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By *ecs2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You are on your 64th email exchange. You have struck a clear rapport and clearly your sexual preferences are well aligned. You think it is finally time enough and not too pushy to suggest a meeting or at least an exchange of telephone numbers and then silence.

Men cope some stick on here for being time wasters and no shows. I love MFM sex and must have now had a 50+ email dialogue with 40+ couples on here and only 1 meet in a year...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"You are on your 64th email exchange. You have struck a clear rapport and clearly your sexual preferences are well aligned. You think it is finally time enough and not too pushy to suggest a meeting or at least an exchange of telephone numbers and then silence.

Men cope some stick on here for being time wasters and no shows. I love MFM sex and must have now had a 50+ email dialogue with 40+ couples on here and only 1 meet in a year..."

Could be worse; you may have actually met a couple for a social, which went well, but then their profile goes on hide, as they're 'taking a break', and they return a few weeks later, display meet veris and you find yourself unfriended......

It's their loss mate, not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life can be shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are on here because they finding it exciting or naughty they have no intention of meeting just to chat to get attention and compliments. They will ping pong message for weeks but always to busy to meet, I feel that's 80% of the people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were men!?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

It's certainly hard work on here think people like the chase not the kill.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That's particularly bad luck.

There's no fool proof way of telling if someone isn't going to meet I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

64th email exchange? I'd surely have expected something to be sorted by then.

We've swapped numbers by the 6th or 7th ...... 64!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I ping pong messages for weeks if necessary. I couldn't care less if this is perceived as time wasting. I do absolutely fine on here and so do other guys. It's all down to expectations and behaviours and communication skills and sociability. If men aren't meeting, try looking to improve those aspects.

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By *ecs2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

For someone who asserts communication skills are the key (and implying mine therefore must be poor) you don't even read. I have clearly expressed my conversations involve couples, not men.

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By *ecs2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Mate, as of I have not tried that. That is generally met with "you are being too pushy" or silence...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"For someone who asserts communication skills are the key (and implying mine therefore must be poor) you don't even read. I have clearly expressed my conversations involve couples, not men. "

If you mean me, do the quote so people know who you're talking to. By men I meant men I general all moaning about not meeting.

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By *ecs2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"For someone who asserts communication skills are the key (and implying mine therefore must be poor) you don't even read. I have clearly expressed my conversations involve couples, not men.

If you mean me, do the quote so people know who you're talking to. By men I meant men I general all moaning about not meeting. "

Yes I did mean you, I presumed when you reply to a quote specifically it would append. Glad you are having success Steve. It appears many others aren't and frankly, judging by the atrocious grammar on this site, I'd put my communication skills in the upper quartile. But thanks for your (inherently obvious) advice. Good luck to the rest of you guys feeling it is a futile adventure. You are not alone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For someone who asserts communication skills are the key (and implying mine therefore must be poor) you don't even read. I have clearly expressed my conversations involve couples, not men.

If you mean me, do the quote so people know who you're talking to. By men I meant men I general all moaning about not meeting. "

Inherently obvious though

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