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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

For me personally, if it did I wouldnt be looking towards a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me personally, if it did I wouldnt be looking towards a meet... "

So I thought too...

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

First of all, I read the title as FLAVOUR!!!!

And I don't do favours for anyone!!!

Well, unless they ask nicely, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh? "

Maybe this is new the?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First of all, I read the title as FLAVOUR!!!!

And I don't do favours for anyone!!!

Well, unless they ask nicely, lol "

So when asked nicely you do favour then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

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fuck me i wouldnt mind coming across someone who would let me fuck them as a favour . . . . . . though judging by some profiles on here you got to feel pretty honoured to get a reply, even go so far as to say that they are doing you a favour by saying piss off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

fuck me i wouldnt mind coming across someone who would let me fuck them as a favour . . . . . . though judging by some profiles on here you got to feel pretty honoured to get a reply, even go so far as to say that they are doing you a favour by saying piss off!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all, I read the title as FLAVOUR!!!!

And I don't do favours for anyone!!!

Well, unless they ask nicely, lol "

ha! so did i

got me thinking about what flavour a fuck is . . . . .

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"First of all, I read the title as FLAVOUR!!!!

And I don't do favours for anyone!!!

Well, unless they ask nicely, lol

So when asked nicely you do favour then? "

I could flavour them!! Bit of choc sauce etc!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to feel right on both sides to meet or i dont .

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By *illyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Charity hand job- can't wait for the advert on tv

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

"

With some it would appear so yes.

You only have to have a look at some of the threads (started in the main by women but couples can be just as bad) and you soon get the feel they expect guys to feel privileged for a chance to meet them.

Somewhere in the thread you will often find the phrase “it’s their loss”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has to feel right on both sides to meet or i dont ."

So it should be, I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

With some it would appear so yes.

You only have to have a look at some of the threads (started in the main by women but couples can be just as bad) and you soon get the feel they expect guys to feel privileged for a chance to meet them.

Somewhere in the thread you will often find the phrase “it’s their loss”.

"

Spot on!

You just captured the scenario I was trying to recreate

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Depends if by favour you mean a mercy fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if by favour you mean a mercy fuck "

Some see meeting you as your gain and if they don't your loss

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Depends if by favour you mean a mercy fuck

Some see meeting you as your gain and if they don't your loss "
The minority i would say, but if your an ugly fucker could well be the aforementioned

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

favour if returned.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh? "

just wondered if u could do me a favour xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if by favour you mean a mercy fuck

Some see meeting you as your gain and if they don't your loss The minority i would say, but if your an ugly fucker could well be the aforementioned "

I do hope they are minority for real

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh?

just wondered if u could do me a favour xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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With some it would appear so yes.

You only have to have a look at some of the threads (started in the main by women but couples can be just as bad) and you soon get the feel they expect guys to feel privileged for a chance to meet them.

Somewhere in the thread you will often find the phrase “it’s their loss”.

"

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh?

just wondered if u could do me a favour xx

"

Ohhhh can i have cherry flavoured please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

With some it would appear so yes.

You only have to have a look at some of the threads (started in the main by women but couples can be just as bad) and you soon get the feel they expect guys to feel privileged for a chance to meet them.

Somewhere in the thread you will often find the phrase “it’s their loss”.

Agreed. "

agreed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh?

just wondered if u could do me a favour xx

Ohhhh can i have cherry flavoured please "

if theres cherry ones going i'm in

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh?

just wondered if u could do me a favour xx

Ohhhh can i have cherry flavoured please

if theres cherry ones going i'm in "
Il hold the rope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've heard of a sympathy fuck but never a favour fuck.... learning all the time eh?

just wondered if u could do me a favour xx

Ohhhh can i have cherry flavoured please "

Of course you can it's a free world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right, gotta find a guy who would like to be smeared with ben and jerrys "cherry garcia frozen yoghurt"

hmmmmmmmm

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


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right, gotta find a guy who would like to be smeared with ben and jerrys "cherry garcia frozen yoghurt"

hmmmmmmmm "

How many tongue to lick it off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my own for a start and then who ever wants to join in

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

no sympathy shags... no taking one for the team... no pity fucks...

in the end, we are here for enjoyment.. so why would you put yourself thru something you wouldn't have fun doing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my own for a start and then who ever wants to join in "

i'm limbering up my tongue as i type

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Lol once in a while you do get that impression.... our answer is.... dont bother ta.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet should be mutually enjoyable by all those involved, IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no sympathy shags... no taking one for the team... no pity fucks...

in the end, we are here for enjoyment.. so why would you put yourself thru something you wouldn't have fun doing..."

I wonder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A meet should be mutually enjoyable by all those involved, IMHO."

My thought too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

"

I don't know if its the same thing, but I get mails from guys asking if they can 'help me out with what I'm looking for'.

I firstly like to establish what they think I'm looking for. On the whole if they bother to reply to that, I often don't like their assumption of what it is I'm after - so its sort of doomed from the start. Nobody likes to think others view them as frustrated or desperate to be seeking sex from strangers no matter how well intentioned their offer of help is.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I tried to arrange a meet with my FB, me and a bi guy. Found a guy, chat was going well until he suggested that after he'd return the favour with a bi girl for him and I to meet. Um thanks, but I'll pass on the favours... not how I roll really. If I'm arranging a meet, I don't consider a bi guy meeting us as a favour at all.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I would loan out my laser cock or FFR01 as a favour.

But not my real cock.

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d[ o_0 ]b ____(Speak for yourself loser!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

With some it would appear so yes.

You only have to have a look at some of the threads (started in the main by women but couples can be just as bad) and you soon get the feel they expect guys to feel privileged for a chance to meet them.

Somewhere in the thread you will often find the phrase “it’s their loss”.

Spot on!

You just captured the scenario I was trying to recreate "

and you wonder why I avoid these profiles. Arrogance is a BIG turn off for me. There is such a fine line between that and confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet should be mutually enjoyable by all those involved, IMHO."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people get chatting, and maybe working towards a 'meet', is it normal for any one of the parties to see it as doing the other a favour?

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why would you meet anyone as a favour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Somewhere in the thread you will often find the phrase “it’s their loss”.

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i never get the 'their loss' thing

If i message someone and they turn me down, its me who wanted to meet, its them who decided not to.....so hows that their loss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Somewhere in the thread you will often find the phrase “it’s their loss”.

i never get the 'their loss' thing

If i message someone and they turn me down, its me who wanted to meet, its them who decided not to.....so hows that their loss?

"

You can't lose what you never had in the first place, so that confuses me too. Well it doesnt - I realise its said to salve their ego same as those who say 'I was joking' when you pick up on their veilled insults or are so gobsmacked you don't find them intimidating they use other limp phrases to try and make themselves feel better.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Anyone suffering from their loss, don't panic.

There are all sorts of lotions you can rub in now and don't rule out a medical procedure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone suffering from their loss, don't panic.

There are all sorts of lotions you can rub in now and don't rule out a medical procedure."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with a good favour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could do with a good favour "

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