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By *appy squirrel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life? "

When I had the body, I worried about it. Now I don't, I couldn't care less. I've not got the perfect body by any means.. But I know it doesn't matter to the people I meet. So I strut my stuff. I wish more women were body confident, because most of you are already sexier than any woman on POF. You deserve that confidence for being brave enough to step up to the plate on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life?

When I had the body, I worried about it. Now I don't, I couldn't care less. I've not got the perfect body by any means.. But I know it doesn't matter to the people I meet. So I strut my stuff. I wish more women were body confident, because most of you are already sexier than any woman on POF. You deserve that confidence for being brave enough to step up to the plate on here."

They're usually a bit more confident about themselves after a night with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've never been particularly body confident but that's never really bothered me; I am aware that pretty much everyone has something they don't like about their bodies and I often don't see it as a flaw - therefore how I feel about my podginess probably doesn't really matter to other people either. I've always been face confident though and that's something being on here has had no opportunity to have an effect on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I never used to be very body conscious but now I am and I think it might have been better had I not become like that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Podge is a good word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like. "

I think you look great.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been here for nearly 9 years and my body has got soft in the middle since then, it used to bother me, now I'm just a classic cynic and don't believe any compliment that is given willy nilly as we all know most men will just say what they think you want to hear, I am a bit sad at how cynical I become though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been particularly body confident but that's never really bothered me; I am aware that pretty much everyone has something they don't like about their bodies and I often don't see it as a flaw - therefore how I feel about my podginess probably doesn't really matter to other people either. I've always been face confident though and that's something being on here has had no opportunity to have an effect on."

You've also got a wonderful body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like.

I think you look great."

Yeah I know and thanks, but I've looked a lot better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never used to be very body conscious but now I am and I think it might have been better had I not become like that. "

Your ripped mate, don't stress the small stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like.

I think you look great.

Yeah I know and thanks, but I've looked a lot better. "

So.. doesn't mean we're not still sexy, or entitled to feel sexy. Fuck what superficial people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like. "

Wow if that's you when your not in the best shape you must be pretty damn perfect when you are babes but I get what your saying you know you best right xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing this has definitely increased my body confidence.

The whole dressing up and flirting does wonders for your self esteem. I see all different shapes and sizes of bodies in the clubs but the atmosphere (and no doubt alcohol) seems to bring buckets of confidence with it and its such a liberating feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men want slim women not curvy women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men want slim women not curvy women "

Not at all

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ...

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By *appy squirrel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

have to say I am in a good place at the moment- still amazed that people wanna fuck me at times though. and no- I am not fishing for compliments that's just how it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like.

Wow if that's you when your not in the best shape you must be pretty damn perfect when you are babes but I get what your saying you know you best right xxx"

Thanks, I've just had a lot of stress the last 16 months and I've hit food hard and all the bad shit as well.

Never mind

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life?

When I had the body, I worried about it. Now I don't, I couldn't care less. I've not got the perfect body by any means.. But I know it doesn't matter to the people I meet. So I strut my stuff. I wish more women were body confident, because most of you are already sexier than any woman on POF. You deserve that confidence for being brave enough to step up to the plate on here."

Exactly the same here TS - worried about it constantly when I had it, like the sky was going to fall in if I put on a pound or two or lost a bit of muscle tone. Then realised that happiness is more than skin deep (or some such fortune cookie nonsense )

Now I think I'm flipping fabulous.

But that was more my other half's fault rather than fab's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a vagina, sign up to fab swingers and you feel like a page 3 model the fact the you actually look like Susan Boyles ugly sister isn't apparent, but if your a bloke you could be Brad Pitt's taller, more handsome brother, with a great personality to match but Susan's still getting 1,000,000 times the mail you will get with 1,000,000 more better opportunities than you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Men want slim women not curvy women "
I don't. I prefer a woman to be curvy.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life?

When I had the body, I worried about it. Now I don't, I couldn't care less. I've not got the perfect body by any means.. But I know it doesn't matter to the people I meet. So I strut my stuff. I wish more women were body confident, because most of you are already sexier than any woman on POF. You deserve that confidence for being brave enough to step up to the plate on here.

Exactly the same here TS - worried about it constantly when I had it, like the sky was going to fall in if I put on a pound or two or lost a bit of muscle tone. Then realised that happiness is more than skin deep (or some such fortune cookie nonsense )

Now I think I'm flipping fabulous.

But that was more my other half's fault rather than fab's "

Never felt better within myself since being with Si and being on here have never felt so sexy and desired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a vagina, sign up to fab swingers and you feel like a page 3 model the fact the you actually look like Susan Boyles ugly sister isn't apparent, but if your a bloke you could be Brad Pitt's taller, more handsome brother, with a great personality to match but Susan's still getting 1,000,000 times the mail you will get with 1,000,000 more better opportunities than you"

I don't get that much mail. Not many men match my age preferences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life? "

I'm trying to be more confident but struggle massively with it. It's nice to get the compliments about my body in here and from mr more importantly but I don't see myself the same. I think I feel sexual rather than sexy. X

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ... "

This hasn't changed me due to cyber space attraction as its not the real world and I keep it real.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Men want slim women not curvy women "

The amount of abuse I have endured on here is unbelievable, because I wont just drop my knickers for any man that messages, makes me up my own arse or above my station purely because I am slim.

It has also made people (complete strangers, (women) gossip about me behind my back and make up complete lies) Why? I actually have no idea, some men have said because I am a threat, though I don't believe that for one minute as I hardly ever meet, but people are such a weird species I've given up trying to understand the whys and wherefores

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I'm actually going through a real body confidence low at the moment. Not entirely sure why, no one has said anything horrible to me, but it's totally in my boots just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like.

Wow if that's you when your not in the best shape you must be pretty damn perfect when you are babes but I get what your saying you know you best right xxx"

That's what i mean about women and body confidence.

Men.. back me up here! One of the sexiest sights in the world is a woman prancing round your bedroom without a care in the world.

But I'd better wind my neck in, or I'll get accused of all sorts of blasphemous things.

If I wasn't worried about gossip and catty attitudes on here now. My veri list would be an open book.. and you'd find the sexiest people on Fab. And only one is a what most of us would class a slim.

It can be quite shallow here really at times, can't it?

Know it all, advisor, moaning white knight out for tonight now.. Enjoy your night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men want slim women not curvy women "

Don't swear at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a vagina, sign up to fab swingers and you feel like a page 3 model the fact the you actually look like Susan Boyles ugly sister isn't apparent, but if your a bloke you could be Brad Pitt's taller, more handsome brother, with a great personality to match but Susan's still getting 1,000,000 times the mail you will get with 1,000,000 more better opportunities than you

I don't get that much mail. Not many men match my age preferences!"
Apples and oranges it doesn't change that these are facts of this website. You are deliberately narrowing down and limiting your options simply because you don't want to be overloaded with choice, kind of point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ... "

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually going through a real body confidence low at the moment. Not entirely sure why, no one has said anything horrible to me, but it's totally in my boots just now "

I'm sure I've seen your profile photo pop up before. Again another case of.. wtf!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do, even though I've not had much interest (I appreciate I am very new), I've started wearing my tie at work even though we're on relaxed uniform for summer, shaving more and wearing aftershave, I feel better because of the thought of what this all entails...

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By *im and her 2017Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

I've also been abused for not wanting to meet it used to get to me but I don't give a shit now I've got an ass big tits and a belly that's me take me or leave me I really don't care I've got a wonderful husband that loves me so to all you ladies out there love what you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again "
That or hang it all up

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I'm actually going through a real body confidence low at the moment. Not entirely sure why, no one has said anything horrible to me, but it's totally in my boots just now "

Gosh.I hope a cool sweet wind blows right through you carrying the low away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman I've ever been with has had a body confidence issue. Overly concerned about their tone in muscle.. Some dimples on the bum.

Nearly all of you are worrying about nothing. In most cases it's something you can change if you want. But nobody is asking you to. The abuse comes from psychopaths who like to abuse people. So you don't need to be fatbto worry about your physique. Men are just as bad! you all think you need massive guns and six packs. You all worry about the size of your cocks! The beer bellies or pasty skin. Real sexiness in someone is behind the eyes. How they behave, the stuff they ask you, the stuff they tell you and they let you do them.

Many of you are so up your own arse you can't even picture yourselves with anything but perfection. I've sat in this forum for well over two years. Watching you all get het up over small irrelevant shite.

Go find someone who makes you wet yourself laughing and turns Toulon and the same time. That's a real fucking challenge if you've narrowed your search bar to 0.3% Your missing out on life.

Having said that.. the other 50% of you are the polar opposite and legendary characters.

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My attitude towards my body has changed recently - I want to be the fittest and healthiest me possible so that's what I am working towards. I actually have cheekbones now and a clavicle which makes me happy. I think in part fab has played a part in that but meh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

"
Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Every woman I've ever been with has had a body confidence issue. Overly concerned about their tone in muscle.. Some dimples on the bum.

Nearly all of you are worrying about nothing. In most cases it's something you can change if you want. But nobody is asking you to. The abuse comes from psychopaths who like to abuse people. So you don't need to be fatbto worry about your physique. Men are just as bad! you all think you need massive guns and six packs. You all worry about the size of your cocks! The beer bellies or pasty skin. Real sexiness in someone is behind the eyes. How they behave, the stuff they ask you, the stuff they tell you and they let you do them.

Many of you are so up your own arse you can't even picture yourselves with anything but perfection. I've sat in this forum for well over two years. Watching you all get het up over small irrelevant shite.

Go find someone who makes you wet yourself laughing and turns Toulon and the same time. That's a real fucking challenge if you've narrowed your search bar to 0.3% Your missing out on life.

Having said that.. the other 50% of you are the polar opposite and legendary characters. "

So can I ask what do you mean by 'so far up your own arse' comment, as I am actually interested in your definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My attitude towards my body has changed recently - I want to be the fittest and healthiest me possible so that's what I am working towards. I actually have cheekbones now and a clavicle which makes me happy. I think in part fab has played a part in that but meh! "
You have a kissable face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again That or hang it all up "

I think I will be the one to decide when I want to hang it all up. It's not for you to say really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again That or hang it all up

I think I will be the one to decide when I want to hang it all up. It's not for you to say really "
Please do I wouldn't want to make decisions for you it's enough torture trying to choose my own I just gave two suggestions, thanks for taking them on board though

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic."

You are so far off the mark I do not as you put it " shag other men " you silly boy and I'm not going to justify the way I feel to such an ignorant fool like you !!

The guy that posted the long comment spoke with such eloquence, you need to take a leaf out of his book !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic.

You are so far off the mark I do not as you put it " shag other men " you silly boy and I'm not going to justify the way I feel to such an ignorant fool like you !!

The guy that posted the long comment spoke with such eloquence, you need to take a leaf out of his book !!

"
Why because he said what you wanted to hear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body confidence is a strange thing, from my experience I have massive confidence issues and try to workout to eliviate them, but the more I 'improve' my body the more critical I get of it, I hate how 'I see' my body. But one of the reasons you won't see any face pics is because that's we're my confidence nose dives (no pun intended).

I have seen the most body conscious people I've ever met with 'perfect' physique. It's our internal perceptions rather than others that tend to cause the problems.

Being on a site like this, most people message based on appearance (in my experience), therefore people with low self esteem such as myself will find it hard.

But what do I know I just saw the thread and felt like being waaaaay to honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life?

When I had the body, I worried about it. Now I don't, I couldn't care less. I've not got the perfect body by any means.. But I know it doesn't matter to the people I meet. So I strut my stuff. I wish more women were body confident, because most of you are already sexier than any woman on POF. You deserve that confidence for being brave enough to step up to the plate on here.

They're usually a bit more confident about themselves after a night with me "

Are you quoting yourself?

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic.

You are so far off the mark I do not as you put it " shag other men " you silly boy and I'm not going to justify the way I feel to such an ignorant fool like you !!

The guy that posted the long comment spoke with such eloquence, you need to take a leaf out of his book !!

Why because he said what you wanted to hear?"

No because he clearly is a man not a silly boy with nasty comments to make

Oh dear never mind one day you will grow up !!

But maybe not is the more likely outcome !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have always liked my body. I train hard to stay in shape year round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

"

Omg you have to be joking right! Only i know you're not How can this be right? You've all got queues of men lining up to talk to you and dying for a date of their own one day.. with you lot. Something is broken in society for so many to feel this way.

I'll be honest. My preferred body type on a woman has been a size 14 with a bit of body fat so that her bum and boobs have some substance to them. But I'd also be happy meeting most of you on here (theoretically) because lots of you have got other assets like brains, humour, rudeness, naughtiness going for you. Or looks. When you factor in combinations.. my "I'd give her one" or "I'd marry her" Range is very broad. Some things do turn me off though.. I'm not immune. I have and can have the odd shallow thought when I see a photo. That's normal.. But this pressure to become perfect is intense and causing a lot of pain to many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again That or hang it all up

I think I will be the one to decide when I want to hang it all up. It's not for you to say really Please do I wouldn't want to make decisions for you it's enough torture trying to choose my own I just gave two suggestions, thanks for taking them on board though"

Taken them on board?? Hahaha okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic."

Wow i really dont think its appropriate to call a women, with already low self esteem, pathetic. Have some tact!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Men want slim women not curvy women

Not at all "

The men I know appreciate my curves and I have grown to like them too. There's men and women of all shapes and sizes and we find those that we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm in the worst physical shape I've ever been in my entire adult life, including when I'd just given birth!

I've always been slim and cruised between 16 and 22% body fat but the last year and a half I'm the biggest I've ever been, now I know I don't look fat but I know my body and I know I'm bigger than I've ever been, I've got a belly and fat all over which I don't like. "

This exactly. None of my boys agree tho! Which is bloody marvellous!

Your bod is fantastic btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic.

You are so far off the mark I do not as you put it " shag other men " you silly boy and I'm not going to justify the way I feel to such an ignorant fool like you !!

The guy that posted the long comment spoke with such eloquence, you need to take a leaf out of his book !!

Why because he said what you wanted to hear?

No because he clearly is a man not a silly boy with nasty comments to make

Oh dear never mind one day you will grow up !!

But maybe not is the more likely outcome !"
Maybe one day I'll give a shit

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again "

I'm.going to tell you something now pumpkin .

You maybe down on your body but who cares your a 10 end of you will still be a 10 when your in the old peoples home .

Remember my words when the old boys are still chasing you around in your zimmer frame or when your having to bat them off with your walking stick .

Sex appeal is far more than a body shape or looks those who have it like you will always have it .xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ... "

Exactly this. Love yourselves. Then you'll appear confident and start believing 3/10 compliments a man gives you instead of a cynical 1/50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic.

Wow i really dont think its appropriate to call a women, with already low self esteem, pathetic. Have some tact! "
I was trying to make her get a grip of herself she's obviously sexually attractive to many men and even more so to another

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic.

Wow i really dont think its appropriate to call a women, with already low self esteem, pathetic. Have some tact! "

Thank you sweetie I appreciate your support

Anna x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again

I'm.going to tell you something now pumpkin .

You maybe down on your body but who cares your a 10 end of you will still be a 10 when your in the old peoples home .

Remember my words when the old boys are still chasing you around in your zimmer frame or when your having to bat them off with your walking stick .

Sex appeal is far more than a body shape or looks those who have it like you will always have it .xxx"

That is so lovely! I'm quite humbled by that. Coming from one of my favourite forum members too. Thank you sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman I've ever been with has had a body confidence issue. Overly concerned about their tone in muscle.. Some dimples on the bum.

Nearly all of you are worrying about nothing. In most cases it's something you can change if you want. But nobody is asking you to. The abuse comes from psychopaths who like to abuse people. So you don't need to be fatbto worry about your physique. Men are just as bad! you all think you need massive guns and six packs. You all worry about the size of your cocks! The beer bellies or pasty skin. Real sexiness in someone is behind the eyes. How they behave, the stuff they ask you, the stuff they tell you and they let you do them.

Many of you are so up your own arse you can't even picture yourselves with anything but perfection. I've sat in this forum for well over two years. Watching you all get het up over small irrelevant shite.

Go find someone who makes you wet yourself laughing and turns Toulon and the same time. That's a real fucking challenge if you've narrowed your search bar to 0.3% Your missing out on life.

Having said that.. the other 50% of you are the polar opposite and legendary characters.

So can I ask what do you mean by 'so far up your own arse' comment, as I am actually interested in your definition "

Yes.. many of you are now starting to appear to believe you can have anything you want.. at any cost. Fuck other people's emotions, so long as you're fine and getting what you want. Its ugly. I been there, done that as well.. so fuck it.. I'm in.

It's 50% of the planet.. not Fab in particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic.

You are so far off the mark I do not as you put it " shag other men " you silly boy and I'm not going to justify the way I feel to such an ignorant fool like you !!

The guy that posted the long comment spoke with such eloquence, you need to take a leaf out of his book !!

"

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I think Fab can make you feel real extremes in how you feel about your body. In some ways I've become a lot more confident and love going to clubs and taking new pics. I think lots of people have those days though where you can't help but compare yourself unfavourably to other people. That's where you have to remember your own self worth but for some that's easier said than done.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Being on fab has made me (anna) more conscious of how my body looks I've never been that confident but now I'm a lot more self critical than I've ever been I think to the point of considering surgery !!

Stop trying to impress other men then that's your problem your husband or whatever isn't even bothered you shag other men and your still considering mutilating your body to impress men, pathetic."

Fella I'm sure this isn't really you talking . Take a back seat are your really hurting this bad inside you need to lash out like this .

I feel for you fella as its obvious your hurting somehow because only a deeply troubled person could ever write something this nasty for no real reason .

I pity you and hope your life turns around soon as no one deserves to be hurting inside like you clearly are going off of your posts in here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to be well over weight and have lost around 3 stone in about 8 months but have recently joined a gym eat really well as in alot of protein food.Its improved my confidence around ladies no end. i am currently training about 3 times a week and enjoy my new body but as for the ladies i love a curvy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body confidence is a strange thing, from my experience I have massive confidence issues and try to workout to eliviate them, but the more I 'improve' my body the more critical I get of it, I hate how 'I see' my body. But one of the reasons you won't see any face pics is because that's we're my confidence nose dives (no pun intended).

I have seen the most body conscious people I've ever met with 'perfect' physique. It's our internal perceptions rather than others that tend to cause the problems.

Being on a site like this, most people message based on appearance (in my experience), therefore people with low self esteem such as myself will find it hard.

But what do I know I just saw the thread and felt like being waaaaay to honest... "

I see this all the time. My mate is a gym nut.. they're all paranoid as fuck about body fat and guns that lots take steroids and spend fortunes on shit that's no good for their body. Then podgy me walks by like a strutting Rooster (cock?) Because I don't give a fuck anymore.. it's good enough.. to get someone to think about it at least.. if they like what I say. I'd get laughed at if I tried to tense up a six pack... which is why I do it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I have always liked my body. I train hard to stay in shape year round."

good for you

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ...

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?"

Yes however we are talking about body confidence so if you like yourself inside and out you then have that confidence which people are then attracted too! That something you can't put your finger on. How we actually look isnt important...slim curvy etç.

As you get older you don't give a shit, that in its self gives you confidence because I am what I am attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life?

When I had the body, I worried about it. Now I don't, I couldn't care less. I've not got the perfect body by any means.. But I know it doesn't matter to the people I meet. So I strut my stuff. I wish more women were body confident, because most of you are already sexier than any woman on POF. You deserve that confidence for being brave enough to step up to the plate on here.

They're usually a bit more confident about themselves after a night with me

Are you quoting yourself? "

I dunno.. probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i used to be well over weight and have lost around 3 stone in about 8 months but have recently joined a gym eat really well as in alot of protein food.Its improved my confidence around ladies no end. i am currently training about 3 times a week and enjoy my new body but as for the ladies i love a curvy lady "

That is a fantastic achievement. Well done lovely

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life? "

Now I'm older I'm happy in my own skin more than ever before , so yes to the question , and bum OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men want slim women not curvy women

Not at all

The men I know appreciate my curves and I have grown to like them too. There's men and women of all shapes and sizes and we find those that we like. "

Yes! this Now doesn't she sound a bit sexier for thinking that way. Instead of.. Ooooh my fat thighs. A guy has his own worries.. But he feels as if he has to assure you you're lush all the time because you're a bit shy, or self aware. He wants to enjoy being with you and be made to feel special himself with his own doubts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life? "

I have found swinging and hotwifing as a new opportunity to express my sexuality, which I wouldn't otherwise be able to do as a middle aged wife and mum. I've found new ways of being sexy as my body is not what it used to be.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is the lowest it's ever been, if I'm being completely honest. I've had a child which obviously affects the body. I dont even get naked haha. Hopefully with time and a little hard work, I'll get back to the place where I'm comfortable again

I'm.going to tell you something now pumpkin .

You maybe down on your body but who cares your a 10 end of you will still be a 10 when your in the old peoples home .

Remember my words when the old boys are still chasing you around in your zimmer frame or when your having to bat them off with your walking stick .

Sex appeal is far more than a body shape or looks those who have it like you will always have it .xxx"

Go on Son!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ...

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?

Yes however we are talking about body confidence so if you like yourself inside and out you then have that confidence which people are then attracted too! That something you can't put your finger on. How we actually look isnt important...slim curvy etç.

As you get older you don't give a shit, that in its self gives you confidence because I am what I am attitude. "

Then it might help you to start taking a closer look at the man you are with. Is he excited, thrilled? eyes and hands darting everywhere? Those are pretty big hints that I wish would be enough to make you realise there's nothing wrong with any of you.

Even the cunt in the ivory tower laughing at me, preparing the next sabotage of my character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being on here for some time now it has made me far more body conscious about myself as 90% of the guys here are either slim, toned or muscular so I see exactly where people are coming from here about their own concerns about their own bodies.

It doesn't get me down all that much but is spurring me on to do something about which in all fairness can only be a good thing for my health.

Now, where did i leave that snickers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I been on fab I have a lost a lot of weight. I feel a lot better about myself and is all down to some guys on fab making me feel good about myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being on here for some time now it has made me far more body conscious about myself as 90% of the guys here are either slim, toned or muscular so I see exactly where people are coming from here about their own concerns about their own bodies.

It doesn't get me down all that much but is spurring me on to do something about which in all fairness can only be a good thing for my health.

Now, where did i leave that snickers?"

You make a good point.. I felt body aware when I joined. Height, weight and tone.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ...

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?

Yes however we are talking about body confidence so if you like yourself inside and out you then have that confidence which people are then attracted too! That something you can't put your finger on. How we actually look isnt important...slim curvy etç.

As you get older you don't give a shit, that in its self gives you confidence because I am what I am attitude.

Then it might help you to start taking a closer look at the man you are with. Is he excited, thrilled? eyes and hands darting everywhere? Those are pretty big hints that I wish would be enough to make you realise there's nothing wrong with any of you.

Even the cunt in the ivory tower laughing at me, preparing the next sabotage of my character."

What man!! I'll check under the pillow nope no man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I been on fab I have a lost a lot of weight. I feel a lot better about myself and is all down to some guys on fab making me feel good about myself "

I wish they were in here backing me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ...

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?

Yes however we are talking about body confidence so if you like yourself inside and out you then have that confidence which people are then attracted too! That something you can't put your finger on. How we actually look isnt important...slim curvy etç.

As you get older you don't give a shit, that in its self gives you confidence because I am what I am attitude.

Then it might help you to start taking a closer look at the man you are with. Is he excited, thrilled? eyes and hands darting everywhere? Those are pretty big hints that I wish would be enough to make you realise there's nothing wrong with any of you.

Even the cunt in the ivory tower laughing at me, preparing the next sabotage of my character.

What man!! I'll check under the pillow nope no man. "

Man? in the ivory tower? Did I say it was a man? Some women can make men feel very low about themselves as well you know. Men aren't the only monsters on here.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's not really about how we actually look but more how we think and feel we look....you can't expect others to admire you if you don't like yourself first ...

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?

Yes however we are talking about body confidence so if you like yourself inside and out you then have that confidence which people are then attracted too! That something you can't put your finger on. How we actually look isnt important...slim curvy etç.

As you get older you don't give a shit, that in its self gives you confidence because I am what I am attitude.

Then it might help you to start taking a closer look at the man you are with. Is he excited, thrilled? eyes and hands darting everywhere? Those are pretty big hints that I wish would be enough to make you realise there's nothing wrong with any of you.

Even the cunt in the ivory tower laughing at me, preparing the next sabotage of my character.

What man!! I'll check under the pillow nope no man.

Man? in the ivory tower? Did I say it was a man? Some women can make men feel very low about themselves as well you know. Men aren't the only monsters on here. "

I dont think for one moment men are monsters, I very much like them, I can take them or leave them in the big picture I dont let them pull me down life's to short to sweat the small stuff.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I would say only in the last few months has my attitude towards my body really changed. In the past I've not had reason to give it a whole lot of thought or just thought I was plain ugly. I won't deny Fab has given me a boost about my body at times (especially in the early days) but has equally made me feel like crap about my face and body too.

But in recent months my mind has been altered. I won't go into details but certain complimentary things have been said to my face that has totally altered the way I perceive myself to be. Just thinking about it now almost makes me want to cry. It was such a simple thing but it has had a profound effect on me.

It's not like I suddenly see myself as god's gift to women or anything like that but I just no longer see myself as hideous or unattractive, which is how I've felt my whole life. I still wouldn't say I'm 100% happy with my body and certain things still niggle me, but I just feel like I don't need to worry about any of it too much anymore. A weight's been lifted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

I still know I want to change for my own health and happiness but I no longer feel ashamed of myself like I did before I joined Fab.

I see a difference in what I perceive as attractive as well. It works both ways.

Confidence and a real enjoyment of sex means more to me now and attracts me more than what the media portrays as a sexy or perfect figure.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I would say only in the last few months has my attitude towards my body really changed. In the past I've not had reason to give it a whole lot of thought or just thought I was plain ugly. I won't deny Fab has given me a boost about my body at times (especially in the early days) but has equally made me feel like crap about my face and body too.

But in recent months my mind has been altered. I won't go into details but certain complimentary things have been said to my face that has totally altered the way I perceive myself to be. Just thinking about it now almost makes me want to cry. It was such a simple thing but it has had a profound effect on me.

It's not like I suddenly see myself as god's gift to women or anything like that but I just no longer see myself as hideous or unattractive, which is how I've felt my whole life. I still wouldn't say I'm 100% happy with my body and certain things still niggle me, but I just feel like I don't need to worry about any of it too much anymore. A weight's been lifted."

You look great!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say only in the last few months has my attitude towards my body really changed. In the past I've not had reason to give it a whole lot of thought or just thought I was plain ugly. I won't deny Fab has given me a boost about my body at times (especially in the early days) but has equally made me feel like crap about my face and body too.

But in recent months my mind has been altered. I won't go into details but certain complimentary things have been said to my face that has totally altered the way I perceive myself to be. Just thinking about it now almost makes me want to cry. It was such a simple thing but it has had a profound effect on me.

It's not like I suddenly see myself as god's gift to women or anything like that but I just no longer see myself as hideous or unattractive, which is how I've felt my whole life. I still wouldn't say I'm 100% happy with my body and certain things still niggle me, but I just feel like I don't need to worry about any of it too much anymore. A weight's been lifted."

You are a very attractive man, not just physically but mentally too. You have a great sense of humour, you're kind, sensitive, warm and you have a fit body and a very sexy bum.

You just don't know what a gorgeous man you are xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been particularly body conscious. Being on here hasn't altered my opinion of my own bod either.

I like to stay in reasonable shape, one because I enjoy it and two I compete in strongman. As a result aesthetics aren't that important to me, function over form. I've gained 25kg in 3 years and will probably add another 10 in the next 2-3. I'll look how I look now but bigger. I'm fine with that.

I do get some attention on here, my thighs seem to be popular and a lot of women seem to like the rugby player build, fine by me.

I personally think I'm pretty average and just blend in with all the other average bod guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men want slim women not curvy women "

What on earth?! Simmer mystic meg, men can go for whatever they like. As for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life? "

I am fuckin gorgeous.

I'm always gorgeous.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've never thought of myself as particularly attractive at all - I've always known I wasn't unattractive but on nights out when I was younger I never felt I got 'noticed' nor did I have the confidence to seek out those I was attracted to. Pretty much all my relationships have been with people who I've got to know in one way or another before any kind of relationship developed.

A combination of losing a lot of weight in the past 2-3 years and taking steps into *this* life has however changed my self-perception somewhat and made me realise that actually to some (not all) I am attractive and seen as relatively good looking. I still don't totally see it, but definitely have a better sense of self-appreciation than I did - and as a result a heightened level of self-confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took my first ever naked selfie tonight.

Yeah I felt very self conscious about it and uncomfortable doing it... and looked a bit like a rabbit in headlights..

I'm just an ordinary guy not ripped or a gym bunny....and have had weight problems in the past.

Perhaps I'm just not ready yet to put myself out there in that way...

And yes I know how that might sound like double standards when image is an important element to all genders on here.... and a key element of attraction.

I deleted it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, my ex used to make me feel like the most unattractive woman on Earth. Constantly cheating, instead of talking to me about the problems, he felt we had. I got it into my head that it was because my body changed after having our children, that I wasn't good enough, etc..... then I met M and he taught me that the body I have hated for so long is beautiful, that every stretch mark and imperfection tells a story. I used to hate taking pictures of myself naked, now I can finally embrace it for what it is, and not care...... I have finally found the vixen I knew was within, it just needed the right man to let her out!!! ;-P

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By *lusive.UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Dungeonville

I hated my body and everything about it a few months ago. I've been on fab 2 months now and am now quite confident to dress up sexy, flirt around a little and then get naked. I can honestly say joining the scene has made me feel good about all my lumps and bumps.. i've even lost over a stone with all the sexercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has given me more confidence,i dont feel as bad about myself as i did,and age dosent help either,but i must be ok to some,as have made more friends since being on fab than i ever did before fab and they dont judge me,just accept me for who i am,and i am very grateful to them.Its a cruel world,and there are some very rude and ignorant people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say only in the last few months has my attitude towards my body really changed. In the past I've not had reason to give it a whole lot of thought or just thought I was plain ugly. I won't deny Fab has given me a boost about my body at times (especially in the early days) but has equally made me feel like crap about my face and body too.

But in recent months my mind has been altered. I won't go into details but certain complimentary things have been said to my face that has totally altered the way I perceive myself to be. Just thinking about it now almost makes me want to cry. It was such a simple thing but it has had a profound effect on me.

It's not like I suddenly see myself as god's gift to women or anything like that but I just no longer see myself as hideous or unattractive, which is how I've felt my whole life. I still wouldn't say I'm 100% happy with my body and certain things still niggle me, but I just feel like I don't need to worry about any of it too much anymore. A weight's been lifted."
....Nothing wrong with you at all young man,be proud of yourself,we are all somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I been on fab I have a lost a lot of weight. I feel a lot better about myself and is all down to some guys on fab making me feel good about myself

I wish they were in here backing me up."

I don't think you need backing up. Your doing good on your own.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm generally fine with my body, I like to be very fit and improve my physique. It's too easy to be negative if wanting to change things but the starting and end points - with the journey - are all good. I don't expect perfection, just to be happy with how I am. I like to flaunt myself a bit, it's more fun being on a journey and not static. If I feel hesitant about my body around others, it becomes something that activates me to enjoy myself as I am. I've flaws, wobbly bits and no one's designing a mannequin to resemble me anytime soon I'd guess but it's all mine. If in doubt, show those bits and live it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no pics because I can't compete with the women on here. My body attitude has changed completely since I've been on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men want slim women not curvy women

Not at all

The men I know appreciate my curves and I have grown to like them too. There's men and women of all shapes and sizes and we find those that we like.

Yes! this Now doesn't she sound a bit sexier for thinking that way. Instead of.. Ooooh my fat thighs. A guy has his own worries.. But he feels as if he has to assure you you're lush all the time because you're a bit shy, or self aware. He wants to enjoy being with you and be made to feel special himself with his own doubts."

The women always get nice comments on improving their body confidence, but men get told to suck it up. I fucking hate that side of the forums.

Men have body issues too. All this shite about having to look like Brad Pitt with a 6 pack and 9" cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no pics because I can't compete with the women on here. My body attitude has changed completely since I've been on Fab. "
....Its not a competion,you are who you are,you might not be everyones cup of tea like me,but who cares lots like us.Be who you are and dont hide the fact,yes there are plenty of beautiful ladies on fab,but each and everyone of us have our own beauty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, my ex used to make me feel like the most unattractive woman on Earth. Constantly cheating, instead of talking to me about the problems, he felt we had. I got it into my head that it was because my body changed after having our children, that I wasn't good enough, etc..... then I met M and he taught me that the body I have hated for so long is beautiful, that every stretch mark and imperfection tells a story. I used to hate taking pictures of myself naked, now I can finally embrace it for what it is, and not care...... I have finally found the vixen I knew was within, it just needed the right man to let her out!!! ;-P"

My ex made me feel very worried about my bod and looks.

In her defence I think that was her fear of her own body that made her attack mine.

Relationships can really damage self esteem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life? "

Hmmmm... I am certainly less shy about being naked in front of a lady than I once was.

But I don't know if I am more confident from that. Possibly just not quite as much of a frightened rabbit caught in the headlights anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, my ex used to make me feel like the most unattractive woman on Earth. Constantly cheating, instead of talking to me about the problems, he felt we had. I got it into my head that it was because my body changed after having our children, that I wasn't good enough, etc..... then I met M and he taught me that the body I have hated for so long is beautiful, that every stretch mark and imperfection tells a story. I used to hate taking pictures of myself naked, now I can finally embrace it for what it is, and not care...... I have finally found the vixen I knew was within, it just needed the right man to let her out!!! ;-P

My ex made me feel very worried about my bod and looks.

In her defence I think that was her fear of her own body that made her attack mine.

Relationships can really damage self esteem"

Your right their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, my ex used to make me feel like the most unattractive woman on Earth. Constantly cheating, instead of talking to me about the problems, he felt we had. I got it into my head that it was because my body changed after having our children, that I wasn't good enough, etc..... then I met M and he taught me that the body I have hated for so long is beautiful, that every stretch mark and imperfection tells a story. I used to hate taking pictures of myself naked, now I can finally embrace it for what it is, and not care...... I have finally found the vixen I knew was within, it just needed the right man to let her out!!! ;-P

My ex made me feel very worried about my bod and looks.

In her defence I think that was her fear of her own body that made her attack mine.

Relationships can really damage self esteem

Your right their"

You're right, they can very much!! Little did I know then, that he was trying to make me feel the way he has, in order to cover up his dirty double life..... it took a real man to make me realise that it's only pathetic little boys (and girls) who make others feel like crap to feel good about themselves. I've a long way to go, but the relationship I have with my body now is amazing, in comparison to what it was when he was in my life.....

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Ive always been very confident about my body. Joining fab hasnt changed that. Im no adonis i just work with what i was given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange how these men we have all been with,make you feel bad about yourself,with the name calling,and sarcastic remarks,yet when you leave them,they cry like a baby lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting less and less confident about my body, especially when I'm asked to meet guys who work amazingly hard to stay in shape. I have a Buddha belly and need to lose weight but at the moment, can't get motivated.

However, I think being on Fab has helped me to not think I should start knitting and join bingo. I still have some appeal I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let anyone upset me .I move on and block .report ones with fake pics or who are rude .

I'm always polite and expect the same in return .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting less and less confident about my body, especially when I'm asked to meet guys who work amazingly hard to stay in shape. I have a Buddha belly and need to lose weight but at the moment, can't get motivated.

However, I think being on Fab has helped me to not think I should start knitting and join bingo. I still have some appeal I think.

"

Are you kidding love? I only looked as far as two pictures to know you're out of my league, but then I suppose if you're going for the super fit (not me obvs) then it will be easy to be down on yourself x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"right my lovelies- got thinking... I know I am in a very fortunate position here on fab as a single female. has your attitude towards your own body changed? never thought me as particular sexy. and do you still feel the same in normal life?

Hmmmm... I am certainly less shy about being naked in front of a lady than I once was.

But I don't know if I am more confident from that. Possibly just not quite as much of a frightened rabbit caught in the headlights anymore "

You have it all but just dont realise it.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I'm getting less and less confident about my body, especially when I'm asked to meet guys who work amazingly hard to stay in shape. I have a Buddha belly and need to lose weight but at the moment, can't get motivated.

However, I think being on Fab has helped me to not think I should start knitting and join bingo. I still have some appeal I think.

"

Yes you do its called natural sex appeal and you D have it in spades in my opinion .xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my body. I used to be slim but I got ill and piled on weight. Im slowly losing it but its taking time. I get nice things said but I don't really believe them despite knowing some guys are into bigger girls.

I was on here before when I was slim and even then i took the compliments with a pinch of salt though, I guess for me I don't feel sexy unless I can see their reaction in person.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If you have a vagina, sign up to fab swingers and you feel like a page 3 model the fact the you actually look like Susan Boyles ugly sister isn't apparent, but if your a bloke you could be Brad Pitt's taller, more handsome brother, with a great personality to match but Susan's still getting 1,000,000 times the mail you will get with 1,000,000 more better opportunities than you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been slim an when I was it was women who would give me grief. Since putting on weight. Women say you look great , men on dates say I'm too big, some say I'm too small. Mainly too big.

Me I'm at that age I couldn't give a shit. I'm happy in myself.

my belly is big. But you only get one life. If people don't like it. Don't look. I work out an eat healthy ish 80/20.

If you've just had a baby that's different you shouldn't be so hard on yourself it takes a year to fully go back. An that is a massive rapid change.

Size 14 an 13 stone

I want to loose 2stone. I'm not going to make myself missarable doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a size 14 .. 5/8 and feel ok now years hating myself feeling fat now I am ok .. its me ... never going to be slim or fat I am middle size .. its ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it was my new found fuck it I am who I am attitude that helped me take the leap and join fab. I'm bigger than I've ever been but at the same time confident in my skin and not really concerned what others think.

If people find me attractive great if not that's fine.

Someone for everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the bedroom is the one place I actually feel body confident - maybe it's all the hormones etc pumping round my body

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I was body confident when I was 21 stones and a size 22, now I'm a very irritating smug bitch.

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