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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

So you think everyone should just fuck anyone regardless of attraction?

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By *ugga81Man
over a year ago

West Malling

Why should the basis to which people decide to connect with each other on whatever level they wish be any different to 'normal' life? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the basis to which people decide to connect with each other on whatever level they wish be any different to 'normal' life? ??"

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

So we should all shag people we don't fancy?

Don't think so!

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"Why should the basis to which people decide to connect with each other on whatever level they wish be any different to 'normal' life? ??

Well said. "

So you fancy us high heels? Well it doesn't matter... it's a matter of principle, you are on a swingers site so you should come and fuck us .... thems the rules!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the basis to which people decide to connect with each other on whatever level they wish be any different to 'normal' life? ??

Well said. "

Couldn't have said it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there's got to be an attraction! the same rules apply as to dating, as they do on here!

There are some lush people on here if love to meet, but there are some that just don't flick my switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the basis to which people decide to connect with each other on whatever level they wish be any different to 'normal' life? ??"

This is completely spot on. I'm not going to have sex with someone if I don't feel sexually attracted to the person OP.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Having a spot of bother getting meets OP?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

I don't think people do go off of only how you look on here op I think its a factor but by no means is it the deciding factor in my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

I can't help but be reminded of a raw chicken drumstick when I see your profile pic

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm assuming you would rather be judged on your penis then.

Unfortunately, there's more to a person than a penis. Although some people are just huge walking, talking dicks.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Couldn't agree more, who do these women think they are being fussy about who they fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i judged men by their looks on here,i would get rejected several times a day.Personality for me every time,as an adonis wouldnt look at me at my age once let alone twice lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no physical attraction how would you get hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

I dont give a shit what you look like

If you're a deadhead, Im not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are relative. Remember..What one person. Likes, another won't....

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Perhaps try a fetish site where the gimp mask would negate the problem?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

If people went on sideways glances we'd all be worn out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks aren't everything but sex with someone you don't find remotely attractive would be boring. There'd be no spark and I think meeting through a site like this, the whole experience would be awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go on what a person looks like or the size of their cock I go by if we click and have an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day to use an old saying 'love at first sight' it's not love at first personality!!

I'm sure you op message the people your attracted to and not just any ole profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even cocks can look ugly, just saying.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Looks can spark an initial attraction, but I'd never make any decision based on that alone.

There has to be a mental attraction, sonething that connects in my mind, stimulates my brain.

No matter how hot soneone looked, or how big their dick was, if they don't make me laugh,think, smile then it's a no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks can spark an initial attraction, but I'd never make any decision based on that alone.

There has to be a mental attraction, sonething that connects in my mind, stimulates my brain.

No matter how hot soneone looked, or how big their dick was, if they don't make me laugh,think, smile then it's a no for me"

Absolutely but despite what some people say people start based on looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has to be a spark and connection .sometimes men message loads of women and go with anyone .this puts me off even if he's hot .so sometimes it's the person and way he is on fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks can spark an initial attraction, but I'd never make any decision based on that alone.

There has to be a mental attraction, sonething that connects in my mind, stimulates my brain.

No matter how hot soneone looked, or how big their dick was, if they don't make me laugh,think, smile then it's a no for me

Absolutely but despite what some people say people start based on looks. "

Totally agree, looks on here come first then they hope they have a good personality to back it up with, but chances are.......

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i don't always go off looks, have done for NSA sex coz if they aren't talking to you to turn you on then what else is gonna do it? looks are.

men need to make an effort either way. either get into our heads or make yourself stunning. women will be doing the same and that's why it's easier for them to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As great as it is having a fantastic personality, you can't fuck a personality.

I agree with the others, there's got to be a spark/attraction otherwise the magic doesn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the basis to which people decide to connect with each other on whatever level they wish be any different to 'normal' life? ??

This is completely spot on. I'm not going to have sex with someone if I don't feel sexually attracted to the person OP. "

i would agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are some people who don't care what someone looks like, because it's just about the cock in the pussy.

I do have to be attracted to the face of the person I'm fucking. He doesn't have to look like Brad Pitt etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do believe there's someone out there for everyone.

We all have different tastes and different sexuall attraction types.

I will never ever sleep with someone I don't find good looking but my view on who's good looking could be someone else's ugly.

Who gauges the scale of good looking?Is there a chart?Is there a standard type of looks to be deemed as good looking.

No there isn't as we all have different tastes.

True beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Only they can see your pure soul and your good looks as you are there type.There brain is wired to find you attractive.

So stick to the ones your wired for and that way everyone will have someone.

Good looks are just a individual view not a standard chart for everyone as we all see others differently x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there's no physical attraction how would you get hard "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

You've got a big cock - isn't that enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site

You've got a big cock - isn't that enough?"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site

You've got a big cock - isn't that enough?

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I think it's bigger than a thumb, Soxy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site

You've got a big cock - isn't that enough?

I think it's bigger than a thumb, Soxy! "

Dur,,,,have you seen what happens too your thumb when you hit it with a hammer

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site

You've got a big cock - isn't that enough?"

I think that could be the problem - it might be too much!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I do believe there's someone out there for everyone.

We all have different tastes and different sexuall attraction types.

I will never ever sleep with someone I don't find good looking but my view on who's good looking could be someone else's ugly.

Who gauges the scale of good looking?Is there a chart?Is there a standard type of looks to be deemed as good looking.

No there isn't as we all have different tastes.

True beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Only they can see your pure soul and your good looks as you are there type.There brain is wired to find you attractive.

So stick to the ones your wired for and that way everyone will have someone.

Good looks are just a individual view not a standard chart for everyone as we all see others differently x "

Exactly this, who in their right mind would meet people who they do not feel attracted to....

Looks, personality, humour are all factors.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

exactly! there are always full hoods and blindfolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

It is a brilliant site.

Plenty of like minded individuals, plenty of ladies to chat with, get to know, and have conversations with.

If your only selling point is between your legs, you'll attract a certain clientele.

I'm getting exactly what I want out of fab, despite being average in the majority of areas. Looks don't come into it if you box clever.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"If people didn't go on how you look on here it would be a brilliant site "

Brilliant site for who though OP?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


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Absolutely but despite what some people say people start based on looks.

Totally agree, looks on here come first then they hope they have a good personality to back it up with, but chances are......."

Guess I've just been lucky then!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Perhaps try a fetish site where the gimp mask would negate the problem?"

Howling!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It's what brown paper bags were invented for op

Invest in two just incase she is really fussy about your looks

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