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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What kind of messages do you get off here? Do you ever get ones that just boil your blood?! "Let's meet I'm horny" is one that does my tits in.

Just because you're horny, I should drop everything and meet?! Eh no. I like the conversation and the build up of a potential meet. Just wondering wonder if anyone else is like that...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty that boil my blood ...but I don't reply to those I just ignore them

I tend to go for messages that interest me and that can keep me interested as I get bored easily .

And if the messages keep going well then that's a Brucie bonus and you've done something right

Waffling on I'll shut up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that annoy me are we are at a nearby place you want to meet in 15 minutes. Or my wife is away do you want to meet alone.

Then there's the ones who are going to make me squirt and the ones who can show me a better time than my mr! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to mention but the biggest annoying message is "wow you look stunning" when they cant even see a face.. ....

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've had all sorts of stuff since being here.

From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

The worst are the persistent guys who repeatedly message when you're not interested until you resort to blocking them just because they won't leave you alone.

I've had one of those tonight and blocked after about 6 messages and an unsolicited friend request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one from a man saying

"show me where you shit from"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had all sorts of stuff since being here.

From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

The worst are the persistent guys who repeatedly message when you're not interested until you resort to blocking them just because they won't leave you alone.

I've had one of those tonight and blocked after about 6 messages and an unsolicited friend request. "

Holy smokes! I can actually say I've never received anything quite as crude as those ones. Obviously the impregnate one, but the others. Yikes. Really does make you wonder what the hell goes on in people's heads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got one from a man saying

"show me where you shit from" "

Sorry, I laughed a little too hard!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some SERIOUS idiots on here.

Personally I wouldn’t know want to say anything in a message (particular introductory) that I wouldn’t say to someone face to face.

Common sense, decency and putting the effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one from a man saying

"show me where you shit from"

Sorry, I laughed a little too hard! "

Hahaha I read it as shirt.... thought he was complimenting his fashion. Haha

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Like every other woman here I could reel off countless examples of the type of immature/lazy/incomprehensible/weird/crude/selfish/presumptive/arrogant messages that'd annoy me if I thought too much about them - which I try very hard not to do (and seem to be winning at that).

What makes me furious though are the blatantly misogynistic ones and those which try to guilt trip you into replying, e.g. comments like 'I hope to hear from you soon, please prove that not all women here lack basic courtesy'. That *really* pisses me off and I instantly block people like that because you just know they'd turn abusive given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one from a man saying

"show me where you shit from"

Sorry, I laughed a little too hard! "

how would I even take a pic of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had all sorts of stuff since being here.

From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

The worst are the persistent guys who repeatedly message when you're not interested until you resort to blocking them just because they won't leave you alone.

I've had one of those tonight and blocked after about 6 messages and an unsolicited friend request. "

Omg I'm almost happy to be a male on here My monthly message is usually a nice and well worded and thought over bit of screenery. Quality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like every other woman here I could reel off countless examples of the type of immature/lazy/incomprehensible/weird/crude/selfish/presumptive/arrogant messages that'd annoy me if I thought too much about them - which I try very hard not to do (and seem to be winning at that).

What makes me furious though are the blatantly misogynistic ones and those which try to guilt trip you into replying, e.g. comments like 'I hope to hear from you soon, please prove that not all women here lack basic courtesy'. That *really* pisses me off and I instantly block people like that because you just know they'd turn abusive given the chance. "

Yea!!! Or if you don't reply its another message saying. "Guess, I'm not your type, take care" argh!! BLOCK!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got one from a man saying

"show me where you shit from"

Sorry, I laughed a little too hard!

how would I even take a pic of that "

Bend over and touch your toes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only friends message me or people I message as filters on .Had a few nasty ones which were from men who I had blocked last time on .so added again .Can't be done with nasty it's all for fun .I hate messages asking what I'm upto that makes go grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time... "

You might be lucky enough for him to catch your post here maybe

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

You might be lucky enough for him to catch your post here maybe "

doubt he stalks my posts lol but here's hoping.

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By *r ed300Man
over a year ago

bradford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time... "
hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had all sorts of stuff since being here.

From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

The worst are the persistent guys who repeatedly message when you're not interested until you resort to blocking them just because they won't leave you alone.

I've had one of those tonight and blocked after about 6 messages and an unsolicited friend request.

Holy smokes! I can actually say I've never received anything quite as crude as those ones. Obviously the impregnate one, but the others. Yikes. Really does make you wonder what the hell goes on in people's heads. "

obviously the impregnate ones?? There shouldn't really be an "Obviously" in that sentance

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

"I'm local, wanna fuck"

"I think you should see my dick"

"Meet now?"

"I wanna fuck ur ass"

Etc

All one liners and guys begging for sex is what annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when women message me asking to come around that very moment and fuck them senseless. I'm not just a fine, prime cut, butcher's choice slab of meat.

I'd quite like time to finish my cup of tea first anyway.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend "

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had all sorts of stuff since being here.

From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

The worst are the persistent guys who repeatedly message when you're not interested until you resort to blocking them just because they won't leave you alone.

I've had one of those tonight and blocked after about 6 messages and an unsolicited friend request.

Holy smokes! I can actually say I've never received anything quite as crude as those ones. Obviously the impregnate one, but the others. Yikes. Really does make you wonder what the hell goes on in people's heads.

obviously the impregnate ones?? There shouldn't really be an "Obviously" in that sentance "

It's more regular then ya think!

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

I presume like all my men you're hung like a grand national winner was one, I shit you not ??, Unfortunately I wasn't ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though. "
well i hope he does because your sweet here than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one from a man saying

"show me where you shit from" "

Hey that's my line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things in messages don't bother me anymore. I think I've finally become jaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, maybe those irritated by the messages they get could put their filters on and start messaging the people they like instead of waiting for people to message them?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have filters so I don't get many messages these days. The ones that used to make me roll my eyes the most were the ones from the female half of a 'couple' explaining that they were contacting me because their apparently amazing other half (see pictures attached) had permission to meet singly and she just wanted to help him fulfill his fantasy/birthday wish/celebration by setting up a meet with me on his behalf where she wouldn't be involved. The attached pictures were usually found on various Instagram pages of men dotted all over the world. Or were of obscure film stars. So not only did they assume I might fall for that premise but that I would meet someone with fake pics? I think not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know, maybe those irritated by the messages they get could put their filters on and start messaging the people they like instead of waiting for people to message them? "

Filters are on and I do message who I want to message. I certainly don't wait around for a message. If I see someone I like, I'll fire a message their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My worst one is the people that message saying "can I ask you a question?"

Ahh just fucking ask the question in the first place. I just delete them and hope it teaches them a lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier"

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs."

Truck is much different situation I appreciate. But I could shower at yours Kidding! I'm usually no good to anyone after a day in my job. Plus it's online diddy truck.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

well i hope he does because your sweet here than others "

thanks. i've never replied to him so wouldn't blame him if he didn't.

anyway you had any bad messages off guys coz that's what this topic is about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though. "

I'd never message anyone more than once.. unless I forgot to attach my face.. in which case I usually get deleted instantly for committing that crime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time... "

I so frickin love your new username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

well i hope he does because your sweet here than others

thanks. i've never replied to him so wouldn't blame him if he didn't.

anyway you had any bad messages off guys coz that's what this topic is about? "

i see well i do not send any new ones to new people because there no respond. to be honest i never send rude messages to women that not me i am too nice of guy for that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had all sorts of stuff since being here.

From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

The worst are the persistent guys who repeatedly message when you're not interested until you resort to blocking them just because they won't leave you alone.

I've had one of those tonight and blocked after about 6 messages and an unsolicited friend request.

Holy smokes! I can actually say I've never received anything quite as crude as those ones. Obviously the impregnate one, but the others. Yikes. Really does make you wonder what the hell goes on in people's heads.

obviously the impregnate ones?? There shouldn't really be an "Obviously" in that sentance

It's more regular then ya think! "

Oh I believe you. I've seen it in action on my friends phones. It's quite sick most of it. Again.. there's something broken in society that's making men think it's ok, or funny, or acceptable to be like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

well i hope he does because your sweet here than others

thanks. i've never replied to him so wouldn't blame him if he didn't.

anyway you had any bad messages off guys coz that's what this topic is about?

i see well i do not send any new ones to new people because there no respond. to be honest i never send rude messages to women that not me i am too nice of guy for that.. "

There's a time and a place.. But if you're on form.. you can sneak a little smut in, to make somebody laugh or start wondering.. hopefully both. But it's risky

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs."

If I got that kind of message asking for a social I may consider replying.

Usually most messages from guys staying in a hotel for work are along the lines of "I'm horny and alone in my room, want to come and drain my balls?"

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

well i hope he does because your sweet here than others

thanks. i've never replied to him so wouldn't blame him if he didn't.

anyway you had any bad messages off guys coz that's what this topic is about?

i see well i do not send any new ones to new people because there no respond. to be honest i never send rude messages to women that not me i am too nice of guy for that.. "

yeah you're always respectful and i like that. you should try flirting though like the other guy said.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

I so frickin love your new username "

haha thanks. i think it suits me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

well i hope he does because your sweet here than others

thanks. i've never replied to him so wouldn't blame him if he didn't.

anyway you had any bad messages off guys coz that's what this topic is about?

i see well i do not send any new ones to new people because there no respond. to be honest i never send rude messages to women that not me i am too nice of guy for that.. "

It's not really about being too nice though... i just want to know what some people think what they accomplish when they send something as blunt as they do. An you know what, it might work for some people... who knows. I understand what this site is for, but Jesus... haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

well i hope he does because your sweet here than others

thanks. i've never replied to him so wouldn't blame him if he didn't.

anyway you had any bad messages off guys coz that's what this topic is about?

i see well i do not send any new ones to new people because there no respond. to be honest i never send rude messages to women that not me i am too nice of guy for that..

There's a time and a place.. But if you're on form.. you can sneak a little smut in, to make somebody laugh or start wondering.. hopefully both. But it's risky "

thanks for the advice maybe one day i try it have fun

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

I'd never message anyone more than once.. unless I forgot to attach my face.. in which case I usually get deleted instantly for committing that crime. "

you should do. sometimes the timing is wrong or you're too hot so we stutter on replying.

like not every week but every few weeks or so give it another try. i do get some women would block though if it annoyed them.so it's risky.

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over a year ago


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs.

If I got that kind of message asking for a social I may consider replying.

Usually most messages from guys staying in a hotel for work are along the lines of "I'm horny and alone in my room, want to come and drain my balls?""

Oh yes. Another classic....or the super long message about what they would do to you if you met in the hotel! Makes me cringe and dry heave with some of them I've read.

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"Too many to mention but the biggest annoying message is "wow you look stunning" when they cant even see a face.. ...."

Definitely this!!

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over a year ago


"Too many to mention but the biggest annoying message is "wow you look stunning" when they cant even see a face.. ....

Definitely this!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to mention but the biggest annoying message is "wow you look stunning" when they cant even see a face.. ...."
this annoys me too! Idiots!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

TBH after 3 1/2 years on here - and with the advantage of old(ish) age - I can honestly say no messages of that nature raise an eyebrow!

The only thing that genuinely bothers me is the bitching and backbiting that goes on behind the scenes with single fems!

Several guys have effectively been bullied into not seeing me again - essentially because I'm 'too popular for my own good' (hot photos etc).

I've spoken to many other women who experience far more problems with other women than they ever do with men, to the extent that some ended up deleting their profiles!

Compared to that - a guy asking me to curl a turd on his chest is nothing!

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over a year ago


"TBH after 3 1/2 years on here - and with the advantage of old(ish) age - I can honestly say no messages of that nature raise an eyebrow!

The only thing that genuinely bothers me is the bitching and backbiting that goes on behind the scenes with single fems!

Several guys have effectively been bullied into not seeing me again - essentially because I'm 'too popular for my own good' (hot photos etc).

I've spoken to many other women who experience far more problems with other women than they ever do with men, to the extent that some ended up deleting their profiles!

Compared to that - a guy asking me to curl a turd on his chest is nothing! "

I've had that just recently, it's nasty & certainly no need for it!

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over a year ago


"I don't know, maybe those irritated by the messages they get could put their filters on and start messaging the people they like instead of waiting for people to message them? "

Women should do this more often! You are so right.

I've kind of given up sending private messages now.. it's hard enough in the forum to get someone's sense of sarcasm.

But in travel a lot with work and only get every other weekend to have fun. Everyone in my area is half an hour from Chams or Xtasia and those places don't appeal to me.

So it's slow going but it's going

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over a year ago


"TBH after 3 1/2 years on here - and with the advantage of old(ish) age - I can honestly say no messages of that nature raise an eyebrow!

The only thing that genuinely bothers me is the bitching and backbiting that goes on behind the scenes with single fems!

Several guys have effectively been bullied into not seeing me again - essentially because I'm 'too popular for my own good' (hot photos etc).

I've spoken to many other women who experience far more problems with other women than they ever do with men, to the extent that some ended up deleting their profiles!

Compared to that - a guy asking me to curl a turd on his chest is nothing! "

I get women messaging guys telling them not to bother with me cos I'm nuts.

I can't argue with that, I am!

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over a year ago


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs.

If I got that kind of message asking for a social I may consider replying.

Usually most messages from guys staying in a hotel for work are along the lines of "I'm horny and alone in my room, want to come and drain my balls?""

So.. you're saying it's my looks and dad bod spoiling it for me then Cheers for that

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over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

well i hope he does because your sweet here than others

thanks. i've never replied to him so wouldn't blame him if he didn't.

anyway you had any bad messages off guys coz that's what this topic is about?

i see well i do not send any new ones to new people because there no respond. to be honest i never send rude messages to women that not me i am too nice of guy for that..

There's a time and a place.. But if you're on form.. you can sneak a little smut in, to make somebody laugh or start wondering.. hopefully both. But it's risky

thanks for the advice maybe one day i try it have fun "

Awwwww mate.. So long as you're not sending out impregnate messages.. you're doing better than half the other guys. You're already ahead of some blokes with great bods and big knobs.

Flirting is hard when you're not used to it.. and it's different with every woman you talk to. Talk to more women on here.. they'll brush off on you.

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over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

I'd never message anyone more than once.. unless I forgot to attach my face.. in which case I usually get deleted instantly for committing that crime.

you should do. sometimes the timing is wrong or you're too hot so we stutter on replying.

like not every week but every few weeks or so give it another try. i do get some women would block though if it annoyed them.so it's risky. "

Ahhh see this is what I struggle with.. it's me at fault now.. But I get a bit like "Oh, like that is it? Fuck ya then" And don't bother going back.. because theirs only so many times you can get rejected and not get a little bitter by it. I'm sure EVERY man on here feels a bit of that.. Added with the fact.. i dont want to become one of "The impregnators" I don't want to pester. And again.. I'm positive there are lots of guys like me out there who feel the same. Trying to maintain a bit of pride in the meat market Plus.. Occasionally.. I've tried that.. still nothing. Which is fine. But why I don't repeat knock

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over a year ago


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs.

If I got that kind of message asking for a social I may consider replying.

Usually most messages from guys staying in a hotel for work are along the lines of "I'm horny and alone in my room, want to come and drain my balls?"

Oh yes. Another classic....or the super long message about what they would do to you if you met in the hotel! Makes me cringe and dry heave with some of them I've read. "

If the short ones don't work

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

I'd never message anyone more than once.. unless I forgot to attach my face.. in which case I usually get deleted instantly for committing that crime.

you should do. sometimes the timing is wrong or you're too hot so we stutter on replying.

like not every week but every few weeks or so give it another try. i do get some women would block though if it annoyed them.so it's risky.

Ahhh see this is what I struggle with.. it's me at fault now.. But I get a bit like "Oh, like that is it? Fuck ya then" And don't bother going back.. because theirs only so many times you can get rejected and not get a little bitter by it. I'm sure EVERY man on here feels a bit of that.. Added with the fact.. i dont want to become one of "The impregnators" I don't want to pester. And again.. I'm positive there are lots of guys like me out there who feel the same. Trying to maintain a bit of pride in the meat market Plus.. Occasionally.. I've tried that.. still nothing. Which is fine. But why I don't repeat knock"

sorry did sound like i was demanding that, was just saying.

i'm gonna start adding guys to my hotlist who i'm not sure about replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs.

If I got that kind of message asking for a social I may consider replying.

Usually most messages from guys staying in a hotel for work are along the lines of "I'm horny and alone in my room, want to come and drain my balls?"

So.. you're saying it's my looks and dad bod spoiling it for me then Cheers for that "

Looking at your pics I would say you look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to mention but the biggest annoying message is "wow you look stunning" when they cant even see a face.. .... this annoys me too! Idiots!"

Can your bodies not be stunning also? I mean I know you lot don't seem to like them much.. But us guys really do.. and there are some great pics.. how can that not be stunning? bit short though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quietly taking notes sat in the corner.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TBH after 3 1/2 years on here - and with the advantage of old(ish) age - I can honestly say no messages of that nature raise an eyebrow!

The only thing that genuinely bothers me is the bitching and backbiting that goes on behind the scenes with single fems!

Several guys have effectively been bullied into not seeing me again - essentially because I'm 'too popular for my own good' (hot photos etc).

I've spoken to many other women who experience far more problems with other women than they ever do with men, to the extent that some ended up deleting their profiles!

Compared to that - a guy asking me to curl a turd on his chest is nothing! "

Really? That's mean girls I'd like to meet lots of you if any of you wanted to.. But my friend warned me it's a bit too close almost to do that.. Which makes sense.

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over a year ago


"TBH after 3 1/2 years on here - and with the advantage of old(ish) age - I can honestly say no messages of that nature raise an eyebrow!

The only thing that genuinely bothers me is the bitching and backbiting that goes on behind the scenes with single fems!

Several guys have effectively been bullied into not seeing me again - essentially because I'm 'too popular for my own good' (hot photos etc).

I've spoken to many other women who experience far more problems with other women than they ever do with men, to the extent that some ended up deleting their profiles!

Compared to that - a guy asking me to curl a turd on his chest is nothing!

I get women messaging guys telling them not to bother with me cos I'm nuts.

I can't argue with that, I am! "

I think we're all a bit nuts here. This morning I challenged all of Fab to have a pop at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one from a man saying

"show me where you shit from" "

That made me laugh. Classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time...

hope he does get in touch with you a lovely lady and friend

thanks. i'm not too fussed if he doesn't though.

I'd never message anyone more than once.. unless I forgot to attach my face.. in which case I usually get deleted instantly for committing that crime.

you should do. sometimes the timing is wrong or you're too hot so we stutter on replying.

like not every week but every few weeks or so give it another try. i do get some women would block though if it annoyed them.so it's risky.

Ahhh see this is what I struggle with.. it's me at fault now.. But I get a bit like "Oh, like that is it? Fuck ya then" And don't bother going back.. because theirs only so many times you can get rejected and not get a little bitter by it. I'm sure EVERY man on here feels a bit of that.. Added with the fact.. i dont want to become one of "The impregnators" I don't want to pester. And again.. I'm positive there are lots of guys like me out there who feel the same. Trying to maintain a bit of pride in the meat market Plus.. Occasionally.. I've tried that.. still nothing. Which is fine. But why I don't repeat knock

sorry did sound like i was demanding that, was just saying.

i'm gonna start adding guys to my hotlist who i'm not sure about replying to."

No not pushy at all I think you lot would be best avoiding all messaged and blocking contact. Nice empty head space. To relax in.. to go send a cracking message to a bloke whose profile you've read and matches your own preferences. That's what I'd do if I were you. I'd also be body confident, big headed and more experienced than most men I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you reply to the message about the showing of where shit comes from..

Its a high bar to set as an ice breaker...

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over a year ago


"I think the most annoying messages are from the travelling sales reps. Staying in the area and wanting you to meet them at their hotel. When you turn them down they say well I will be here next in a couple of weeks, and maybe we can meet then. My reply is you will get the same answer in a couple of weeks so don't bother messaging me. Low and behold two weeks later the message you with the same message they send two weeks earlier

Oh god! Hands up! I've done this.. lots.. from in my truck. About once a month. I only stopped not too long ago.

I don't do it now. It's never worked. I can understand lots of reasons why someone wouldn't want to meet me. But I don't really see where the offence lies here.

Could someone explain this one to me in a way that I'll listen to you.. not have to get in a fight. take the piss by all means.. But that's funny.

If I have a hotel room all night to myself in Halifax for example. I go online and see there are 3 women and two couples online and 5000 men I can't see. I choose my favourite and send a nice message saying I know this is a bit forward, but.. I stay here two nights a week.. is there Any chance we could have a social meet one time?

If I get a reply, it's nearly always a, you seem nice but we only play with locals. It's written in a lot of couples i see.

If the guy is your type and he seemed pretty nice/naughty.. Why is he dismissed out of hand for being a Rep. Or any other worker who travels. A lot of people book hotels specifically for that.

I understand most these guys are asking about the night in question being that night. Which is too last minute for most people.. But if you had warning and time to build the usual social click online.. why dismiss that so readily? Is it the sheer amount? you're fed up of the word hotel

I'd like the answers to loads more of these type questions if anyone wants to enlighten us morons in the finer arts of arranging a meet with random, not forumites and their fan clubs.

If I got that kind of message asking for a social I may consider replying.

Usually most messages from guys staying in a hotel for work are along the lines of "I'm horny and alone in my room, want to come and drain my balls?"

So.. you're saying it's my looks and dad bod spoiling it for me then Cheers for that

Looking at your pics I would say you look good "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Fuck that.. TAG you're it! .. I'm going to bed now.. ask away.. they are very nice once you get to know them But be careful.. there's a few of them.. and they're more dangerous in groups be polite Goodnight all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#goingtogetsavagedbyallthewoman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had all sorts on here. The most common is simply 'suck my cock'

Did have a couple of messages where guys had copied and pasted a first message but left the previous recipients name

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over a year ago


"i mostly got polite ones when my filters were off. some were really nice but i didn't feel like replying to them. did get plenty who thought i was a service as well.

there was one hot guy but i can't meet so shoved my filters back on so as not to get into frustrating conversations. wish i hadn't mass deleted my inbox now coz i'm free tomorrow night and doubt he will message me a 4th time... "
so you cant remember this guys name to message him?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"TBH after 3 1/2 years on here - and with the advantage of old(ish) age - I can honestly say no messages of that nature raise an eyebrow!

The only thing that genuinely bothers me is the bitching and backbiting that goes on behind the scenes with single fems!

Several guys have effectively been bullied into not seeing me again - essentially because I'm 'too popular for my own good' (hot photos etc).

I've spoken to many other women who experience far more problems with other women than they ever do with men, to the extent that some ended up deleting their profiles!

Compared to that - a guy asking me to curl a turd on his chest is nothing!

I get women messaging guys telling them not to bother with me cos I'm nuts.

I can't argue with that, I am! "

Sod 'em!

You're nice nuts!!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"TBH after 3 1/2 years on here - and with the advantage of old(ish) age - I can honestly say no messages of that nature raise an eyebrow!

The only thing that genuinely bothers me is the bitching and backbiting that goes on behind the scenes with single fems!

Several guys have effectively been bullied into not seeing me again - essentially because I'm 'too popular for my own good' (hot photos etc).

I've spoken to many other women who experience far more problems with other women than they ever do with men, to the extent that some ended up deleting their profiles!

Compared to that - a guy asking me to curl a turd on his chest is nothing!

I've had that just recently, it's nasty & certainly no need for it! "

It used to mystify and upset me! After all - there are at least 10 times as many guys on here as women so more than enough to go round!

I'm now convinced though that if there were a million guys on here and only a dozen women - the women would still compete, bitch and argue! It's just the way it is!

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By *lusive.UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Dungeonville

A pic of their cock and a fancy a fuck, or i'm horny message are the worst...

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By *rotic JaneWoman
over a year ago

London

There are loads that boil my blood. Due to what I am looking for I get loads of one line messages like

Phone sex now?

Dirty chat now?

Of course I get the one line messages all ladies on here get

Fuck now?

Meet now?

What part of London you at?

Other ones that boil my blood are

Great profile. When it is clear they have not read it.

You are very sexy. How do they no I have no pics up.

I also hate the copy and paste messages they have sent to hundreds of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i just say you have the best tits on fab!!..really? Didnt i see you say that to someone else too on the forums lol. Why do they think we are so gullible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the can u use me as a toilet messages, the doctor u like to dominate guys messages, the ur stunning messages, the wanna meet now messages and the I'm in ur area messages I just delete them then I get the guys who keep messaging me every time they think I'm horny and want to fuck them lol and the long arsed if we met in a hotel/bar I'd do this to u ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads that boil my blood. Due to what I am looking for I get loads of one line messages like

Phone sex now?

Dirty chat now?

Of course I get the one line messages all ladies on here get

Fuck now?

Meet now?

What part of London you at?

Other ones that boil my blood are

Great profile. When it is clear they have not read it.

You are very sexy. How do they no I have no pics up.

I also hate the copy and paste messages they have sent to hundreds of women. "

Saved me typing ...generally all this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get many odd messages - dont think id let any really make me angry if i had never heard from them before - if it was off a person id met - or messged for a while then that would be different

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't know if there are any any more. Actually, the ones which state how much they like/want to try what ever ethnicity they think I am get an eye roll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"#goingtogetsavagedbyallthewoman..."

#onlyifyourelucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site full of genital pics dripping with cum, explicit reviews of what sex acts people offer and how good they are at it, pics of people having sex.

Nothing offends me. I find it odd that people are surprised when they get a 'fancy a fuck' type message. It's not a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many people that whine about the messages they get, actually ever send the first message themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read most of my messages. Apparently that makes me rude,lacking in manners and up my own arse. But... it also means I have plenty of time to chat to those I'm interested in and, from the sounds of it, my fab experience is so much happier because of it. No piss boiling here. Who's the loser?

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"I hate it when women message me asking to come around that very moment and fuck them senseless. I'm not just a fine, prime cut, butcher's choice slab of meat.

I'd quite like time to finish my cup of tea first anyway."
ffS lib just put it in a flask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't read most of my messages. Apparently that makes me rude,lacking in manners and up my own arse. But... it also means I have plenty of time to chat to those I'm interested in and, from the sounds of it, my fab experience is so much happier because of it. No piss boiling here. Who's the loser? "

I dont think a lot of guys realise how many of us are online and how many messages you all get.. so you can understand if they're a bit upset at all the rejection. No need to get bitchy about it though because they're hardly improving their chances for the future when they do start to understand this place well enough to get the odd message or reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know, maybe those irritated by the messages they get could put their filters on and start messaging the people they like instead of waiting for people to message them?

Women should do this more often! You are so right. "

I'm getting far less messages now that I've put on our profile that were only meeting via clubs. We also have our filters on but the messages still get through! A few days ago I read one that simply asked, 'Bareback?'

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I don't know, maybe those irritated by the messages they get could put their filters on and start messaging the people they like instead of waiting for people to message them?

Women should do this more often! You are so right.

I'm getting far less messages now that I've put on our profile that were only meeting via clubs. We also have our filters on but the messages still get through! A few days ago I read one that simply asked, 'Bareback?' "

Oh I've had that one a few times!

Sent one back saying 'Yeah, it is at the moment - but any minute now I'm putting a T shirt on!'

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What you up to" is a common one... bloody stupid question, I'm obviously reading a crap message on Fab.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and be respectful usually with a face pic to see if there attracted to me etc and a nice icebreaker x never sure what woman wamt in the first message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, if the peripheral nonsense of Planet Fab ever gets to the point of mildly irksome, I'll just hang up my heels and go. This is a place for fun and frippery.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am supprised at the odd messages you ladies get, there are certain level of messages that I would only send if I knew the person and even then I wouldn't send details

For example I fantasise certain things about certain people, I don't think I have ever told them though because I very much doubt that they would ever be interested lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Do you like younger men?" " Hi, we are a couple looking for a single bi female" " I am a dom male looking for a sub" oh and ones from people with no face! Ya know, the ones that have clearly not read my profile, then think I am rude for deleting unread...well they would've known I would if they had read eh?!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Looking for fun to which I reply cool hope you find some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always as nice as posible because like a smile it cost u nothing to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send Fancy a fuck messages with 14 cock pics attached, all at a slightly different angle.

It is my mission to spoil it for every other bloke on here!

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By *r ed300Man
over a year ago

bradford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one today saying I want to make love to you?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a site full of genital pics dripping with cum, explicit reviews of what sex acts people offer and how good they are at it, pics of people having sex.

Nothing offends me. I find it odd that people are surprised when they get a 'fancy a fuck' type message. It's not a dating site. "

I find it odd that people actually expect a favourable response to " fancy a fuck"

Do they really, honestly think they will get a " oooh yes please. I'll come right away"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

That's fecking disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the ones who want to impregnate me, suck on my used tampons or want me to use them as a toilet.

That's fecking disgusting "

Oh no! Those are the ones I have the most fun with. I can usually sort the men from the boys. I like listening to their screams as they run away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who send two messages and just because you reply they assume they are in there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got one today saying I want to make love to you?!? "

That made me chuckle

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Had too many to list.

Some real beauts as well. I think the worst was "can we meet and fuck". Not to be outdone is "meet in a pub and I'll finger you under the table" etc etc etc

Guys know I'm a stunner even though they've never seen my face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady in disguise here... honestly.

Mine are... profile says good conversation needed to stimulate the mind... i think bingo finally. Carefully crafted message not too long ...to the point bit of humour and something of interest in their profile.

Their response is 'lol' or ' maybe' or 'sounds good' . All of which clearly showed they couldn't answer any question in it.

Now coffee is going to taste good but the rest probably as good as their reply.

Off to message some more and piss my boil...I'm mean boil my piss.

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