FabSwingers.com forum: How much are you worth?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you measure you worth as a person? Is it the amount of money you have or the value of your home? What about your job? If you're in a good job, in a good position, are you proud?

What about your family, you've cared for future generations, that's worth something isn't it?

What if you don't have children, and not contributed to continuing the human race, does that mean you are somehow less?

Charity workers, volunteers? Those that do things to help others before themselves, are they worth more?

What do you think, and how do you measure your own worth?

I agree with what I read somewhere, making people smile makes me feel worthwhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome back op

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I don't no wot I'm worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't no wot I'm worth

You feed people? So your worth about 4.95 for a starter.

Boom boom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome back op"

I'm not back. I've got some internet access in a coffee shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I care. A lot.

That makes me feel worthwhile. Not the same as being worth an amount but my family and friends think so

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I don't no wot I'm worth

You feed people? So your worth about 4.95 for a starter.

Boom boom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a worthless piece of shit.

Well, according to an unsolicited PM I got yesterday from someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as someone values me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a worthless piece of shit.

Well, according to an unsolicited PM I got yesterday from someone

That's a thing that bothers me too. Does making someone feel worthless make them feel worth more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a worthless piece of shit.

Well, according to an unsolicited PM I got yesterday from someone

That's a thing that bothers me too. Does making someone feel worthless make them feel worth more?

If it gets them through the day idgaf, life is too short to worry

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

About £4.60

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I care. A lot. "

We Care A Lot - Faith No More

www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQhX8PbNUWI

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"6p"
gizzitus

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm a worthless piece of shit.

Well, according to an unsolicited PM I got yesterday from someone

That's a thing that bothers me too. Does making someone feel worthless make them feel worth more?

Interesting question - but given that a proportion of bullied children grow up to be bullies, potentially yes.

My self-worth is rooted in being happy, so making my loved ones happy makes me very happy

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

About a tenner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are only worth as much as someone values them surely? If I'm irrelevant to a person then I hold no value to them...unless I have something they want then my value to them increases....I think?

Hey sexy Bee

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eleventeen pounds and twelvty pence

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I care. A lot.

We Care A Lot - Faith No More

www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQhX8PbNUWI"

That was totally playing in my head too Ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only feel worth when I'm helping others or when others close to me remind me of my worth to them. I think my grandiosity about my abilities to help people backfires and makes me feel like a depressed superhero who failed to save the world. When I hurt others I feel worthless...especially if I've done something that cannot be fixed. I still wear the scars of guilt and sorrow and regret from past mistakes and they overshadow all the wrongs that were/are done to me. Maybe that's why I can't stay angry at anyone for long. I tend to think I deserved their mistreatment somehow when the lines are blurry. But if the lines are clear.. watch out! I'll know and defend my worth. Verdict, not very much. I'm supposed to be saving more lives and building orphanages and feeding the poor.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

How do you measure you worth as a person? Don't no ill let you do it op

Is it the amount of money you have or the value of your home? Mabey I rent

What about your job? If you're in a good job, in a good position, are you proud? Yes

What about your family, you've cared for future generations, that's worth something isn't it? NA

What if you don't have children, and not contributed to continuing the human race, does that mean you are somehow less? Not shor

Charity workers, volunteers? Those that do things to help others before themselves, are they worth more? I wood hope so. And I do sum volunteering work. Like a voluntary £300 fireworks display for a nursing home

I'll leeve it for you to mark my worth score op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I can answer objectively...

I'm only worth what others think I'm worth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Financially I'm worth a fortune.... Dead

When I leave this mortal coil, my kids get everything, and it's enough for them to not have to worry about money for the rest of their lives, as long as they don't waste it, and if they play it smart, there could possibly be enough for their kids to have comfortable lives, but that's up to them, I've done my bit, if they waste the opportunity it's not going to be bothering me much is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, as a person, you would have to ask those around me what I'm worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a pound, and that's really pushing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm worth what others think I'm worth

Right now about 50 pence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rate it on how much people live and value me and want me in their lives for who I am.

In a capital/materialistic sense I'm doing okay, and stand to be doing way more than okay very soon, but I know for sure I value people and relationships more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hold on I've done some maths and I'm invaluable to my kids cos I'm the only driver in the house, priceless to Fuzz apparently (thank you gorgeous) and I think I could be worth 42p to the Op

Peach x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Wow...such a difficult question..

I think what others had said is spot on that it's up to others to decide.

You've made me realise that I never bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry guys I disagree with a number of you.

Your self worth should come from you how you live your life etc. as well as your family and friends. They'll tell you if you've fucked up.

Not everyone will like me, I've no problem with that, that's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue, however, I feel pretty worthless at the moment.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I suppose to my children I am priceless. To anyone else I have no idea, most days I feel worthless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutely priceless......

To my family. No financial recompense could replace me!!

Financially I'm worth fuck all and I don't care. I came into the world stark naked and without two pennies to rub together and that's the way I'll leave.

I don't judge anyone by how financially useful they are to me either.

I've worked for nothing, I've helped complete strangers out of the kindness of my heart.

I think I'm quite a nice person, not perfect but I have self worth and I know I'm priceless to my family and that's all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm worth what others think I'm worth

Right now about 50 pence "

I think your priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm worth what others think I'm worth

Right now about 50 pence

I think your priceless

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I suppose to my children I am priceless. To anyone else I have no idea, most days I feel worthless "

I personally think you worth at least a couple of pints down the local on a Wednesday night possible even a bag of crisps to xxx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I suppose to my children I am priceless. To anyone else I have no idea, most days I feel worthless

I personally think you worth at least a couple of pints down the local on a Wednesday night possible even a bag of crisps to xxx"

Can I have 4 halves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm valued at twelvety four and a half points on the SWSE (Self Worth Stock Exchange), down about three hundred percent from my all time high in 2002, but not quite at the all time low of 2015 either. Could be worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm worth a lot.

Money wise, not so much. I see my value through the eyes of the people I love and who love me. Especially my children. How would I be able to bring them up to value themselves if I felt I was lacking in worth?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I suppose to my children I am priceless. To anyone else I have no idea, most days I feel worthless

I personally think you worth at least a couple of pints down the local on a Wednesday night possible even a bag of crisps to xxx

Can I have 4 halves? "

Of coarse you can as long as you promise not to burb your way through the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is that I'm worth it *flips hair*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is that I'm worth it *flips hair*"

And all the tea in China

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"All I know is that I'm worth it *flips hair*"

Yes you are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is that I'm worth it *flips hair*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 star bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having an expensive car parked on an expensive driveway outside an expensive house usually means you just owe the bank a lot of money

I measure myself on my ability to go through life not being a cunt towards other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And by not having kids I'm doing the human race a bigger favour.

The last thing we need at the moment is yet more people on the planet. Over population will be an ever increasing problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't even begin to put a value on myself. To my children and family I'd be priceless. To others around me my value is in what I can do for them. To myself I'm not worth anything.

I have no money and don't own property so have nothing of value to pass on. Though I do a lot of charitable work so I suppose there is value in that. But to repeat what others have said, you'd have to ask other people what I'm worth to them x

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Apparently I'm worth 4 weeks in a 5 star hotel in Thailand, all expenses paid

... as most of the other women here would be too I'd imagine.

In reality, I'm probably only worth a last minute weekend deal in a no star Southend B&B - in the depths of winter! If that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One meeeeeelion dollars *puts pinky in his mouth*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm interesting question MisterBee hats off to you

Don't know how I would value my personal worth but if we were talking in £££ terms probably a few Billions!!

this is one expensive crispy duck dish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it would depend who you ask, to some if be worth my weight in gold but to others I wouldn't be worth my weight in scrap iron, it's all relative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Financially I'm worth more dead than alive. I have some debt but a good pension and death in service benefit that would see my family were ok.

In terms of character i volunteer in my free time and give a lot back to children and adults in my local community. I bumped into a parent of a young person I've supported before in the supermarket and he was really keen for me to pay his son and the wider group a visit soon. Can't beat feeling like you add value to people's lives and parents recognise it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are only worth as much as someone values them surely? If I'm irrelevant to a person then I hold no value to them...unless I have something they want then my value to them increases....I think?

Hey sexy Bee

Peach x"

Exactly this. As for self worth...

I suppose that's down to personal achievement, if we feel we have the things we need and want, whether we're where we need to be in life, if we feel our efforts are being rewarded. That kind of thing.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not very materialistic. I own my house, the car I drive is newish and I have money in the bank. But I prefer to see the worth in people much more than the assets they have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apparently I'm worth 4 weeks in a 5 star hotel in Thailand, all expenses paid

... as most of the other women here would be too I'd imagine.

In reality, I'm probably only worth a last minute weekend deal in a no star Southend B&B - in the depths of winter! If that."

How about 1 hr in a travel lodge?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One meeeeeelion dollars *puts pinky in his mouth* "

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'm happy and that's priceless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose it would depend who you ask, to some if be worth my weight in gold but to others I wouldn't be worth my weight in scrap iron, it's all relative.

I think that goes for us all.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"Apparently I'm worth 4 weeks in a 5 star hotel in Thailand, all expenses paid

... as most of the other women here would be too I'd imagine.

In reality, I'm probably only worth a last minute weekend deal in a no star Southend B&B - in the depths of winter! If that.

How about 1 hr in a travel lodge?

... even I think I'm worth a bit more than an hour!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apparently I'm worth 4 weeks in a 5 star hotel in Thailand, all expenses paid

... as most of the other women here would be too I'd imagine.

In reality, I'm probably only worth a last minute weekend deal in a no star Southend B&B - in the depths of winter! If that.

How about 1 hr in a travel lodge?

... even I think I'm worth a bit more than an hour!"

Anymore than 2 hrs and you don't get free parking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bob Marley Quote:

Some people are so poor all they have is money

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I like to think im priceless, sometimes boo wishes she could give me away for free....same thing Just a very different perspective lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my house is paid for - i have nothing left each month from my wages - and i have a credit card i owe some on - but im priceless to some and to others im worthless - so no conclusion there i guess

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"6p"
6d

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6p6d

some people here wont get that

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Someone calculated the value of the minerals in an average body to be about 8p.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I judge my wealth on my fridge as long as it's full and I have a roof over my head I consider myself lucky

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

It's very simple to define wealth:

"A person is wealthy if they get up in the morning and go to bed at night and in between do what they want".

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

More than fucking gold...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my family I am priceless and irreplaceable, or so they think. I think about my mortality fairly often due to various reasons, so I try to discourage this

To everyone else, who knows?

I think I value myself fairly highly. I won't do immoral things, or drop standards I have.

Material wise- hardly anything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m worth fucking (I hope) XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone calculated the value of the minerals in an average body to be about 8p."

That makes that PM offer I got last month, a whole lot clearer.

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