FabSwingers.com forum: Straight guys who hide there bi

By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Why do so many guys want to meet a tv . They are totally straight and they come out with the crapest reasons why they put straight on there profile. And when I don't want to meet them I just get a lot of abuse. To me they are just desperate

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I do prefer it if men are upfront about meeting other men,but it's their choice I suppose,it just make's it harder for people to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fellow TV/TG member, and having read the number of posts from men enable to get a woman on here, I assume that we get messages from straight men because they are so desperate that they convinced themselves that they can still be straight and fuck men as long as they can pretend the man was a woman.

I don't mind being scraped from the bottom of the barrel too much, but at least have the decency to lie to me and say you're bi ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

Nor do they give a shit they are disrespecting the rights of females and couples with an aversion to meeting guys who engage in same sex from making an informed choice on whether that persons sexual behaviour contravenes their limits and boundaries...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're scared that their wives will find them on here, and then find out they're here looking for cock.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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As there have been many discussions on here before now that if you have sex with a TV it doesn't make you bi/gay as the TV is presenting as a woman , then maybe they are confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're scared that their wives will find them on here, and then find out they're here looking for cock."

Yes I'm sure their wives would be far more understanding if they thought their husbands infidelity was only with females

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

As said a lot of the times it's because a lot of women won't meet bi men so they put straight on their profile. I also think that were also like forbidden fruit, especially convincing girls, it's like a naughty taboo. Personally though I'm not interested in meeting men that haven't met other TVs before because im not going to be someone's sexual experiment that gets the guilt after the cum and also has no idea what they are doing

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

So many guys on here have a straight profile. But what's funny they are on fab guys as well.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

What about the people on here that go with the notion that labelling is wrong. If you like it, just do it and if you want to be straight and suck cock, so be it.

Personally I think these people are suppressing bi / gay men and encouraging them not to be honest, which is daft on a site like this.

Butt yes most Fab straight guys are just trying to keep their target audience wide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

What about the people on here that go with the notion that labelling is wrong. If you like it, just do it and if you want to be straight and suck cock, so be it.

Personally I think these people are suppressing bi / gay men and encouraging them not to be honest, which is daft on a site like this.

Butt yes most Fab straight guys are just trying to keep their target audience wide. "

People who say labelling doesn't matter are condoning dishonest labelling intended to deceive ....

I would be ashamed too admit I thought honest labelling was an infringement of the rights of individual choice on a site like this

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

What about the people on here that go with the notion that labelling is wrong. If you like it, just do it and if you want to be straight and suck cock, so be it.

Personally I think these people are suppressing bi / gay men and encouraging them not to be honest, which is daft on a site like this.

But yes most Fab straight guys are just trying to keep their target audience wide. "

You see this is what I don't understand - it's often said that 'Fab straight' guys are keeping their target audience wide - but are they?

Sure there are some profiles that will automatically reject a guy for being bi (and the rights and wrongs of that are a whole other discussion) - so yes by identifying as 'straight' they keep that particular minority open as an option - but by doing so they potentially close the door on anyone actively looking for bi guys - so net result is the same.

If that makes sense?

Personally I am what I am and see no reason to hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some don't think they are bi if only sucking and wanking and only see bi if having full sex. I known men who think this way ..... I say they are bi and some don't like it ... why not say the truth .. I am bi woman I know I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some don't think they are bi if only sucking and wanking and only see bi if having full sex. I known men who think this way ..... I say they are bi and some don't like it ... why not say the truth .. I am bi woman I know I am."

Straight males don't engage in same sex activity ......

It's that simple.....and if anyone disputes that I suggest they ask their mates down the pub or better still call my Auntie Betty and when she stops laughing at you..... you'll have your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight males don't engage in same sex activity ......

It's that simple.....and if anyone disputes that I suggest they ask their mates down the pub or better still call my Auntie Betty and when she stops laughing at you..... you'll have your answer

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Its just don't take the full sex bit to be bi for men... I don't have a cock but I play and can do most a man could so I am bi . lol

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very true . Lots of guys think if I'm just sucking them they still think it's straight play very bizarre lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

See a statement like that comes across as provoking.

When I first joined fab I had myself as Bi-curious as I had started dressing and didn't know where it would lead.

I have had meets with couples but never had any involvement with the male half.

And may I say I never intend to as it does not float my boat what so ever.

But to some on here I will always be seen as fab straight....which pisses me off.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

For me, being bisexual is the act of being attracted to those of both genders, not just the actions that follow.

I suppose it depends; if a guy is only attracted to those presenting as female, cis or not, it could make them some version of straight still. Pan-straight, maybe.

Oh god, my head hurts. Maybe we should let them call themselves whatever they want and we can call them whatever we want. Like, confused.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I think some guys are in denial about their sexuality and some are being deliberately dishonest hoping to also get meets with ladies and couples who won't play with bi guys.

I'm straight, my profile says I'm straight and I have politely declined meeting with couples if the male half is bi.

Each to their own of course and there is somebody for everyone on here, all flavours catered for.

But deliberate dishonesty is wrong

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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The geezer from right said fred whose name escapes me said it brilliantly.

"I am predominantly gay but reserve the right to wake up next to a cracking pair of boobs"

Sonething like that anyway.

I have no doubt some guys get desperate abs become fab straight.

I have no doubt also some are curious. Levels of curiosty differ. Willingness to take it further also differs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

See a statement like that comes across as provoking.

When I first joined fab I had myself as Bi-curious as I had started dressing and didn't know where it would lead.

I have had meets with couples but never had any involvement with the male half.

And may I say I never intend to as it does not float my boat what so ever.

But to some on here I will always be seen as fab straight....which pisses me off."

Hold up there Geronimo....

If you are not repeatedly having sex with someone of the same gender you are not bisexual or gay...

If a person has latent or unexplored curiosity in same sex activity there is no reason for them to label themselves as anything other than straight .... but it would be a courteous option to mention that curiosity on their profile bio .....

Now my little ray of Teesside sunshine I hope your provocation slackens sufficiently to blow me a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

See a statement like that comes across as provoking.

When I first joined fab I had myself as Bi-curious as I had started dressing and didn't know where it would lead.

I have had meets with couples but never had any involvement with the male half.

And may I say I never intend to as it does not float my boat what so ever.

But to some on here I will always be seen as fab straight....which pisses me off.

Hold up there Geronimo....

If you are not repeatedly having sex with someone of the same gender you are not bisexual or gay...

Now my little ray of Teesside sunshine I hope your provocation slackens sufficiently to blow me a kiss

Forgot the emoji for that so you'll have to settle for this ×

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

See a statement like that comes across as provoking.

When I first joined fab I had myself as Bi-curious as I had started dressing and didn't know where it would lead.

I have had meets with couples but never had any involvement with the male half.

And may I say I never intend to as it does not float my boat what so ever.

But to some on here I will always be seen as fab straight....which pisses me off.

Hold up there Geronimo....

If you are not repeatedly having sex with someone of the same gender you are not bisexual or gay...

Now my little ray of Teesside sunshine I hope your provocation slackens sufficiently to blow me a kiss

Forgot the emoji for that so you'll have to settle for this ×

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am totally and utterly bi and whilst having a couple of TV / crossdressers in my social circle, I don't meet TV / crossdressers sexually

Sexually, I need men to look like men and women to look like women, including without their clothes.

The look of a female but with 'dangly bits' just doesn't equate to me.

I get the impression that whilst some guys genuinely find TV / crossdressers attractive, others will meet them purely because they are horny and anyone vaguely resembling a woman will do, just to satisfy their need to empty their balls.

Then it's back to being straight

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"I am totally and utterly bi and whilst having a couple of TV / crossdressers in my social circle, I don't meet TV / crossdressers sexually

Sexually, I need men to look like men and women to look like women, including without their clothes.

The look of a female but with 'dangly bits' just doesn't equate to me.

Then it's back to being straight

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exactly why I won't meet people that don't meet TVs normally. I'm not being used as someone semen depository lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get far more winks from supposedly straight guys than I do couples or female lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the people on here that go with the notion that labelling is wrong. If you like it, just do it and if you want to be straight and suck cock, so be it.

Personally I think these people are suppressing bi / gay men and encouraging them not to be honest, which is daft on a site like this.

Butt yes most Fab straight guys are just trying to keep their target audience wide. "

Well if you don't go with the notion of labelling straight, gay or bi then it stands to reason that you are neither gay nor straight. That has to make you bu, or at least bi curious.

Personally I don't buy into the gay and straight theory. I'm convinced there is no blue and pink but infinite shades of lilac.

Now that sounds so gay, maybe I just disproved my own theory!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't give a shit that their dishonesty helps perpetuate the stigma suffered my many members of the gay and bi community ...

In a nut shell they are arrogant selfish untrustworthy wazzocks who should hang their heads in shame .....

See a statement like that comes across as provoking.

When I first joined fab I had myself as Bi-curious as I had started dressing and didn't know where it would lead.

I have had meets with couples but never had any involvement with the male half.

And may I say I never intend to as it does not float my boat what so ever.

But to some on here I will always be seen as fab straight....which pisses me off."

You're not fab straight if you cross dress, your fab straight if you have sex with men (including oral or masturbation)

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