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"Wouldn't you be better taking a bank loan for the 1200 or even 1000 to wipe out the bulk of the debt and give you a bit of breathing space? Don't sign anything on the day, just take the information and then think it over for a few days " Thats what thge banks call a consolidation loan !!! | |||
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"The "catch" as you put it is that your bank knows X amount of customers will take out the loan and then run up another overdraft and therefore need the next loan... Its the debt treadmill " I was caught in this spiral having taking a loan out at 25 and still being in the cycle due to constant top ups whenever they were offered (who doesn't like free money ) I've committed to not getting any more top ups, budget properly and I finish my payments next year | |||
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"Ok this isn't the best place for personal issues I know. But I cant ask family as they'll judge me for it and none of my friends have experience with it. Basically the only debt I have is my overdraft 1200 and because I have gone over a couple of times my bank has made an appointment for me to have a consolidation loan. Apparently it will improve my credit rating and I won't notice the repayments. Everything the lady said made sense but I cant help thinking there's got to be a catch. Does anyone have any experience with this? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. You can pm me if you'd rather not post here. " They are good to get out of debt, BUT.. only if you dont then re-use the overdraft... all depends on how strict with yourself you can be. | |||
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"The "catch" as you put it is that your bank knows X amount of customers will take out the loan and then run up another overdraft and therefore need the next loan... Its the debt treadmill I was caught in this spiral having taking a loan out at 25 and still being in the cycle due to constant top ups whenever they were offered (who doesn't like free money ) I've committed to not getting any more top ups, budget properly and I finish my payments next year " . as with most things..it's easier said than done, well done | |||
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"Also check to see if you can get a zero % interest credit card to clear the overdraft but be careful as not all cards allow a balance transfer from a bank account." Sometimes, these are only 0% interest for a limited time, then the interest rates can then be high, at the end of the term. | |||
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"Budget better?? sounds like ur spending more than you earn..... consider cutting things like tv packages, gym memberships etc Stop the fast food... make meals in bulk and freeze them Before anybody starts.... I am currently in £32k worth of debt... after already paying off £14k So it can be done. I just work my ass off every month working lots of overtime, not having a social life. Hardly any alcohol. I do treat my self occasionally... but I still manage to pay off £1k a month. And I work for the NHS so my wage is rubbish. Donations exepted.... jk.... it's my mess and I'm sorting it" Very good advise and well done for managing your debt so well! | |||
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" it's my mess and I'm sorting it Fair Play! " Well... my mess and several things gone wrong in my life over the past few years... the biggest being basically throwing £18k in the bin... I'll be paying for that until 2020 | |||
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" it's my mess and I'm sorting it Fair Play! Well... my mess and several things gone wrong in my life over the past few years... the biggest being basically throwing £18k in the bin... I'll be paying for that until 2020" It just goes to show, it can be done though | |||
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" it's my mess and I'm sorting it Fair Play! Well... my mess and several things gone wrong in my life over the past few years... the biggest being basically throwing £18k in the bin... I'll be paying for that until 2020 It just goes to show, it can be done though " Yep... so people ur only allowed to moan if in a worse state than me lol Also on top of that debt I also have a £23k student loan.... but nobody counts that. Haha I'm currently working on getting rid of my overdraft... It was £2000 now £900 | |||
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" it's my mess and I'm sorting it Fair Play! Well... my mess and several things gone wrong in my life over the past few years... the biggest being basically throwing £18k in the bin... I'll be paying for that until 2020 It just goes to show, it can be done though Yep... so people ur only allowed to moan if in a worse state than me lol Also on top of that debt I also have a £23k student loan.... but nobody counts that. Haha I'm currently working on getting rid of my overdraft... It was £2000 now £900 " Wow, I'm impressed! I used to work in banking and have seem some horror stories. Some will listen to advise, as you obviously have and others continue to bury their heads in the sand. Not everyone can be helped, unfortunately. | |||
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" it's my mess and I'm sorting it Fair Play! Well... my mess and several things gone wrong in my life over the past few years... the biggest being basically throwing £18k in the bin... I'll be paying for that until 2020 It just goes to show, it can be done though Yep... so people ur only allowed to moan if in a worse state than me lol Also on top of that debt I also have a £23k student loan.... but nobody counts that. Haha I'm currently working on getting rid of my overdraft... It was £2000 now £900 Wow, I'm impressed! I used to work in banking and have seem some horror stories. Some will listen to advise, as you obviously have and others continue to bury their heads in the sand. Not everyone can be helped, unfortunately. " Actually no advice taken.... just common sense.... and the desperate need to hide it from my mother... she knows I owe money..... just not completely how much. | |||
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" it's my mess and I'm sorting it Fair Play! Well... my mess and several things gone wrong in my life over the past few years... the biggest being basically throwing £18k in the bin... I'll be paying for that until 2020 It just goes to show, it can be done though Yep... so people ur only allowed to moan if in a worse state than me lol Also on top of that debt I also have a £23k student loan.... but nobody counts that. Haha I'm currently working on getting rid of my overdraft... It was £2000 now £900 Wow, I'm impressed! I used to work in banking and have seem some horror stories. Some will listen to advise, as you obviously have and others continue to bury their heads in the sand. Not everyone can be helped, unfortunately. Actually no advice taken.... just common sense.... and the desperate need to hide it from my mother... she knows I owe money..... just not completely how much. " All the more credit to you then! | |||
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"For my overdraft I try to leave abit of money at the end of the month... e.g. £100 ... and then reduce the overdraft by that amount... that way I force my self not to spend the month the next month, as I am determined not to be overdrawn" | |||
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"Also check to see if you can get a zero % interest credit card to clear the overdraft but be careful as not all cards allow a balance transfer from a bank account." This is what I would do. Virgin do one interest-free for 28 months meaning you only have to pay minimum of £43 a month over that period and you also won't be incurring any interest fees. | |||
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"Thank you so much for your advice and messages. Sorry its late, busy day. If I do take the loan option I will definitely be reducing my overdraft as I don't want to fall back into this state again,I've just had a rough few years financially and want to get back on track. I will definitely look into the 0% credit card option too. I just wanted some non-biased opinions before the bank lady convinces me to sign my life away " Good luck! | |||
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" All the more credit to you then! " NO! that's what got her in the shit originally In all seriousness OP you're taking steps to sort it out and that's brilliant, maybe check Martin Lewis's money saving expert for more in depth advice. About 8/9 years ago I was further in the hole than you are now and came out the other side and I've no sense at all so it can be done. Good luck | |||
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"The "catch" as you put it is that your bank knows X amount of customers will take out the loan and then run up another overdraft and therefore need the next loan... Its the debt treadmill I was caught in this spiral having taking a loan out at 25 and still being in the cycle due to constant top ups whenever they were offered (who doesn't like free money ) I'm in the same boat, repayments over next year and that worry off my mind. Some lessons you have to learn for yourself. I've committed to not getting any more top ups, budget properly and I finish my payments next year " | |||
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"Thank you so much for your advice and messages. Sorry its late, busy day. If I do take the loan option I will definitely be reducing my overdraft as I don't want to fall back into this state again,I've just had a rough few years financially and want to get back on track. I will definitely look into the 0% credit card option too. I just wanted some non-biased opinions before the bank lady convinces me to sign my life away " Good luck | |||
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