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sort of given up on the site, but stick around

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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Well I sure don't hold my breath waiting for a message, when you read women constantly saying things like, WOW just checked my mail box got a 108 messages in the last 16 hours. You cant help thinking what chance do you have of getting a response, if that happened a couple of a days in a row, the girls must just do a mass delete, you are not going to read all of them, But here I am still on the site, well maybe I will get lucky every now and then ha ha, who else feels the same way ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sums up where we're at. Only here on the off chance we get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I sure don't hold my breath waiting for a message, when you read women constantly saying things like, WOW just checked my mail box got a 108 messages in the last 16 hours. You cant help thinking what chance do you have of getting a response, if that happened a couple of a days in a row, the girls must just do a mass delete, you are not going to read all of them, But here I am still on the site, well maybe I will get lucky every now and then ha ha, who else feels the same way ?"
I treat it as a bit of fun, if it goes somewhere all well and good. It's worth staying just to check out some of the arguments that ensure in the forums from the keyboard commandos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is something like 90% single males - if you set your expectations to just have a laugh and see what happens then you shouldn't be disappointed, but if you set your expectations on lots of sex then it's probably not going to meet that expectation

I'd say go to socials and get to know people, but I've done precisely zero of that (thus far, I really need to start going to socials!) so not really good for me to give advice that I don't follow myself

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Is it single man complaint day or something?

Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I look for couples as well / but only if they are looking for guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it single man complaint day or something?

Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.

"

Thursday is rant day just getting it off their chests

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

I'm here for the forums, and dates for when the pub group socials near me are.

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Well I sure don't hold my breath waiting for a message, when you read women constantly saying things like, WOW just checked my mail box got a 108 messages in the last 16 hours. You cant help thinking what chance do you have of getting a response, if that happened a couple of a days in a row, the girls must just do a mass delete, you are not going to read all of them, But here I am still on the site, well maybe I will get lucky every now and then ha ha, who else feels the same way ? I treat it as a bit of fun, if it goes somewhere all well and good. It's worth staying just to check out some of the arguments that ensure in the forums from the keyboard commandos"

Agree exactly, treat it as a bit of a laugh,enjoy the bit of banter on here , if you happen to hook up with someone, great, if not ,you'll live , wouldn't take it too seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the forum instead, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I use to get 50 messages a hour before I blocked all single guys.

I hope that has lifted your mood op lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that using filters wisely helps me to find the men I like. Some filter themselves out for me.

My profile, at the moment, is set to filter almost everyone out, but I'm still talking to prospective sexual partners.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Wow I use to get 50 messages a hour before I blocked all single guys.

I hope that has lifted your mood op lol x "

I used to get 10 messages a day before I blocked single guys too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it single man complaint day or something?

Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.

"

A lot of guys aren't comfortable with another guy present, so naturally they won't look for couples

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By *ustylikesgentsCouple
over a year ago

North wales coast

Move somewhere rural, I never get hundreds of messages as there are so few people here compared to the cities

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Is it single man complaint day or something?

Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.

A lot of guys aren't comfortable with another guy present, so naturally they won't look for couples "

Many single guys are also secure enough not to be phased by other men... fortunately

Nita

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Move somewhere rural, I never get hundreds of messages as there are so few people here compared to the cities"

I'm quite rural too, and receive messages like "Oh, you're so lucky to live in such a beautiful part of the country! But you're too far away for me x"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it single man complaint day or something?

Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.

A lot of guys aren't comfortable with another guy present, so naturally they won't look for couples

Many single guys are also secure enough not to be phased by other men... fortunately

Nita"

Yes they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as a single woman I'm supposed to have my pick of the site but I'm not doing that well on here either. It's the forums that keep me here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Well as a single woman I'm supposed to have my pick of the site but I'm not doing that well on here either. It's the forums that keep me here. "
exactly the same for me too x

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Same for me too OP, i dont have any hopes of getting a meet on here anymore. Just use it for the forums now and again and a perv

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By *0shades 2000Man
over a year ago

coleraine

I'm not having the best of luck on this either lol due I think that in my area there is only maybe 20 to 30 single women on this and about 500 men... so I guess I stay for the banter

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Well as a single woman I'm supposed to have my pick of the site but I'm not doing that well on here either. It's the forums that keep me here. "

You've had 6 meets in your 6 weeks membership, but your last meet was 3 weeks ago, so 6 meets in 3 weeks is pretty good going compared to most guys who are lucky if they get 1 meet in a year

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Is it single man complaint day or something?

Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.

"

The op is hardly complaining. Just making an observation of how the site is. The first reply was from a couple in the same boat. Single chaps are fully aware they are in the majority and are aware they are seeking the minority. Should they change what they want and go fab straight?

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