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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When someone is "busy" every evening and weekend it means they're married /attached right?

Or am I just THE most stupid person in the world?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

That would be my guess, or they work shifts.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Or they're on tag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?"

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're on tag "

Tag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're on tag "

??????????????brilliant

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child "

Erm....

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Or they're on tag

Tag?

"

Yeah, police curfew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're on tag

Tag?

Yeah, police curfew "

This makes it funnier x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're on tag

Tag?

Yeah, police curfew "

Ahhhhh

Hahahaaaaa

Well that strangely makes me feel a bit better .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child "

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Or they're on tag

Tag?

Yeah, police curfew

Ahhhhh

Hahahaaaaa

Well that strangely makes me feel a bit better ..... "

Glad to be of service

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

"

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol"

Or afraid his wife might find out!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

"

Ah the blessed 10-3 meet...only on certain days though. Yeah probably married.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

"

I think sometimes they want them too...it's like an induction club swing with me woman

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

"

Kinda sounds the most likely. Or he still lives with his parents.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Ah the blessed 10-3 meet...only on certain days though. Yeah probably married. "

So depressing you're right!

I like this one

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

Kinda sounds the most likely. Or he still lives with his parents. "

Scared you might leave hair grips or the wrong coloured hair in his house

What would Miranda do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

"

there's plenty more fish on fab, no need to bother yourself with someone who's says there always busy

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Ah the blessed 10-3 meet...only on certain days though. Yeah probably married.

So depressing you're right!

I like this one "

I feel your pain. You need to make them feel it in the balls with a heel

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Or they're on tag "

My friend met a guy who was.. he kept his socks on and she was none the wiser til he went for a shower!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have an active social life

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

Kinda sounds the most likely. Or he still lives with his parents.

Scared you might leave hair grips or the wrong coloured hair in his house

What would Miranda do?"

I was once tempted to leave something on purpose. I didn't want her to know I used maybeline foundation though!

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

regardless of his reasons if he's not prepared to even try to make the effort then he's probably not worth your time

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By *rego69Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Do more due diligence.

Maybe people work nights.

Maybe they have a job requiring evening appointments.

Maybe they want to meet st 6am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

there's plenty more fish on fab, no need to bother yourself with someone who's says there always busy "

Yes I know thanks for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

"

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

Kinda sounds the most likely. Or he still lives with his parents.

Scared you might leave hair grips or the wrong coloured hair in his house

What would Miranda do?

I was once tempted to leave something on purpose. I didn't want her to know I used maybeline foundation though!"

Hahahahaaaa!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"regardless of his reasons if he's not prepared to even try to make the effort then he's probably not worth your time"
#

I so know this I'm a dick!

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more. "

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

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By *elson61Man
over a year ago

WELWYN GARDEN CITY

Only one thing to say in these circumstances................Next!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

"

I'll join you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

"

Yeah and the one you think are good can be absolute wankers as well trust and believe me on that!

You put an end to it, be easier than if he does, don't have to block him or nothing, just know that he's there but just don't contact him anymore.

Have a flirt with other guys till you're naturally not arsed about him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only one thing to say in these circumstances................Next!!"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

I'll join you! "

Hurrah!

Get the wine out!

It's better company than most nob heads on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

Yeah and the one you think are good can be absolute wankers as well trust and believe me on that!

You put an end to it, be easier than if he does, don't have to block him or nothing, just know that he's there but just don't contact him anymore.

Have a flirt with other guys till you're naturally not arsed about him. "

Thankyou x

You're right!

I'm going to try and not contact him

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

In the interest of balance , I'm single not fab single , and I'm busy day and night , having said that I always make time for a bit of rumpy pumpy , hope that helps

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Or they're on tag "

Or a gas lighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

"

Can't be a good one if he hasn't told you the truth, sorry to say

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Minnie, would you tie me up at night and weekends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

"

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks "

I'm an idiot!

He's clearly with his wife / GF and I'm waiting for him like a twat

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"it's a possibility but not a certainty he could work shifts, be a single parent, be a carer for a family member or even afraid of the dark lol

Or afraid his wife might find out!

Kinda sounds the most likely. Or he still lives with his parents.

Scared you might leave hair grips or the wrong coloured hair in his house

What would Miranda do?"

Lose her shit I reckon and cause a big scene. Then dress up in fancy dress for a random night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks "

When you're a 'single' parent you usually share some weekends. I'm the resident parent but I have to let my child go to her father every other weekend.

Just seems unusual for a non resident parent to be granted every weekend because even the resident parent has the right to a full weekend with their child, a court of law would agree those terms too.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks

I'm an idiot!

He's clearly with his wife / GF and I'm waiting for him like a twat

"

Some do I did let my ex have the kids every weekend.

Your not a twat.

Life at times is not fun or what we want.

You sound like it's more than an fb but only you know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks

When you're a 'single' parent you usually share some weekends. I'm the resident parent but I have to let my child go to her father every other weekend.

Just seems unusual for a non resident parent to be granted every weekend because even the resident parent has the right to a full weekend with their child, a court of law would agree those terms too. "

depends on the person, I see my kids every day i'm sure alot of single dads do also...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone is "busy" every evening and weekend it means they're married /attached right?

Or am I just THE most stupid person in the world?

"

Maybe he's not that into you! ?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks

When you're a 'single' parent you usually share some weekends. I'm the resident parent but I have to let my child go to her father every other weekend.

Just seems unusual for a non resident parent to be granted every weekend because even the resident parent has the right to a full weekend with their child, a court of law would agree those terms too.

depends on the person, I see my kids every day i'm sure alot of single dads do also...

"

Big claps to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single parent and work full time so I can relate to always being busy . No hidden other half. You'll have to trust your gut instinct on this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks

When you're a 'single' parent you usually share some weekends. I'm the resident parent but I have to let my child go to her father every other weekend.

Just seems unusual for a non resident parent to be granted every weekend because even the resident parent has the right to a full weekend with their child, a court of law would agree those terms too.

depends on the person, I see my kids every day i'm sure alot of single dads do also...

Big claps to you. "

ok cool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone is "busy" every evening and weekend it means they're married /attached right?

Or am I just THE most stupid person in the world?

Maybe he's not that into you! ?.."

Yes exactly!

He clearly isn't otherwise he would have made time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone is "busy" every evening and weekend it means they're married /attached right?

Or am I just THE most stupid person in the world?

Maybe he's not that into you! ?..

Wise words x

Yes exactly!

He clearly isn't otherwise he would have made time x"

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

I'm a single male, but I can only meet evenings and weekends, because I look after my 2 young kids during the day mon-fri.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"When someone is "busy" every evening and weekend it means they're married /attached right?

Or am I just THE most stupid person in the world?

"

Or they cood be working......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone is "busy" every evening and weekend it means they're married /attached right?

Or am I just THE most stupid person in the world?

"

It means the following in my case :

I work long hours and sometimes for long periods without a break (after this weekend, my next day off is 9th Sep)

So, in the evenings, I am normally wrecked bodily and mentally

Despite this, I still have chores to do as part of a normal 'routine'

The weekends I do get off, I catch up with visting family, touching base with friends and do the things I can't get round to in the week.

I spend some of my time on here, mainly in the forums.

It allows me to 'touch base' with an element of the community whilst not really requiring much effort.

When I am on here, meeting up is rarely at the front of my mind.

So, whilst I don't dispute the intimation you are making, some people are genuinely hampered by life getting in the way.

I admire couples with kids who do all the above (and more) and still find time in their diaries to let their hair down once in a while.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"When someone is "busy" every evening and weekend it means they're married /attached right?

Or am I just THE most stupid person in the world?

"

Yes, I would say they are married or atttached.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

"

Ah but is he not a knobhead? Married or attached and stringing you along? Sounds like a knobhead to me.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

every single weekend with their child? sorry are people supposed to give up their kids every couple of weeks

I'm an idiot!

He's clearly with his wife / GF and I'm waiting for him like a twat

"

Block him and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he say straight away that he can only meet during the day?

I always explain that I can only meet every now and again as I work full time and have family.

Does he have verifications? If so do they say whether they met at night or weekends? Xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'm not married but I am busy most evenings and weekends... Called a social life

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By *elson61Man
over a year ago

WELWYN GARDEN CITY


"What's the reason they're giving for being busy every evening?

Tired from getting up early weekdays and weekends with child

Every single weekend with their child, when do they propose to meet you if they're busy all the time?

He only wants to meet in between jobs ( self employed )

Day time - and never at his house!

I'm old and ugly enough to know better!

Urgh I fucking hate myself right now!

Don't feel bad for longer than tonight. Write him off before you start to like him more.

I know you're right!

But you know how it is when you meet a good one on here amongst the absolute nob heads!

Fuck it I'm having wine!

I'll join you!

Hurrah!

Get the wine out!

It's better company than most nob heads on here "

Agreed on the wine, but I'm not a nob head, honest. My mum didn't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you bin him OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been very busy lately, most evenings and daytimes. Some days I need time for myself to recharge. I'm single.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I've also known people to be quite available and still be married. No hard and fast rule

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you bin him OP?"

No

I'm pathetic!

But the shocker is he's busy this weekend

But I ain't bovvered to be honest.

I've got wine and snacks

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