FabSwingers.com forum: Forum Irritations!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry about that

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fabbers asking for advice that no one on here can give when it's usually a case of communicating better with people around them.

So irritating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you want me to give snippets of information about myself anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a smooth willy today, today's useless and irrelevant info'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew it's not me then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabbers asking for advice that no one on here can give when it's usually a case of communicating better with people around them.

So irritating.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really need to stop doing that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't you want me to give snippets of information about myself anymore?

Of course, that's how people's personality comes through, however not every single thread one posts on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....

F*** off then!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....

F*** off then!"

And that being nice soxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest irritation has to be men being angry as to why they haven't had a meetbon here..... maybe if you sort your attitude out instead of harassing us hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....

F*** off then!

And that being nice soxy

Much appreciated needle dick

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank.

Same

Mr Middle-aged boring git here tends towards A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'Why don't women reply to every single message' threads, just too repetitive, and the 'look at me' threads - although there is often joy watching forumites take the OP down in myriad creative ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank.

Same

Mr Middle-aged boring git here tends towards A

Mrs Middle-aged boring git here tends towards making lots of audible 'huffing and puffing' type of noises then chooses A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get slightly vexed when people ramble on about their day and what they have been upto on say a wander in the hills . Then go off at a tangent about how beautiful the day is ans the stars or the sky and clouds . Or witter on about how their pet is how they feel or what they said .

They just never get to the point just endlessly womble on with their daft musings

Pooch ,,, don't tell Taff i nicked his phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank.

Same

And then C

Mr Middle-aged boring git here tends towards A

Mrs Middle-aged boring git here tends towards making lots of audible 'huffing and puffing' type of noises then chooses A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo'er I've thought of one.....

Threads claiming the 80's and 90's were the best for music......

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

" or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!

That does my head in too

Ray

Single

Living in Brighton

Looking for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I think one of the culprits could be me XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OMG I think one of the culprits could be me XXX"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just scroll past after reading something that annoys me. I huff and puff to myself then think did it life's too short x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pleading for advice on their profiles.

Really annoys the hell out of me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just scroll past after reading something that annoys me. I huff and puff to myself then think did it life's too short x "

I should do this however I'm so wound up by it, and I have no idea why.

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Pleading for advice on their profiles.

Really annoys the hell out of me..."

Seems to have been a lot of this recently.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The threads from men who think they are so entitled that think any woman on here should just drop their knickers to anyone that messages.

And the men who are really scary, their wording of threads show their true contempt against the females on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

" or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!

That does my head in too

Ray

Single

Living in Brighton

Looking for meets

Off to put the kettle on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing irritates me much on here (except people pasting song lyrics, then others quoting them to give them a thumbs up, meaning I have lots of scrolling ). I feel sorry for some people though.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"The threads from men who think they are so entitled that think any woman on here should just drop their knickers to anyone that messages.

And the men who are really scary, their wording of threads show their true contempt against the females on here

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Ones who ask for profile advice and then give nothing but attitude back

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Oooo'er I've thought of one.....

Threads claiming the 80's and 90's were the best for music......

Well they were!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ones who ask for profile advice and then give nothing but attitude back

Or totally ignore the advice, don't comment again on the thread, then start another asking the same thing!!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ones who ask for advice but don't give the full story! Usually couples. Yes I know it's 'private' but they've come here for advice, get narky when someone offers a solution then tells us to mind our own business! What the f**k just tell us the whole story!!!

Proper gets my goat does this.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I can't say that I find the forums irritating.

I simply bypass the repeat offenders.

Though I do sometimes get caught up in discussions that are not directly related to the original thread. Sorry

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Ones who ask for profile advice and then give nothing but attitude back

Or totally ignore the advice, don't comment again on the thread, then start another asking the same thing!!!"

I just think they're sad / desperate and use it as a "look at me".

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a lot of people using the forum to be just plain boring.

Same thread everyday, at first i won't lie i thought it was fun, after using the forum for 2/3months..... This is booooooriiiiiing ! And tbh, the forum is making me think about leaving Fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The attention seeking and drama are just pathetic also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank. "

I bet you've perfected wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OMG I think one of the culprits could be me XXX

Nope

Phew......xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The attention seeking and drama are just pathetic also."

Hmmmm

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

But now and again they give us classic gold like yesterday's "teacher shaving her doggy"

Makes all the sh.t posts worth putting up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But now and again they give us classic gold like yesterday's "teacher shaving her doggy"

Makes all the sh.t posts worth putting up with "

Shitposting that's the word i was thinking about, seems like a lot of people don't mind shitposting as long as they have a bit of attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day! "

Agreed, alongside the people who have fabbed each other to death and the tunes one in which no one really cares what the other people are listening to

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

I'm too easily pleased - sometimes - but experience is a wonderful thing, letting me know when a threads not my cuppa or it's lost it.

We could have a newopic area, unofficially termed shit, where people post shite stuff. Shite meet success etc. Users could click a turd icon to get threads moved from the lounge into it too. Voila, everyone is happy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Newopic is new topic

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day! "

This irritates me too.

Snog, fuck, avoid - wtf

Kiss or pint - wtf

Send a pic to the person above - nope

Comment on the person above - nope

This goes on too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"But now and again they give us classic gold like yesterday's "teacher shaving her doggy"

Makes all the sh.t posts worth putting up with

Shitposting that's the word i was thinking about, seems like a lot of people don't mind shitposting as long as they have a bit of attention."

I don't mind someone starting a shit post of there own it's those that hijack someone else's thread that pees me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact forums get closed when they get to about 170 items.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Using the forums to swap messages with your meet. We get it; you're sooooo in demand you need everyone else on Fab to know that you're meeting people. Zzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....

F*** off then!"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I don't get irritated easily.

People tend to get irritated with the things they don't like about themselves.

Projection is a bastard but it's often crystal in it's reflection.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

That if you tell someone to go fuck themselves you get put on the naughty step. I'm aware it's necessary and understand it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day!

This irritates me too.

Snog, fuck, avoid - wtf

Kiss or pint - wtf

Send a pic to the person above - nope

Comment on the person above - nope

This goes on too much! "

Ignore those threads then, it really isn't hard to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using the forums to swap messages with your meet. We get it; you're sooooo in demand you need everyone else on Fab to know that you're meeting people. Zzzzzzz

Lamppost pissing at its finest

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Using the forums to swap messages with your meet. We get it; you're sooooo in demand you need everyone else on Fab to know that you're meeting people. Zzzzzzz

Lamppost pissing at its finest

Naaaawwwww I think it's sweet. Fills me with a fuzzy belly when I see it. Let people enjoy themselves and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using the forums to get there pics fabs .. so they can make the front page . lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"That if you tell someone to go fuck themselves you get put on the naughty step. I'm aware it's necessary and understand it though."

Or as the quote below says, 'we know you have fucked each other big deal, get over yourselves'

Earned me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using the forums to swap messages with your meet. We get it; you're sooooo in demand you need everyone else on Fab to know that you're meeting people. Zzzzzzz

Lamppost pissing at its finest

Naaaawwwww I think it's sweet. Fills me with a fuzzy belly when I see it. Let people enjoy themselves and be happy "

No one is stopping them being happy or enjoying themselves, I just don't know why they have to use the forums to swap messages that can be swapped by private messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of changing my name to Thrush...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I tend to ignore what I don't like and it doesn't bug me much anyway.

I don't like it when some troll starts to pick on someone.

And it bugs me a bit when people don't shorten the posts they quote, so you have to scroll for any hour just to see the next person put "Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who was it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just the one in particular that has that effect on you ? - thats pretty good going by forum standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

I have a feeling I know exactly who you mean OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a forum - some days im doing stuff that it seems annoy some of you - another i will be the opposite and that annoys others -- fuck it im still gonna post whenever and wherever i want - ignore block or join in with me i dont give a jot - ive made some good forum buddies here - i love the flirty banter and i rarely get into a stroppy row (has been known though the odd time) - ive met a fair few as well and i think they all like me once they seen the real me is much like the forum me which is much like my profile - so there

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

There are very few regular forum posters who get on my nerves . Those who do I tend to ignore whatever they write . Unless it's particularly irritating and then I may say something , but it's usually pointless .

I guess it's not possible to get on with everyone , especially online , so the fact that there are only a couple of posters who piss me off is not so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are very few regular forum posters who get on my nerves . Those who do I tend to ignore whatever they write . Unless it's particularly irritating and then I may say something , but it's usually pointless .

I guess it's not possible to get on with everyone , especially online , so the fact that there are only a couple of posters who piss me off is not so bad

Sorry

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I guess it's not possible to get on with everyone , especially online , so the fact that there are only a couple of posters who piss me off is not so bad

Sorry

Ha ha ... and you're definately not one of the ones that piss me off

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

There are a handful of regular posters I tend to find irritating but I normally manage to just avoid them. On the rare occasions I bite the results always consolidate their irritativeness. To be fair, they probably feel exactly the same about me.

I am also mildly irritated by overuse of punctuation so I avoid another poster for no reason other than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a handful of regular posters I tend to find irritating but I normally manage to just avoid them. On the rare occasions I bite the results always consolidate their irritativeness. To be fair, they probably feel exactly the same about me.

I am also mildly irritated by overuse of punctuation so I avoid another poster for no reason other than that.

who ????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

"
Aww bless ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id actually be a bit sad if people disliked me on here - not massively mind you

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I confess to being a forum irritation!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day!

Agreed, alongside the people who have fabbed each other to death and the tunes one in which no one really cares what the other people are listening to "

The music threads are actually my favourites, I love being reminded of a certain song or discovering something new.

Nothing irritates me, unless someone is just being out and out horrid for the sake of it, which thankfully doesn't happen often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew it's not me then

Nothing to do with the thread but... your profile picture needs fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day!

Agreed, alongside the people who have fabbed each other to death and the tunes one in which no one really cares what the other people are listening to

The music threads are actually my favourites, I love being reminded of a certain song or discovering something new.

Nothing irritates me, unless someone is just being out and out horrid for the sake of it, which thankfully doesn't happen often."
But I do it so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silly random odd status messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that irritates me is threads started about a specific person . So for example - who has the best ass on fab? I think it's xxxx

Just bloody message them !

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Jusgy Malone!

Best ass on fab!

Apologies just getting in the forum irritation mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jusgy Malone!

Best ass on fab!

Apologies just getting in the forum irritation mood

Nah. I have the best arse in fab

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"Jusgy Malone!

Best ass on fab!

Apologies just getting in the forum irritation mood

Nah. I have the best arse in fab

Nah! damn you!

Had to look, hand over eyes and peeking between fingers, thankfully no arse pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not forum related but I hate myself for using emojis on messages that always end up as ???? I never learn my lesson... maybe one day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"who was it OP"

Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Snuckoid

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

"Snuckoid TM"

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

Sol The Narion system

I can't get meets. Nobody will talk to me. Why was I blocked... Blah blah blah

Repetitive post... All the time

Worded a million ways

The result is always the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cake here so I'll piss off somewhere else

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Bbw threads, where the self deprecators arrive to be fawned over........i'm not a bbw, i'm just fat. Cue the stamping and snorting of white steeds, as their riders interject with statememts of....no you're lovely, allow me to fawn over you madam...for a mere peek twixt your (chubby) thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes who will fawn/do/say ANYTHING to get a wink/like/message off a female!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I dont know who it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I dont know who it is

I do

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Fabbers asking for advice that no one on here can give when it's usually a case of communicating better with people around them.

So irritating.

This!!! Plus threads by the needy in search of constant reassurance about something or another.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The 'Why don't women reply to every single message' threads, just too repetitive, and the 'look at me' threads - although there is often joy watching forumites take the OP down in myriad creative ways."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The attention seeking and drama are just pathetic also."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....

F*** off then!"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Bbw threads, where the self deprecators arrive to be fawned over........i'm not a bbw, i'm just fat. Cue the stamping and snorting of white steeds, as their riders interject with statememts of....no you're lovely, allow me to fawn over you madam...for a mere peek twixt your (chubby) thighs"

Pathetic isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who bitch and moan about others like this is some fucking playground. This place isn't yours , it belongs to whoever wants to be a part of it. You don't own this space.. sonlive and let the fuck live

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury / Lee on solent

I find potential heart disease VERY sexy! Mmmmmmmmmmmm! Wheeeezy sexyness

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Status updates - particularly the 'woe is me' type. Some people have those down to a fine art!

Mood hoovers and moaners - doesn't matter what's being discussed, they breeze in with their negativity.

Other than that ... it's all good

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

so the op finds I certain poster a irritant and then brags further down the post about she's glad others agree with her ,

i wonder how the person in question feels upon reading this post .

was any of this necessary the op may feel vindicated even happy that others agree with but this happiness is at the expense of another persons happiness

all because the op and others in here feel they have the right to moan about something or someone that irritates regardless of whether it upsets those in question or not basically not caring about anyone's feeling but there own .

very attractive behaviour and a great advert for fabs forums don't you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who was it OP

Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!

I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.

I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Sycophants and the sycophantic nature of the forum make's me want to vom at times.

The same people telling each other how amazing they are then jumping on someone who dares to be different..

Also those of you out there who think your opinion is the only opinion everyone else is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who play out their relationship/ sex life in the forum. So much so that the thread becomes full of their exchanges

Kinda " look at us, we are having sex. Arent we grown up?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything that's been mentioned so far.

But to add, the self righteous crusaders who try and impose their way of thinking on to people, and how they think what they type is some kind of authority that must be obeyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who play out their relationship/ sex life in the forum. So much so that the thread becomes full of their exchanges

Kinda " look at us, we are having sex. Arent we grown up?"

this - multiple verifications reminds me of an animal marking its territory

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I am also mildly irritated by overuse of punctuation so I avoid another poster for no reason other than that.

Oh I do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it me OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me OK?"

because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the topics are repeated time after time. That's the biggest gripe, however it's not the end of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who was it OP

Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!

Wow! No idea who you are but being proud and bragging about being centre of some kind of attention, or drama, is an unattractive quality.

Sad culture people actually pm'd you over such "juicy" gossip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a shit who i annoy. It's a public forum on a swinging site. Paid my fiver and i'm not going anywhere.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I couldn't give a shit who i annoy. It's a public forum on a swinging site. Paid my fiver and i'm not going anywhere.

Exactly this. People need to get off their gossip wagons and get a grip.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

For once, I actually agree with John. This is a bit of a shitty thread (understated as ever).

If you have such an issue with someone you want to start a thread about it, it's probably time to go and do something else that doesn't involve being online. Have a wank or a cup of tea. Or eat some of the bloody cake that's frequently discussed.

People rarely irritate me on here - I log off for a bit and get a grip.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"For once, I actually agree with John. This is a bit of a shitty thread (understated as ever).

People rarely irritate me on here - I log off for a bit and get a grip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum irritations.

Erm, those that tell others how they should be posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forum irritations.

Erm, those that tell others how they should be posting."

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.

Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.

If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.

Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.

If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine. "

Very much like that analogy.

Otherwise all articles/posts would be the same to match the criteria of one individual. Variety is the spice of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.

Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.

If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine.

Very much like that analogy.

Otherwise all articles/posts would be the same to match the criteria of one individual. Variety is the spice of life."

thank you.

Very true. Needs to be some variety.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.

Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.

If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine.

Very much like that analogy.

Otherwise all articles/posts would be the same to match the criteria of one individual. Variety is the spice of life."

This is exactly why people have as much right to comment on this thread as any other. It was a question about irritations and therefore people have an opinion about that and can express it here. That's what the forum is. If people don't enjoy reading about what irritates people then don't read it and move on to the next 'article'

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

The same questions getting asked over and over again such as “Why don't you rude fuckers reply to my emails. It only takes under a minute to type no thanks.”, “Should we name and shame timewasters.”, etc. The forum has a search function.

Look at me threads

Men playing the white night in shining armour in threads hoping it will get them a fuck. It’s so bloody obvious what you are up to. On that note women who put things up like I am fat. Knowing/hoping the white nights will come to their thread and tell them they are not fat and they are very sexy.

People who ask for profile advice and don't change a thing about their profile. It's another look at me thread.

Moaning threads about not getting a meet despite only being on her a few days or weeks.

Men who think this website is called Ishaganybodywhoasksme.com or instantfucks.com or freefucks.com

People who complain they have had 20 timewasters in the last month. Who is the common denominator in that one? If you constantly meet timewasters it’s you who is doing something wrong.

Kiss, have drink with or avoid threads

I cheat because I am in a sexless relationship threads. Sex is fantastic when done right. If your wife or girlfriend doesn’t like having sex with you maybe it’s that you are not so good at it?

People who derail a thread and post something totally not relevant to the thread. Totally off topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that mention popcorn when someone disagrees with someone else!

Are you really getting popcorn out? No, you don't even have any!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the talk of cake on here, so bloody pathetic

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I tend to ignore what I don't like and it doesn't bug me much anyway.

I don't like it when some troll starts to pick on someone.

And it bugs me a bit when people don't shorten the posts they quote, so you have to scroll for any hour just to see the next person put "Lol"

I hate that!

I am also guilty of doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who go out of their way to be condescending and look down on others...though that's not irrational.

Ok....the facepic or wink threads where people add "I'm in...but no-one will notice anyway"

stop it!!!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Haha

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

[Removed by poster at 14/08/17 08:55:31]

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

We all have our personal irritants but I can guarantee you'll see the same type of behaviours repeated on *any* forum, regardless of its subject matter because that's just what happens when you give a diverse mix of people a sounding board ..... you'll always get someone showing off in some capacity, someone shit stirring, someone else being rude or spiteful, someone being negative, someone who thinks they're better than everyone else, someone bigoted, someone being irrelevant - or irreverent, someone attention seeking, someone (me) writing long boring replies etc., etc.

If you're going to use any forum, all of that comes with the territory so, notwithstanding calling out anyone who's grossly offensive, you kind of have to like it or lump it ....

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"[Removed by poster at 14/08/17 08:55:31]"

Not sure why you removed. You was bloody spot on.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"We all have our personal irritants but I can guarantee you'll see the same type of behaviours repeated on *any* forum, regardless of its subject matter because that's just what happens when you give a diverse mix of people a sounding board ..... you'll always get someone showing off in some capacity, someone shit stirring, someone else being rude or spiteful, someone being negative, someone who thinks they're better than everyone else, someone bigoted, someone being irrelevant - or irreverent, someone attention seeking, someone (me) writing long boring replies etc., etc.

If you're going to use any forum, all of that comes with the territory so, notwithstanding calling out anyone who's grossly offensive, you kind of have to like it or lump it ...."

Ah!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"[Removed by poster at 14/08/17 08:55:31]

Not sure why you removed. You was bloody spot on."

My OCD for spelling and punctuation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be a bit clique!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So after 140 of posts, we've learned that it's basically 'just suck it up buttercup'? Awesome!

Now that's over, fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after 140 of posts, we've learned that it's basically 'just suck it up buttercup'? Awesome!

Now that's over, fancy a fuck? "

that's the problem...most people do but the forum is the waiting room, hence all the pent up aggression !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"who was it OP

Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!

I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.

I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here. "

And you are perfectly entitled to feel that was as am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who was it OP

Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!

I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.

I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here.

And you are perfectly entitled to feel that was as am I."

Your spark is fading..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is it me OK?

because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it"

Did I say it was someone I didn't know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the talk of cake on here, so bloody pathetic

Agreed

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"It can be a bit clique!!"

Wish it was as I'd be cliquing my fingers getting a fuck left right and centre. But I know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me OK?

because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it

Did I say it was someone I didn't know?"

ok let's play it your way for shits n giggles...

Your words have raised the hackles of a lot of innocent people who don't know it's not aimed at them. you've created a poisonous vibe.. All because you can't get what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is it me OK?

because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it

Did I say it was someone I didn't know?

ok let's play it your way for shits n giggles...

Your words have raised the hackles of a lot of innocent people who don't know it's not aimed at them. you've created a poisonous vibe.. All because you can't get what you want."

What do I want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two things for us. Usernames with hot or sexy in them when the term is very subjective and when you get competitive sniping in the chat rooms. Not been part of it but witnessed it a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me OK?

because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it

Did I say it was someone I didn't know?

ok let's play it your way for shits n giggles...

Your words have raised the hackles of a lot of innocent people who don't know it's not aimed at them. you've created a poisonous vibe.. All because you can't get what you want.

What do I want?

I don't care anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be the only person clueless to what's going on

But to answer the question I'm rarely irritated by the forum.

If it irritated me I would simply go and find domething else to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be the only person clueless to what's going on

But to answer the question I'm rarely irritated by the forum.

If it irritated me I would simply go and find domething else to do.

I wouldn't worry about it.. It's nothing that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so the op finds I certain poster a irritant and then brags further down the post about she's glad others agree with her ,

i wonder how the person in question feels upon reading this post .

was any of this necessary the op may feel vindicated even happy that others agree with but this happiness is at the expense of another persons happiness

very attractive behaviour and a great advert for fabs forums don't you think.

Totally agree...these type of threads that start with the guessing game about one poster...then to go on about private messaging about that poster..are just wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who was it OP

Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!

I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.

I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here.

And you are perfectly entitled to feel that was as am I.

Your spark is fading.. "

Oh and so what you were saying.. is that there are 20odd other cowards in here.. Too afraid to say how they feel out in the open?

I'm going to love this Forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.

Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.

Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them"

Nope.. it's not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.

Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them"

I doubt it mate...but what these threads do when pointing to one person is cause a lot of paranoia to others.

But the worst bit is the openly admitting they are talking in private about the one person in mind..whilst this avoids the naming and shaming rule...it is blatantly happening in private which is hurtful to someone on here and just not right!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury / Lee on solent

Get a grip guys. It's just a website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a grip guys. It's just a website."

So you think it's OK to have whispering threads?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.

Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular

Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life

I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.

Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them

I doubt it mate...but what these threads do when pointing to one person is cause a lot of paranoia to others.

It's not hurtful to the person it's directed at. But others are caught in the crossfire.. that's not on.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury / Lee on solent

"Get a grip guys. It's just a website.

So you think it's OK to have whispering threads?"

I couldn't give a single solitary shit how children behave on here.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Its all mind games. Chat to your friends. Post as you see fit within the rules. Meet and fuck.

Enjoy people.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury / Lee on solent

"Its all mind games. Chat to your friends. Post as you see fit within the rules. Meet and fuck.

Enjoy people."

Oh you make it sound so simple! Oh wait, it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its all mind games. Chat to your friends. Post as you see fit within the rules. Meet and fuck.

Enjoy people."

Nail on the head

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"who was it OP

Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!

This really isn't nice.

Just avoid a persons posts on the forum rather than start a thread about them

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