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Failed meet, lucky escape

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By *eerob OP   Couple
over a year ago

solihull

Just occasionally people can't make a meet for legitimate reasons. We had a meet arranged for today, migraine struck my partner and I informed the other couple as soon as possible that this was the situation. No reply or concern to this, resulting in us having to call out an out of hours gp. We got blocked and sarcastic reply from the other couple. Thankfully my partner is just starting to recover after 36 difficult hours. The result of this is thank goodness we didn't meet this obnoxious unsympaphetic couple...

There are legitimate reasons sometimes.. We would have rearranged the meet but niwvjust feel we've had a lucky escape.. Has anyone else had the same annoying/frustrating experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just occasionally people can't make a meet for legitimate reasons. We had a meet arranged for today, migraine struck my partner and I informed the other couple as soon as possible that this was the situation. No reply or concern to this, resulting in us having to call out an out of hours gp. We got blocked and sarcastic reply from the other couple. Thankfully my partner is just starting to recover after 36 difficult hours. The result of this is thank goodness we didn't meet this obnoxious unsympaphetic couple...

There are legitimate reasons sometimes.. We would have rearranged the meet but niwvjust feel we've had a lucky escape.. Has anyone else had the same annoying/frustrating experience"

Yes, had a meet arranged and unexpectedly my period came early. Told the couple and it ended up just falling apart. Turns out he was more interested in me than she was comfortable with and it soon showed. So grateful we didn't meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree. Been there myself. Sometimes there are callous, illnesses or other things that are unavoidable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life comes first, meets can be rearranged.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've only cancelled two meets, gave a day or two notice and said something came up. Both guys were totally cool about it and we rearranged for a week or two after. Ive been lucky in that regard. I've not had anyone cancel on me yet, a couple of no shows which is different altogether.

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By *eerob OP   Couple
over a year ago

solihull

It's the first time out of 20 plus meets we've had to call it off. We didn't just not turn up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the first time out of 20 plus meets we've had to call it off. We didn't just not turn up... "

In all seriousness though. How are you feeling now? They (migraines) can be fully debilitating.

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By *eerob OP   Couple
over a year ago

solihull

Just at the bad hangover stage now.. Still doesn't feel like eating but feel like life may continue. Thanks for asking. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just at the bad hangover stage now.. Still doesn't feel like eating but feel like life may continue. Thanks for asking. Xx"

Horrible stage but at least you can see the light at the end of the tunnel (and it not kill your eyes!).

Make sure you’re drinking plenty. Often forget to drink when you feel too ill to move x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Just occasionally people can't make a meet for legitimate reasons. We had a meet arranged for today, migraine struck my partner and I informed the other couple as soon as possible that this was the situation. No reply or concern to this, resulting in us having to call out an out of hours gp. We got blocked and sarcastic reply from the other couple. Thankfully my partner is just starting to recover after 36 difficult hours. The result of this is thank goodness we didn't meet this obnoxious unsympaphetic couple...

There are legitimate reasons sometimes.. We would have rearranged the meet but niwvjust feel we've had a lucky escape.. Has anyone else had the same annoying/frustrating experience"
hope all is ok now xx

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By *eerob OP   Couple
over a year ago

solihull

Thanks.. I've lived with it for years.. My vision has returned and no lights anymore.. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks.. I've lived with it for years.. My vision has returned and no lights anymore.. Xx"

Awww Good xx

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By *eerob OP   Couple
over a year ago

solihull

Just dissapointed that there are some on here that can be such insensitive knob heads...

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Glad you're feeling better OP.

I can understand them being a bit disappointed that you cancelled the meet but there's no need to be arsy about it. I agree, it does sound like a lucky escape.

I've only had to cancel one meet so far. It was with a regular FB and he was feeling a bit under the weather and thinking about cancelling too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuff happens. We all have to cancel meets at times. It's not like you didn't communicate with them clearly so I can't see why they'd be so rude.

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

If they can't wait for the right time then they aren't worth your time tbh.

Save your energy for someone worthy of your time.

I've had meets cancelled on me and I just say no probs, we'll rearrange. only one never has.

Win some,you lose some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just occasionally people can't make a meet for legitimate reasons. We had a meet arranged for today, migraine struck my partner and I informed the other couple as soon as possible that this was the situation. No reply or concern to this, resulting in us having to call out an out of hours gp. We got blocked and sarcastic reply from the other couple. Thankfully my partner is just starting to recover after 36 difficult hours. The result of this is thank goodness we didn't meet this obnoxious unsympaphetic couple...

There are legitimate reasons sometimes.. We would have rearranged the meet but niwvjust feel we've had a lucky escape.. Has anyone else had the same annoying/frustrating experience"

Perhaps your situation was the straw that broke the camel's back of numerous let downs. They are probably cynical as opposed to noxious. Just move onwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just occasionally people can't make a meet for legitimate reasons. We had a meet arranged for today, migraine struck my partner and I informed the other couple as soon as possible that this was the situation. No reply or concern to this, resulting in us having to call out an out of hours gp. We got blocked and sarcastic reply from the other couple. Thankfully my partner is just starting to recover after 36 difficult hours. The result of this is thank goodness we didn't meet this obnoxious unsympaphetic couple...

There are legitimate reasons sometimes.. We would have rearranged the meet but niwvjust feel we've had a lucky escape.. Has anyone else had the same annoying/frustrating experience

Perhaps your situation was the straw that broke the camel's back of numerous let downs. They are probably cynical as opposed to noxious. Just move onwards."

Or even obnoxious

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