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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's neither. Clue is in the name.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

Ahh yes; the good old days of Fab. I miss those days (sighs)

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

I think maybe it has changed over the years, but some people enjoy the dating thing, men too and I would think some dating sites are used for quick f***s also, it's whatever works for the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on a dating site and all the men on there wanted was a fuck, so I left it. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any site that's free is going to be used by people for a fuck xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I went on a dating site and all the men on there wanted was a fuck, so I left it. XXX"

my point exactly!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I went on a dating site and all the men on there wanted was a fuck, so I left it. XXX"

I agree completely - this site is more honest in its aspirations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever you want it to be.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Whatever you want site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Neither for me really. It's the forums I'm here for. I don't even search locals

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There are plenty of swingers that have met on here, and are now in loving, swinging marriages/relationships. I'm pretty sure they dated each other at some point during their time together so for those it's all 3!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it a place where I can explore things I didn't even know existed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by what my friends say that use dating sites it sounds as though most dating sites are mainly used for sex, at least with fab it's a bit more honest about what you are ultimately here for.

But I think fab has evolved to be whatever the user wants from it, be it dating, FB's, orgies or more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things."

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

so are you saying the site is instashag and that all women should drop our knickers whenever a man clicks his fingers OP?

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"It's neither. Clue is in the name."

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc..."

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Only on it a few weeks so can't refer to the good old days, but it's a good laugh and between 2 or 3 people it's whatever they want it to be surely

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc..."

It should be used in what ever way people want to use it, I would think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..so are you saying the site is instashag and that all women should drop our knickers whenever a man clicks his fingers OP?"

What? How on earth have you possibly come up with that statement from what i wrote????

It a two way thing.

Thats not what im saying at all is it??

Basically why would i want to spend hrs textin back and two to someone i find attractive knowing full well she knows what im after on a sex site???

Applies both ways..

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

It's free for whatever you want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm. Swinging site ? It's all in the title.

Sure the dynamics may have changed but isn't it fundamentally the same? I've met couples that have had more of a date feel the evening. It usaully ends up with everyone playing naked twister anyway. What's the difference??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!! "

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..so are you saying the site is instashag and that all women should drop our knickers whenever a man clicks his fingers OP?

What? How on earth have you possibly come up with that statement from what i wrote????

It a two way thing.

Thats not what im saying at all is it??

Basically why would i want to spend hrs textin back and two to someone i find attractive knowing full well she knows what im after on a sex site???

Applies both ways.."

"she knows what im after on a sex site???" You've just proved my post to be a valid point with that statement!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..so are you saying the site is instashag and that all women should drop our knickers whenever a man clicks his fingers OP?

What? How on earth have you possibly come up with that statement from what i wrote????

It a two way thing.

Thats not what im saying at all is it??

Basically why would i want to spend hrs textin back and two to someone i find attractive knowing full well she knows what im after on a sex site???

Applies both ways.."

So don't spend hours doing that, just concentrate on those who are up for a quick shag, I'm sure there must be others like yourself on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't date. I don't want a boyfriend. I'm not a swinger.

I'm a fucker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't date. I don't want a boyfriend. I'm not a swinger.

I'm a fucker!! "

I should state that I don't do quick fucks or blow job centric meets and I occasionally go for a drink before fucking. Sometimes (hold on to your hat OP) we sleep together all night and...cuddle!!!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't date. I don't want a boyfriend. I'm not a swinger.

I'm a fucker!! "

Ooh looks like you could be for the OP,

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't date. I don't want a boyfriend. I'm not a swinger.

I'm a fucker!!

I should state that I don't do quick fucks or blow job centric meets and I occasionally go for a drink before fucking. Sometimes (hold on to your hat OP) we sleep together all night and...cuddle!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all sites in one.

Fabswingers

Fabdaters

Fabcammers

Fabchatters

Fabwankers

Fabfuckers

Fabfriends

Fabforumites

Fabtimewasters

Fabdreamers

.

Have I missed any off?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's all sites in one.

Fabswingers

Fabdaters

Fabcammers

Fabchatters

Fabwankers

Fabfuckers

Fabfriends

Fabforumites

Fabtimewasters

Fabdreamers

.

Have I missed any off? "

Fabtwunts

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life."

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It's all sites in one.

Fabswingers

Fabdaters

Fabcammers

Fabchatters

Fabwankers

Fabfuckers

Fabfriends

Fabforumites

Fabtimewasters

Fabdreamers

.

Have I missed any off? "

Fabican'tgetashag..ers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all sites in one.

Fabswingers

Fabdaters

Fabcammers

Fabchatters

Fabwankers

Fabfuckers

Fabfriends

Fabforumites

Fabtimewasters

Fabdreamers

.

Have I missed any off?

Fabican'tgetashag..ers. "

That comes under Fabwankers right?

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Due to the number of time wasters, no shows and fakes we always arrange a social first.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life."

You could also go on a dating for a quick shag, because people do that on dating sites.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It's all sites in one.

Fabswingers

Fabdaters

Fabcammers

Fabchatters

Fabwankers

Fabfuckers

Fabfriends

Fabforumites

Fabtimewasters

Fabdreamers

.

Have I missed any off?

Fabican'tgetashag..ers.

That comes under Fabwankers right? "

It does!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

OP there are lots of fuck sites, I'm not allowed to name them on here but you can Google the words shags and local, so go and join them instead!This is a site for swinging which includes social skills.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc..."

'Should'? Says who?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..so are you saying the site is instashag and that all women should drop our knickers whenever a man clicks his fingers OP?

What? How on earth have you possibly come up with that statement from what i wrote????

It a two way thing.

Thats not what im saying at all is it??

Basically why would i want to spend hrs textin back and two to someone i find attractive knowing full well she knows what im after on a sex site???

Applies both ways.."

I will admit, it is this type of attitude that I definitely avoid meeting!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We are totally in agreement with the op on this one . We joined fab to enjoy nsa sex with like minded people , and that's exactly what we get

Obviously it's going to be different for a single guy , nowhere near as many offers of what one would expect from a fuck site , but yes that's what fab is for us . Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

"

I agree with the last sentence on here. That is exactly how the OP is coming across on here to me.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

So many entitled people posting these threads of late, if you don't like it, hit delete and leave, go elsewhere, bloody simple really, doesn't take a genius to work it out!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I was originally here for just sex now my needs have changed andmay I want more. So really just here for the forum's in the slightest hope that my man may be on here as well looking for the same. I know fat chance really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many entitled people posting these threads of late, if you don't like it, hit delete and leave, go elsewhere, bloody simple really, doesn't take a genius to work it out!! "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was originally here for just sex now my needs have changed andmay I want more. So really just here for the forum's in the slightest hope that my man may be on here as well looking for the same. I know fat chance really..."

Fat.........oh bugger, misread it

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Surely this place is a social media place that has sex as a subject out in the open.

Facebook is social friends, tinder is quick date; elite, pof, match, etc. are vanilla I want a partner and here is social with sex.

If we were all in a room, then its the same. Some will just want to chat, others looking to fuck, others into groups, ... It's just a social site for those who swing.

I've been here since 2008 (I think), maybe earlier. Hopped over from AFF as it was too international. I don't think the place has changed a bit.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So many entitled people posting these threads of late, if you don't like it, hit delete and leave, go elsewhere, bloody simple really, doesn't take a genius to work it out!!

This. "

thanks, just getting heartily sick of people whinging to be honest lol xx

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I don't date. I don't want a boyfriend. I'm not a swinger.

I'm a fucker!!

Ooh looks like you could be for the OP, "

Or the chop

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I was originally here for just sex now my needs have changed andmay I want more. So really just here for the forum's in the slightest hope that my man may be on here as well looking for the same. I know fat chance really...

Fat.........oh bugger, misread it "

God how badly written was that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was originally here for just sex now my needs have changed andmay I want more. So really just here for the forum's in the slightest hope that my man may be on here as well looking for the same. I know fat chance really...

Fat.........oh bugger, misread it

God how badly written was that!"

Bleary eyes

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Surely this place is a social media place that has sex as a subject out in the open.

Facebook is social friends, tinder is quick date; elite, pof, match, etc. are vanilla I want a partner and here is social with sex.

If we were all in a room, then its the same. Some will just want to chat, others looking to fuck, others into groups, ... It's just a social site for those who swing.

I've been here since 2008 (I think), maybe earlier. Hopped over from AFF as it was too international. I don't think the place has changed a bit.

"

I think this pretty much sums it up nicely

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"So many entitled people posting these threads of late, if you don't like it, hit delete and leave, go elsewhere, bloody simple really, doesn't take a genius to work it out!!

This. thanks, just getting heartily sick of people whinging to be honest lol xx"

Me too and I think some of it is because they aren't successful in getting meets, so blame everyone else

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So many entitled people posting these threads of late, if you don't like it, hit delete and leave, go elsewhere, bloody simple really, doesn't take a genius to work it out!!

This. thanks, just getting heartily sick of people whinging to be honest lol xx

Me too and I think some of it is because they aren't successful in getting meets, so blame everyone else "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot the most important site here.

Fabwhingers

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Im still quite new. I find it to be mainly a sending messages to inundated females that never get read! Occasional red hot meet or the odd filthy picture in my inbox!

Mainly enjoy chatting rubbish on the forums these days. Quite like the freedom to say whatever I like to people outside my normal world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a chat site lol.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I forgot the most important site here.

Fabwhingers "

numpties lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It is a chat site lol."

Yes, first and foremost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I forgot the most important site here.

Fabwhingers numpties lol "

I'm a Fabnumptie.

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"So many entitled people posting these threads of late, if you don't like it, hit delete and leave, go elsewhere, bloody simple really, doesn't take a genius to work it out!!

This. thanks, just getting heartily sick of people whinging to be honest lol xx

Me too and I think some of it is because they aren't successful in getting meets, so blame everyone else exactly"

nail pretty much hit on the head there

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I forgot the most important site here.

Fabwhingers numpties lol

I'm a Fabnumptie. "

naughtynumpties lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

A lot of men here think it's a site for ordering free women for a fuck.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Surely this place is a social media place that has sex as a subject out in the open.

Facebook is social friends, tinder is quick date; elite, pof, match, etc. are vanilla I want a partner and here is social with sex.

If we were all in a room, then its the same. Some will just want to chat, others looking to fuck, others into groups, ... It's just a social site for those who swing.

I've been here since 2008 (I think), maybe earlier. Hopped over from AFF as it was too international. I don't think the place has changed a bit.

"

Yes, the forums make it a social media for those who use them. Th OP just smacks of disillusionment when someone who thought he could get laid without any effort or cost found out there's no such thing as a free lunch after all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anybody should be surprised to find on a swingers site that there are people who enjoy the social aspect that traditionally comes with swinging. Ive no doubt the OP, and the other guy who prefers to use this site as a fuck site, wound totally disapprove of the way my husband and I use this site. But as a couple we would not be welcome on a dating site, nor would I find on a dating site guys who want to be a hotwife's lover. So I'm afraid we're here stay. Sorry.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

It's a two pronged thing for me.. I'm the sort of person who needs a person to care for and be cared by. Sex can only carry me so long.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Its a swinging site... It really couldn't be more obvious... Lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"A lot of men here think it's a site for ordering free women for a fuck."

And a fair few women who think it's a site to order free men for a fuck too .

Oh and plenty of women who think it's a site to find the perfect man for an exclusive relationship !

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"A lot of men here think it's a site for ordering free women for a fuck.

And a fair few women who think it's a site to order free men for a fuck too .

Oh and plenty of women who think it's a site to find the perfect man for an exclusive relationship !

"

The second bit is me,although I want a relationship with a bisexual man so I can still have bi mmf's

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"A lot of men here think it's a site for ordering free women for a fuck.

And a fair few women who think it's a site to order free men for a fuck too .

Oh and plenty of women who think it's a site to find the perfect man for an exclusive relationship !

The second bit is me,although I want a relationship with a bisexual man so I can still have bi mmf's "

That's far from being an exclusive relationship though isn't it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"A lot of men here think it's a site for ordering free women for a fuck.

And a fair few women who think it's a site to order free men for a fuck too .

Oh and plenty of women who think it's a site to find the perfect man for an exclusive relationship !

The second bit is me,although I want a relationship with a bisexual man so I can still have bi mmf's

That's far from being an exclusive relationship though isn't it "

It's nearly exclusive I just don't want any other women involved,any other men are fully inclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life."

But then they would expect a date and you might not get sex. On here, you might not get sex, but you won't be seen as a potential boyfriend. That's what dating is about isn't it?

This site may give some people the opportunity to log on and find a cock/hole for a quick poke, but don't expect everyone to want that. As someone else said, I have toys I can fill myself with, without leaving my bed or getting dressed for. You should look for hook up sex sites.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

As long as people are honrst in what they are here looking for, then I think it can suit many peoples needs, just message the ones that match what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so the singles who want conversation prior to sex get sent to a dating site. So that will be one way of reducing the people who don't use this 'fuck' site correctly. Now what about the couples who want conversation prior to sex? We can't send them to a dating site because couples aren't welcome on dating sites. I know, we could send them to a swingers site......

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders out of man cave...rubs eyes learns reading looks at thread...

Decides it's another dissatisfied customer...redirects them to complaints department...

Shakes head... slips quietly back into man cave..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Wanders out of man cave...rubs eyes learns reading looks at thread...

Decides it's another dissatisfied customer...redirects them to complaints department...

Shakes head... slips quietly back into man cave.."

ooohh don't go.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever people want to use the site for. Some like just a couple of messages then fuck n go. Some chat for months before a meet.

I'll use the site however I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men here think it's a site for ordering free women for a fuck."

At least they make it obvious from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this place is a social media place that has sex as a subject out in the open.

Facebook is social friends, tinder is quick date; elite, pof, match, etc. are vanilla I want a partner and here is social with sex.

If we were all in a room, then its the same. Some will just want to chat, others looking to fuck, others into groups, ... It's just a social site for those who swing.

I've been here since 2008 (I think), maybe earlier. Hopped over from AFF as it was too international. I don't think the place has changed a bit.

Yes, the forums make it a social media for those who use them. Th OP just smacks of disillusionment when someone who thought he could get laid without any effort or cost found out there's no such thing as a free lunch after all!! "

Yup. It becomes like a broken record. Bemoaning the fact that they cant get anyone to meet them, cos they didnt think they would have to make any effort at all. Like spoilt little children stamping their feet and chucking around blame

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i've had dates off here, not all men are like you OP. most of them are but not all of them.

the site has never deleted my account or theirs for doing so either.

when i get approached like i'm a pro i feel like typing out a price list.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

"

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men here think it's a site for ordering free women for a fuck.

And a fair few women who think it's a site to order free men for a fuck too .

Oh and plenty of women who think it's a site to find the perfect man for an exclusive relationship !

"

All true though as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as people are honrst in what they are here looking for, then I think it can suit many peoples needs, just message the ones that match what you are looking for "

Best advice I've read on FAB all day.. be honest.. all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so the singles who want conversation prior to sex get sent to a dating site. So that will be one way of reducing the people who don't use this 'fuck' site correctly. Now what about the couples who want conversation prior to sex? We can't send them to a dating site because couples aren't welcome on dating sites. I know, we could send them to a swingers site......

Mrs"

Please don't send me back to PoF - ive only just made a profile up o it.. saying.. On holiday indefinitely Having a Fab Time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've had dates off here, not all men are like you OP. most of them are but not all of them.

the site has never deleted my account or theirs for doing so either.

when i get approached like i'm a pro i feel like typing out a price list."

It does, occasionally, feel like I should have a price list. I'm fortunate that I have met some lovely men, who like my company as much as my cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose individuals use the site in the bestbway it suits them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose individuals use the site in the best way it suits them "

Individuals includes couple too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead . "

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez"

Also i treat a women with the upmost respect not like a piece of shit..I dont say fancy a fuck or send cock pics either.

Im quite happy with my partner seeking abit of fun with or without her(yes she knows)and dont need the endless chat..

Theres a difference between having a nice quick conversation and seeing what the other is after and just endless waffle!!!

A 'quick chat' to me isnt hi how r u fancy abit of this!!! FFS!!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez

Also i treat a women with the upmost respect not like a piece of shit..I dont say fancy a fuck or send cock pics either.

Im quite happy with my partner seeking abit of fun with or without her(yes she knows)and dont need the endless chat..

Theres a difference between having a nice quick conversation and seeing what the other is after and just endless waffle!!!

A 'quick chat' to me isnt hi how r u fancy abit of this!!! FFS!!!"

why so angry?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll stick to swing clubs with my partner i think!!

Fuuuuck lifes hard!!

Thanks all anyway.some good views,some errrr not..x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'll stick to swing clubs with my partner i think!!

Fuuuuck lifes hard!!

Thanks all anyway.some good views,some errrr not..x"

sarcasm isn't very endearing

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

When I first joined Fab, I was like a child in a candy shop, met quite a few men in and out of clubs, worked behind the bar at one north west club for a while, and listened to how some (only some) talked about women as just a way of emptying their sack so to speak changed what I was looking for in a meet after a couple of years.

What I did learn about myself was that random meets with people who I had passed a few messages with before hand, after a while did nothing for me. Now I prefer to have regular meets and with people who are prepared to get to know me and me know them, and it takes more I would say than a dozen messages for that to happen.

But people are different and lpok for different things at times in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm using it to find out about clubs etc. Still easing my way into the scene though

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick to swing clubs with my partner i think!!

Fuuuuck lifes hard!!

Thanks all anyway.some good views,some errrr not..x"

One reason I don't go to clubs is because I don't want to be a convenient hole for a horny man who needs to blow his load.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick to swing clubs with my partner i think!!

Fuuuuck lifes hard!!

Thanks all anyway.some good views,some errrr not..x

One reason I don't go to clubs is because I don't want to be a convenient hole for a horny man who needs to blow his load.

"

They are a good place to meet genuine people who are not hiding away at their mums house. Jacking off to xhamster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fuck site

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's a fuck site"
no it's a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez"

What did you have for dinner?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez

What did you have for dinner? "

pizza, how about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez

What did you have for dinner? pizza, how about you?"

Nothing yet

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez

What did you have for dinner? pizza, how about you?

Nothing yet "

have some of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez

What did you have for dinner? pizza, how about you?

Nothing yet have some of mine "

I was hoping the OP would let me know what he had for dinner. I'm extremely interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fuck site"

You are not looking for friendship then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shocker the OP isn't getting any meets isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

that's the impression I sadly got from reading through this post .

I will never understand why if a guy only wants a shag and go he doesn't take the lady of the night route

at the end of the day taking such a route is a guarantee of satisfaction .

instead they decide to rant about it not being easy instead of taking the easy route the mind boggles it really does .

maybe they don't take the easy route because it isn't a free ride so they end up being a tight fisted ranting wanker instead .

Your very much mistaken and taking everything i wrote right out of context...

Years ago when i seen someone i liked i messaged them.

If they were interested they messaged me back.

Probably sent about 5 messages each and met up at mineor theres.

End of.

Now it seems im spending hrs messaging back n too talking about what i had for flippin dinner before they'd meet up....jeeeeeez"

Years ago? How many years ago sweetcheeks?

Call me the eternal cynic, but this sounds like utter shite.

And if it SOUNDS like utter shite...

There is a jolly good chance that, yes youve guessed it

It IS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's a fuck site

You are not looking for friendship then ?"

clearly just fucking every one on the site then

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door "
actually, well done for your post, what a good way of clarifying things xx

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's a shocker the OP isn't getting any meets isn't it

"

I cant quite believe it Mouse. I mean surely they must be beating a path to his door...

Many in relationships, either with or without their partner's knowledge, use it to recreate the rush of dating without the strings attached. I like the chase, the hunt. I love to charm my potential meets and I want to be captivated in turn. I want sweeping off my feet in that heady cocktail of lust and anticipation and nerves and...

...sorry, I probably went on too long there for ya OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shocker the OP isn't getting any meets isn't it

I cant quite believe it Mouse. I mean surely they must be beating a path to his door...

Many in relationships, either with or without their partner's knowledge, use it to recreate the rush of dating without the strings attached. I like the chase, the hunt. I love to charm my potential meets and I want to be captivated in turn. I want sweeping off my feet in that heady cocktail of lust and anticipation and nerves and...

...sorry, I probably went on too long there for ya OP "

Chat chat bloody chat. Shut up woman, you're giving us girls a bad reputation

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's a shocker the OP isn't getting any meets isn't it

I cant quite believe it Mouse. I mean surely they must be beating a path to his door...

Many in relationships, either with or without their partner's knowledge, use it to recreate the rush of dating without the strings attached. I like the chase, the hunt. I love to charm my potential meets and I want to be captivated in turn. I want sweeping off my feet in that heady cocktail of lust and anticipation and nerves and...

...sorry, I probably went on too long there for ya OP

Chat chat bloody chat. Shut up woman, you're giving us girls a bad reputation "

Love a good chat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shocker the OP isn't getting any meets isn't it

I cant quite believe it Mouse. I mean surely they must be beating a path to his door...

Many in relationships, either with or without their partner's knowledge, use it to recreate the rush of dating without the strings attached. I like the chase, the hunt. I love to charm my potential meets and I want to be captivated in turn. I want sweeping off my feet in that heady cocktail of lust and anticipation and nerves and...

...sorry, I probably went on too long there for ya OP

Chat chat bloody chat. Shut up woman, you're giving us girls a bad reputation

Love a good chat.. "

And you lady.....out you go *opens door*

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It's whatever you want it to be. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shocker the OP isn't getting any meets isn't it

I cant quite believe it Mouse. I mean surely they must be beating a path to his door...

Many in relationships, either with or without their partner's knowledge, use it to recreate the rush of dating without the strings attached. I like the chase, the hunt. I love to charm my potential meets and I want to be captivated in turn. I want sweeping off my feet in that heady cocktail of lust and anticipation and nerves and...

...sorry, I probably went on too long there for ya OP

Chat chat bloody chat. Shut up woman, you're giving us girls a bad reputation "

Yeah Shhhhhh and get your kit off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc..."

It should be used by your rules huh? Not bloody likely. I'd rather use my wand than have a fuck n go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shocker the OP isn't getting any meets isn't it

I cant quite believe it Mouse. I mean surely they must be beating a path to his door...

Many in relationships, either with or without their partner's knowledge, use it to recreate the rush of dating without the strings attached. I like the chase, the hunt. I love to charm my potential meets and I want to be captivated in turn. I want sweeping off my feet in that heady cocktail of lust and anticipation and nerves and...

...sorry, I probably went on too long there for ya OP

Chat chat bloody chat. Shut up woman, you're giving us girls a bad reputation

Yeah Shhhhhh and get your kit off "

I know, I'm wasting time. Ok, let's get on with it. You too, drop 'em blossom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..so are you saying the site is instashag and that all women should drop our knickers whenever a man clicks his fingers OP?

What? How on earth have you possibly come up with that statement from what i wrote????

It a two way thing.

Thats not what im saying at all is it??

Basically why would i want to spend hrs textin back and two to someone i find attractive knowing full well she knows what im after on a sex site???

Applies both ways..

So don't spend hours doing that, just concentrate on those who are up for a quick shag, I'm sure there must be others like yourself on here "

Well it sounds like a whinge to me, so I'm guessing he isn't getting the quick shag he feels he's entitled to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick to swing clubs with my partner i think!!

Fuuuuck lifes hard!!

Thanks all anyway.some good views,some errrr not..x"

If swing clubs work better for you than Fab that all good. Fab doesn't work for everyone. Wound you moan about Tescos if you found Sainsbury's worked better for you? Or would you just quietly go to where you get results. I actually agree with you, we too have probably had more fun from clubs. But Fab has its role for us. If it didn't we wouldn't be here. Why are you here?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so the singles who want conversation prior to sex get sent to a dating site. So that will be one way of reducing the people who don't use this 'fuck' site correctly. Now what about the couples who want conversation prior to sex? We can't send them to a dating site because couples aren't welcome on dating sites. I know, we could send them to a swingers site......

Mrs

Please don't send me back to PoF - ive only just made a profile up o it.. saying.. On holiday indefinitely Having a Fab Time!"

Ha ha. At least you as a single have somewhere to go when the 'it's a fuck site' brigade kick every off Fab for not playing by their rules. Whereas the couples have nowhere to go.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

I wonder if the one absolute truth that has changed is that in this time, since the good old days of you getting quick meets OP, you got older. Perhaps you just aren't as desired any more....

(tongue in cheek )

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door "

Everyone in Fab should visit a swing club at some point; the preconceptions of both using Fab, and what happens inside a club, are very similar, and usually give similar results

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..

I wonder if the one absolute truth that has changed is that in this time, since the good old days of you getting quick meets OP, you got older. Perhaps you just aren't as desired any more....

(tongue in cheek )"

But in turn, relatively speaking, the people most likely to want to meet him have also aged

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Ok so the singles who want conversation prior to sex get sent to a dating site. So that will be one way of reducing the people who don't use this 'fuck' site correctly. Now what about the couples who want conversation prior to sex? We can't send them to a dating site because couples aren't welcome on dating sites. I know, we could send them to a swingers site......

Mrs

Please don't send me back to PoF - ive only just made a profile up o it.. saying.. On holiday indefinitely Having a Fab Time!

Ha ha. At least you as a single have somewhere to go when the 'it's a fuck site' brigade kick every off Fab for not playing by their rules. Whereas the couples have nowhere to go.

Mrs"

Couples have the clubs

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

The internet is a means of communication. The nature/theme of a site may suggest how users may wish to communicate, but at the end of the day, people will use a site for what they wish to. It's pointless getting het up about it.

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By *londie Miss NaughtyWoman
over a year ago

London and Kent

Women like to chat, meet for a drink, feel SAFE god forbid before skipping off to fuck someone never to be seen again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all sites in one.

Fabswingers

Fabdaters

Fabcammers

Fabchatters

Fabwankers

Fabfuckers

Fabfriends

Fabforumites

Fabtimewasters

Fabdreamers

.

Have I missed any off? "

Fabfakeprofile....ers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

It is what you want it to be x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

this is a swingers site, that you want fuck and go, is as equidistant from the original, as those looking on here for a relationship. but as it hosts you without complaint, i would suggest and uphold, that the whole spectrum is allowed...do you ask to much to 'fuck and go'? to some yes, to some no..that is the way it is..subjective perception..and no i don't have to do anything i don't want to, and you, have the same choice. neither of us has to justify our existence here, isn't that nice ?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door "

Yep , that's why we stopped going to clubs , exactly that . Six years ago when we first started swinging a visit to a club was pretty much exactly what we would have expected - that being a fun fillled night of hedonistic fun .

As the years passed the club scene became decidedly socially orientated and 2 years ago we stopped going as we got jaded by the endless chat and people drinking to get into the mood to play . What a bore !

I think the op is getting a bit of a rough ride here , he isn't the only one thinking the way he is . There's plenty of swingers on here who think the same way , they just don't use the forum as they are too busy shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is a swingers site, that you want fuck and go, is as equidistant from the original, as those looking on here for a relationship. but as it hosts you without complaint, i would suggest and uphold, that the whole spectrum is allowed...do you ask to much to 'fuck and go'? to some yes, to some no..that is the way it is..subjective perception..and no i don't have to do anything i don't want to, and you, have the same choice. neither of us has to justify our existence here, isn't that nice ? "

that post turned me on

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By *aughty-minxWoman
over a year ago

swindon

They r indeed!! But I've had dates from this site, and a relationship.....

Also good for just a fuck. Personally I'm not a swinger, but u can't get a bit of whatever u like from this site! I'm also on dating sites and most the men on them r on here too??

Each to their own I guess! As long as everyone is having fun x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..so are you saying the site is instashag and that all women should drop our knickers whenever a man clicks his fingers OP?

What? How on earth have you possibly come up with that statement from what i wrote????

It a two way thing.

Thats not what im saying at all is it??

Basically why would i want to spend hrs textin back and two to someone i find attractive knowing full well she knows what im after on a sex site???

Applies both ways..

So don't spend hours doing that, just concentrate on those who are up for a quick shag, I'm sure there must be others like yourself on here

Well it sounds like a whinge to me, so I'm guessing he isn't getting the quick shag he feels he's entitled to."

Thank you, that was my point

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door

Yep , that's why we stopped going to clubs , exactly that . Six years ago when we first started swinging a visit to a club was pretty much exactly what we would have expected - that being a fun fillled night of hedonistic fun .

As the years passed the club scene became decidedly socially orientated and 2 years ago we stopped going as we got jaded by the endless chat and people drinking to get into the mood to play . What a bore !

I think the op is getting a bit of a rough ride here , he isn't the only one thinking the way he is . There's plenty of swingers on here who think the same way , they just don't use the forum as they are too busy shagging "

I think the OP needs to realise we aren't all the same. Some are shag and go and some like to have a chat, socialise and then shag and go. Surely we can all use this site the way we want to. He says he spend hours chatting... why is he bothering with that if there are plenty of swingers that think the same way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nothing important to add to the debate, im only here as someone said there was free pizza

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door

Yep , that's why we stopped going to clubs , exactly that . Six years ago when we first started swinging a visit to a club was pretty much exactly what we would have expected - that being a fun fillled night of hedonistic fun .

As the years passed the club scene became decidedly socially orientated and 2 years ago we stopped going as we got jaded by the endless chat and people drinking to get into the mood to play . What a bore !

I think the op is getting a bit of a rough ride here , he isn't the only one thinking the way he is . There's plenty of swingers on here who think the same way , they just don't use the forum as they are too busy shagging

I think the OP needs to realise we aren't all the same. Some are shag and go and some like to have a chat, socialise and then shag and go. Surely we can all use this site the way we want to. He says he spend hours chatting... why is he bothering with that if there are plenty of swingers that think the same way?"

Of course we can all use the site the way we want to . We certainly do , and love it .

But the flack he is getting seems very harsh when all he has really said is that it seems to have changed over the years . He said it used to be a case of five messages and then a meet , and niw it seems like endless chat goes nowhere .

That's his choice to engage in it in the first place of course , but he may well have a point .

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door

Yep , that's why we stopped going to clubs , exactly that . Six years ago when we first started swinging a visit to a club was pretty much exactly what we would have expected - that being a fun fillled night of hedonistic fun .

As the years passed the club scene became decidedly socially orientated and 2 years ago we stopped going as we got jaded by the endless chat and people drinking to get into the mood to play . What a bore !

I think the op is getting a bit of a rough ride here , he isn't the only one thinking the way he is . There's plenty of swingers on here who think the same way , they just don't use the forum as they are too busy shagging

I think the OP needs to realise we aren't all the same. Some are shag and go and some like to have a chat, socialise and then shag and go. Surely we can all use this site the way we want to. He says he spend hours chatting... why is he bothering with that if there are plenty of swingers that think the same way?

Of course we can all use the site the way we want to . We certainly do , and love it .

But the flack he is getting seems very harsh when all he has really said is that it seems to have changed over the years . He said it used to be a case of five messages and then a meet , and niw it seems like endless chat goes nowhere .

That's his choice to engage in it in the first place of course , but he may well have a point ."

He does have a point, which is why i agreed with him in my first response. But then I think swinging has changed and become more diverse and that can only be a good thing, so we can all get something we enjoy from this site. The Op is trying to tell others what they should do, rather than concentrating on contacting people

who are after the same thing as him. We are into chatting socialising and shagging,if we all get on and that works for us, because they are the type of people we look for

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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We all use the site the way we want to. Despite a lot of people being appalled it seems on this thread that includes the ops way. The glee shown here at the ops apparent lack of success is every bit as unwelcome as the whinging your accusing him of. His experience of the site has changed is all he has really said. Just remember we've all read the threads about people having pofiles where you have to jump through hoops to meet them. Thats how i read the initial post.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"this is a swingers site, that you want fuck and go, is as equidistant from the original, as those looking on here for a relationship. but as it hosts you without complaint, i would suggest and uphold, that the whole spectrum is allowed...do you ask to much to 'fuck and go'? to some yes, to some no..that is the way it is..subjective perception..and no i don't have to do anything i don't want to, and you, have the same choice. neither of us has to justify our existence here, isn't that nice ?

that post turned me on "

at least it did it, for someone thought i was losing my touch for a second..i was wondering if i would have to resort to gimp masks and gaffa tape for any nookie thank you thrillseeker, forget the missile im a pacifist you made my day x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We all use the site the way we want to. Despite a lot of people being appalled it seems on this thread that includes the ops way. The glee shown here at the ops apparent lack of success is every bit as unwelcome as the whinging your accusing him of. His experience of the site has changed is all he has really said. Just remember we've all read the threads about people having pofiles where you have to jump through hoops to meet them. Thats how i read the initial post."

I think it's the way he's trying to tell others what they should be doing, as in logging in and finding a fuck, rather than socializing and chatting, isn't it up to us how we use this site?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"We all use the site the way we want to. Despite a lot of people being appalled it seems on this thread that includes the ops way. The glee shown here at the ops apparent lack of success is every bit as unwelcome as the whinging your accusing him of. His experience of the site has changed is all he has really said. Just remember we've all read the threads about people having pofiles where you have to jump through hoops to meet them. Thats how i read the initial post.

I think it's the way he's trying to tell others what they should be doing, as in logging in and finding a fuck, rather than socializing and chatting, isn't it up to us how we use this site?"

See i dont get that vibe. If you take what hes put literally and combine with a lot of threads that appear and are obviously straight up whinges then yes. Read it like i did and focus more on the point he seems to me to be making about having to chat more these days than in the past then no. I read it has he simply wishes to get to the point quickly rather than muck about. That isnt the way everyone wants to go about things of course. That doesnt make him the instashag wanting omg go pay a prostitute you dickhead guy that people are making him out to be. He probably could have worded it better. We are all guilty of that sometimes arent we?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Any site that's free is going to be used by people for a fuck xxx"

Face book is free

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

I can't say wot fab wos like befor but I mist admit I'm on hear but on the dating side of things.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We all use the site the way we want to. Despite a lot of people being appalled it seems on this thread that includes the ops way. The glee shown here at the ops apparent lack of success is every bit as unwelcome as the whinging your accusing him of. His experience of the site has changed is all he has really said. Just remember we've all read the threads about people having pofiles where you have to jump through hoops to meet them. Thats how i read the initial post.

I think it's the way he's trying to tell others what they should be doing, as in logging in and finding a fuck, rather than socializing and chatting, isn't it up to us how we use this site?

See i dont get that vibe. If you take what hes put literally and combine with a lot of threads that appear and are obviously straight up whinges then yes. Read it like i did and focus more on the point he seems to me to be making about having to chat more these days than in the past then no. I read it has he simply wishes to get to the point quickly rather than muck about. That isnt the way everyone wants to go about things of course. That doesnt make him the instashag wanting omg go pay a prostitute you dickhead guy that people are making him out to be. He probably could have worded it better. We are all guilty of that sometimes arent we?"

Well I didn't make those comments, my comments were we all use this site the way we choose and not how someone else wants us to use it. As another poster on here said, there are others on here like him, so hopefully he can hook up with them

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..

I can't say wot fab wos like befor but I mist admit I'm on hear but on the dating side of things."

Hey _eeside, good man! The voice of reason

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"We all use the site the way we want to. Despite a lot of people being appalled it seems on this thread that includes the ops way. The glee shown here at the ops apparent lack of success is every bit as unwelcome as the whinging your accusing him of. His experience of the site has changed is all he has really said. Just remember we've all read the threads about people having pofiles where you have to jump through hoops to meet them. Thats how i read the initial post.

I think it's the way he's trying to tell others what they should be doing, as in logging in and finding a fuck, rather than socializing and chatting, isn't it up to us how we use this site?

See i dont get that vibe. If you take what hes put literally and combine with a lot of threads that appear and are obviously straight up whinges then yes. Read it like i did and focus more on the point he seems to me to be making about having to chat more these days than in the past then no. I read it has he simply wishes to get to the point quickly rather than muck about. That isnt the way everyone wants to go about things of course. That doesnt make him the instashag wanting omg go pay a prostitute you dickhead guy that people are making him out to be. He probably could have worded it better. We are all guilty of that sometimes arent we?

Well I didn't make those comments, my comments were we all use this site the way we choose and not how someone else wants us to use it. As another poster on here said, there are others on here like him, so hopefully he can hook up with them "

Absolutely. Your comments have been fair.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

OP, you sound like the guy who chases couples around clubs and gets huffy when nobody will play with your winkle.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..

I can't say wot fab wos like befor but I mist admit I'm on hear but on the dating side of things.

Hey _eeside, good man! The voice of reason "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I enjoy a social to be a date of sorts. I've enjoyed some nice afternoons/evenings with people I'd never have met otherwise. Lets face it a date outside fab is a pretext to what we would deem a meet. All parties are just a bit more straight up here.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We all use the site the way we want to. Despite a lot of people being appalled it seems on this thread that includes the ops way. The glee shown here at the ops apparent lack of success is every bit as unwelcome as the whinging your accusing him of. His experience of the site has changed is all he has really said. Just remember we've all read the threads about people having pofiles where you have to jump through hoops to meet them. Thats how i read the initial post.

I think it's the way he's trying to tell others what they should be doing, as in logging in and finding a fuck, rather than socializing and chatting, isn't it up to us how we use this site?

See i dont get that vibe. If you take what hes put literally and combine with a lot of threads that appear and are obviously straight up whinges then yes. Read it like i did and focus more on the point he seems to me to be making about having to chat more these days than in the past then no. I read it has he simply wishes to get to the point quickly rather than muck about. That isnt the way everyone wants to go about things of course. That doesnt make him the instashag wanting omg go pay a prostitute you dickhead guy that people are making him out to be. He probably could have worded it better. We are all guilty of that sometimes arent we?

Well I didn't make those comments, my comments were we all use this site the way we choose and not how someone else wants us to use it. As another poster on here said, there are others on here like him, so hopefully he can hook up with them

Absolutely. Your comments have been fair."

Thank you.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..

I can't say wot fab wos like befor but I mist admit I'm on hear but on the dating side of things.

Hey _eeside, good man! The voice of reason

Lol "

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"OP, you sound like the guy who chases couples around clubs and gets huffy when nobody will play with your winkle. "

Despite my posts above i did find this hilarious

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Personally I enjoy a social to be a date of sorts. I've enjoyed some nice afternoons/evenings with people I'd never have met otherwise. Lets face it a date outside fab is a pretext to what we would deem a meet. All parties are just a bit more straight up here. "

Nicely put

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"OP, you sound like the guy who chases couples around clubs and gets huffy when nobody will play with your winkle.

Despite my posts above i did find this hilarious "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy a social to be a date of sorts. I've enjoyed some nice afternoons/evenings with people I'd never have met otherwise. Lets face it a date outside fab is a pretext to what we would deem a meet. All parties are just a bit more straight up here.

Nicely put "

Not sure straight up was entirely the correct wording

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Personally I enjoy a social to be a date of sorts. I've enjoyed some nice afternoons/evenings with people I'd never have met otherwise. Lets face it a date outside fab is a pretext to what we would deem a meet. All parties are just a bit more straight up here.

Nicely put

Not sure straight up was entirely the correct wording "

I knew what you meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy a social to be a date of sorts. I've enjoyed some nice afternoons/evenings with people I'd never have met otherwise. Lets face it a date outside fab is a pretext to what we would deem a meet. All parties are just a bit more straight up here.

Nicely put

Not sure straight up was entirely the correct wording

I knew what you meant "

Phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so the singles who want conversation prior to sex get sent to a dating site. So that will be one way of reducing the people who don't use this 'fuck' site correctly. Now what about the couples who want conversation prior to sex? We can't send them to a dating site because couples aren't welcome on dating sites. I know, we could send them to a swingers site......

Mrs

Please don't send me back to PoF - ive only just made a profile up o it.. saying.. On holiday indefinitely Having a Fab Time!

Ha ha. At least you as a single have somewhere to go when the 'it's a fuck site' brigade kick every off Fab for not playing by their rules. Whereas the couples have nowhere to go.

Mrs

Couples have the clubs "

And each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To all who think you know me or how i act...

My post was to see if others thought this site has changed over the years and become a little bit towards the dating rather than playing side.

Anyone who wants to judge me personnally rather than the FS site i was questioning can go fuck themselves...

This post is about FS not me...

You dont know me or what my needs are..

Im not selfish arrogant rude or disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit like saying that if you go to a swingers club, you are going there to fuck, and people shouldn't be allowed in a club, if they only want to chat and flirt. Sex being obligatory when you walked through the door

Yep , that's why we stopped going to clubs , exactly that . Six years ago when we first started swinging a visit to a club was pretty much exactly what we would have expected - that being a fun fillled night of hedonistic fun .

As the years passed the club scene became decidedly socially orientated and 2 years ago we stopped going as we got jaded by the endless chat and people drinking to get into the mood to play . What a bore !

I think the op is getting a bit of a rough ride here , he isn't the only one thinking the way he is . There's plenty of swingers on here who think the same way , they just don't use the forum as they are too busy shagging

I think the OP needs to realise we aren't all the same. Some are shag and go and some like to have a chat, socialise and then shag and go. Surely we can all use this site the way we want to. He says he spend hours chatting... why is he bothering with that if there are plenty of swingers that think the same way?

Of course we can all use the site the way we want to . We certainly do , and love it .

But the flack he is getting seems very harsh when all he has really said is that it seems to have changed over the years . He said it used to be a case of five messages and then a meet , and niw it seems like endless chat goes nowhere .

That's his choice to engage in it in the first place of course , but he may well have a point ."

I think he is getting flack for saying how the site should be used.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

"

What is it with everyone saying that i didnt want to meet or chat??? FFS!!

I simply stated that a quick chat is more acceptable to me rather than tell my life story! Who said how long my quick chat was?

Maybe i could of worded my statement a little better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

What is it with everyone saying that i didnt want to meet or chat??? FFS!!

I simply stated that a quick chat is more acceptable to me rather than tell my life story! Who said how long my quick chat was?

Maybe i could of worded my statement a little better..."

That's fair enough, but could you at least tell me what you had for dinner last night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times.."

I'm guessing no one has replied to any of your "fancy a fuck tonight?" Messages so you thought you'd have a whinge because they're not dropping at your feet?

You can't blame them for wanting to get to know potential meets first. There's been a few incidents, where people have been attacked by the people they have met online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a few ladies on fab over the years, and they, like me, are looking to meet someone for a relationship with an equally high sex drive who's up for a bit of kink and experimenting.

On a normal dating site you have to hide the fact your basically a pervert, on here it's what brings you together.

How many girls never get to hear "valentines this year, why don't we sort you a gangbang?"

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I have been on here many yrs on and off and it seems to be changing ALOT!!

Is it just me or are females(cant comment on males) expecting too much from FS and the men on here.

I know some men are pricks and saying( fancy a fuck) isnt what women want to hear but they all seem to want too much like sort of dating...

Yrs ago we were all lets meet after a few words and then it went from there quickly at times..

I'm guessing no one has replied to any of your "fancy a fuck tonight?" Messages so you thought you'd have a whinge because they're not dropping at your feet?

You can't blame them for wanting to get to know potential meets first. There's been a few incidents, where people have been attacked by the people they have met online. "

Really thats awful. Never ever do that to anyone. Sick gets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

What is it with everyone saying that i didnt want to meet or chat??? FFS!!

I simply stated that a quick chat is more acceptable to me rather than tell my life story! Who said how long my quick chat was?

Maybe i could of worded my statement a little better...

That's fair enough, but could you at least tell me what you had for dinner last night? "

Chicken salad.

Nice actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a really interesting thread. I joined after the breakup of a long marriage as I had always been intrigued by the swinging world but my ex definitely wasn't.

As well as being on here I am also on a dating site, I really enjoy this site and especially the forums but have had much more luck in meeting people on the other site.

The problem is that I want to find someone who is into swinging and I don't see that happening in the vanilla world. So for me I am hoping that I do meet someone on here who is looking for more than a casual fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't fabswingers a swinging website ?

To me dating, fucking and swinging are 3 very different things.

Exactly my point!!!

Well swinging and fuckin come hand in hand as far i see.

I even read on another thread that women wanted to be woo'd on here?

Thats my point...

FS is a fuck site plain and simple.

It should be used by both parties to log onto when feelin in the mood and pick someone to fuck.not meet drink socialise etc...

Oh dude you're crude as hell!! If I simply wanted a cock I'd use a dildo. I want a conversation with the person I meet thanks!!

Missin the point and not reading what i put.

I did write a quick chat.

You might aswell go on a dating site if you want a full blown conversation about someones life.

Nope, you said a few words. That's fine if that's your style, that's what I'd go to a club for if that's was what I fancied, but even then I have an actual conversation. How are you meant to know what someone likes and doesn't like if you don't speak to them?

People are allowed to have views and opinions that differ from your own. It comes across you're frustrated that you now need to make an effort.

It seems as though you desire a prostitute without the cost, that's my view anyway

What is it with everyone saying that i didnt want to meet or chat??? FFS!!

I simply stated that a quick chat is more acceptable to me rather than tell my life story! Who said how long my quick chat was?

Maybe i could of worded my statement a little better...

That's fair enough, but could you at least tell me what you had for dinner last night?

Chicken salad.

Nice actually"

Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab, like everything else, is what you make it. You decide how to fit it into your life, not the other way around.

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