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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it!

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Too many bulshitters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it! "

Well said

Crafty they are. Crafty!!

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the point in lying about my age, people tend to think I'm younger than I am anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am 55 - not bothered about the filters that stop me messaging - plenty more available

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it! "

...and height, smoking and marital status, orientation...

One 5' 5" bloke I turned down told me he was actually 6 feet tall, he had just never measured himself correctly so guessed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you? "

mines accurate

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it!

...and height, smoking and marital status, orientation...

One 5' 5" bloke I turned down told me he was actually 6 feet tall, he had just never measured himself correctly so guessed."

That's hysterical and kinda sad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What age are you looking for? Yeah, I'm that age. Hah, got eem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point of lying about my age, I like being this old. But yes have had that happen. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I find the guys I speak to seem to level up more than shave years off. I always ask them to write the theme tune to round the twist, guys around my age would know that theme tune!

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

mines accurate "

I need prove,supply one's birth certificate by the end of the day,my address is...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't see the point in lying about anything to be honest - it will only be found out at some point.

If you've made a genuine mistake when setting your age (fat fingers etc) then you have one chance to change it - so why not do that? Unless of course the intention is to deliberately mislead in which case it raises questions about any other 'fibs' the individual may have told.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

[Removed by poster at 13/08/17 09:48:23]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

mines accurate

I need prove,supply one's birth certificate by the end of the day,my address is... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I find the guys I speak to seem to level up more than shave years off. I always ask them to write the theme tune to round the twist, guys around my age would know that theme tune!"

Haha... stuck in my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it! "

Sorry it's my age. I can't remember what was I saying

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I have yet to see one where they made a "mistake" that makes them older.

Never seen one saying by the way I am only 29 not 63.

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"You mean some people will lie and just say anything to get their end away !! ?? I'm shocked at this behaviour !!

"

I know right it's outrageous behaviour isn't it,I say they lose a finger for every lie they tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I find the guys I speak to seem to level up more than shave years off. I always ask them to write the theme tune to round the twist, guys around my age would know that theme tune!

Haha... stuck in my head now "

Nice try!

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I have yet to see one where they made a "mistake" that makes them older.

Never seen one saying by the way I am only 29 not 63.

"

Very good point!

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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago

Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

mines accurate

I need prove,supply one's birth certificate by the end of the day,my address is... "

Believe it or not my age is true

Don't think I am doing to bad

At 47 xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever, ever felt like this,

When strange things happen,

Are you going round the twist?

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ha - yeah, that happens. Height is the big one for me...don't tell me you're six foot tall so I put my heels on and show up to the social at 5'7. I don't care about how tall you are but dude, you ain't getting away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are a few people that come and go and each time they return they are a different age - makes me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is true

But I know what you mean ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it!

...and height, smoking and marital status, orientation...

One 5' 5" bloke I turned down told me he was actually 6 feet tall, he had just never measured himself correctly so guessed."

Hahaha hilarious x

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

glasgow

You mean some people will lie and just say anything to get their end away !! ?? I'm shocked at this behaviour !! 

Ok maybe not shocked at all lol!

Some people will just say anything if they think will benefit their own agenda ...not just on here .

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you? "

ME ME ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever, ever felt like this,

When strange things happen,

Are you going round the twist?"

That's the fucker!

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"there are a few people that come and go and each time they return they are a different age - makes me laugh"

It's also funny when you see them on pof with a different age,on here they've somehow managed to turn back the years

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

ME ME ME "

Stand there whilst we throw rotten fruit at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hard pressed to believe that it's a genuine mistake. Most sane people double check forms and things before pressing submit right? To check the details are correct.

It's a blatant 'let's circumvent filters to snag the hottie I really want to shag' attempt.

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm hard pressed to believe that it's a genuine mistake. Most sane people double check forms and things before pressing submit right? To check the details are correct.

It's a blatant 'let's circumvent filters to snag the hottie I really want to shag' attempt. "

Well that's the thing they make out like it was a mistake,I may look daft and all but seriously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hard pressed to believe that it's a genuine mistake. Most sane people double check forms and things before pressing submit right? To check the details are correct.

It's a blatant 'let's circumvent filters to snag the hottie I really want to shag' attempt.

Well that's the thing they make out like it was a mistake,I may look daft and all but seriously!"

I imagine that you especially get a lot of '40+' year old twentysomethings?

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm hard pressed to believe that it's a genuine mistake. Most sane people double check forms and things before pressing submit right? To check the details are correct.

It's a blatant 'let's circumvent filters to snag the hottie I really want to shag' attempt.

Well that's the thing they make out like it was a mistake,I may look daft and all but seriously!

I imagine that you especially get a lot of '40+' year old twentysomethings? "

It's a minefield naughty a minefield!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I can say I'm 24 and a proud 90's child. I can't lairs, the truth always comes out so why waste your time making things up.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It won't be that long before I'm adding ten years to my age so I get astounded compliments about how young I look!

I like the ones that state they are in their 30's and then call themselves a young lad with pictures to prove they are 12 years younger.

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm actually not 50 yet . At the end of this month I feel a date of birth change in the air,it'll be like a little present to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually not 50 yet . At the end of this month I feel a date of birth change in the air,it'll be like a little present to myself "
guess I'll forever stay 24 then

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I've always been this old and ugly... haaha...

It's the same with sportsmen, when they hit their thirties the years are shaven off, you see people who remain 31 or 32 for three years...

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm actually not 50 yet . At the end of this month I feel a date of birth change in the air,it'll be like a little present to myself guess I'll forever stay 24 then "

24 bloody hell I don't even remember being 24,don't blink because before you know it you'll be 50 and wondering where the heck most of your life went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever, ever felt like this,

When strange things happen,

Are you going round the twist?

That's the fucker!"

Test passed ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It won't be that long before I'm adding ten years to my age so I get astounded compliments about how young I look!

I like the ones that state they are in their 30's and then call themselves a young lad with pictures to prove they are 12 years younger."

Wow. excellent idea!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually not 50 yet . At the end of this month I feel a date of birth change in the air,it'll be like a little present to myself guess I'll forever stay 24 then

24 bloody hell I don't even remember being 24,don't blink because before you know it you'll be 50 and wondering where the heck most of your life went "
doesnt sound too bad, I'll just make sure I'm living life to the fullest till I'm old and grey

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm actually not 50 yet . At the end of this month I feel a date of birth change in the air,it'll be like a little present to myself guess I'll forever stay 24 then

24 bloody hell I don't even remember being 24,don't blink because before you know it you'll be 50 and wondering where the heck most of your life went doesnt sound too bad, I'll just make sure I'm living life to the fullest till I'm old and grey "

Make sure you do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can actually change your age on here, but only once

So, if they are unable to change it, one must assume it is subterfuge as opposed to a genuine mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you? "

Ridicule away. I've no intention of revealing my real age to a bunch of Internet strangers. I've had no one coil away in disgust and my pics are recent and real. Don't like it? Don't meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd probably think I was lying about my age ... but really I'm not!

(Jokes but never bullshits)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

Ridicule away. I've no intention of revealing my real age to a bunch of Internet strangers. I've had no one coil away in disgust and my pics are recent and real. Don't like it? Don't meet me "

lol you've got a great profile - but you could of opened a Guess Seductions Age Comp up here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it! "

I don't blame them. Totally understandable in a world you believe is totally superficial. I think we all make that mistake when we join Fab.

If your darkest desire is to sleep with handsome young fit men and you're scared you're too old to attract them. I can forgive that lie.

When you know better and carry on? Why not just start again? The people you've met and who like you will understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't lied about my age, don't feel the need

I have on more than one occasion tried to convince people to lower their age preference, but so far unsuccessful

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

Ridicule away. I've no intention of revealing my real age to a bunch of Internet strangers. I've had no one coil away in disgust and my pics are recent and real. Don't like it? Don't meet me "

I don't flipping want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

Ridicule away. I've no intention of revealing my real age to a bunch of Internet strangers. I've had no one coil away in disgust and my pics are recent and real. Don't like it? Don't meet me

I don't flipping want to "

Phew! I was busy thinking up an excuse there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it!

...and height, smoking and marital status, orientation...

One 5' 5" bloke I turned down told me he was actually 6 feet tall, he had just never measured himself correctly so guessed."

Ha what a plonker he must have thought there where tones of 6ft plus men and women walking around then... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m 53 the age on my profile XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people lie, some people don't.

The ones that do get found out. Their motivation may have been benign.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I mean come on do you have some kind of memory breakdown when putting your age in?!

I seem to be hearing "well I'm really 45" when the profile says 27 (slight exaggeration on my behalf there) and I can't change it!

Well if you had bloody well remembered how old you were in the first place numb nut's you wouldn't need to change it! "

I believe that memory loss is often a side-effect of getting older. I often can't remember important things... I can't recall what, but there are definitely things.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read that if you don't have kids, you get emotionally stunted in your mid-20s. Age is really a state of mind, so whether somebody has their real age or the age they look or the age they feel doesn't mean as much to me as those guys who claim to be 6' then they show up and they're 5'4". Seriously, dude, who did you think you'd fool?

OK, that wasn't me it happened to, it was a woman I know. He said he didn't think she'd meet him if she knew he didn't match her preferences. Because he thought she'd prefer liars to short guys, I suppose.

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By *gnitemybody OP   Woman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Anyone else lying about their age,stand up so we can ridicule you?

Ridicule away. I've no intention of revealing my real age to a bunch of Internet strangers. I've had no one coil away in disgust and my pics are recent and real. Don't like it? Don't meet me

I don't flipping want to

Phew! I was busy thinking up an excuse there! "

I have a list at the ready normally,washing my hair,hubby's turned up unexpectedly,my Great Great Uncle got run over,that kinda thing. Alway's be prepared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read that if you don't have kids, you get emotionally stunted in your mid-20s. Age is really a state of mind, so whether somebody has their real age or the age they look or the age they feel doesn't mean as much to me as those guys who claim to be 6' then they show up and they're 5'4". Seriously, dude, who did you think you'd fool?

OK, that wasn't me it happened to, it was a woman I know. He said he didn't think she'd meet him if she knew he didn't match her preferences. Because he thought she'd prefer liars to short guys, I suppose."

I'd disagree. But I became a father in my late 20s. I think emotional stunting depends more on the experiences and interactions you have. How deeply you choose to engage or withdraw.

Some of us have natural gifts in our personalities that allow us to do this more easily than others. My own type is known for needing to engage as much as I can. It can lead to lots of pain.. but then my type is also renowned for being emotionally resilient of the hardest trials and can bounce itself back after time.. quite easily.

Others cant do this so well and have to work hard to avoid spirals and pitfalls. We're all different and have different reasons for acting the ways we do. Different ways of coping with the stuff we find hard or need to work at.

Try not to judge to harshly if you don't know the person. They've got their reasons that make sense to them. It may not work very well, but I don't think most of it is malicious or bad intentioned.

5ft 5.. and he claimed he was 6ft? That's a big arse pair of platform shoes! Where can this little oompa loompa get a pair

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