet them even if it just for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how there's a lot of 'intelligence' , 'funny' answers when reality is 80% of guys on here would meet anything with a pulse!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

If she says she likes it up the bum then she gets extra bonus points in my book.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Funny how there's a lot of 'intelligence' , 'funny' answers when reality is 80% of guys on here would meet anything with a pulse! "

I've always been fascinated by the expression "Don't look at the fireplace while stoking the fire. " ...which may iterate what you're saying. I read some profiles, womens that is and all I can see and feel is an ugly person. Then I read her veri's and I'm made to think....why....why did that man want to stick his dick in her... And then I think of the fireplace...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality all the way for me. Nice chat and a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she makes me laugh I'm sold

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Mardy comment removed by poster at 15/08/17 16:26:06]"

Well, that was close... I very nearly had a grumble there... Roll on Thursday

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"[Mardy comment removed by poster at 15/08/17 16:26:06]

Well, that was close... I very nearly had a grumble there... Roll on Thursday "

Oh I'm lost on days...rant away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she says she likes it up the bum then she gets extra bonus points in my book. "

A good honest answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks and ability to spell. that's ME OUT ...I cant spell. "

I think you mean, "can't spell".

Tut, tut. See me after class

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By *ak777Man
over a year ago

shaw

just someone who want me for my brains ,and not because i.m a millionaire .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who sends more than one word answers

Someone that is funny

Someone that is dirty

And a curvy bum

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I don't know actuall sometimes it's humour sometimes it's a photo or two or how they have been in forum

Depends but also depends what I am looking for at a certain time

"At a certain time..." does that imply your mood? What's ones hormones are doing.... interesting as men have hormones too."

Kinda....so sometimes I want a cheeky flirt, sometimes full on filth, sometimes visual stimulation

It is the same in club, sometimes I want to watch, sometimes to join and give a show, sometime in a private room. I would say it depends on my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with that nice mix of being flirty without being to crude. Someone you can chat to and imagine them smiling and the glint in their eye. Someone who has me guessing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A comparitive lack of demands and expectation

Realistic approach to meets

A willingness to understand I have priorities outside Fab too

Enjoys the types of meets I do

Physical attraction

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By *aturalMysticMan
over a year ago

Leicester

If she is intelligent and warm-hearted I will be interested.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Funny how there's a lot of 'intelligence' , 'funny' answers when reality is 80% of guys on here would meet anything with a pulse!

I've always been fascinated by the expression "Don't look at the fireplace while stoking the fire. " ...which may iterate what you're saying. I read some profiles, womens that is and all I can see and feel is an ugly person. Then I read her veri's and I'm made to think....why....why did that man want to stick his dick in her... And then I think of the fireplace..."

Pmsl! Spot on

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