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Who does the asking???

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By *elsh_lass74 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Does it matter to people who does the asking???

As a single female, I know when I have my "me" time, so I need to ask guys on my friends list, if they are free, when I am.

So, my question really is ....

Are men put off by women asking them out?? Or do they like to be in control of that part???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter to people who does the asking???

As a single female, I know when I have my "me" time, so I need to ask guys on my friends list, if they are free, when I am.

So, my question really is ....

Are men put off by women asking them out?? Or do they like to be in control of that part???

"

I don't mind at all!!! In fact, I'd love to be asked and positive would be the answer almost always

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never put off. It is nice to be asked, and rude to refuse.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Does it matter to people who does the asking???

As a single female, I know when I have my "me" time, so I need to ask guys on my friends list, if they are free, when I am.

So, my question really is ....

Are men put off by women asking them out?? Or do they like to be in control of that part???

"

i am flattered if people ask me... plus it also saves me a job!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive done it both ways but prefer to be asked. same as when i meet someone i dont like to make first move.

i am more forward after the first meet though

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By *elsh_lass74 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Thanks guys for the replies, nice to know some dont mind being asked!!

If I wait around to be asked, I'm never free, so I do like to do the asking when I know I have the free time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys for the replies, nice to know some dont mind being asked!!

If I wait around to be asked, I'm never free, so I do like to do the asking when I know I have the free time."

You are most welcome!!!

I'd keep my schedule free pending when you'd be asking xxxx

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By *elsh_lass74 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Thanks guys for the replies, nice to know some dont mind being asked!!

If I wait around to be asked, I'm never free, so I do like to do the asking when I know I have the free time.

You are most welcome!!!

I'd keep my schedule free pending when you'd be asking xxxx "

Like to travel do you!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys for the replies, nice to know some dont mind being asked!!

If I wait around to be asked, I'm never free, so I do like to do the asking when I know I have the free time.

You are most welcome!!!

I'd keep my schedule free pending when you'd be asking xxxx

Like to travel do you!!?? "

So long as it's within the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as im free n able lol

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

If you don't ask you wont get

Always nice to have some one ask if you're free, so go ahead and ask me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv'e had a few cancellations lately, not tragic as they have given notice and I haven't had any time wasted but when I looked at them they all had the one thing in common, I had asked them for a meet.

So now if the bloke doesn't ask and only seems to want to chat I move on.

Will see how this goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on, if you know your going to be free put it in your status, ans in the meets and events! You will get lots of replies I am sure

xx

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By *elsh_lass74 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Hang on, if you know your going to be free put it in your status, ans in the meets and events! You will get lots of replies I am sure

xx"

I do put it into my status, but still feel the need to ask, and then when I do ask they say yes and then disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the searching if I am available at a loose end.

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By *elsh_lass74 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I do tend to ask the guys on my friends list, only because I do like to know a bit about the person, before I go off meeting them.

I just worry that it might scare or put off some guys

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I think that it would be a refreshing change for most men on Fab to be asked out by a woman. It doesn't often happened and I've never been put off by a woman asking.

Sorry to hear about your timewasters, best to forget and concentrate on the positives.

There are a lot of genuine men on here so keep asking and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter to people who does the asking???

As a single female, I know when I have my "me" time, so I need to ask guys on my friends list, if they are free, when I am.

So, my question really is ....

Are men put off by women asking them out?? Or do they like to be in control of that part???

"

No never the chance would be a fine thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I never mind asking friends if they're free to meet when I am,as they're friends already they're unlikely to take offence to it

They would'nt be friends otherwise

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