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By *ucklings OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

We see a lot of updates stating that it would help to read the profile before messaging. I totally agree with that.

Our profile states what we like and prefer with our potential playmates. Still we receive messages where it's quite obvious that it wasn't read and we don't reply, saves a lot of time with the amount of messages we sometimes receive. Not replying makes them message again and again and when saying ' no thank you, not for us' we receive messages asking why not and what's wrong with them!!!

Really thankful for the block option and grateful that there's no limit to the amount of people you can block!!!

Please read the profiles!!

Mrs D

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have just that as a status atm.

I really don't want my profile to make me look like a ranty pants but it's so tempting!

A huge percentage of my messages are from guys who clearly haven't read my profile, it's irritating me!!

Anyway I've read yours OP x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My status says

"FUCK OFF AND DONT EVER LOOK AT ME AGAIN"

As I'm reading a book on Puritanism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot blanket message hoping for a bite. They don't make the effort to read profiles as they know most won't reply anyway. There are some who make the effort though. I don't let it get to me. I just ignore the ones who have clearly ignored my profile

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We, I red always read the profile.

Sorry our pic is a shadowry ( if that's how it's spelt) picture

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've updated my update... Ignore my profile please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We, I red always read the profile.

Sorry our pic is a shadowry ( if that's how it's spelt) picture "

That's one of my favourite profile pics on here. For what that's worth.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I think a lot blanket message hoping for a bite. They don't make the effort to read profiles as they know most won't reply anyway. There are some who make the effort though. I don't let it get to me. I just ignore the ones who have clearly ignored my profile "

I chuckle at the ones that start "how are you both?"

Both?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"We, I red always read the profile.

Sorry our pic is a shadowry ( if that's how it's spelt) picture

That's one of my favourite profile pics on here. For what that's worth. "

aww thanks, it's just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot blanket message hoping for a bite. They don't make the effort to read profiles as they know most won't reply anyway. There are some who make the effort though. I don't let it get to me. I just ignore the ones who have clearly ignored my profile

I chuckle at the ones that start "how are you both?"

Both? "

Or 'Hi guys'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot blanket message hoping for a bite. They don't make the effort to read profiles as they know most won't reply anyway. There are some who make the effort though. I don't let it get to me. I just ignore the ones who have clearly ignored my profile

I chuckle at the ones that start "how are you both?"

Both? "

They are a dressing your arse cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer have to work out if they've read my profile......

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By *ucklings OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"I have just that as a status atm.

I really don't want my profile to make me look like a ranty pants but it's so tempting!

A huge percentage of my messages are from guys who clearly haven't read my profile, it's irritating me!!

Anyway I've read yours OP x"

I fully understand that's irritating, spending time on writing it and a lot of the time it gets ignored!!!

We read your as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot blanket message hoping for a bite. They don't make the effort to read profiles as they know most won't reply anyway. There are some who make the effort though. I don't let it get to me. I just ignore the ones who have clearly ignored my profile

I chuckle at the ones that start "how are you both?"

Both? "

I've had the how are you both question also lol... I'm a single female profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read profiles as I like the element of surprise

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I think a lot blanket message hoping for a bite. They don't make the effort to read profiles as they know most won't reply anyway. There are some who make the effort though. I don't let it get to me. I just ignore the ones who have clearly ignored my profile

I chuckle at the ones that start "how are you both?"

Both?

I've had the how are you both question also lol... I'm a single female profile "

I've had "is this the mr or the mrs" errrmmmm

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

OP. I've just had a quick look at your profile and I can't see much there that tells me much about yourselves, bar that you have specific requirements regards the type of potential partners.

I see many posts stating [bemoaning] the lack of supposed profile reading, and wonder whether what is actually meant is that the messages just aren't from the type of people that the profile holder is looking for.. Eg. 'Looking for attractive people'

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"I think a lot blanket message hoping for a bite. They don't make the effort to read profiles as they know most won't reply anyway. There are some who make the effort though. I don't let it get to me. I just ignore the ones who have clearly ignored my profile "

Surely that's the problem, "most don't reply anyway". I'm going to roll out the old 'set up your filters properly, and it won't be a problem' chestnut here..

A standard/generic/copy and paste message is the only appropriate response to poorly written profiles which rarely contain any real information yet are heavily verified.

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

I read them , just don't send a message

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"My status says

"FUCK OFF AND DONT EVER LOOK AT ME AGAIN"

As I'm reading a book on Puritanism. "

I can't help it

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