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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? " yes.. I was very angry. it had been discussed first.. it's ok provided my face and tats weren't on show. Check back on the couple a week later.. there's my mug and leg tattoo on display for all to see. Now.. I couldn't care less if I'm honest.. but back then.. mortified. | |||
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"I had a meet a while back with a couple, I didn't know pictures were taken that night until I logged on here the next day and seen the same couple had added new pics well I was horrified to see my whole body in a pic including my face eating her pussy but funny enough just her pussy showing in the pic, I messaged straight away asking for an explanation and for them to be taken down as I didn't give my permission for them to even be taken never mind posted! Also found out we were on cam too " That's bloody outrageous cheeky gits,how can they that's exceptable! | |||
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"It is a rather grey area" Not really: if you don't have the person's permission, you don't post a pic with them in it | |||
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"I know my view won't be popular but if there is no way to prove consent has been given, pics containing more than the profile holder/s shouldn't be allowed to be posted. " Sounds right to me. I dislike it. Single men with women on their pics, what's that all about? Your profile is your selling point. How does having other people show what you're like? Does it make them feel popular / hey look, I pulled this stunner. And some couples just as bad. We get a lot of views from couples clearly into black guys or interracial. Often their profiles show a white and a black guy. Erm so which one is the male half ? No need for it, people view profile photos to see what the profile owner(s) like. | |||
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"I know my view won't be popular but if there is no way to prove consent has been given, pics containing more than the profile holder/s shouldn't be allowed to be posted. " Spot on! | |||
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"I had a meet a while back with a couple, I didn't know pictures were taken that night until I logged on here the next day and seen the same couple had added new pics well I was horrified to see my whole body in a pic including my face eating her pussy but funny enough just her pussy showing in the pic, I messaged straight away asking for an explanation and for them to be taken down as I didn't give my permission for them to even be taken never mind posted! Also found out we were on cam too " I'd have been fuming. I don't get angry very often.. but when I do.. I'm venomous and unforgiving. Did you ever meet them again? | |||
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"It must be off putting seeing someone with other people in a singles profile " It most definitely is | |||
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? " Yes.. . An unauthorised pic with me in it was used.... not their best move....!!!!! I am recognisable due to tattoos..... work would have found out! | |||
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"yeah and they're in mine. so i do think most people get permission." With the greatest respect, I think they most probably don't. | |||
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"I had a meet a while back with a couple, I didn't know pictures were taken that night until I logged on here the next day and seen the same couple had added new pics well I was horrified to see my whole body in a pic including my face eating her pussy but funny enough just her pussy showing in the pic, I messaged straight away asking for an explanation and for them to be taken down as I didn't give my permission for them to even be taken never mind posted! Also found out we were on cam too I'd have been fuming. I don't get angry very often.. but when I do.. I'm venomous and unforgiving. Did you ever meet them again?" I've never set up a meet with them since but I have spotted them in a club didn't take long before they left didn't have to say anything either they just got the look | |||
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"Who the fuck would want me in their pics ruining the ambiance." Erm I'd best delete it then | |||
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"Who the fuck would want me in their pics ruining the ambiance. Erm I'd best delete it then " My hands aren't that hideous, they are still the worst part of the pic though | |||
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"I know my view won't be popular but if there is no way to prove consent has been given, pics containing more than the profile holder/s shouldn't be allowed to be posted. Sounds right to me. I dislike it. Single men with women on their pics, what's that all about? Your profile is your selling point. How does having other people show what you're like? Does it make them feel popular / hey look, I pulled this stunner. And some couples just as bad. We get a lot of views from couples clearly into black guys or interracial. Often their profiles show a white and a black guy. Erm so which one is the male half ? No need for it, people view profile photos to see what the profile owner(s) like. " | |||
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"Years ago when man chat ruled the world I got chatting to a fab couple, quite well known from another site as prolific cammers. They seemed quite interested in me and rolled through their avatar pics to prove the encounters they had. Then they produced a pic of my naked torso en flagrante with a woman I knew wasn't the female of the couple..shocked I was. The next pic was even better..again a pic of me with the same woman but my grimmacing visage on full display! I suggested we cam, they wouldn't show their faces..imagine their surprise when I revealed mine!" ** msn chat | |||
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"I wouldn't let anyone take photos of us. That solves any potential problems. " Exactly! | |||
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"It must be off putting seeing someone with other people in a singles profile " It sure is (for me) | |||
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? " Yes. I don't mind as long as face not showing, tho my ink usually is! And they keep them friends only x | |||
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"yep.... we were sent a pic of us onstage at Whitby Goth Weekend by someone who had seen it on Facebook...!!!! so they posted it on their own fab profile and must have had it passed by the photo mods .... then sent it in a message to us... was pissed at the photo mods mainly for allowing it.... should have reported it but, of course, didn't .... tbe moderation here is very flakey to say the least.... perhaps the couple were mods (one rule etc) in future we would report etc" Presumably the mods wouldn't have known the pic wasn't of the people posting it, or have I missed something? | |||
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? " I'd hope so but I'm guessing not always? | |||
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"I only have one with another user but it was entirely her idea, we'd agreed before hand that any pictures and videos were strictly our own so I was quite surprised " I didn't force you to post it though, did I? I just said that your cock looks great on that photo | |||
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"yep.... we were sent a pic of us onstage at Whitby Goth Weekend by someone who had seen it on Facebook...!!!! so they posted it on their own fab profile and must have had it passed by the photo mods .... then sent it in a message to us... was pissed at the photo mods mainly for allowing it.... should have reported it but, of course, didn't .... tbe moderation here is very flakey to say the least.... perhaps the couple were mods (one rule etc) in future we would report etc Presumably the mods wouldn't have known the pic wasn't of the people posting it, or have I missed something?" pic of the two of us with about 20 others clearly visible plus the singer.. so, yep you are | |||
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? " Yes, and yes I gave my permission, Last time I looked it was still his profile pic - his cock penetrating my ass. I still smile when I see it, because it's not a view I normally see. | |||
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"I wish I was in Brad Pitt’s photos with Angelina Jolie " Aren’t they divorced now? | |||
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"I wish I was in Brad Pitt’s photos with Angelina Jolie Aren’t they divorced now? " Yes | |||
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"Caught someone using my pictures as their own . I guess I should be flattered especially as they were allegedly 30 and I am 50 " There's a backhanded compliment in there somewhere | |||
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"Caught someone using my pictures as their own . I guess I should be flattered especially as they were allegedly 30 and I am 50 There's a backhanded compliment in there somewhere " Just means that there’s a 30 year old out there who needs specsavers | |||
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? " This is exactly why we "thanks but no thanks" people showing pictures of other people in their gallery. Who knows if consent has been given to share them? Who knows if somebody might know the person featured? It could be somebodys sister, cousin, wife etc... An ex FB put pictures of me in his profile... I went ballistic at him and refused to meet him again, even though he assured me he had deleted them. I don't understand the mentality where you see male profiles and most of their gallery is him hanging out some poor womans ass or gob, she's not likely to be part of the deal meeting him anyway so why do we need to see her? | |||
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"What if I put photos on and he doesn't know? " Thats fine... you are a lady you can do that (Joking of course) | |||
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"What if I put photos on and he doesn't know? Thats fine... you are a lady you can do that (Joking of course)" I'll do it now. | |||
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